The ex broke up after the breakup

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Song Mengyuan passed Qiye, took the elevator upstairs and entered the bedroom, changed his clothes, went downstairs and entered the kitchen, made stir-fried Chinese cabbage and stir-fried mutton slices, made egg drop soup, freshly baked egg pancakes, and served them together out.

Qi Ye glanced over, a little speechless, if not rich, there are actually quite a lot of dishes, if you say exquisite, all of them can be prepared in a short period of time, which is a bit of a passer-by.

But it's delicious, and it's rare that the egg pancake doesn't contain green onions, so Qi Ye still tastes delicious.

Song Mengyuan said in a timely manner, "Tonight's supper is grilled chicken wings and oysters."

Qi Ye forgave her, wiped his mouth with a wet towel contentedly, helped Song Mengyuan deliver the tableware to the kitchen, and went back to the study to continue working.

Seeing her expressionless face but in a good mood, Song Mengyuan suddenly felt a little emotional. In a sense, the two Qiye are very similar, so it's easy to dismiss.

After she put the dishes in the dishwasher, she hid in her bedroom, took a shower, and sent a message to Dr. Liang while drying her hair with a hairdryer.

Dr. Liang replied soon: I have been thinking about your friend's illness in my spare time today, and I feel that there are several questions that need to be resolved.

Song Mengyuan: Does the doctor think my friend has multiple personalities?

Dr. Liang: No, it is better to say that she actually has multiple personality traits in many ways.

Song Mengyuan: For example?

Dr. Liang: There are not many studies in our country, but there have been investigations abroad. Dissociative identity disorder is more common in women, and the ratio of men to women is one to nine. This ratio is quite high, so we have to consider why this The disease is more common in women.

Song Mengyuan: I have done some research on the Internet. Most of them suffered sexual/abuse/abuse when they were young, and they had huge mental trauma. In order to protect themselves, they split into other personalities.

Dr. Liang: Yes, there are reasons for this.

Song Mengyuan: But my friend didn't have such an experience.

Dr. Liang: Are you sure?

Song Mengyuan: I am very sure.

Dr. Liang: The causes of this disease are basically buried in the client's childhood, which caused the client's mental trauma, which in turn led to the client's split personality.Sexual abuse is not necessary, but there must be something that caused your friend to suffer mentally as a child. I suggest you find a way to understand the experience of the client when she was a child. It is possible to start from this aspect and cure her illness.

Song Mengyuan: I see, what else can I do?

Dr. Liang: In addition, she did not suffer from the onset when she was a teenager. It may be that the environment was relatively mild at that time, which made her live more comfortably and stabilize her spirit, so she did not have an early onset.However, when she encounters a shock, or a bad environment, or someone who traumatizes her, her condition will deteriorate rapidly.

Song Mengyuan was very worried.

Don't say it, don't say it, she has already regretted it.

Song Mengyuan: What does the doctor mean, I want to create a gentle environment for her now, stabilize her mental state, and avoid letting her meet people who will hurt her?

Dr. Liang: Yes.

Song Mengyuan suddenly felt extremely exhausted. Doesn't this mean that he has to get used to Qi Ye?

Whatever Qi Ye asked her to do, what did she have to do?

Thinking of Qi Ye's way of doing whatever he wanted to him, Song Mengyuan's eyes darkened.

Nightmare.

Dr. Liang made a laughing emoji when he heard about Song Mengyuan's thoughts.

She said: No, it is not good to be used to the other party, but it may aggravate the patient's condition.The grasp of this degree can only be explored by yourself and her relatives and friends.

Song Mengyuan breathed a sigh of relief, it's okay, it's okay, he doesn't have to get used to those two brats anymore.

Dr. Liang: In addition, you said that she has only two personalities and her condition is relatively stable, which is considered relatively good.Because the mental state of people with this disease is extremely unstable, they often split into new personality sides, sometimes as many as [-] personalities, and at the same time have a state similar to other neurological diseases and mental diseases.Because of this, such patients often go into adulthood, taking many years to be diagnosed.Your friend is lucky to have met an experienced expert.

Song Mengyuan: ... I understand, sometimes her brain circuits and behaviors are a bit different from ordinary people, is it also because of those similar mental illnesses?

Dr. Liang: Yes, many aspects of mental illness are similar, so diagnosis is also very difficult, so you have to be more careful, pay attention to whether she is taking drugs, whether she is taking them regularly according to the doctor's advice, or secretly abusing drugs.

Song Mengyuan: I don't seem to see her taking medicine.

Dr. Liang: That's good, but you should pay attention, it may be that you have taken it when you were diagnosed abroad, and now your condition is stable, so you don't need to take it for the time being.

Song Mengyuan: OK.

Dr. Liang: If your friend has been relatively stable and has no suicidal tendencies, this is good news.

Song Mengyuan: ...Doctor, what you said is scary.

Dr. Liang: I just want to remind you, because this disease is really too rare, and there are many complications, especially suicidal tendencies are very common in mental diseases.

Song Mengyuan: Okay, I will pay attention.

She was bitter in her heart, Qi Ye used a super killer weapon in order to keep her.

Dr. Liang: In addition, you and her family members should pay attention to treat the two personalities equally, and don't be biased, otherwise it will cause internal fighting between the personalities, which is not conducive to treatment.

Song Mengyuan choked up.

She actually wants to be a Duan Shui master.

Song Mengyuan thought of a question, and hurriedly asked: Doctor, I gave her two personalities separate nicknames, will this affect it?

