Face Blindness Observation Report

Mother Li originally wanted Ye Ming to come to the house.

But Father Li disagreed. He believed that if Ye Ming was allowed to enter the house, it would be equivalent to recognizing the relationship between him and Li Xiyuan, so Ye Ming must not be allowed to enter the house.

After some negotiation, the two parties agreed to meet in a tea room near the community after having lunch at noon.

At 12:30 noon, when Li Xiyuan followed his parents to the tea room, Ye Ming was already waiting there.

Li Xiyuan was afraid that Ye Ming would not recognize him, so he rushed into the box before his parents and reminded him, "Ye Ming, my parents are here."

Ye Ming quickly stood up and said hello to Father Li and Mother Li.

Li's mother was still worried, but she nodded to Ye Ming anyway; Li's father kept a straight face, said "um" coldly, and didn't even look at him.

Li Xiyuan was a little embarrassed, but Ye Ming always had a smile on his face and didn't mind Father Li's indifference.

After the two parties were seated, Mother Li said, "Your name is... Ye Ming, right?"

"Yes," Ye Ming said, "Auntie, you can call me Xiaoye."

"Xiaoye, how many people are in your family?"

Li Xiyuan didn't expect his mother to check the household registration as soon as he came up. He looked at Ye Ming with some worries, but Ye Ming replied calmly: "My mother died of illness when I was very young. My father was a war correspondent. I work outside all the year round and rarely go home, so... now I live alone at home."

"War reporter?" Li's mother and Li's father looked at each other, apparently unfamiliar with this profession.Li's mother asked, "Is it the kind of reporter who is very dangerous?"

"Yes, if you are unlucky, your life may be in danger." Ye Ming answered truthfully.

Mother Li said "Oh", and looked at Ye Ming with a hint of pity.

Li Xiyuan's heart skipped a beat. It's not a good thing for his mother to feel pity for Ye Ming at this time. They will not agree to hand over their son to the other party just because they sympathize with the other party. The fact is just the opposite. They will feel that the other party's family Unreliable, there is no way to give my son a stable living environment.

Ye Ming obviously understood this, so he added: "But because my father is away all the year round, I have very little contact with him, so after my mother passed away, I basically lived alone. After graduating from university, I never I haven’t touched the child support my father gave me, and I’m basically self-reliant.”

Mother Li said "Oh" again, and there was a hint of appreciation in her eyes.

At this moment, Father Li said, "What do you do for work?"

"Responsible for filming in the cultural column group of the TV station."

"Temporary establishment or official establishment?"

Ye Ming was taken aback for a moment, and said, "It's not officially established yet, and the official establishment of the TV station is limited..."

"I understand," Father Li raised his hand to stop him from continuing, "To put it bluntly, you are just working part-time at the TV station."

"Dad!" Li Xiyuan felt that Father Li's words were obviously snobbish.

Ye Ming calmed down, nodded and said: "Uncle is right, I am indeed a temporary worker at the moment."

Father Li asked again: "Are you going to continue to hang out on the TV station like this?"

Ye Ming was a little dumb, unable to deal with such aggressive questioning from Father Li.

Mother Li also said: "Xiaoye, temporary establishment is not a long-term solution, and it is not a long-term solution. You are still young, and you may think it is nothing, but in the future, can you guarantee that you will not encounter difficulties? Especially if you Wanting to be with Yuan Yuan, this kind of work can't make us feel at ease..."

Li Xiyuan couldn't help interrupting her: "Mom, what are you talking about? The standard for marrying a daughter? I'm also a man, and I will find a job by myself after graduation. Why do I have to pick and choose Ye Ming's job?" Four?"

"What's wrong with the criteria for marrying a daughter?" Father Li suddenly slapped the table, glared at Li Xiyuan, and his voice became louder, "It was you who said you wanted to be with this person, and it was you who made your parents feel that after so many years Raising a son is better than raising a daughter! Your mother and I have already let go of this old face, what else do you want?!"

Li Xiyuan choked suddenly, because he saw tears in his father's angry eyes.

"Dad..." Li Xiyuan's arrogance suddenly fell back, and his nose felt a little sore.

"Okay, his dad." Mother Li patted the back of Father Li's hand lightly, "It's like this, it's useless for you to get angry at Yuan Yuan, you have such a loud voice, be careful to attract everyone around you."

Only then did Father Li suppress his anger, let out a "hum", turned his face away and said nothing more.

Ye Ming quickly smoothed things over and said: "Uncle, Aunt, you are right, my job... is not very secure, for the sake of Xi Yuan, I will work hard..."

"Xiaoye, you misunderstood us." Mother Li sighed and interrupted him.

A trace of confusion flashed across Ye Ming's face: "Then... what does Auntie mean?"

"I hope you...can separate first, at least until Yuanyuan graduates from university, you don't want to be together, wait until he graduates from university and finds a job, then make a decision."

Li Xiyuan was taken aback, parents is this a plan to delay the attack?

Ye Ming obviously didn't expect the other party to make such a request, and his face turned pale: "I'm sorry, I don't understand..."

Mother Li sighed, and said slowly: "People in the period of passionate love always like to promise their whole life with the pledge of eternal love, but it turns out that once the relationship cools down, the promise will become vulnerable. What's more, Yuanyuan is still in college now. I haven’t graduated, and I’m not mature enough emotionally. Some things will inevitably be oversimplified or extreme. Therefore, I hope you can separate first, calm down for a while, and wait until Yuanyuan graduates from university and finds a job. Then you can think about it Is it still necessary to be together, is it still necessary to talk about the future."

