right A?Excuse me! [Transmigration Book]

After Xiaobao was born, everyone brainstormed and chose a name.

Su Wanhe.

Because she was born in the evening.

Shi Ning felt that the name was too correct, so she gave Xiaobao the nickname Su Xiaoxiao.

Su Jianxue entered the confinement center after giving birth, and Shi Ning pushed a lot of work to accompany her.Su Xiaoxiao has a professional aunt guarding her 24 hours a day, and the grandma Fei Yue hired looks at her at ease.

Shi Ning spends two hours a day playing with Xiaoxiao when she is sober, letting her grab her fingertips with soft little hands, trying to make her giggle but always seems to fail.

But fortunately, Shi Ning is not a guy who will give up when she fails, and she basically maintains an attitude of getting more courageous when it comes to teasing children.

Shi Ning never thought that it would be so difficult to attract a child's attention.

The experienced aunt of the confinement center persuaded her not to worry. The child may be too young to notice because she has not yet grown up.

Although Shi Ning was a bit at a loss about the baby's situation and reaction, after searching for information and listening to other people's opinions, the answer she got was that she really shouldn't be in a hurry.

Wait and see.

The days are still long, and the children will grow up slowly.

Except for playing with Xiaobao for the rest of the time, Shi Ning basically stayed by Su Fillxue's side.

Su Jianxue hasn't reached the point where she can't get out of bed. Occasionally she likes to read some astronomy books when she is free.

But Shi Ning enjoys the feeling of being able to take care of Su Qianxue.

Although Xiaoxiao jokingly said not to let the cub drink milk before she was born, but when she was born, how could it be possible that Su Qianxue and You Nai would not let the baby drink milk?

There is no reason in this world for a child to be hungry and a mother to be full.

Xiaoxiao probably has the most energy every day when he is eating.

So there was no other way, Shi Ning had one more job.

That is to stare at the child eating on Su Jianxue's body every day.

It was an uphill battle for her.

Xiaoxiao is such a young child, he can't control his strength at all.

When I eat, I know to make myself full, so my mouth is very hard, and my little hands are still grabbing.

Sometimes when Shi Ning saw Su Jianxue frowning because of the pain, she couldn't help but want to take this little girl away.

How could someone bully her wife since she was born?

Every time Xiaoxiao finished her meal, Shi Ning would come to clean up the mess for her.

The child doesn't care about anything when he is full, and sleeps comfortably.

But Su Jianxue was still uncomfortable.

Stretched, uncomfortable.

Hard steamed buns are uncomfortable.

It has to be in a soft state.

But the problem is still there, there is no other way but to let someone other than the baby solve it.

Shi Ning was honored to receive this important task.

She is gentler than a baby.

It also takes care of mommy's feelings more than babies.

Know how to get nay more comfortably.

It's just that sometimes if you are not careful, it will splash out, and if you use your hands, it may condense your face when sprayed.

At this time, Shi Ning could only laugh or cry.

Nothing can be done now.

Can only endure.

Three months later, Su Jianxue recovered well.

After leaving the confinement center, she also insisted on exercising.

Shi Ning finally had a full meal.

Hold back for almost a year.

Su Jianxue wasn't much better either.

Two people are going to be at home.

When the interest arrived, the baby suddenly cried.

The sound was loud.

No one can go on.

no way.

When the child was a little older, Shi Ning and Su Jianxue simply handed over the child to Fei Yue, let her watch, and went out for their honeymoon.

If you want Fei Yue to say, where are there such parents in this world?

But Shi Ning and Su Jianxue only went out for a week, and it's not like they won't be back.

At times like this, Shi Ning would regret having a child.

Where did she have a child with Su Jianxue?

It was clearly a light bulb.

The kind that cannot be beaten or scolded.

Sometimes I think that I should have thought of a way to make Su Jianxue unable to conceive at all.

After thinking about it again, this matter is not reliable.

Because she didn't even know how she couldn't get pregnant.

Shi Ning could only plead in front of the Buddha, hoping that the Bodhisattva would not allow her to have a second child.

I can't bear it.

one is enough.

another one.

When she summoned a beast?

And she didn't want Su Jianxue to work too hard.

Bodhisattva!If it is really necessary for them to conceive another one!Then let her conceive! !

She is willing to bear any pain!

After Xiaobao grew up slowly, Su Tianxue and Shi Ning found that there was something wrong with Xiaobao.

Her developmental level is significantly slower than other children of the same age.

When other children opened their mouths to babble, they smiled and stopped talking, and those who could use their fingers never opened their mouths.

Xiaoxiao doesn't like to leave either.

I don't even like to climb.

Every day in the arms of adults want to hug.

Su Jianxue and Shi Ning took Xiaobao to the Children's Hospital, worried that she might suffer from autism.

Later, the doctor's diagnosis confirmed their guess.

The doctor believes that Su Wanhe, that is, Xiaoxiao, is indeed suffering from autism.

To be precise, he has Autism Spectrum Disorder.

She has neurological problems in her brain, and her perception of many things is different from that of normal children.

But the doctor said that Xiaoxiao is lucky.

Compared with those children with atrophy of physical function and low thinking ability, Xiaoxiao is much better.

She didn't have much of a problem other than being quiet, slow-developing, and overly sensitive to hearing.

It can be seen from the examination that her intelligence is on the high side.

higher than normal children.

Doctors believe that Xiaoxiao may be suffering from Asperger's syndrome.

This kind of disease, which is regarded as "genius" by outsiders, can indeed be regarded as lucky for people in the same loneliness spectrum.

However, the doctor also reminded Shi Ning and Su Qianxue that Xiaoxiao is doomed to live a different life from other children for the rest of his life if he suffers from this disease.

