trickster

After the annual leave, this is the first day of work for the nurse Xiao Zheng, because her colleague Xiao Wang is pushy, she originally thought that this room would be a particularly difficult patient, but after seeing the other person's face, she decided to focus on this room. No matter how hard it is to serve her, she can bear it.

In the end, after getting along for half a day, she almost fell in love with this man. This man named Chen Shen is humorous, polite, and has a gentle voice, and it seems that the other party is about to be discharged from the hospital. The whole person looks full of vitality. That beaming feeling even made her feel happy unconsciously.

It's a pity that the other party will be discharged from the hospital today. I don't understand why Xiao Wang doesn't want to come and take care of him. Could it be that he is obsessed and can't bear to see him off?

She likes this person's character very much, Xiao Zheng is depressed in her heart, but she knows in her heart that this person is too tall and unattainable for an ordinary her. With his character, she will boldly pursue him actively.

Although she had no other plans, she unconsciously confided in Chen Shen, and talked about her upcoming resignation and plan to change jobs, so she hurriedly finished her annual leave this year. which one to go to.

She was talking about the pros and cons of the two cities. The man listened quietly and was a very qualified listener. After she finished speaking, she looked at the man, thinking that the other party would either recommend a city like everyone else, or let her decided, but the other party gave an unexpected answer.

"It sounds like you feel that these two cities are difficult for you to choose."

Xiao Zheng nodded.

"Since it's all good things, it's better to provide yourself with a smaller range of choices than a larger range of choices." Chen Shen smiled.

"What do you mean?" Xiao Zheng was confused, she didn't expect Chen Shen to answer like this.

"For example, tell me about two of your favorite fruits."

"Watermelon and peaches." Nurse Xiao Zheng replied, she was very curious.

"If the post-meal fruit provided in the cafeteria today is watermelon or peach, you will feel very happy, but if you can only choose one from watermelon or peach, wouldn't you be so happy?"

Xiao Zheng was stunned for a moment, and it was indeed the truth. If the fruit was one of her favorites, she would feel happy, but if she could only choose one, she would indeed feel lost.

"A choice that cannot be reversed will actually make people more satisfied. Although it sounds unbelievable, because people will sacrifice a lot in order to have the right to go back, most people also think that they will be happier if they have more choices. But in fact, the theoretical data gives the opposite answer." Chen Shen smiled, "If I explain it again, when people can still choose, they will think about the pros and cons of the two options, and when people cannot choose, will focus attention on the good side of the only option."

"So my suggestion is that you choose one at random, and live as if you only have this option."

Xiao Zheng was stunned for a long time, and she found out that this was indeed the truth. She asked, "Did you study psychology?"

"Barely count." Chen Shen said with a smile.

"No wonder," Xiao Zheng nodded, "So you also do the same when you encounter difficulties."

"Yes."

"This principle is indeed very applicable," Xiao Zheng said, "but it doesn't apply to places, such as feelings."

"Why? According to experimental data and examples, it is also applicable to marriage and relationships."

"What I mean is, if you choose a partner in this way, according to what you said, you will indeed become more in love with her, but in case later, someone who makes your heart so excited that you are desperate appears, the original person will not be very happy. Is it pitiful?" Xiao Zheng frowned while pondering.

"Is that so?" Chen Shen said lightly, his tone didn't fluctuate, probably because he hadn't fully recovered, his voice was a little hoarse, "Would it be pitiful if it applies to feelings?"

This man seemed to have something in his words, he was clearly replying to her question, but he didn't seem to be, Xiao Zheng replied hesitantly: "I think so..."

Chen Shen was silent for a while, and then continued with the previous gentle tone: "Of course the situation you mentioned exists, but it is only a special case. This principle still applies to the vast majority of people with normal feelings. Don't forget that the premise is a favorable choice. Although disadvantages also apply, but the factors are complicated and difficult to understand."

Hearing this "person with a normal relationship" and "favorable choice", Xiao Zheng realized that the other party was making the conversation more rigorous by setting limits, but this was small talk, not an academic discussion. , and it is indeed what the other party said, but she used special cases to overthrow the general phenomenon. She said a little embarrassedly: "Sorry, I just said it casually."

The man was still about to say something, but at this time the person who picked him up from the hospital came, and the visit of others made Xiao Zheng realize that it was not appropriate to chat with the patient for so long, so she said hello and left in a hurry.