The ex broke up after the breakup

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Not long after, Dr. Liang heard back.Song Mengyuan vaguely described the general process of the incident. Dr. Liang asked a few details to find out the personality she wanted to avoid by force, and suggested that Song Mengyuan ask relatives and friends who were also trusted by the patient to lobby, and then go to see the patient by himself.

Song Mengyuan: Doctor, here is the problem.She has no one else to trust but me.

Dr. Liang: Does she have no relatives she can trust?

Song Mengyuan: No.In addition, I also found out that her multiple personality may have a lot to do with her parents.Her attitude towards her parents was very cold and she would not talk to me in detail.

Dr. Liang: Can I think that the client only trusts you?

Song Mengyuan: It should be.

Dr. Liang didn't reply right away, which made Song Mengyuan very uneasy.

After a while, Dr. Liang replied: Which personality was hit, and what is the attitude of the other personality towards you?

Song Mengyuan thought about Xiao Jin's attitude, and felt a little helpless: the one who was hit was the original personality, and the other one didn't change, but he talked to me a little bit weirdly, and I'm very happy to be able to grab my sore feet.

Dr. Liang: She doesn't care about the requirements of her original personality, does she?

Song Mengyuan: No, she is also very concerned, but compared to the original one, she is still calm, maybe she has expected it in her heart.It seems impossible to get them to give up.

Dr. Liang: I think the original personality that was hit by you may still trust you, but is angry with you and doesn't want to come out to see you.

Song Mengyuan: What is the basis of the doctor's judgment?

Dr. Liang: It's very simple. You just need to remember one key point. In dissociative identity disorder, the postnatal personality often appears to protect the original personality.According to what you said before, they will regularly communicate and exchange information.After the original personality was hit by the epigenetic personality, her attitude towards you has not changed much, and she can express dissatisfaction truthfully, which shows that she still has full trust in you, and also shows that she judges that the damage to the original personality has not been serious enough to require her protection Otherwise, she should show a very obvious tendency to attack you.

Song Mengyuan came to a sudden, and translated Dr. Liang's words, that is, as long as Xiao Jin still pursues her, it means that Xiao Yi has not given up the idea of ​​getting back together with her.

She is worried again.

Why is Qi Ye so determined?She acted so badly that she still didn't stop.

Dr. Liang: If the other party will make that request that cannot be fulfilled in the future, you can only plan ahead and prepare them psychologically so that they will not be hit because they are too disappointed in you.However, this approach is also limited.If you keep laying the groundwork, but you can't make them really give up, their trust in you may gradually weaken, and finally lose their trust in you completely.

Song Mengyuan stared at what Dr. Liang said, speechless for a long time.

Dr. Liang: You haven't responded for a long time. Could it be that the request is related to the trust between you?

Song Mengyuan answered with difficulty: Yes.

Liang Jingyun was shocked, and suddenly had a question, what is the relationship between Song Mengyuan and the friend she was talking about?

She pondered and told herself intuitively that the relationship between the other party was definitely not ordinary.The patient does not have a good impression of his relatives, but he can still maintain a high degree of trust in his friends who have been separated for many years——

Dr. Liang: Your friend, is there any other trustworthy friends who can let the other party know about her condition?

Song Mengyuan: No, doctor, no one else knows about her condition except you, me and the expert who diagnosed her.

Liang Jingyun immediately confirmed that these two must have been lovers before!

She suddenly realized that Song Mengyuan used "she" to refer to her friends, and they were a same-sex couple.She vaguely guessed what the patient asked Song Mengyuan to ask, and suddenly felt troubled. Should she persuade the patient to accept the patient's request in order to cure the patient?

No wonder the opposite person was so hesitant, and the words were full of great doubts.

Liang Jingyun pondered for a long time, and sent a message to Song Mengyuan: You can think of a way to stop the parties from making the same request for the time being, and set a time limit and conditions for both parties, such as how long it takes and what conditions are met, before you can bring up the difficult-to-achieve requirements.Then you find a way to let her meet as many trustworthy people as possible during this period, open her heart, and establish a mutual trust relationship with enough people.That way, if she loses trust in you, there is someone else who can compensate for her emotional needs or help you ease the conflict.At least, even if she can't be cured for the rest of her life, her condition will not continue to deteriorate, and she will maintain a relatively stable mental state throughout her life, which may be the best result that the client can get.

Song Mengyuan carefully read this suggestion over and over again, and then sincerely thanked Dr. Liang, and asked her if she would like to come out to make an appointment for a meal if she had the opportunity.

Dr. Liang: Alright, let's find a place with strong confidentiality when we have time, and we can talk in depth.

Song Mengyuan took off her glasses and fell into deep thought. Dr. Liang's suggestion gave her a new way of thinking. If Qi Ye could establish an intimate relationship with others, would she be able to get out of it unscathed?

But this idea will definitely be vetoed by Qi Ye, if it is not done well, it may make Qi Ye angry, so it has to be concealed enough.

Another difficulty, where can I find someone who Qi Ye can look up to and whose character is guaranteed?Song Mengyuan preliminarily delineated two candidates in his mind, Yang Xuan and Pei Yuting, but both of them have shortcomings, and they still need to continue to investigate.Besides these two, is there any other suitable candidates?