"mom……"

"aunt……"

Li Xiyuan and Ye Ming spoke almost at the same time, but Li's mother raised her hand to signal them to listen to herself first: "You may not understand now, but after a few years, when you look back and think about it, you may understand our role as parents. Painful. I don't have to tear you apart, I just hope that you don't ruin your life by making wrong decisions on impulse.

"Of course, if you wait until then and you still insist that you love each other deeply and that you can live together, Xi Yuan's father and I have no position to stop you. And by that time, you will all be mature enough to have Ability is now responsible for its own decisions, so we will no longer interfere with you.

"But on the other hand, if you can't even bear the pain of separation, what qualifications do you have to talk about for the rest of your life, and what qualifications do you have to ensure that your feelings are consistent?"

Ye Ming and Li Xiyuan fell into a long silence when they heard this.

After a while, Ye Ming stood up with a pale face, and bowed deeply to Father Li and Mother Li: "Uncle, Aunt, I understand what you mean."

"Ye Ming?" Li Xiyuan stood up anxiously.

Seeing Ye Ming lowering his eyes, he continued: "I promise you, I will be separated from Xi Yuan for a period of time until he graduates from university and finds a job. And, during this time, I will work hard to change and improve myself , to prove to you that I am someone Xi Yuan can rely on."

The interview at noon this day was decided temporarily, so there was no time to inform Lin Xu.

Afterwards, Li Xiyuan called Lin Xu, and after briefly describing the whole process, Lin Xu sighed: "Actually, after I talked with your parents last night, I guessed that they would make such a decision. But Xi Yuan, you have to understand, they did this for your own good..."

"I know," Li Xiyuan's voice was very low, "It's already a huge compromise for parents to compromise to this extent, I should be content."

Lin Xu sighed and said, "Xi Yuan, I know you're having a hard time right now. If you want to cry, just cry. I think you've been very tense these days."

"I'm fine." Li Xiyuan sniffed and repeated, "Uncle Lin, I'm fine."

Lin Xu was silent for a moment, then sighed again: "Xi Yuan, actually after I went back last night, I've been thinking about you all the time, I... regret it a bit."

Li Xiyuan was stunned for a moment: "Uncle Lin, what's wrong?"

"I have always felt that I am a very successful psychological counselor. I have helped many children get out of the negative shadows in the process of growing up, but I didn't realize until yesterday that at least in terms of guiding you, I have actually failed. .”

Li Xiyuan gradually became nervous: "Uncle Lin, what do you mean, I can't understand..."

"Yesterday when you were analyzing your feelings, you seemed too calm and rational. This was a bit beyond my expectation. You made me feel that there is almost nothing I can do to help you on your life path, because you can do it yourself. Well done. But after I thought about it later, I felt that this is actually very abnormal. You are only in your 20s. You should return to the willfulness and publicity that you should have at your age, instead of criticizing every decision you make. Analyze and reason with precision."

Li Xiyuan was confused: "Uncle Lin, what I did...is it wrong?"

"No, you did a good job. It was me who... backfired." Li Xu paused and said guiltily, "So Xi Yuan, I hope you can be yourself again and don't restrict yourself too much. , Let yourself... live a more free and easy life, and be more straightforward, I believe you can handle this well. "

After finishing the phone call with Lin Xu, Li Xiyuan followed Ye Ming on the train for the return journey under the strict instructions of his parents.

Along the way, Li Xiyuan has been thinking about what Lin Xu said. He has accurately analyzed his own psychology for so many years, and he no longer knows what it is like to be free and easy and willful.

Now because of the interference of his parents, he and Ye Ming had to break up. He felt very depressed and wanted to cry. more sad.

"Xi Yuan," Ye Ming asked in a low voice after a long silence, "Do you think I'm useless?"

"How come?" Li Xiyuan shook his hand, intentionally making his voice not sound so depressed, "But I really didn't expect that you would compromise with them so easily. I'm already ready to fight with them Prepare for a protracted war.”

"After all, they are your parents, and they really care about you." Ye Ming smiled wryly, "And what they said is right, I am indeed not qualified to give you a lifetime of happiness."

"You... hey." Li Xiyuan sighed, "Actually, I don't care about this kind of thing, really, don't have too much psychological burden."

"I know you don't care, but I can't help it. I came out of society earlier and older than you. I have an obligation to protect your life."

Ye Ming said, and stretched out his little finger to Li Xiyuan: "Xiyuan, let's pull the hook. During the time we are apart, you can't transfer your love to another person. Of course, I can't transfer your love to another person. We have to Prove to your parents with practical actions that our love can stand the test of time."

Li Xiyuan pulled a smile from the corner of his mouth: "Okay, pull the hook."

When the two returned to Ye Ming's apartment, Li Xiyuan silently packed his things and put them in the suitcase one by one.

Ye Ming looked at him from the side, silent for a long time, and said, "Xi Yuan, after returning to school, take good care of yourself. If you need any help, just call me."

"En." Li Xiyuan lowered his head and answered.

He told himself over and over again that it was only a temporary separation, and there was no need to make it so sensational, but tears still filled his eyes unapologetically.

After packing up his things, he carried the box and walked to the door.He wanted to say "goodbye" to Ye Ming, but his throat was so choked that he couldn't speak.

Then, he felt Ye Ming pressing up from behind, leaning over his body, pressing him against the corner, and kissing his lips forcefully, as if he had suppressed a lot of sadness and grievance, and let it out all at once.

Li Xiyuan hugged Ye Ming tightly, and now he really felt that he liked Ye Ming so much, that he couldn't bear to be separated from him for a year and a half.

If time could be turned back, how he wished he could talk about love with Ye Ming again, talk about it seriously and with all his heart, without leaving any regrets.