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Sometimes, habits are very scary things.

After getting used to a certain state of life, people will not have the courage to make changes, so although they occasionally feel dissatisfied with the status quo, they will often compromise and think: Actually, there is nothing wrong with it, is it?

Then make do with it, and it becomes a lifetime.

From a psychological point of view, there is a concept called "psychological safety zone".Everyone is active in their own psychological safety zone, which includes places, environments and interpersonal relationships. Once they realize that they are about to go beyond this range, it will make people feel uneasy.

And Zhen Fei's words, without a doubt, have touched Ou Qi's psychological safety zone.

In fact, the appearance of Zhen Fei already surpassed Ou Qi's psychological safety zone.Because she was supposed to be a two-dimensional character with a blurry face, suddenly she was airborne in three dimensions, and Ou Qi was very uncomfortable in those few days.

Now that she is still thinking about it, Ou Qi immediately frowned, "What do you mean by changing your life?" She paused, and solemnly said in a different tone than before, "I think the life now is pretty good. "

Surprisingly, Zhen Fei didn't go any further, but smiled and said, "Really? That's good."

Then continue to bury your head in eating.

On the contrary, Ou Qi himself was disturbed and absent-minded.

What did Zhen Fei mean by that sentence?Is it just a random question or does it have a purpose?What does she want to do?And why didn't you continue?

One question after another came out of her mind, and after being pushed down, Ou Qi became irritable again. It was like trying to align two things but being sorry when OCD attacked. An urge to flip the table.

The world is so beautiful, but I am so irritable, so bad, not good...

Ou Qi repeated Guo Furong's lines in his mind, and the food in his mouth became tasteless.

Just when she was finally about to turn her thoughts away, she suddenly heard Zhen Fei asking, "Want to watch a movie after dinner?"

Um?Hmmmm?

Ou Qi came back to his senses, stared at the phone in Zhen Fei's hand with wide eyes, his first reaction was not that Zhen Fei was tricking her, but - what the fuck did he say that he couldn't use the phone while eating?Have you eaten it yet?

But after taking a closer look, she found that Zhen Fei had already put down her chopsticks and bowl, obviously finished eating, and was playing with her mobile phone waiting for her.

Ou Qi hurriedly finished the rice in the bowl, then put the bowl down to pay the bill, and ordered two disposable lunch boxes, intending to pack the unfinished grilled fish and vegetables back.Only by being diligent and thrifty can you run a family, give yourself a thumbs up!

Taking advantage of the time when the waiter was packing, she asked Zhen Fei, "What movie do you want to watch?"

Anyway, going back is idle, and there are only two people around, so it is easy to fall into an inexplicable atmosphere, so it is better to go to the cinema to watch a movie.As soon as the lights are turned off and you are caught up in the love-hate relationship in the story, something in reality is far away.

I don't know if it was based on the same idea, Zhen Fei chose a blockbuster movie with a good plot, in the end Ou Qi didn't even eat much popcorn, and the movie was over.

The movie theater was not far from the place where Ou Qi was renting. The two of them walked home. When they went upstairs, Zhen Fei asked Ou Qi, "I remember that your article is about to finish? It's almost Chinese New Year, and the next step is to take a rest." Is it time?"

"It should be." Ou Qi said, "It seems that this is the only time in a year when you can rest confidently."

"Then what are your plans for the new year? Will your parents come back?" Zhen Fei asked again.

"I will definitely come back." Ou Qi replied.The previous question was omitted by her, because she seemed to have no plans or no plans.Chinese New Year is nothing more than visiting relatives and friends to eat and drink, accepting the review and torture of everyone, everyone is like this, no matter how tired they are, there is no way to get rid of it.

"Then, have you thought about going out to play during this time?" Zhen Fei said, "Nowadays, there are quite a few people who go out to travel during the holidays."

Ou Qi didn't know whether to laugh or cry, "My parents are away all year round, and it's rare for them to come back, so I ran out instead? Besides..."

"What more?"

"Besides... I don't know why, although there are many places I want to go, but after careful planning, I found it too troublesome, so I didn't bother to go." Ou Qi said, "What you said before makes sense. After getting used to a certain life, I'm afraid of changes, whether it's good or bad. Maybe... I don't have the energy I had when I was young?"

"Speaking as if you are very old." Zhen Fei laughed.

Ou Qi said, "But it's not too small."

"At first I wanted to invite you to my place as a guest, but if you say that, I won't be able to open my mouth." Zhen Fei smiled and said, "Forget it, I don't force you, just keep shrinking in your snail shell. "

Ou Qi felt that she might know everything.But the reason why Zhen Fei is Zhen Fei is because she keeps that pace and never makes people feel uncomfortable in getting along.

There was some silence for the rest of the night.Fortunately, when I returned to the rental room, it was almost ten o'clock. After washing up, it was time to go to bed.

Speaking of which, since Zhen Fei came here, Ou Qi's routine has become much more normal.In the past, it was completely random. When you were sleepy, you would wake up and wake up again. It was commonplace to turn day and night upside down. But if someone lives with you, you have to pay attention.It is conceivable that once Zhen Fei leaves, she will be cute again in a short time.

Early the next morning, Ou Qi sent Zhen Fei to the plane.After changing the ticket and queuing to board the plane, Zhen Fei suddenly said, "I haven't mentioned my impression of you yet, have I? Ou Qi, you are exactly as I imagined."

"You are similar to what I thought, it seems." Ou Qi replied.

"What does it look like?"

"It's just that the appearance is similar to what I thought, but the personality is not as good as I thought..." Ou Qi thought for a while before finding a suitable word to describe it, "Sharp."

For some reason, upon hearing these words, Zhen Fei's eyes instantly softened.

"When a person seeks life in society, it is inevitable that the edges and corners will be smoothed." She said, "Of course I am no exception."

At this moment, Ou Qi felt that there seemed to be countless stories hidden in Zhen Fei, waiting for someone to open and read them.

She restrained the impulse welling up in her heart, and thought calmly: That person shouldn't be me.A tome like Zhen Fei requires enough enthusiasm and love to keep reading, but she herself has long been accustomed to fast-food online novels, and doesn't have the patience to read them.If you give up after seeing half of it, it is better not to start.

This is the only tenderness that Ou Qi can give.