The Weight of the Red Mansion Walks the Road of Life

Chapter 110 Six

Wang Ziteng's official position has been up to now, and as his married couple, Mrs. Wang Ziteng is naturally not without temper.She is already very good at being a human being, otherwise, how could she still be able to hug her husband and not add a concubine child to the family when she has not had a child for nearly 20 years.

But no matter how good-tempered a person is, it doesn't mean he won't be biased.

In addition, Xue Baochai's ability to please people is not much inferior to Wang Xifeng's, and she can also flatter her aunt in a happy mood.Mrs. Wang Ziteng of the left and right did not take her daughter out to the banquet, and it was not a problem to bring an extra Xue Baochai. Even though Aunt Xue was still a widow of a businessman, it was still inconvenient to meet and contact people, but Xue Baochai met many people with her aunt. With the ability to have both sides, I made a lot of handkerchief friends.

Probably because of the loss of his father since he was a child and the lack of success of his elder brother, Baochai often puts on a dignified and stable appearance, and because he knows that his family background is insufficient, he also intends to acquire more knowledge on weekdays.

People who can get along with Mrs. Wang Ziteng are at least of some status. Even if Xue Baochai's status is not high, he can always get to know some people because of Wang Ziteng's face—although people with real status may not be willing to give in. The Xue family, no matter how high or low the official position is, they are all the sisters and sons of the official family, which is already a rare contact for Xue Baochai.

Although Baochai is well versed in human relationships and sophistication, but just looking at Cao Gong's original works, she can put on a comprehensive appearance and compare the Jia family's sisters and Lin Daiyu, and I know that she is not really all-round. Mrs. Wang is still in charge of the family, even though she may not feel comfortable, she is either afraid or lazy to argue with Xue Baochai.

And now she made this appearance in front of the new girls, but no one had the heart to tolerate her.

Even though Wang Xiyuan was not very old, she was still a little uncomfortable by her cousin's appearance, but Xue Baochai had done nothing wrong, and it was not good to speak ill of her directly, so she only complained to her mother about her cousin The rules are too big or something like that.

When the little girls get along with each other, they are supposed to be casual, as long as the general rules are good, that's all. For example, Baochai's rules, which seem to be like nurturing mothers, actually really put other people under a lot of pressure. Well, if Baochai was from a taller family, she would still be praised for being good manners, and she had to hold back if she didn't want to bear it. However, Baochai's status is lower, so why let others tolerate her.

However, although little girls may not like Baochai's "pretentiousness", this appearance is very much liked by the wives, especially those who are not of high rank and not so particular about decent officials. After giving most of the family property to the eldest son, the remaining sons would have less to inherit after all, and it might not be a bad thing to marry a daughter-in-law with a large dowry.

Before Aunt Xue got married, the family had siblings who were born in the first place. Although she was the youngest, she was born in a concubine. Naturally, she couldn't be favored so much.However, the old lady of the Wang family really has no bad intentions in raising the concubine daughter. It is just to save some things for herself, so it is inevitable that she taught Aunt Xue a little too well. Her own status is not high in the family of officials and eunuchs in the capital, but she is considered high in front of the relatives and old friends of the Xue family, so there is no problem with her dignified appearance.And when Aunt Xue raised her own daughter, she also copied Mrs. Wang's parenting model, and because Xue Baochai was the only daughter of Aunt Xue's own in the Xue family, Xue Baochai didn't know how to hide as well as Aunt Xue.

If Xue Baochai married in Jinling, or found a family of the same imperial merchant in the capital to marry, it would naturally be considered a low marriage in terms of the relatives and connections of Xue's family, then she could continue to act like a good teacher.However, all the women hanging around her now are officials who are much more noble than her - she continues to act like this, but some people who are already mean-tempered say behind her back that she is completely like a nun.

Although Mrs. Wang Ziteng did not have a son herself, Wang Ren who was raised by her side has also reached the age of marrying a wife. After all, it is not that she has no mother-in-law mentality at all.Although she thought her niece was a bit more disciplined before, she felt that if she were to choose a wife for Wang Ren, she would always prefer a more well-behaved girl, so she didn't care.

Until I heard Wang Xiyuan complaining to her.

I have to say that although there are always more patriarchal people nowadays, for Mrs. Wang Ziteng who finally got a baby girl in 20 years, even if she did have regrets at the beginning why she didn't give birth to a son, But he still held this girl in his palm and pampered her.Since Wang Xiyuan doesn't love her cousin's daily rules and regulations, Mrs. Wang Ziteng naturally has to follow her daughter's wishes.

And Mrs. Wang Ziteng's actions were also very simple and rude.

Mrs. Wang Ziteng just picked two clever girls from the mansion, and assigned them to Miss Biao to serve, and asked them to behave well around Miss Biao. You still know the rules, look at how uncomfortable Miss Biao is.

Although Baochai prides herself on being the most well-behaved person in the world, she may not really agree with these rules in her heart.

