Divorce and kidnapping
Chapter 10
In the next few days, after listening to Dong Jian's detailed report, Yang Lu stayed up for two more nights to drive out the plan to save Dong Jian.When he showed it to Dong Jian, he heard Dong Jian's question as expected.
"What you did in this report is not like a psychiatrist, but an expert in the marriage field."
Yang Lu smiled: "Psychiatrists are not easy to mix with now. I plan to find a new way to specialize in the field of family. But let's get down to business, the two of you can get to where you are today, except for your domineering personality. In fact, a large part of the problem is Fang An. .”
"Nonsense, he is very good." Dong Jian stared.
"Cooperate!" Yang Lu stared back fiercely relying on his round and big eyes.Dong Jian's refusal to recognize the problem between the two is harmful to their relationship.He just blindly finds the reason from himself. If Fang An insists on giving up on him, the result will not be changed.And without a comprehensive analysis of Fang An's character, it is impossible to determine which part Dong Jian needs to change in order to regain Fang An's favor.
"Fang An's personality is actually very contradictory. He is a typical Leo, with low self-esteem and conceit. He doesn't have the domineering arrogance of a lion. He has a weak personality, lacks a certain amount of self-confidence, and is timid. He has been kept in captivity by you for a long time. He is full of curiosity and fear of the outside world. At this time, you must let him out, the more you hold him back, the more curious he will be, and the more domineering you will be."
Dong Jian nodded, her friend's analysis was good.He also wisely chose to let Fang An go out.
"It's good to recognize the problem. I will reform you and Fang An step by step. Don't doubt, you both need to receive treatment."
"How to treat Fang An?" Dong Jian frowned at him.
"Compared to yours, his personality is actually worse. At least you have no problem living in society, but he does. When the two of you get along, he resists your dominance while choosing instinctive obedience. It shows that he lacks the self-confidence to survive, specifically, he agrees with your values and feels that he cannot live without you."
Seeing Dong Jian giggling, Yang Lu slapped the table seriously: "This is not a good thing. If the situation gets serious, he will become full of fear and distrust for everyone and everything. Have you ever thought that if one day, You can no longer protect him by his side, what should he do, live like no one, or follow you? His personality flaws are not uncommon, many people have them, but they will be healed by complex society. And you, It's driving his condition to worsen."
"Look at the career he chose when he stepped into the society. I won't talk about hand models. There are so many ways to earn money, why did he choose to be a landlord? Because collecting rent is the safest. He is afraid of this society. Don't look at him Now that he is proud of the spring breeze, once he encounters setbacks, he must be afraid and at a loss."
Dong Jian was silent, her eyes full of confusion.Yang Lu waited for a long time before hearing Dong Jian speak as if she had made a lot of determination. "I don't know him... I always tell him that it's too dangerous outside." Dong Jian took a deep breath, her eyes were red, "You're right, I can't guarantee that I can take care of him forever, he should be allowed to live alone confidence and ability. How are you going to treat him?"
***
Dongdong's birthday will soon be ushered in.Dong Jian invited two pastry chefs to teach Dong Dong how to make cakes.On this day, neither Dong Jian nor Fang An went out to work, and Dong Dong was also asked for leave.
Dong Dong made a small suggestion about this year's birthday.He first asked, "Is our family quite rich?"
Fang An didn't understand why the child suddenly asked this, so he subconsciously looked at Dong Jian.The latter suppressed all his emotions in a hurry, preventing Fang An from finding the answer.Fang An had nowhere to ask for help. Seeing that Dong Jian had no intention of answering, he hesitated to ask, "It should be considered quite rich."
"That's good." Dongdong exaggeratedly let out a sigh of relief, "Can I invite a few friends over to play at home, and you can hold a huge birthday party for me, okay?" He stared at his father's face, but his little hands grabbed his father's clothes, implying that his father would speak good words for him.
"Why do you ask if our family has money first when holding a birthday party?" It's a pity that Fang An's focus is here.
