The Weight of the Red Mansion Walks the Road of Life

Chapter 110 Three

Probably because the Jia family's own affairs were messy enough, the relatives who were supposed to come to Jia's house to visit and live there for a while, unanimously chose not to bother the Jia family.

For example, after the aunt of the Lin family passed away from illness, the Lin family still kept the elder sister by their side, instead of sending the elder sister to the Jia family to be educated all the way as in Mrs. Wang's dream.

Of course, Jia's mother was still thinking about allocating her granddaughter to her grandson Baoyu. Jia Min has always trusted her mother, and she believed it when she saw her mother's praise for this nephew. At that time, he told his husband to send his daughter to her mother's house.But now because of Jia Zheng's name taboo, the children of the second room are undoubtedly facing difficulties in their official careers. Even if Jia Min has a close relationship with her natal family, she can't push her only daughter into the fire pit against her conscience.

With Lin Ruhai's official career and wealth, even if Daiyu has no brothers to rely on in the future and will inevitably be the name of a bereaved mother and eldest daughter, and may not have all the corners in marriage, but it is still impossible to be worse than Jia Baoyu and a doomed ordinary person in white. .Even though Jia Min still worried about the future of the nephews of the second room, she still cared more about the future of her biological daughter.

It wasn't that Jia Min wanted to make her mother look bad, it's just that, with the situation of Jia's second wife, it was really difficult to find a good marriage for the second wife's child.After all, Jia Zhu had already married Wang Ziteng's niece before the incident happened, and Yuan Chun also got married early. Now that the marriage is done, it is impossible to go back on it, and it is not without hope.But it's really hard to say what kind of marriage can be found for the unmarried nephews and nieces of the second room.

That's all for the girl, controlling Jia Zheng's name doesn't hinder the future of the son-in-law. If the girl's own quality is excellent, there may not be a glimmer of hope, but there is really no hope for the boy's marriage.

The daughter of this official family always looks forward to being appointed by imperial order in the future. Even Xiao Biyu from a slightly better-off family in the market may not have extravagant hopes for Fengguanxiapi.

Whether a family is prosperous or not depends on the man, but the so-called unworthy wife destroys three generations, the role of the family background and upbringing of the head mother should not be underestimated.It is impossible for Jia's mother to lower her request to marry her granddaughter-in-law, but it is impossible for a girl from a decent family to marry into the second room and live as a commoner all her life.

In the marriage of men and women, most of them pay attention to the right family. In the situation of the second wife, the originally well-matched family will definitely look down on them. Mother Jia will have to find another way.

For example, ask for a kiss and add a kiss.

Look at Jia Zhu's daughter-in-law, isn't Mrs. Wang's natal niece? With Wang Ziteng's future, he can marry his own girl to Jia's family, so why can't he count on other relatives.

Although the second room actually has two unmarried brothers, considering the Jia family's usual habits and Jia's mother's temperament, the only one worthy of her extra care is Baoyu, who was born in the first place. There is no one to worry about anymore.

Although Jia's family has fallen, there are quite a few old relatives, not to mention those who are far away, but there is more than one close relative who is about the same age as Baoyu.

Jia's mother has lived for several decades in this life. Except for the unconditional favor of Jia Zheng and Jia Baoyu who are obsessed with the authorities, she is really seldom wrong in other things.The girls who can make Jiamu look up to her are not from low backgrounds. One is Shi Xiangyun, the grandniece of Jiamu's natal family, and the other is Lin Daiyu, the granddaughter of Jiamu's direct relative.

Forget about Shi Xiangyun, she lost her father and mother successively when she was a baby, and now she only lives with her uncles and aunts.But also living with his uncle and aunt, Shi Xiangyun's situation is different from Wang Xifeng's.

In the Wang family, Wang Ziteng is only an official based on his own ability. Whether Wang Zisheng is there or not has no influence on Wang Ziteng. The two brothers and sisters Wang Ren and Wang Xifeng really depend on others and are protected by their uncle and aunt. It's not that Wang Ziteng has no heirs, Wang Ren and Wang Xifeng's life is definitely not easy.On the historian's side, Shi Xiangyun's father, as the eldest son of the historian, originally had a title. After his death, only Shi Xiangyun, a young girl, had no male heirs. The title went to his brother.

Shi Xiangyun's second uncle and second aunt inherited her parents' super-rank title, so she must take good care of Shi Xiangyun, and if there is even a little carelessness, she will not be drowned with spittle.Under such circumstances, even if the historian's second and third households have all children, they have no choice but to praise Shi Xiangyun highly.

The girl who was brought up like this is the most innocent, but Shi Xiangyun's life is not difficult because of the loss of his father and mother.In other words, when I see other people's children have the warmth of their parents' love and affection, I will inevitably feel sad. At other times, I really don't feel that there is anything less than others.

As a kind-hearted elder, Jia Mu won Shi Xiangyun's heart with just a little win over, and his heart was full of Jia Mu, the aunt.

Shi Xiangyun, as the eldest daughter of the historian family, even if it is only for the reputation of her children, Aunt Shi and Aunt Shi have to educate her well. It is more than enough to match Jia Baoyu as a white woman. Temperament, just watching Baoyu treat her tenderly makes her feel very happy.