For example, she often said that a woman who has no talent is a virtue, but in fact she is the one who has read more books than anyone else.Another example is that she was supposed to bring Xiangling by her side after Xue Pan got married—this is because no family has a brother's concubine to serve the girl who has not left the court.Or she helped Aunt Xue take care of the Xue family's business, which is undoubtedly a kind of irregularity for the daughter of the boudoir.

So I want to know how aggrieved she is when she is surrounded by two very well-mannered people.

Wanting to read a few pages, someone whispered in her ear, "Girls should focus on women's reds, and no talent is virtue." For example, she said a few words to Xue Pan who happened to be at home. There are always people who say that "men and women have different seats at seven years old". For example, Baochai went to his mother's account book as usual and flipped through two pages of account books, and he could hear people expressing in surprise that "male dominates outside and women dominates inside".

Every word and every sentence is the most correct statement of women's virtues and female rings, but it always makes Baochai feel constrained, especially because it is only a few little maids who whispered to her, which makes Baochai feel aggrieved very.

However, now that she is living in her uncle's house, the so-called dog beating depends on the owner, even if she feels a little uncomfortable, it is not good to say anything to others, so she can only bear it silently.

Mrs. Wang Ziteng loved her own daughter very much, and Aunt Xue was not a stepmother, so she was not completely unaware of Xue Baochai's listlessness.

But I think of what Mrs. Wang Ziteng said - Baochai's background is not high, but because she is afraid that others will say that she is unruly, she deliberately acts like a regular person, and she always tends to show a little bit of knowledge and obey the rules consciously or unconsciously. , It really made those girls with good backgrounds a little uncomfortable.

"Brother Yuan told me that Girl Bao always pretends to be an older sister to teach others. She's fine, after all, she's Girl Bao's younger sister, and Girl Bao's education is also serious. But this But it doesn't mean that other people can listen to it. After all, Bao girl is from a lower background, and it is serious to know how to hide clumsiness. Even if older wives like Bao girl who is sensible and obedient, we also know that this kind of too sensible and obedient The temperament may not be liked by young people, it is better to be more lively." Although Mrs. Wang Ziteng intends to make her niece feel uncomfortable, she really does not intend to harm anyone. After all, if Baochai can marry better, it may not be possible in the future. It's not Wang Xiyuan's reliance, at least there is no reason for the Xue family to hate her.

Regarding Mrs. Wang Ziteng's question, Aunt Xue really didn't respond well at first.

When she was young, she was the only concubine child in her family, and she learned how to obey the rules, how to be cute and sensible, so that people would like her, and after she married into the Xue family, although she lived a lot more casually because of the change of status, but Because Mr. Xue wanted Baochai to marry high, Aunt Xue also spent a lot of energy to maintain Xue Baochai's rules——if Baochai married high, she must be as sensible and polite as her young self. It's good if you can't find any faults, and you can think about it after you have gained a firm foothold in your husband's house.

Aunt Xue's parenting style cannot be said to be wrong, but Baochai is the eldest daughter of Xue's family after all, and Xue's family in Jinling is very powerful and capable. Xue Baochai can almost walk sideways in Jinling. What grievances, naturally, I can't understand Aunt Xue's original wishes.

Baochai's rules... In other words, they are more rules to ask others to obey, and because her temperament is a bit stronger, it always makes people quite uncomfortable.It's fine if she is a high-ranking person, but she obviously wants to marry a high-ranking person in the future. Her temperament can certainly please her future mother-in-law, but if she offends her future husband, life will definitely not be easy.

I have to say that Aunt Xue is indeed a successful mother to a certain extent, regardless of whether the two children have such and such shortcomings in temperament, but the two children are extremely filial, obedient and friendly to each other.Even if Baochai didn't understand why her mother followed her aunt's wishes to make her feel uncomfortable, she still accepted the so-called "aunt is good to you" and was willing to follow her mother's advice to change her behavior a little, becoming Softer, softer, more gentle, the spring breeze blowing willows is calm.

Of course, after a few years, when she gradually understands more, she will probably understand why Aunt Xue did what she did, and she will be truly grateful for it.

Yes, no matter where she was wronged, she naturally couldn't understand Aunt Xue's original wishes.

Baochai's rules... In other words, they are more rules to ask others to obey, and because her temperament is a bit stronger, it always makes people quite uncomfortable.It's fine if she is a high-ranking person, but she obviously wants to marry a high-ranking person in the future. Her temperament can certainly please her future mother-in-law, but if she offends her future husband, life will definitely not be easy.

I have to say that Aunt Xue is indeed a successful mother to a certain extent, regardless of whether the two children have such and such shortcomings in temperament, but the two children are extremely filial, obedient and friendly to each other.Even if Baochai didn't understand why her mother followed her aunt's wishes to make her feel uncomfortable, she still accepted the so-called "aunt is good to you" and was willing to follow her mother's advice to change her behavior a little, becoming Softer, softer, more gentle, the spring breeze blowing willows is calm.

Of course, after a few years, when she gradually understands more, she will probably understand why Aunt Xue did what she did, and she will be truly grateful for it.

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I've been busy recently, but fortunately I can hold on to the manuscript...

This story doesn't last long, not too long compared to the previous two stories.