Dongdong said: "Our squad leader celebrated his birthday last week, and there is a helicopter, which is very impressive, and Banhua's eyes are straightened. I also want to hold an enviable birthday party. If our family has no money , please come here..." After seeing the ugly expressions of the two fathers at the same time, he rationally changed the words he was going to say, "If you don't have money, I won't do it. I don't want to burden you. It's not easy for Dad to make money ,I know."
After finishing speaking, he wanted to run in despair.Dong Jian held him back: "Okay, you can invite your classmates. After school, I will send a car to pick them up at the school gate."
"Really?" Dongdong jumped up happily, a little carried away, "In our family's extended RV, the cake is three meters high!"
Dong Jian coaxed Dong Dong to go to the kitchen to continue making cakes, and when the child left, his brows frowned.Fang An was also not very happy: "This is vanity, how can a child compare to this?"
"I want to hold a birthday party for him that he will never forget." Dong Jian told Fang An what he was thinking.The latter was taken aback for a long time, and hesitated for fear of hurting the child.
Seeing that he didn't agree, Dong Jian asked anxiously: "Do you think this is not good? Don't treat him... No, you think for yourself, it's good if you think it's good, and it's not good if it's not good. You are also the father of the child. There must be rights and obligations to call the shots.”
"Let me think."
"Don't think too much, children are young, and our character can still be shaped by us, this time...you think for yourself." Dong Jian stood up irritably and walked towards the window.He knew that Fang An would think for a long time, Fang An was not particularly slow to make up his mind on everything, the more Fang An cared about things, the harder it was to make a decision.Even when he bought the small dining table, Dongdong was the one who said it first.
But this time Fang An thought very quickly, far beyond Dong Jian's expectations.When Fang An agreed and urged Dong Jian to prepare quickly, Dong Jian hardly recovered from her surprise.
It was only later that he figured it out, because the arrangement took time, and Fang An couldn't afford to think about it slowly.This incident gave him confidence in the treatment that will start immediately. If Fang An encounters pressure, he may get rid of his weak and timid character.
The two of them hurry up to prepare for Dongdong's birthday party.
***
At four o'clock, kindergarten is over.The monitor, Huya, slapped Dong Dong on the head with a big slap, and his tone was very rude: "You said your family is richer than mine, hmph, if this birthday party is not as good as my family's, you will have to play with me in every physical education class in the future. Hit your pick, do you hear me, little caddy."
Dongdong snorted heavily through his nose: "I came to class in the afternoon just to pick you up. Don't worry, you will definitely be shocked. If it is better than yours, you are not allowed to harass my girlfriend again."
"This one is not good, change it."
"why"
"If I lose, I will eat green peppers for your girlfriend for a month. It's such a happy decision." Huya said.Dongdong just wanted to say "Aren't you still harassing my girlfriend?" Before he could say anything, Huya yelled and asked him if he dared to bet. In front of the whole class, Dongdong stopped thinking about it. I agreed.
A class of more than a dozen students followed Dong Dong to the school gate.At this time, the gate of the school was bustling, Dongdong stretched his neck on his toes to look for the family car, and his father said that he would send all the best cars to give him a long face.Usually his family's car is parked at the corner, but ponies or fathers will wait for him at the main gate of the school, why can't they see him today?
He was feeling that something was wrong when suddenly a farmer wrapped in a white towel and covered in dirt stretched out his hand and rubbed his little head. He looked up and almost didn't sit on the ground.Huya pulled him back vigorously, and stared at the farmer uncle warily: "We don't buy strawberries, there are urban management here, you can sell them elsewhere."
Fang An grinned: "You are Banhua Xiaomei, really handsome, with great strength and a nice voice. I am Dong Dong's father." Huya's face was ugly, but he didn't act rashly, and the children behind were also frightened. They all hid behind Huya and dared not say a word.
"Dad, are you really divorced from Dad?" Dongdong recovered from the shock, sympathized with him, and couldn't help complaining, "At least wait until my birthday is over. With you guys like me on my child's birthday Secretly divorced parents? Let me tell you how you are! My dad really let you go out of the house, you won’t ask him for some money, how much money you can earn by selling strawberries, how will you live for the rest of your life? , woo woo... woo."
