Prohibition of losing contact
Chapter 3 "It's Okay, I'm Experienced."
Looking at the talented person, I didn't expect to be so picky in his bones, Zhou Qingbai thought.
Zhou Qingbai has never been on a blind date since he was so old, so he doesn't know how the blind date market is doing now.However, he has never eaten pork and seen pigs running, and he has often seen strange blind dates on major social networking sites.
Although the man in front of him could not be classified into that category for the time being, he was clearly standing on the verge of danger.
Zhou Qingbai adjusted his sitting posture indiscriminately, and then hooked his fingers to loosen the neckline, trying to tear a little gap in this subtle and dull atmosphere.
"That's right." Zhou Qingbai said with a smile: "It's my first blind date, so I don't have much experience. If there is something not thoughtful, please don't take it wrong, Mr. Pei."
It was rare for Pei You to meet such a considerate blind date partner as Zhou Qingbai, and he had a good impression of him, upon hearing this, he quickly said, "It's okay, I'm very experienced."
Zhou Qingbai: "..."
Help, Zhou Qingbai thought, how should he answer these words.
Being able to chat to death is also a skill, Zhou Qingbai was choked for a full two seconds before he smiled dryly, took a sip from his coffee cup, and said nothing.
The two of them were silent with each other for two or three seconds, and Pei You seemed to have sensed something from this stagnant atmosphere.He put down the cake fork, thought carefully for a while, and thought that Zhou Qingbai deserved him to continue in-depth communication, so he simply decided to get to the point as soon as possible.
"That's it, Mr. Zhou, should we get to know each other first." Pei You said, "So that we can have a deeper consideration of each other."
Zhou Qingbai was thinking about what excuse he should find to run away, when he heard the words he suddenly came back to his senses, and habitually said hello.
This topic obviously entered Pei You's comfort zone. He put down his coffee cup, straightened his sitting posture, and then formally introduced himself.
"My surname is Pei, Pei You. I am 29 years old. I am originally from Jiaxing, Zhejiang. I have a complete family relationship. I also have a younger sister who is eight years younger than me. She is currently studying in Beijing." This set of rhetoric has obviously been used many times. As for Pei You's smooth flow, he didn't stumble at all: "I graduated with a master's degree in finance and have six years of driving experience. I'm currently working at—"
"Wait, wait." Zhou Qingbai said dumbfoundedly: "It doesn't need to be so detailed, this is not a marriage proposal."
Pei You didn't quite agree with this, he came here today for a blind date, if we can't even understand this kind of basic information, let alone have an in-depth communication.
"I think this kind of objective information helps us understand each other." Pei You said earnestly: "People always have preferences when getting along with each other. For strangers like us, it is helpful to know each other's situation as soon as possible. It helps to decide whether to continue to develop in the future...it is more efficient."
He said so, and Zhou Qingbai couldn't make him relax, otherwise he would act as if he didn't pay much attention to this meeting, so he could only nod vaguely and hum two perfunctorily.
"It also makes sense." Zhou Qingbai said.
Pei You's eyes suddenly brightened.
He had been on blind dates many times before, and most of those blind dates were picked out by his mother from the corners of the network, either this aunt, niece, second uncle's nephew, or the uncle's teacher's god-grandson. Patience, often sit down and say a few words before leaving, few are willing to discuss the future of two people with him calmly.
But Zhou Qingbai looks different from them. He looks reliable and considerate. Now it seems that he is relatively easy to communicate with. He should be a good person.
And the most important thing is that Zhou Qingbai looks similar to his temper and personality, he should be a steady and pragmatic person, and he will not dislike him for being dull.
So Pei You thought about it, and happily added another item.
"That's right." Pei You said, "Because I'm in the upswing of my career, I don't have the plan and ability to buy a house in Beijing for the time being, but if my future partner has the requirement to settle down, we can also discuss with each other."
Pei You considers himself a very traditional person. To him, once a relationship is confirmed, it is tantamount to binding the future of the two people. Naturally, such major life events must be decided by mutual compromise.
"Of course, housing prices in Beijing are indeed a bit expensive." Pei You quickly calculated his assets in his mind, and said with some shame: "If we buy a new house, we need each other to share a part-of course, we can pay for this kind of expenses in advance. Notarize to ensure the safety of each other’s property.”
Zhou Qingbai didn't expect that he would end up talking for a long time, and suddenly a mouthful of coffee choked in his throat, choking him to death.
Seeing this, Pei You frowned slightly, and hurriedly took out two napkins and handed them to Zhou Qingbai.
