OMEGA Silly Master Counterattack

Uncle Chi was not in a hurry to refute his little nephew's point of view, he stood up and moved his body a little, standing by the window and looking at the dark forest in the distance.

"I don't know the color of the world in Tai Tian's eyes, but if a person doesn't even love himself, how can he love others well?"

Zhong Jinwei was deeply moved by this sentence. During the days of wandering, he often thought of what his mother told him.Try not to drag others down as much as possible, but you must live a good life and learn to love yourself.

Although Taitian seems to have family members to take care of him on the surface, it is only superficial care. His little heart may not have felt the real warmth from these family members at all.

When the master and the mother picked him up, they originally wanted to find a little partner for the lonely Yiyi, but unexpectedly they "saved" Taitian.

He will always remember the tearful smile that the child showed when he let Tai Tian sit on his shoulder for the first time to play the game of "riding a big horse".

Zhong Jinwei clearly knows that his longing for family is because he has lost it.The present longing is because he found the little rabbit and someone who can warm his body and mind.

Uncle Chi withdrew his eyes from looking into the distance, and turned to Ying Zeyi and Zhong Jinwei, his tone full of solemnity.

"Tai Tian has the ability to love his own people, but it is in a completely self-sacrificing way. This kind of love is too distorted. He is not yet six years old, and the clues are already very obvious, which is enough to prove that he has no love at all. He doesn't care whether he is satisfied or not, as long as he can get the approval and love of his own people, he can cater to it with the most humble attitude. If he doesn't correct it, he will lower his own existence again and again until it is eliminated."

A brief silence reappeared, this time, both Ying Zeyi and Zhong Jinwei were reflecting on themselves.

Reflect on whether you have any behaviors that may inadvertently burden Taitian, making Taitian give up on himself and "please" them.

"Big Tiger, next time I see Second Senior Brother beat him up for me, if you think one meal is not enough, I have no objection to having three or five."

Zhong Jin understood, and firmly supported Little Rabbit's decision, "Well, I'm good at responding randomly. Uncle, what kind of treatment plan is suitable for Tai Tian now."

Based on the analysis, Uncle Chi proposed a two-step plan based on the current situation of Taitian's life circle.

The first step is cognitive behavioral therapy.

It was mentioned before, let Tai Tian expand the scope of his own people.Then find someone Tai Tian fully trusts to intervene appropriately to help the child complete the setting of "personal level".

At the same time, tell Tai Tian the rules of interaction between him and his own people at all levels, so that children can gradually understand the meaning of equality and mutual respect.

Behavioral guidance should also be given, but it cannot replace him in execution, and constantly cultivate his ability to actively recognize the essence of things.

As long as this rhythm is maintained, when Tai Tian gradually grows up and his vision is more open, the original cognitive defects can be repaired and adjusted.

Step two, home remedies.

The family here includes the narrow sense and the broad sense. The embarrassing thing is that the current family in this narrow sense cannot change the status quo with the efforts of just one person.

Taitian's grandparents and great-grandparents still need to be explained through the second senior brother.

It's impossible to have no contact at all, and it's not asking them to give Tai Tian much cherish and love, but just asking them not to underestimate their children's feelings.

As for the second senior brother himself, he was also a father for the first time in his life, so he still had to shoulder the responsibilities of a father after the beating.

To be sure, it's not that he doesn't love children, it's just that the method is wrong.Next, they want to make a companionship plan for the second senior brother, so that he will not be too absent from Tai Tian's growth process.

And these people can all be included in the scope of the generalized family.

To put it a little exaggeratedly, they can actually become Tai Tian's parents. To put it simply, they are all Tai Tian's family members.

Since you are a parent, try your best to be yourself and let life flow slowly and steadily instead of flashy performances.

Try to make a good meal, wash a dish, live every day well, and express love and care with all your heart in family trivial matters.

Slowly pass on your optimistic, healthy, positive, delicate, and attentive attitude towards life to Tai Tian through those seemingly insignificant little things in life. This is the life education that parents can give their children.

It turned out that only the figure of Master and Teacher's wife often appeared in Taitian's life. In the future, they will also work hard to join in and create beautiful memories with Taitian.

Just like today they are busy in the kitchen with Tai Tian, ​​the most common family life scene, let the child have a sense of integration, let him understand and experience the concept of being part of the family.

As long as you are willing to persevere and pay, you will see results one day.

Ying Zeyi firmly believes that the little angel Tai Tian will not let them wait too long. After all, such an understanding child absorbs everything quickly. As long as there is correct guidance, mental illness can be cured.

Uncle Chi clicked to save the final version of the report, shut down decisively, and closed the computer.

"However, I still want to remind you that you must not directly deny Tai Tian's existing cognitive system. What we have to do is to constantly revise it and supplement it, and respect the independent ideology of children. Our goal is to Let Tai Tian be himself objectively, able to control his behavior and emotions."

"Well, I understand~ Uncle, are you sleepy?"

"It's already 10:30, and the children's bedtime is past. I bet you, Tai Tian must be holding on to his energy right now, waiting for you to go back."

Hearing this, Ying Zeyi didn't dare to delay, and ran away, forgetting to close the door.

Zhong Jinwei, who was forgotten in place, did not show any other expressions except helplessness, "Then uncle, I..."

Suddenly, there was a sound of running again, "...uncle, I left the big tiger behind, and I will lead him away now, good night, uncle!"

As soon as Ying Ze grabbed the big tiger, he ran away, somewhat like the wind coming and going, when he was approaching the stairs, he was stopped by Zhong Jinwei, "What's the hurry, it's so dangerous, don't run on the stairs. "

"...Then I won't run, you run! You have long legs, and you run fast. You can hold me and run, it's okay. The little angel Tai Tian is still waiting for me, why are you in a daze Hurry up, do you want me to order you?!"

The little rabbit Ying who stretched out her hand to beg for a hug looks really aggressive. Sure enough, the rabbit is prone to bite when it is in a hurry.