Fang An really wanted to pinch him, but all the messy things in the family were shaken out.He beckoned the kids to follow him, and his car was parked on the corner.When Dong Dong heard that there was a car, he barely cheered up, and followed Thua Tada to go forward.As a result, he saw a Shifeng tricycle, and he and his classmates were shocked again.The driver is still the same driver, but the car no longer has four wheels.
Amidst the shock and the bumping of the car, the children were pulled to the small dining table.Today's small dining table has been transformed into a rental house for the impoverished Dongdong family.And they can only rent one room, because Dongjian went bankrupt and their family has no money.
Although they are very poor, the only electrical appliance in the house is the light bulb.But they still spent all their money to buy a palm-sized cake for the child. In this room that can only accommodate a big bed and an induction cooker, it is full of colorful balloons. It looks really warm?No, it's very earthy.
Dong Dong really didn't understand, in the morning he was still the young master who was personally taught to make cakes by a famous pastry chef, how could there be only a palm-sized cake left in the afternoon.
"It seems that the cake is not enough, but we have washed strawberries, you are welcome to eat whatever you want." Dong Jian warmly greeted.When he saw a little girl in red short-sleeves, he took a second look and couldn't help but praise: "Banhua is really pretty, son, you have eyes."
Huya was so angry that he stamped his feet and ran away.It's really sad to have a father who likes to dress him up as a girl.As soon as Huya left, several classmates ran away with him.
Fang An couldn't bear it: "Son, I..."
"Father, it's okay. Even if you have no money, I won't dislike you." Dongdong sighed, "You two have never made me worry, I'm used to it, alas!"
Suddenly a little girl with twin ponytails stood up and cried very painfully: "Dongdong, we agreed to get fifty BMWs when we got married, are they gone? You lied to me, I hate you." After finishing speaking , ran away crying.The rest of the students followed suit.
After everyone has left, Fang An pulls the little Maza over, sits down and eats strawberries, and then it's time for Dong Jian's education.Literal matters are usually Dong Jian's job.
Dongdong was still sobbing: "Grandma lied. She clearly said that the money my dad earned would never be spent in a lifetime. I only spent six years, and it's gone, woo woo woo..."
***
After her son's birthday, Dong Jian got up early in the morning to pack her luggage.Fang An couldn't help, so he just sat by and accompanied him.Dong Jian said that it will take several days to go out this time, to a small country in Africa, where the communication conditions are very poor, and it may not be possible to call home.Fang An was very worried and fidgeted all the time.
"Don't worry, just take care of yourself. I told you how to take care of yourself... Forget it, you are almost thirty, I believe you can take care of yourself."
Fang An didn't want him to worry, so he patted his chest to make sure: "I will take care of my son."
"My son has Aunt Zhao, so don't just encourage him." After Dong Jian finished speaking, she regretted it again, but there was no time to explain.He hugged Fang An and gave him a lingering kiss.Fang An didn't refuse him, which made Dong Jian very happy. During this time, he was no longer allowed to touch Fang An.
When he was thinking about why Fang An was so obedient, he heard Fang An's words were full of worry. "Run if you are in danger, and come back alive."
Dong Jian: "..."
***
When he arrived at the prepared laboratory, Yang Lu was already waiting for him. Seeing his big and small bags, he immediately confiscated them and took away his mobile phone.
"Are the cameras and monitors installed?"
"Ah."
"Very good. This room is where you will stay for the next few days. There is a screen corresponding to a camera, and you need to cut the sound of the monitor yourself. There is no communication equipment in the room. I will lock the door and you can open it for a few days. This is the only small window for food delivery. Dong Jian, let me ask you again, can you guarantee that once you enter this room, no matter what happens to Fang An, you will be able to restrain yourself from smashing the door?"
Dong Jian: "I can't."