"What?" Pei You asked sincerely, "Is there any dissatisfaction?"
Who is not satisfied?Zhou Qingbai said in his heart that I am really dissatisfied with everything, how can I divide the property as soon as we meet.
No matter how awkward the words sounded, Zhou Qingbai took the tissue, waved his hands vaguely, and coughed twice in embarrassment, and managed to catch his breath.
First he was stingy, then he was preaching, Zhou Qingbai felt more and more that he had been cheated by Ge Xing, and now he lacked interest and had already retreated.
Since he was young, he had no ambitions and was not self-motivated, so he was most afraid of dealing with such serious and successful people. After a few words, he already retreated, feeling that he really couldn't get along with the other party.
Not to mention falling in love, being friends is difficult.
So Zhou Qingbai changed his sitting position and leaned on the back of the chair, lowered his eyes slightly, and sent a message to the secretary under the cover of the table, asking him to find a chance to call himself as soon as possible, and prepare to find a way to end this ridiculous blind date.
He used two things at once, while sending WeChat to his secretary, he said perfunctorily: "Actually... Is it a bit early to think about this now, we haven't understood anything emotionally yet."
When Pei You thought about it, he also felt that what he said made sense, so he nodded and agreed: "You are right, emotional issues are more important. If you find emotional disagreement after communicating, it will waste each other's time."
Zhou Qingbai said in his heart that you are worrying too much, I know from just now that our aura is at odds.
"That's right." Zhou Qingbai said: "Then let's talk about it, what minefields do you have...it's unacceptable."
It's best if I step over your minefield, Zhou Qingbai thought, and then we can say goodbye politely.
"I don't have anything." Pei You thought for a while and said, "Apart from moral issues, I don't accept casual sex."
Zhou Qingbai: "..."
Zhou Qingbai had just finished sending a message to his secretary, when he heard this sentence out of the blue, he slid his hand and sent the other party a series of exclamation marks.
"I think that we should have sex after the relationship between the two is stable, so that we are more responsible to each other." Pei You explained seriously.
Is this guy really gay? Zhou Qingbai wondered suspiciously, Ge Xing wouldn't be so wicked as to find him a bisexual for a blind date.
Zhou Qingbai himself is a bachelor, but his friends are all carnivores. Although he doesn't talk about singing and singing every night, he still rolls together when he sees the right person. Everyone is drunk today. How can I see this kind of male Durban? students.
He was in a very complicated mood. Looking at Pei You as if he saw some rare animal, he couldn't hold back for a long time, and asked, "Stability...how long?"
Pei You didn't think about this question, but he thought about it for a while, and gave an ambiguous time: "One year...at least."
Well, Zhou Qingbai was in awe, and said to himself that this is still a senior male German class student.
There are a thousand tastes for a thousand people in this world, some like profligacy and some like honest people, but no matter what, there should be few people in the gay circle who like Plato.
——Unless people can’t.
Now Zhou Qingbai believed in Pei You's "experienced" words. According to Pei You's blind date method, he would be out of the woods if he could find a partner.
But in any case, these things have nothing to do with Zhou Qingbai, he adheres to the life principle of "more things are worse than less things", he just smiled politely and said it was good.
After this sentence, he didn't take the initiative to start any topics, and Pei You was not very good at communication, so the atmosphere subtly cooled down.
This atmosphere of silence for no reason was very familiar, Pei You stirred the half-cold coffee with a spoon, knowing that he probably didn't perform well this time.
Showing one's charm to strangers in a short period of time is a subject of knowledge. Pei You has been among the best in grades since he was a child, but he is a bit clumsy in interpersonal communication, so far he has not learned how to express himself in a relaxed manner in front of a blind date.
This silence lasted about three to two minutes. Zhou Qingbai was so embarrassed that his back was sweating, and he scratched his toes for a long time before finally waiting for the secretary's rescue call.
The moment the phone rang, Zhou Qingbai breathed a sigh of relief, grabbed the phone and pretended to be humming for a while, and finally frowned, and said, I'll be there right away.
Pei You could see that he was in a hurry, so he waved his hand and signaled the waiter to come over and pay the bill.
Zhou Qingbai still had the impression that he was stingy, and hung up the phone habitually to scan the QR code, but Pei You remembered Pei Yu's advice and insisted on paying the bill by himself.
At first Zhou Qingbai thought he was being polite, but Pei You actually fought him evenly for a few rounds, during which he almost knocked Zhou Qingbai's phone onto the sofa.
Zhou Qingbai: "..."
