[Comprehensive Wear] It's hard to be a princess

Daiyu has formed a preliminary theoretical system through observations and summaries over the years. She has been compiling the corresponding theories. Now that the theory has matured, she is planning to compile these from shallow to deep recently. She said that she could help her to publish it, and she will also be a person who has published books in the future.

When she went to the wedding today, she was a little absent-minded, and she was still feeling sorry for Shi Xiangyun.When they were young, the two of them had a good relationship. Shi Xiangyun was also a smart girl with a quick mind and a good personality. Unfortunately, she was Jia Baoyu in her eyes. Even if you really like it and make some achievements, won't marrying Jia Baoyu add luster to this marriage?Jia Baoyu has nothing else to do with her. He still respects the ambitions of the sisters. He is not a male chauvinist. In his usual words, he always says that his sisters are better than me. Isn't that a matter of course?You won't feel that your self-esteem has been bruised just because of how much a girl has achieved, and you will be happy for the other party.Under such circumstances, if Shi Xiangyun can make some achievements, he will take more initiative in this marriage, so that he will not be picked on by his second aunt all the time, so that it has been delayed until now.

As for Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu really didn't feel much, she was just a good-tempered but eccentric cousin.But this is not attractive to Lin Daiyu at all.This is the reason why girls want to be rich. The so-called richness, on the one hand, is material, so that when she grows up, she will not be moved by others' small favors, and on the other hand, it is spiritual. After she grows up, she will hold on tightly to a little love given by others, because she has no more extravagant hopes.And for Lin Daiyu, this is exactly the case.In the original plot, Lin Daiyu lost her mother when she was young, left her father, and came to a relative's house. There are very few people in the relative's house who can give her real love. Although Shi Taijun likes his granddaughter, he is more important than his granddaughter.Therefore, for Lin Daiyu, the love and care given by Jia Baoyu is almost like a life-saving straw, which makes her worry about gains and losses, so that people feel awkward and petty.But now, what does Lin Daiyu want?Both parents are present, there is an elder brother, and even the sister-in-law is extremely caring for her, and with Keqing, she can truly show her talent, and her talent in poetry is the icing on the cake for her. , It really brought her a great sense of accomplishment.Before this sense of accomplishment, what kind of love between a man and a woman is just a flower in the mirror, not worth mentioning!

Therefore, on the second day after Jia Baoyu got married, Daiyu went back to Huangzhuang, and Yingchun and Xichun also came over by coincidence.

Yingchun's age is about the same as Xue Baochai's, and she has made it clear to her family that unless she really meets someone who is like-minded and connected with her, otherwise, she will stay at home for the rest of her life.

Even Shi Taijun didn't think there was anything wrong with this matter, that is, there were some sour words from the second room, and Tanchun could only envy her.After Xichun also went there, Tanchun originally wanted to go too, but Jia Huan showed off how many books he had read to Jia Zheng, and Wang knew about it, so he directly restrained Jia Huan in the name of practicing calligraphy. She copied the Buddhist scriptures by her side, and Tanchun knew that she was not born in the wife's stomach, so don't think about surpassing the brothers and sisters who were born on the same day, and be an obedient concubine honestly, so that you can live a good life.

Tanchun has also been anxious about his marriage, but Jia Baoyu has not gotten married for a long time, and Tanchun can only procrastinate. Although he is anxious in his heart, there is nothing he can do.But at this time, the Jia family finally put Tanchun's marriage on the agenda.After all, there are only four girls in the family. Yingchun said she would not marry, and Xichun seemed to have no idea about getting married. The main reason was that she had an unreliable brother. Although Jia Zhen was tightly restrained by Jia Jing and his wife, Jia Jing and his wife No matter what the two are, they can't control Jia Zhen's lower body.Jia Zhen has been severely suppressed over the years. Later, Jia Jing was desperate for this son. After all, he was beaten and scolded, but Jia Zhen was worthless. What else can you do? Jia Jing can only be Work on your grandchildren and nephews.Fortunately, Jia Rong and Jia Qiang are still saved. Although their qualifications are not as good as Jia Jing's, they are still much better than Jia Zhen.Therefore, Jia Jing simply focused on teaching Jia Rong and Jia Qiang. For Jia Zhen, he was restrained from doing anything wrong outside, and he didn't care about the rest!

Since Jia Zhen can't do anything outside, she puts her mind on women's sex. He doesn't do such things as entertainers, holding courtesans, and robbing women. Anyway, it's the girl with a slightly flat head around him who is watched by him. Once it's on, there's no reason not to stick your hands.Jia Zhen's daughter-in-law tried a few words of persuasion at first, but in the end, she simply ignored it. She already had her own daughter-in-law. It's better to lose face outside.