Yang Lu raised his chest proudly: "Fortunately, I bought a door that can't be broken. The next step is the first treatment project, to save your self-confidence, and to reform your stink of being in charge."
"What you did in this report is not like a psychiatrist, but an expert in the marriage field."
Yang Lu smiled: "Psychiatrists are not easy to mix with now. I plan to find a new way to specialize in the field of family. But let's get down to business, the two of you can get to where you are today, except for your domineering personality. In fact, a large part of the problem is Fang An. .”
"Nonsense, he is very good." Dong Jian stared.
"Cooperate!" Yang Lu stared back fiercely relying on his round and big eyes.Dong Jian's refusal to recognize the problem between the two is harmful to their relationship.He just blindly finds the reason from himself. If Fang An insists on giving up on him, the result will not be changed.And without a comprehensive analysis of Fang An's character, it is impossible to determine which part Dong Jian needs to change in order to regain Fang An's favor.
"Fang An's personality is actually very contradictory. He is a typical Leo, with low self-esteem and conceit. He doesn't have the domineering arrogance of a lion. He has a weak personality, lacks a certain amount of self-confidence, and is timid. He has been kept in captivity by you for a long time. He is full of curiosity and fear of the outside world. At this time, you must let him out, the more you hold him back, the more curious he will be, and the more domineering you will be."
Dong Jian nodded, her friend's analysis was good.He also wisely chose to let Fang An go out.
"It's good to recognize the problem. I will reform you and Fang An step by step. Don't doubt, you both need to receive treatment."
"How to treat Fang An?" Dong Jian frowned at him.
"Compared to yours, his personality is actually worse. At least you have no problem living in society, but he does. When the two of you get along, he resists your dominance while choosing instinctive obedience. It shows that he lacks the self-confidence to survive, specifically, he agrees with your values and feels that he cannot live without you."
Seeing Dong Jian giggling, Yang Lu slapped the table seriously: "This is not a good thing. If the situation gets serious, he will become full of fear and distrust for everyone and everything. Have you ever thought that if one day, You can no longer protect him by his side, what should he do, live like no one, or follow you? His personality flaws are not uncommon, many people have them, but they will be healed by complex society. And you, It's driving his condition to worsen."
"Look at the career he chose when he stepped into the society. I won't talk about hand models. There are so many ways to earn money, why did he choose to be a landlord? Because collecting rent is the safest. He is afraid of this society. Don't look at him Now that he is proud of the spring breeze, once he encounters setbacks, he must be afraid and at a loss."
Dong Jian was silent, her eyes full of confusion.Yang Lu waited for a long time before hearing Dong Jian speak as if she had made a lot of determination. "I don't know him... I always tell him that it's too dangerous outside." Dong Jian took a deep breath, her eyes were red, "You're right, I can't guarantee that I can take care of him forever, he should be allowed to live alone confidence and ability. How are you going to treat him?"
***
Dongdong's birthday will soon be ushered in.Dong Jian invited two pastry chefs to teach Dong Dong how to make cakes.On this day, neither Dong Jian nor Fang An went out to work, and Dong Dong was also asked for leave.
Dong Dong made a small suggestion about this year's birthday.He first asked, "Is our family quite rich?"
Fang An didn't understand why the child suddenly asked this, so he subconsciously looked at Dong Jian.The latter suppressed all his emotions in a hurry, preventing Fang An from finding the answer.Fang An had nowhere to ask for help. Seeing that Dong Jian had no intention of answering, he hesitated to ask, "It should be considered quite rich."
"That's good." Dongdong exaggeratedly let out a sigh of relief, "Can I invite a few friends over to play at home, and you can hold a huge birthday party for me, okay?" He stared at his father's face, but his little hands grabbed his father's clothes, implying that his father would speak good words for him.
"Why do you ask if our family has money first when holding a birthday party?" It's a pity that Fang An's focus is here.