She may not have a full social life, cannot understand the emotions of others, and therefore cannot respond to the calls of the two mothers.

In a sense, autism can also spread to relatives of patients.

Because giving this child love may be a journey destined to be lonely.

She may not know the response.

I don't know what emotion is.

Neither Shi Ning nor Su Jianxue thought that such a problem would appear in Xiaoxiao.

After Su Jianxue found out about this, she didn't cry, and started searching for relevant information overnight.Shi Ning accompanied her to study and study, and they never planned to give up from the very beginning.

Compared with other autistic families, Xiaoxiao has more resources.

Shi Ning began to continuously participate in the autism mutual aid association, learn from the experience of other parents, and also observe the reactions of other children of different ages.

She checked with Su Jianxue for a long time, trying to get Xiaoxiao to give them some feedback, but they all failed.

This chubby little milk baby will always be immersed in his own world.

Barbie's hair must be tied in double ponytails.

The toy car has to turn seven times on the ground.

Always wait three seconds before eating.

She has many strange little habits, but both Shi Ning and Su Filling Xue tolerated them.

I have persisted for a long time, but sometimes, when I look at Xiaoxiao longingly, expecting her to look up from the toy, look at me, and call mother, but I can't get any response, I still feel disappointed.

Compared with children who cannot be treated, parents should receive psychological counseling and doctor's guidance.

Because not everyone can survive this difficult level.

One day, Shi Ning found that Su Qianxue was crying alone in the study.

It is very quiet, and it is afraid of disturbing the children playing in the dollhouse.

Although she also had many times of frustration, at this moment, Shi Ning knew that she had to be strong.

She walked up to Su Jianxue's side and hugged her tenderly by her side.

"Honey, you'll be fine."

"Xiaoxiao is a child of the stars."

"So she was destined to be our child."

Genes are complex.

There are ten thousand possibilities.

And Xiaoxiao is the one in ten thousand chance of coming.

Just like Su Jianxue traveled across the universe to come to her side, so does Xiaoxiao.

No matter what, Shi Ning will cherish it.

In order for Xiaoxiao to find something she likes, and for adults to communicate with Xiaoxiao through this matter, Shi Ning and Su Qianxue prepared various picture books for Xiaoxiao, and the TV at home always shows different videos.

cartoon.

Documentary.

Xiaoxiao is different from other children, she doesn't like to watch cartoons.

When the TV sounded, she would shake her head if she didn't like it.

But today, Xiaoxiao didn't shake her head.

She heard the sound of the waves, so she looked up from the toy and looked at the screen.

On the screen is the deep romantic sea.

Krill swim by, glowing at night.

Jellyfish are like special neon lights one after another, lighting up in the sea, lighting the way home for countless lost marine creatures.

Smile and stare dumbfounded.

She pointed to the TV and spoke.

"ocean."

"ocean."

When hearing this word, Shi Ning and Su Jianxue didn't react, they squatted beside Xiaoxiao, and after hearing her repeat, Shi Ning and Su Jianxue looked at each other, hugged and smiled, I cried immediately.

Although, Xiaoxiao doesn't like being hugged very much.

After more than 68 seconds, she's about to start bobbing her head.

While other parents were still arguing over whether the child's first words were father or mother, Shi Ning and Su Jianxue felt the long-lost happiness and touch for this belated sound.

Hard work pays off.

Xiaoxiao's interest in Hai is like a magical switch, allowing Shi Ning and Su Fill in the snow to quickly find a way to communicate with her.

How to understand mother?

Let Xiaoxiao watch the documentary about octopus giving birth to cubs.

Show her how whales love their babies.

So Xiaoxiao learned the word mother.

Gradually, she will also respond to the calls and concerns of Su Jianxue and Shi Ning.

However, there are times when Xiaoxiao is too long.

At a young age, I haven't even gone to kindergarten yet, the credo in my mind is - survival of the fittest, you live and I die.

This matter is specifically reflected in the fact that if a little boy wants to bully her when she is away from home, Su Xiaoxiao, who usually looks soft and soft, like a harmless little dumpling, can hold the little boy tightly without hesitation. The fist hits the boy's face.

This usually happens because the other child is unreasonable.

So once the parents of the little kid want to come to Su Xiaoxiao to settle the score, and then drag Shi Ning and Su Fill in the snow to pay compensation, they will be persuaded to go back by Shi Ning's penetrating tongue .

From Shi Ning's point of view, smiling is the right thing to do.

Who told those children to want to bully her when they saw her smiling and limp in the children's playground?

In this case, Su Fill in Xue would usually sing red faces.

It’s easy to talk to Xiaoxiao, using marine knowledge as an example.

Soon, Xiaoxiao grew up.

This little star girl who is different from others is going to kindergarten.

Shi Ning and Su Jianxue were quite nervous about this matter.

They were not sure whether Xiaoxiao could adapt to normal kindergarten life.

Entering the collective environment is a challenge for Xiaoxiao.

But after communicating with experts in many ways, discussing with family members, and even asking Xiaoxiao's personal opinions, Shi Ning and Su Tianxia made a decision.

They plan to send Xiaoxiao to kindergarten.

But kindergartens also have to choose carefully.

The strength of teachers, the surrounding environment, and whether they can provide complete auxiliary forces to help Xiaoxiao solve her own special problems all need to be considered.

Shi Ning and Su Fill in the snow picked for almost two months.

These two women, who have made great achievements in their respective majors, did not expect that one day, they would be so entangled in where their children should go to kindergarten.

Finally, they nailed it.

The author has something to say:

Everything in this article is beautified, please do not compare it with the reality, the real parents of autistic children pay more than this, it is not easy for everyone.Although the author has verified information and used it as a reference for life, he is not professional.Please don't mind.

Well, good morning.