Zhou Qingbai was speechless for a while, angry and funny, wondering which Huaguo Mountain Ge Xing had dug out the Buddha Pei You from.
He was embarrassed to argue with Pei You in front of the waiter, so he took a step back to watch him settle the bill, then smiled at him politely, exchanged WeChat messages with Pei You as usual, and left on the pretext that he had something to do up.
Zhou Qingbai pretended that the social elites were exhausted all morning, and his shoulders collapsed as soon as he walked out of the restaurant gate. He walked a little farther, looked back and saw that Pei You hadn't followed, then heaved a sigh of relief, gritted his teeth and gave Ge Xing Made a phone call.
Boss Ge, who has always had his work and rest upside down, didn't know if he was waiting for a reply today, but the phone was connected as soon as it rang.
"Hello." Ge Xing said with a smile: "It's over? How is it?"
"I—" Zhou Qingbai became angry when he heard his tone, and forced back a swear word, saying: "You are purely cheating, what does this have to do with Ming Sao! This style is exactly the same as my elder brother!"
Zhou Qingbai is the second child at home, and his eldest brother Zhou Cangshan is exactly seven years older than him.
Zhou Cangshan and his father were carved out of the same mold. He was a soldier when he was young, and his temper was cold, hard and serious.
It was also because of Zhou Cangshan that Zhou Qingbai was afraid when he saw a decent person. Just now when he was sitting opposite Pei You, he always felt that the other party would start to criticize him as soon as he frowned, and his mental pressure was extremely high.
"and--"
Zhou Qingbai complained a lot, and subconsciously wanted to say that he was stingy, but then he thought that the debt was still settled by others, so he swallowed the sentence back.
"And my shirt was almost wet!" Zhou Qingbai turned to accuse: "And you know, he still doesn't accept premarital sex! You can only hold small hands in a one-year relationship, let alone an adult man, my grandma's The chastity archway is not as strict as his welding!"
Ge Xing was overwhelmed with joy, he couldn't breathe with laughter on the other end of the phone, he gasped and said, "Isn't that good, he's honest and serious, what a match for you, in the future your family will have someone who can control you."
"What my family!" Zhou Qingbai jumped three feet high like a cat whose tail had been stepped on, and retorted angrily: "I tell you Ge Xing, even if I starve to death in my life, I will never follow poker face. Let's live together prudishly!"
Zhou Qingbai has never been on a blind date since he was so old, so he doesn't know how the blind date market is doing now.However, he has never eaten pork and seen pigs running, and he has often seen strange blind dates on major social networking sites.
Although the man in front of him could not be classified into that category for the time being, he was clearly standing on the verge of danger.
Zhou Qingbai adjusted his sitting posture indiscriminately, and then hooked his fingers to loosen the neckline, trying to tear a little gap in this subtle and dull atmosphere.
"That's right." Zhou Qingbai said with a smile: "It's my first blind date, so I don't have much experience. If there is something not thoughtful, please don't take it wrong, Mr. Pei."
It was rare for Pei You to meet such a considerate blind date partner as Zhou Qingbai, and he had a good impression of him, upon hearing this, he quickly said, "It's okay, I'm very experienced."
Zhou Qingbai: "..."
Help, Zhou Qingbai thought, how should he answer these words.
Being able to chat to death is also a skill, Zhou Qingbai was choked for a full two seconds before he smiled dryly, took a sip from his coffee cup, and said nothing.
The two of them were silent with each other for two or three seconds, and Pei You seemed to have sensed something from this stagnant atmosphere.He put down the cake fork, thought carefully for a while, and thought that Zhou Qingbai deserved him to continue in-depth communication, so he simply decided to get to the point as soon as possible.
"That's it, Mr. Zhou, should we get to know each other first." Pei You said, "So that we can have a deeper consideration of each other."
Zhou Qingbai was thinking about what excuse he should find to run away, when he heard the words he suddenly came back to his senses, and habitually said hello.
This topic obviously entered Pei You's comfort zone. He put down his coffee cup, straightened his sitting posture, and then formally introduced himself.
"My surname is Pei, Pei You. I am 29 years old. I am originally from Jiaxing, Zhejiang. I have a complete family relationship. I also have a younger sister who is eight years younger than me. She is currently studying in Beijing." This set of rhetoric has obviously been used many times. As for Pei You's smooth flow, he didn't stumble at all: "I graduated with a master's degree in finance and have six years of driving experience. I'm currently working at—"
"Wait, wait." Zhou Qingbai said dumbfoundedly: "It doesn't need to be so detailed, this is not a marriage proposal."