Dongdong said: "Our squad leader celebrated his birthday last week, and there is a helicopter, which is very impressive, and Banhua's eyes are straightened. I also want to hold an enviable birthday party. If our family has no money , please come here..." After seeing the ugly expressions of the two fathers at the same time, he rationally changed the words he was going to say, "If you don't have money, I won't do it. I don't want to burden you. It's not easy for Dad to make money ,I know."
After finishing speaking, he wanted to run in despair.Dong Jian held him back: "Okay, you can invite your classmates. After school, I will send a car to pick them up at the school gate."
"Really?" Dongdong jumped up happily, a little carried away, "In our family's extended RV, the cake is three meters high!"
Dong Jian coaxed Dong Dong to go to the kitchen to continue making cakes, and when the child left, his brows frowned.Fang An was also not very happy: "This is vanity, how can a child compare to this?"
"I want to hold a birthday party for him that he will never forget." Dong Jian told Fang An what he was thinking.The latter was taken aback for a long time, and hesitated for fear of hurting the child.
Seeing that he didn't agree, Dong Jian asked anxiously: "Do you think this is not good? Don't treat him... No, you think for yourself, it's good if you think it's good, and it's not good if it's not good. You are also the father of the child. There must be rights and obligations to call the shots.”
"Let me think."
"Don't think too much, children are young, and our character can still be shaped by us, this time...you think for yourself." Dong Jian stood up irritably and walked towards the window.He knew that Fang An would think for a long time, Fang An was not particularly slow to make up his mind on everything, the more Fang An cared about things, the harder it was to make a decision.Even when he bought the small dining table, Dongdong was the one who said it first.
But this time Fang An thought very quickly, far beyond Dong Jian's expectations.When Fang An agreed and urged Dong Jian to prepare quickly, Dong Jian hardly recovered from her surprise.
It was only later that he figured it out, because the arrangement took time, and Fang An couldn't afford to think about it slowly.This incident gave him confidence in the treatment that will start immediately. If Fang An encounters pressure, he may get rid of his weak and timid character.
The two of them hurry up to prepare for Dongdong's birthday party.
***
At four o'clock, kindergarten is over.The monitor, Huya, slapped Dong Dong on the head with a big slap, and his tone was very rude: "You said your family is richer than mine, hmph, if this birthday party is not as good as my family's, you will have to play with me in every physical education class in the future. Hit your pick, do you hear me, little caddy."
Dongdong snorted heavily through his nose: "I came to class in the afternoon just to pick you up. Don't worry, you will definitely be shocked. If it is better than yours, you are not allowed to harass my girlfriend again."
"This one is not good, change it."
"why"
"If I lose, I will eat green peppers for your girlfriend for a month. It's such a happy decision." Huya said.Dongdong just wanted to say "Aren't you still harassing my girlfriend?" Before he could say anything, Huya yelled and asked him if he dared to bet. In front of the whole class, Dongdong stopped thinking about it. I agreed.
A class of more than a dozen students followed Dong Dong to the school gate.At this time, the gate of the school was bustling, Dongdong stretched his neck on his toes to look for the family car, and his father said that he would send all the best cars to give him a long face.Usually his family's car is parked at the corner, but ponies or fathers will wait for him at the main gate of the school, why can't they see him today?
He was feeling that something was wrong when suddenly a farmer wrapped in a white towel and covered in dirt stretched out his hand and rubbed his little head. He looked up and almost didn't sit on the ground.Huya pulled him back vigorously, and stared at the farmer uncle warily: "We don't buy strawberries, there are urban management here, you can sell them elsewhere."
Fang An grinned: "You are Banhua Xiaomei, really handsome, with great strength and a nice voice. I am Dong Dong's father." Huya's face was ugly, but he didn't act rashly, and the children behind were also frightened. They all hid behind Huya and dared not say a word.
"Dad, are you really divorced from Dad?" Dongdong recovered from the shock, sympathized with him, and couldn't help complaining, "At least wait until my birthday is over. With you guys like me on my child's birthday Secretly divorced parents? Let me tell you how you are! My dad really let you go out of the house, you won’t ask him for some money, how much money you can earn by selling strawberries, how will you live for the rest of your life? , woo woo... woo."