Finally, how to make Qi Ye no longer ask for a reunion for a long period of time.

Either way, it's an extremely difficult task.Song Mengyuan felt that he was really like a great eunuch, who took care of the emperor's harem every day.Zhenggong's self-consciousness?She doesn't want it.

She habitually looked at Qi Ye's office, and was surprised for a while when she found that her boss was not there.She suddenly noticed that the glasses glowed slightly, which was a reminder of new information, and hurriedly put the glasses back on, only to find that the message was from Dr. Liang.

Dr. Liang: I almost forgot. Since your friend has been strongly stimulated and caused a personality switch on the spot, he may be mentally unstable and may need to take medicine. You’d better pay more attention, monitor the client’s taking medicine, and avoid taking medicine. addiction.

Dr. Liang: Considering that the patient has been diagnosed by a specialist before, maybe she has a ready-made list of medicines to be taken. You can compare it with the list I sent.

She then sent a list of medications for common mental illnesses.

Song Mengyuan thanked Dr. Liang, and took off his glasses again, wanting to cover his face very much.

At this time, there was a sound at the door, Song Mengyuan looked up, saw Qi Ye coming in through the automatic door, and looked at him with a questioning face, the black and blue eyes had not completely faded, which was particularly eye-catching.

Song Mengyuan had nothing to say: "Chairman, did you go to the bathroom just now?"

"No, they insisted on talking to me about work, and asked me to go to the site for inspection. There is nothing wrong with it." Qi Ye sat on the office chair, clicked the mouse to wake up the computer, and then clicked to shut it down, "Pack up your things later, it's time to get ready to get off work gone."

Song Mengyuan looked away, wondering whether Qi Ye would buy the medicine behind her back, where would he buy the medicine, whether he would buy the medicine himself, or ask his subordinates to help him buy it.

She thought about it, and felt that since Qi Ye did not let others know that she was suffering from a mental illness, the possibility of asking someone to help buy medicine was very low, but online shopping was very possible.So I went out and told the secretarial department that once there is a courier from the chairman, it should be delivered to her first, and she will check it in person before handing it over to the chairman.As for what speculation this order would cause, she couldn't care less.

That night, Qi Ye still didn't come to her.

Song Mengyuan waited until after two o'clock in the morning before going to bed. Before going to bed, she thought vaguely, this is absolutely impossible, Xiaoyi will give up the chance to get along with her?

Suddenly in the morning, the blue and black eyes of Qi Ye flashed through his mind like lightning, and Song Meng opened his eyes suddenly, thinking of a possibility.However, the drowsiness was so strong that he forced her into sleep.

In the morning of the next day, Song Mengyuan went to wake Qi Ye up, and sure enough, she saw that there was another cloud of black spots under her eyes. It seemed that she still didn't sleep well the night before.

Qi Ye obviously struggled to get out of bed in the morning, but he was full of energy. He insisted on it again and again, and added a few more meetings.

The whole company felt miserable that day, the chairman seemed to have forgotten the previous resolution, and asked to speed up the work progress in several meetings in a row, but he still had a very clear mind and no hindrance to his eloquence, so he suppressed all those who opposed it. You have to die.Among them are samples of military-grade glasses that Song Mengyuan has always wanted, and they will be released a week in advance.

This put pressure on many people, including Pei Yuting, who privately asked Song Mengyuan, "Did the chairman take the wrong medicine?"

Song Mengyuan's heart skipped a beat, and she forced a smile: "It may also be because she didn't take the medicine."

"You are really rude to the chairman." Pei Yuting smiled, and then said bitterly, "You see that the result is beneficial to you, so you don't say anything. What about the sisterhood that you agreed before?"

Song Mengyuan smiled apologetically and said, "Sister Pei, you can take more care of me. I'll see if I can let the chairman relax the conditions in two days."

She comforted many cadres of the company, and secretly consulted Dr. Liang, describing Qi Ye's state, and asked her if it had something to do with the previous blow.

It took Dr. Liang a while to give a judgment: She is in a state of hypomania, which is usually sudden and does not seem to have much impact on the surface. Instead, the person concerned will have more outstanding performance and be very optimistic in dealing with others. , the attitude is a bit aggressive.The condition progresses within a day or two to an overtly diagnosable state that often takes weeks to resolve.If, according to what you said before, the day before yesterday accidentally produced an opportunity for the person to get sick, and today happens to be the third day, the symptoms will be obvious.

Song Mengyuan choked up, remembering that Xiao Jin had just appeared the day before yesterday, so she suddenly caught the flaw in her language and won the next victory. It can be said that her thinking is not active, her attitude is not aggressive, and she is uncharacteristically, isn't it very consistent with the symptoms of hypomania?

Dr. Liang: However, I still have some doubts.You'd better find a way to get in touch with the original personality and observe her state.I dare not draw conclusions too early and affect your judgment.

These words made Song Mengyuan more and more uneasy. She remembered the knowledge she had found on the Internet that patients with dissociative identity disorder often suffer from other mental symptoms at the same time.

Could it be that Qi Ye is currently in a state of other mental illness attacks?