Seeing her elder brother like this, Xichun was naturally ashamed of it, but also thought that if she got married, her husband would also look like this, and she felt sick for a while.Although it is not difficult to make peace with the power of Ningguo Mansion, but it also makes her feel uncomfortable when she thinks about it.Rather than betting that her future husband is a long-term lover, it's better not to touch this matter!Therefore, Xichun also said that she didn't want to marry.

Good girls, none of them want to marry, so what to do!You can't make people think that all the girls in Jia's family are proud and arrogant, and all of them are competitive!Although this is not a bad thing, many things cannot be simply judged as good or bad.Just like now, when Keqing vowed not to marry, many people praised her in various ways, but now, more and more women have economic autonomy, and they try to find ways to establish female households. They would rather pay more poll tax than When they don't want to get married, many people are in a hurry.Nowadays, many voices have appeared in the court, demanding that female workers should not be hired, that women should be allowed to return to their families, and that punishment for late marriage and non-marriage should be increased.Some people also said that noble women should lead by example and obey female virtues.

Feng Yu has heard these words a lot, but not everyone can stop the torrent of the times. For the upper class, you can say that if your daughter does not marry, you will not be able to get promoted. That is probably useful, but For the lower layers, that's different.The lower class is really short of money. It’s hard for the husband and wife to earn money together, and the family lives a good life. But when you talk up and down, no one is allowed to do it. From now on, you can only support the family by yourself. Originally, you can eat in three days Meat once, it may not be enough to eat once in ten days now. I just borrowed a sum of money to build a new house. I thought it would be paid off in one or two years. I have not been able to repay it for five years, and because I borrowed a donkey loan shark, the loan is getting bigger and bigger, not to mention living in a new house, the old crappy house can no longer live in it...

Keqing, on the other hand, was very dissatisfied with this. She felt that those people were targeting her, and she was the first to say no to marrying. Now everyone vaguely said that she had a bad leader, especially in her Huangzhuang. She was a girl from a good family background. After following Keqing one by one, none of them got married in so many years!Originally, these girls would become sought-after targets in the upper-class marriage market. For many families, girls who were from a similar family background to their own had long been put in their hearts, and they waited until they reached their age. With a tacit understanding, the official media can come to propose marriage.

As a result, after Princess Fengguo publicly stated that she would choose female officials widely in Gyeonggi, a group of girls who were considered to be excellent in terms of background and education went to Princess Fengguo like moths. Princess Fengguo never refuses anyone who comes. As a princess, it is considered supernumerary if she has four or five decent female officials under her command. As a result, Princess Fengguo already has double digits in the name of female officials. There are also a group of princesses, county owners, and township lords who have been promoted by the Jin Dynasty. In short, nowadays, the noble girls in Beijing all have their eyes on Princess Fengguo. After all, it is better to rely on yourself than a husband and wife Reliable.Even if you can't get the Lord of the Township, as long as you have meritorious service, the official position of the female official obtained from Princess Fengguo will not be removed. Even if you leave, you will have a rank and you can get a salary. I have to wait for my son to come out!The most popular saying in the circle of noble girls in the capital is that if a man is unreliable, it is better to rely on yourself!

These words are definitely provocative to many men, so even if they don't worry about not having wives, they start to criticize in various ways.

Daiyu didn't hear about these things, the Lin family didn't want to disturb her, so they didn't let her know at all, but when Daiyu went to Huangzhuang, Keqing looked very angry.Daiyu couldn't help being a little puzzled, so she asked.We have known each other for so long, but Keqing has never put on any airs of a princess with Daiyu. To put it bluntly, Daiyu did not go to Yaochi to meet the Queen Mother, and was officially entered into the fairy book. Among the gods who become immortals, they are also ranked high. In comparison, although Jing Huan has a job, but in terms of rank, it may not be as high as Daiyu in the future. Therefore, Keqing will naturally not be in Daiyu. Canada there.The same goes for other people, but Ke Qing doesn't use worldly status to judge those around him, so the girls are mixed together like sisters, seeing Ke Qing, who has always been well-mannered, looks like he's about to explode , a bunch of girls came together.

"What else could be going on? It's not the bunch of rotten scholars. It's harder to get them to do something practical, but it's endless! It's against the rules! When they said this Why don't you see whose food is in the rice bowl? If they were Boyi Shuqi and didn't eat Zhou millet, I would still admire them. As a result, when there are better seeds, one dances more happily than the other, and I can't stop turning around Their mouths!" But Qing insisted on self-cultivation, otherwise, she wouldn't be able to swear at all right now!

After Daiyu figured out what was going on, she immediately became angry, rolled up her sleeves, and said, "Hmph, it's not enough for them to grow mouths, we can't pretend that we don't know anything, we have to make them speechless!"