Fang An really wanted to pinch him, but all the messy things in the family were shaken out.He beckoned the kids to follow him, and his car was parked on the corner.When Dong Dong heard that there was a car, he barely cheered up, and followed Thua Tada to go forward.As a result, he saw a Shifeng tricycle, and he and his classmates were shocked again.The driver is still the same driver, but the car no longer has four wheels.
Amidst the shock and the bumping of the car, the children were pulled to the small dining table.Today's small dining table has been transformed into a rental house for the impoverished Dongdong family.And they can only rent one room, because Dongjian went bankrupt and their family has no money.
Although they are very poor, the only electrical appliance in the house is the light bulb.But they still spent all their money to buy a palm-sized cake for the child. In this room that can only accommodate a big bed and an induction cooker, it is full of colorful balloons. It looks really warm?No, it's very earthy.
Dong Dong really didn't understand, in the morning he was still the young master who was personally taught to make cakes by a famous pastry chef, how could there be only a palm-sized cake left in the afternoon.
"It seems that the cake is not enough, but we have washed strawberries, you are welcome to eat whatever you want." Dong Jian warmly greeted.When he saw a little girl in red short-sleeves, he took a second look and couldn't help but praise: "Banhua is really pretty, son, you have eyes."
Huya was so angry that he stamped his feet and ran away.It's really sad to have a father who likes to dress him up as a girl.As soon as Huya left, several classmates ran away with him.
Fang An couldn't bear it: "Son, I..."
"Father, it's okay. Even if you have no money, I won't dislike you." Dongdong sighed, "You two have never made me worry, I'm used to it, alas!"
Suddenly a little girl with twin ponytails stood up and cried very painfully: "Dongdong, we agreed to get fifty BMWs when we got married, are they gone? You lied to me, I hate you." After finishing speaking , ran away crying.The rest of the students followed suit.
After everyone has left, Fang An pulls the little Maza over, sits down and eats strawberries, and then it's time for Dong Jian's education.Literal matters are usually Dong Jian's job.
Dongdong was still sobbing: "Grandma lied. She clearly said that the money my dad earned would never be spent in a lifetime. I only spent six years, and it's gone, woo woo woo..."
***
After her son's birthday, Dong Jian got up early in the morning to pack her luggage.Fang An couldn't help, so he just sat by and accompanied him.Dong Jian said that it will take several days to go out this time, to a small country in Africa, where the communication conditions are very poor, and it may not be possible to call home.Fang An was very worried and fidgeted all the time.
"Don't worry, just take care of yourself. I told you how to take care of yourself... Forget it, you are almost thirty, I believe you can take care of yourself."
Fang An didn't want him to worry, so he patted his chest to make sure: "I will take care of my son."
"My son has Aunt Zhao, so don't just encourage him." After Dong Jian finished speaking, she regretted it again, but there was no time to explain.He hugged Fang An and gave him a lingering kiss.Fang An didn't refuse him, which made Dong Jian very happy. During this time, he was no longer allowed to touch Fang An.
When he was thinking about why Fang An was so obedient, he heard Fang An's words were full of worry. "Run if you are in danger, and come back alive."
Dong Jian: "..."
***
When he arrived at the prepared laboratory, Yang Lu was already waiting for him. Seeing his big and small bags, he immediately confiscated them and took away his mobile phone.
"Are the cameras and monitors installed?"
"Ah."
"Very good. This room is where you will stay for the next few days. There is a screen corresponding to a camera, and you need to cut the sound of the monitor yourself. There is no communication equipment in the room. I will lock the door and you can open it for a few days. This is the only small window for food delivery. Dong Jian, let me ask you again, can you guarantee that once you enter this room, no matter what happens to Fang An, you will be able to restrain yourself from smashing the door?"
Dong Jian: "I can't."
Yang Lu raised his chest proudly: "Fortunately, I bought a door that can't be broken. The next step is the first treatment project, to save your self-confidence, and to reform your stink of being in charge."
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