Pei You didn't quite agree with this, he came here today for a blind date, if we can't even understand this kind of basic information, let alone have an in-depth communication.
"I think this kind of objective information helps us understand each other." Pei You said earnestly: "People always have preferences when getting along with each other. For strangers like us, it is helpful to know each other's situation as soon as possible. It helps to decide whether to continue to develop in the future...it is more efficient."
He said so, and Zhou Qingbai couldn't make him relax, otherwise he would act as if he didn't pay much attention to this meeting, so he could only nod vaguely and hum two perfunctorily.
"It also makes sense." Zhou Qingbai said.
Pei You's eyes suddenly brightened.
He had been on blind dates many times before, and most of those blind dates were picked out by his mother from the corners of the network, either this aunt, niece, second uncle's nephew, or the uncle's teacher's god-grandson. Patience, often sit down and say a few words before leaving, few are willing to discuss the future of two people with him calmly.
But Zhou Qingbai looks different from them. He looks reliable and considerate. Now it seems that he is relatively easy to communicate with. He should be a good person.
And the most important thing is that Zhou Qingbai looks similar to his temper and personality, he should be a steady and pragmatic person, and he will not dislike him for being dull.
So Pei You thought about it, and happily added another item.
"That's right." Pei You said, "Because I'm in the upswing of my career, I don't have the plan and ability to buy a house in Beijing for the time being, but if my future partner has the requirement to settle down, we can also discuss with each other."
Pei You considers himself a very traditional person. To him, once a relationship is confirmed, it is tantamount to binding the future of the two people. Naturally, such major life events must be decided by mutual compromise.
"Of course, housing prices in Beijing are indeed a bit expensive." Pei You quickly calculated his assets in his mind, and said with some shame: "If we buy a new house, we need each other to share a part-of course, we can pay for this kind of expenses in advance. Notarize to ensure the safety of each other’s property.”
Zhou Qingbai didn't expect that he would end up talking for a long time, and suddenly a mouthful of coffee choked in his throat, choking him to death.
Seeing this, Pei You frowned slightly, and hurriedly took out two napkins and handed them to Zhou Qingbai.
"What?" Pei You asked sincerely, "Is there any dissatisfaction?"
Who is not satisfied?Zhou Qingbai said in his heart that I am really dissatisfied with everything, how can I divide the property as soon as we meet.
No matter how awkward the words sounded, Zhou Qingbai took the tissue, waved his hands vaguely, and coughed twice in embarrassment, and managed to catch his breath.
First he was stingy, then he was preaching, Zhou Qingbai felt more and more that he had been cheated by Ge Xing, and now he lacked interest and had already retreated.
Since he was young, he had no ambitions and was not self-motivated, so he was most afraid of dealing with such serious and successful people. After a few words, he already retreated, feeling that he really couldn't get along with the other party.
Not to mention falling in love, being friends is difficult.
So Zhou Qingbai changed his sitting position and leaned on the back of the chair, lowered his eyes slightly, and sent a message to the secretary under the cover of the table, asking him to find a chance to call himself as soon as possible, and prepare to find a way to end this ridiculous blind date.
He used two things at once, while sending WeChat to his secretary, he said perfunctorily: "Actually... Is it a bit early to think about this now, we haven't understood anything emotionally yet."
When Pei You thought about it, he also felt that what he said made sense, so he nodded and agreed: "You are right, emotional issues are more important. If you find emotional disagreement after communicating, it will waste each other's time."
Zhou Qingbai said in his heart that you are worrying too much, I know from just now that our aura is at odds.
"That's right." Zhou Qingbai said: "Then let's talk about it, what minefields do you have...it's unacceptable."
It's best if I step over your minefield, Zhou Qingbai thought, and then we can say goodbye politely.
"I don't have anything." Pei You thought for a while and said, "Apart from moral issues, I don't accept casual sex."
Zhou Qingbai: "..."
Zhou Qingbai had just finished sending a message to his secretary, when he heard this sentence out of the blue, he slid his hand and sent the other party a series of exclamation marks.
"I think that we should have sex after the relationship between the two is stable, so that we are more responsible to each other." Pei You explained seriously.
Is this guy really gay? Zhou Qingbai wondered suspiciously, Ge Xing wouldn't be so wicked as to find him a bisexual for a blind date.
Zhou Qingbai himself is a bachelor, but his friends are all carnivores. Although he doesn't talk about singing and singing every night, he still rolls together when he sees the right person. Everyone is drunk today. How can I see this kind of male Durban? students.
