fall in love with a mentor

It was the third year after he finished his PhD, and his cousin inadvertently revealed the news that he might be gay to his parents.Although she never told her cousin about this matter, the two childhood sweethearts talked about everything, and she was sensitive enough to see the clues from Junyi's life.Junyi's parents were naturally shocked.Junyi flew back from the United States during the summer vacation that year and was not able to go to Chen Han's place, but went home directly.At that time, the family was already full of quarrels, Junyi just told Chen Han that there was something at home that needed to be dealt with, and then he would go to see him when he had a chance.He thought he could handle everything, so Chen Han didn't need to worry.This is a good opportunity to explain clearly to parents, and there is no need to be sneaky anymore, Junyi thought so at the time.But the development of things exceeded his optimistic estimate, and his parents' almost hysterical reaction made him completely give up his plan to persuade them.

"Anyway, that's the way it is. I won't give up on Chen Han." After telling their love story and facing endless accusations from his parents, Junyi said this, ending the relationship with them. exchange of things.Perhaps they are more concerned about their own face and the issue of family succession than their son's happiness.Jun Yi even said that if they want a grandson so much, he doesn't mind borrowing money to have a child, anyway, as long as they have money.In short, he expressed his determination to be with Chen Han even if he ran away from home. They were still relentless, and the whole summer vacation was spent in tears, the tears of his parents, his tears, although heartache, but he wanted to do it for Their future happiness cannot be compromised now.Finally he went to see Chen Han, and then boarded the plane to the United States.

However, Junyi's life changed again after that. At a classmate's party, Junyi met a Chinese girl. When they chatted, they turned out to be from the same city.The girl was wearing a snoopy top, so Junyi always called her snoopy. The girl was lively and cute, and she was also very beautiful. She was studying fashion design at a university near MIT.The two of them chatted very speculatively at the time, and they felt like they hated seeing each other late. After the party was over, the girl asked him to take her back, but he didn't refuse.

Later, Junyi's classmate told him that snoopy was obviously interested in him.Junyi, who had always had no feelings for girls, didn't care, because snoopy seemed to be very popular with boys at that time, and there were many suitors around him, so Junyi didn't mind being one of them or being her shield.Junyi had participated in her parties several times, many boys regarded Junyi as a competitor, Junyi just laughed it off.

"Hey, areyouherboyfriend? (Are you his boyfriend?)" Junyi was asked this question in almost every party.

"No, just one of her candidates. (Just one of her candidates)" Jun Yi joked.

"Fair completion? (How about fair competition?)"

“That's great! (It's great)”

However, what Junyi didn't know was that after seeing Junyi's unhesitating persistence and Chen Han's relationship, his parents came to the conclusion that Junyi was obsessed with girls since he was a child because he had never been in love with girls. A very close relationship of the same sex.So behind the "accidental" appearance of snoopy, there is a series of inevitability.I have to admire the hearts of parents all over the world. Junyi's parents actually found a girl who was also studying at a university near MIT through the eighth and ninth aunts.Of course, this was all learned later.In order not to arouse Junyi's resentment, they adopted a very covert strategy.And his smart cousin learned about his living arrangements through chatting with him, and planned this encounter. At the same time, he also told snoopy about Junyi's preferences, and snoopy got his approval just like that. .

However, this is only part of the plan, their strategy is a two-pronged approach.The photo of him and snoopy flowed to his parents through his cousin, and finally reached Chen Han's mailbox.Chen Han never mentioned this matter. After Chen Han passed away, Jun Yi heard the news from his cousin. The complete story was pieced together in those days when Chen Han passed away, but he has lost Opportunity to ask Chen Han what kind of thoughts he had when he saw those photos so that he remained silent about it, whether he always believed that he would not cheat, or just like he promised, when he wanted to fly high, He will quit, and Junyi will never know.

Half a year later, during the winter vacation, when Jun Yi returned to China, he stayed in the city where Chen Han worked again for a few days. They spent a lot of nights in the simple hut that Chen Han rented.During the day, they rode bicycles around the countryside where Chen Han lived. In the cold winter, everything withered, and the snow-covered fields were actually not very scenic, but the two reunited after a long absence were still very happy.They had a snowball fight in the field, and they dug open the frozen river surface to try to catch a frozen fish, but Junyi's hands turned red from the cold, but he found nothing.While putting his hands into Chen Han's sleeves to warm them up, the two lay side by side on the sunny river beach to bask in the sun.Chen Han seemed to be quieter, but he was more gentle. Later Junyi recalled that maybe he knew at that time that they might have to separate one day, so he treated him better in forbearance.

The parents, who were clear about Junyi's itinerary investigation, naturally found that all their plans had failed.This winter is not much better than the summer vacation, his parents are moaning and sighing except for putting pressure on him again and again.But they're also well aware that he's grown up enough to fly away from them.Apart from blaming him for being unfilial, they actually had no way to keep him, so on the surface they reluctantly admitted Jun Yi's relationship and cared about their relationship.Junyi thought they finally compromised, admitted their relationship, and happily shared everything with them.But Junyi really underestimated their IQs, and another conspiracy was quietly going on.

As parents who are dedicated to the good of their children, it is impossible to let Junyi go on a path that violates ethics anyway. Since Junyi's side is impeccable, they can only start from Chen Han's side.In this kind of matter, they thought about outsmarting, but Chen Han's silence made their destructive behavior like mud cows.So they only have the trick of fighting against each other, and they have to make Chen Han give up no matter what.They also have enough reasons to hate Chen Han. Back then, they kindly took Chen Han in and took care of food and housing, but they didn't expect that they would raise a white-eyed wolf to seduce Junyi into doing such a thing that is not justified by nature.So they sacrificed their dignity as parents and found Chen Han.From Junyi's QQ and mailbox, they easily found Chen Han's work address, so they traveled thousands of miles to visit him.Perhaps their sacrifices will never be forgiven by Junyi, but having no complaints and no regrets is the essence of parents. For them, this is a sacrifice for their only son to return to the right path, and it is worth it no matter what.

Regarding these matters, Jun Yi had never heard Chen Han mention them, and when he thought of what might have happened to Chen Han, it was after he suddenly changed his phone number.When he asked, Chen Han just told him lightly that he changed his job in another city, so he changed his number. Junyi was not careless, but this time Chen Han didn't tell him the detailed address.

"When you come back from vacation, I will visit you! You have visited me so many times, and I will pay you back." Chen Han told him with a smile.

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☆、Emotional rift