Dr. Liang: It's hard to say.

Song Mengyuan's heart suddenly turned cold, it's over, did she inadvertently worsen Qi Ye's condition?

Dr. Liang: When the patient's personality is unstable, naming them separately may promote the further separation of different personalities.But according to your description, your friend's two personalities are already very stable, and if they can be clearly distinguished from each other, the influence of the nickname is not very great.However, I suggest that you better not differentiate them too much, this will intensify their assertion of self, and the personality is too stable, which will not be conducive to future reintegration.

Song Mengyuan tearfully sent a message: I see.

She knew that Dr. Liang was trying to save face for her, and he just couldn't bear to hit her.

Dr. Liang: In fact, this disease cannot be cured by medicine. It is generally accepted that the best treatment method is hypnosis, but your friend has concerns and is unwilling to accept treatment from outsiders, so you can only take it slowly.

Song Mengyuan: What should I do at this stage?

Dr. Liang: Let the patient develop enough sense of security and become strong enough until she can face the painful memories of the past.

Song Mengyuan thought about it, and suddenly realized that she was really not sure whether Qi Ye felt safe and strong.

Dr. Liang: In addition, if you want to inquire about her past, you may have to start with the people around her.According to the information I found, people with this disease often have very vague memories of their childhood experiences, and this time period is from 6 to 11 years old.If you are not sure, it is best not to force the person to recall the experience during this period, otherwise it will aggravate the patient's condition.

Song Mengyuan: I understand.

Dr. Liang: That's all I can tell you. We will contact you regularly in the future, just once or twice a week.If she has any particular overreaction, contact me immediately.I will also contact my peers to see if I can consult their treatment experience and provide you with advice.

Song Mengyuan: Thank you doctor, this is a red envelope, please accept it.

Song Mengyuan: Red envelopes.

Dr. Liang: Nonsense, we have a rule that we cannot accept red envelopes from patients, so you cancel it quickly.

Song Mengyuan: But doctor, I can't go to you openly, I can't pay the fee, you don't accept red envelopes, how can I bother the doctor so often?

Dr. Liang: It is enough for me to encounter such a rare condition.You must contact me regularly so as not to delay the patient's condition.

Song Mengyuan: Thank you, I will always remember the doctor's kindness in my heart.

Dr. Liang: You’re welcome.

Song Mengyuan took off his glasses, fell on the bed, and sighed deeply.

If she wants to contact Dr. Liang regularly in the future, and Dr. Liang will contact her peers to consult treatment methods, she still has to find a way to pay Dr. Liang accordingly through other channels.

Let Qi Ye take the money himself, hum!

Song Mengyuan looked at the flowers delivered today on the bedside table - begonias and baby's breath, and then picked up the card that was set aside, on which a sentence was printed in handwriting: Wherever you are, there will be the bright moon.

These words are probably to secretly dislike her for asking for leave to go out, but Song Mengyuan's eye circles are reddened.

There was a rhythmic knock on the door twice, and then twice.

Song Mengyuan hurriedly sat up, put the card in the notebook, wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes, and said, "Come in."

Qi Ye opened the door and came in, sitting beside Song Mengyuan, looking at her with shining eyes.

Song Mengyuan looked a little uncomfortable for her, and turned her head shyly: "I've been watching it for several days, isn't it enough?"

"not enough."

Seeing the flower arrangement in the vase, Song Mengyuan recalled Dr. Liang's words, he was skeptical, and asked tentatively, "Speaking of which, do you remember what happened when you were young?"

"Can not remember."

The answer is too fast, too straightforward!

Song Mengyuan looked back at Qi Ye speechlessly.

Qi Ye felt that Song Mengyuan's gaze was not right, twisted his body uneasily, and asked weakly, "Did I say something wrong?"

Song Mengyuan suddenly thought of Dr. Liang's order: to cultivate the patient's sufficient sense of security and strong will.

Qi Ye is quite insecure, and his spirit is not stable enough.

Song Mengyuan suddenly felt that his throat became very painful, and his speech became difficult: "When I was six years old, was there anything that left a deep impression on me?"

Qi Ye carefully looked at Song Mengyuan: "Do the problem, I can't think of anything else."

"What about seven years old?"

"Do the question."

"What about eight years old?"

"Do the question."

"What about nine years old?"

"Do the question."

"..."

Song Mengyuan slowly raised her hand, supported her forehead, and asked with difficulty, "From the age of ten to 12, you only remember to do the questions?"

Qi Ye nodded.

You can't ask anything at all!Song Mengyuan really wanted to cover his face, but he couldn't show it too clearly in front of Qi Ye, otherwise it would make Qi Ye even more disturbed.

At this time, Song Mengyuan suddenly remembered what happened six years ago, and asked, "Qi Ye, from the age of six to 12, there was a girl named Susanna who should have been with you for a long time. Do you have any impression?" ?”

Qi Ye was stunned, and slowly, slowly showed a very puzzled and confused expression: "Is there such a thing?"

Well, she can't remember anything at all.

Song Mengyuan felt very frustrated. If Xiao Yi didn't remember, then it's not very likely that Xiao Jin knew about the memories of that time. It seems that he can only investigate from the people around Qi Ye before.

and many more!

A flash of lightning flashed across Song Mengyuan's mind.

Xiao Jin said that she was born after Song Mengyuan sent out the breakup email, why would she know the secret between Xiao Yi and Song Mengyuan?

Didn't the Internet say that the memories of different personalities are not connected?

Could it be that Qi Ye is playing her?