For Baoyu, this was considered a very good marriage, but Jia's mother still felt that it was not enough. On one side, Shi Xiangyun was wooed, and on the other side, Lin Daiyu was thinking about it.

Shi Xiangyun's background is decent, and his upbringing is not bad, but after all, the loss of his father and mother is always a disadvantage, but it is not as beneficial as the marriage with the Lin family.

Jia Min is the daughter of the Jia family, and she has a particularly close relationship with Jia Zheng, the second elder brother, at home. Lin Ruhai and Jia Zheng are not too far apart in age, and they also cultivated some classmates when they were studying in the Imperial College. I will never be alienated because of the few words of outsiders.

It is true that Jia Min does not have the temperament of turning her face and denying others. She has some affection for her mother's family in her heart. If she has a son in her family, she is willing to marry a girl from the second brother's family as a daughter-in-law. take care of.However, there is only one daughter of her own in the Lin family, so it is impossible for her to be willing to give Daiyu to Jia Baoyu.

This world is unfair to women. There are countless ways for boys to have a future, but the future of a daughter's family depends entirely on her husband and sons. Jia Min hopes that there will be only such a little girl for most of her life. In order to love this girl, I will never worry about not having Feng Guanxia in the future, so why should I wrong Daiyu to marry into Jia's family.

Therefore, even after losing her only son, Jia Min still couldn't afford to be ill, but in the end she still decided to trust her husband once, and only sealed the dowry list that she had prepared for her since Daiyu was born, and told Lin Ruhai to marry another one in the future. Liangyuan must also treat Daiyu well, and has no intention of entrusting her daughter to her natal family.

Without his wife's earnest advice before she died, even Lin Ruhai knew that there seemed to be a saying in this world that a widow and an eldest daughter should not marry, and he never thought of a way to entrust his daughter to the Yue family.

——Even though Jia's mother did mention bringing her granddaughter to her family when she sent Jia Lian to the funeral, it must be said that Jia Min really knew her husband very well. Opportunities can help the children of the second room a little bit, but also in order to prevent her mother from doing anything wrong, Jia Min also specially told Lin Ruhai that Lin Daiyu's mind is heavy and her body is not good, so Lin Ruhai must have a lot of fathers Caring and taking care of one or two is enough, and successfully blocked Jia's mother's plan to bring her granddaughter to her side and have a long-term relationship with her grandson.

Lin Ruhai is good at studying and being an official, but he really doesn't know anything about the affairs in the inner house, especially the twists and turns between women. Rather than expecting him to be vigilant in advance, it is better to expect Mrs. Wang to be there Daughter-in-law candidates can be tougher.

Since Lin Ruhai lost his wife and children successively, he has no idea about his heirs. He only thinks about raising his young daughter to adulthood. Besides, his daughter looks delicate and soft, not like the kind of kind She has a temper that can stand up on her own ideas, and Daiyu probably has to figure out how to support her daughter after she gets married.

Although people often say that a girl from a high family marries a daughter, everyone knows that if a girl is married to a high family, she has to be cautious according to the face of her in-laws. But it must be very comfortable.Left and right Lin's family didn't point to relying on women to grab other people's families, and Lin Ruhai never planned to look up to her daughter's marriage from the beginning.

In addition, what Jia Min said when she was dying, Daiyu was heavy-hearted and weak, so she had to stay with him as her own father, otherwise she was afraid that she would be suspicious and her parents would be tired of her, so they sent her away. The words that he could kill himself by bending over made Lin Ruhai make up his mind to politely reject the Jia family's intention to take Daiyu away.

After all, the two families are separated by thousands of miles. No matter how thoughtful Mother Jia is, she can't think about anything after being separated by more than half a country. Seeing that Lin Ruhai seems to be estranged from her family since her daughter's death, she can only sigh secretly. Taking tea to cool people's hearts is unpredictable, and there is no other skill.

Mrs. Wang is not sensitive to Jia Mu's actions.

With the eldest son Jia Zhu still alive, Mrs. Wang, like most noble ladies in this era, is mostly focused on the eldest son who will run the family and start a business to support his parents in the future.Even though Baoyu was born with a jade title, he may have a promising future, but he is still just a child now, at most he only cares about daily things such as food, clothing and reading.Left and right Baoyu is the sweetheart raised by Jiamu, and Jiamu can't treat her grandson harshly, and Baoyu herself is closer to her grandmother than to her mother. Mrs. Wang is too lazy to spend all her energy on coaxing people, she just pays more attention to it. Forget about the eldest son.

Of course, Mrs. Wang boasted that she must be a good mother who loves her children very much. After knowing that Baoyu's official career was hopeless, she had already set her sights on a good marriage. Similar to Jia's mother's vision, it was Mrs. Wang who set her sights on this one. Marriage can also be regarded as a close relationship, and it is not as ambitious as Jia's mother. It is indeed a very affordable and good marriage. It is the only daughter of Mrs. Wang's sister who married to Jinling in the early years, the eldest girl of the Xue family. Three years older than Baoyu.