He was in a very complicated mood. Looking at Pei You as if he saw some rare animal, he couldn't hold back for a long time, and asked, "Stability...how long?"
Pei You didn't think about this question, but he thought about it for a while, and gave an ambiguous time: "One year...at least."
Well, Zhou Qingbai was in awe, and said to himself that this is still a senior male German class student.
There are a thousand tastes for a thousand people in this world, some like profligacy and some like honest people, but no matter what, there should be few people in the gay circle who like Plato.
——Unless people can’t.
Now Zhou Qingbai believed in Pei You's "experienced" words. According to Pei You's blind date method, he would be out of the woods if he could find a partner.
But in any case, these things have nothing to do with Zhou Qingbai, he adheres to the life principle of "more things are worse than less things", he just smiled politely and said it was good.
After this sentence, he didn't take the initiative to start any topics, and Pei You was not very good at communication, so the atmosphere subtly cooled down.
This atmosphere of silence for no reason was very familiar, Pei You stirred the half-cold coffee with a spoon, knowing that he probably didn't perform well this time.
Showing one's charm to strangers in a short period of time is a subject of knowledge. Pei You has been among the best in grades since he was a child, but he is a bit clumsy in interpersonal communication, so far he has not learned how to express himself in a relaxed manner in front of a blind date.
This silence lasted about three to two minutes. Zhou Qingbai was so embarrassed that his back was sweating, and he scratched his toes for a long time before finally waiting for the secretary's rescue call.
The moment the phone rang, Zhou Qingbai breathed a sigh of relief, grabbed the phone and pretended to be humming for a while, and finally frowned, and said, I'll be there right away.
Pei You could see that he was in a hurry, so he waved his hand and signaled the waiter to come over and pay the bill.
Zhou Qingbai still had the impression that he was stingy, and hung up the phone habitually to scan the QR code, but Pei You remembered Pei Yu's advice and insisted on paying the bill by himself.
At first Zhou Qingbai thought he was being polite, but Pei You actually fought him evenly for a few rounds, during which he almost knocked Zhou Qingbai's phone onto the sofa.
Zhou Qingbai: "..."
Zhou Qingbai was speechless for a while, angry and funny, wondering which Huaguo Mountain Ge Xing had dug out the Buddha Pei You from.
He was embarrassed to argue with Pei You in front of the waiter, so he took a step back to watch him settle the bill, then smiled at him politely, exchanged WeChat messages with Pei You as usual, and left on the pretext that he had something to do up.
Zhou Qingbai pretended that the social elites were exhausted all morning, and his shoulders collapsed as soon as he walked out of the restaurant gate. He walked a little farther, looked back and saw that Pei You hadn't followed, then heaved a sigh of relief, gritted his teeth and gave Ge Xing Made a phone call.
Boss Ge, who has always had his work and rest upside down, didn't know if he was waiting for a reply today, but the phone was connected as soon as it rang.
"Hello." Ge Xing said with a smile: "It's over? How is it?"
"I—" Zhou Qingbai became angry when he heard his tone, and forced back a swear word, saying: "You are purely cheating, what does this have to do with Ming Sao! This style is exactly the same as my elder brother!"
Zhou Qingbai is the second child at home, and his eldest brother Zhou Cangshan is exactly seven years older than him.
Zhou Cangshan and his father were carved out of the same mold. He was a soldier when he was young, and his temper was cold, hard and serious.
It was also because of Zhou Cangshan that Zhou Qingbai was afraid when he saw a decent person. Just now when he was sitting opposite Pei You, he always felt that the other party would start to criticize him as soon as he frowned, and his mental pressure was extremely high.
"and--"
Zhou Qingbai complained a lot, and subconsciously wanted to say that he was stingy, but then he thought that the debt was still settled by others, so he swallowed the sentence back.
"And my shirt was almost wet!" Zhou Qingbai turned to accuse: "And you know, he still doesn't accept premarital sex! You can only hold small hands in a one-year relationship, let alone an adult man, my grandma's The chastity archway is not as strict as his welding!"
Ge Xing was overwhelmed with joy, he couldn't breathe with laughter on the other end of the phone, he gasped and said, "Isn't that good, he's honest and serious, what a match for you, in the future your family will have someone who can control you."
"What my family!" Zhou Qingbai jumped three feet high like a cat whose tail had been stepped on, and retorted angrily: "I tell you Ge Xing, even if I starve to death in my life, I will never follow poker face. Let's live together prudishly!"
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