"You just said that he had a difficult life when he was a child. We don't know how difficult it is, but what we have to know is that no matter how heavy the words are, they are only an understatement compared with the facts. In my opinion, That kind of difficulty must be infinitely magnified, because he was a child who didn't even remember his parents, because he was so deeply and strongly grateful after being funded by Mr. Zhuang, and because...he never said the past It is human instinct to complain, but if you don't complain, it means that those sufferings have become a shadow, and you don't want to remember them at all."
"It is indeed difficult for such a person to enter an intimate relationship. He needs a sense of security, and then let go of his defenses, uncover the scars, and let the other party heal with himself. If any link is insufficient or wrong, he will immediately withdraw into the shell And if you shrink once, it will be more difficult to get out of the shell next time. Because he is very eager, cautious and sensitive, and has a low fault tolerance rate, which is number one."
"Secondly, Yan Lan must always be under an invisible and powerful pressure. If you think about it, since he was a child, from the time he remembers to the present, almost every day, he is either under the pressure of his distant relative, or Bearing the pressure from Mr. Zhuang and you..."
Zhuang Yunliu's expression changed, his lips moved, and the man raised his hand to signal him not to worry.
"Great malice and great kindness can become pressure. Every day, what he pretends in his mind is that I have done something wrong, that my relatives want to treat me like that, or that I am worthy of what others pay. There's a huge net hanging over his head like a shadow."
"Why does he keep working hard? Of course some of them want to work hard, but there must be some because they think that only by working hard can they fight against malice and return good intentions. Over the years, he has continuously hinted and strengthened Lao Zhuang's goodness, so that Mr. Zhuang will never refuse no matter what he says, don’t you think this kind of mentality is out of balance? But he may not realize it at all.”
Zhuang Yunliu frowned slightly.
The man added: "Another problem that comes with it is that he will feel that he has no self at all in his life. No matter what he does, he must first consider comparing himself with others. For example, he wants to marry you as Lao Zhuang always wanted, but If you don’t want to, you can’t get married. On the contrary, as long as you are willing, you don’t need to ask about his mood at the time; for example, you must propose a divorce, and he has no right to say no or express his emotions; even what he usually wears Clothes, where to eat, which house to live in, and what kind of entertainment you have are all up to you."
"Maybe you think you didn't force him, he can express himself, but in his opinion, it is not possible, because his life is given by you, in front of your dealers, he should not have any other than gratitude and obedience. A kind of emotion; maybe you will think that he has lost his temper, it is because people have limits, and it is only towards you. Believe it or not, if it is the old boss Zhuang, even if there are unreasonable demands, he will definitely not lose his temper. "
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
"But thinking about it the other way around, the reason why he can still lose his temper with you is probably because you are somewhat... a little different, which is what I said just now, he doesn't necessarily have no feelings for you, otherwise he will be more like a machine, Including after the divorce, his various reactions are quite big, his mood is unstable, and like you, he does things from time to time without thinking about the consequences, which are abnormal performances."
The man spread his hands like this.
"A stable love can lead to optimism, and an unstable crush can lead to chaos."
Zhuang Yunliu:! ! !
His heart was beating violently, but the man's face was not optimistic.
"But further, while he feels that you are different, at the same time, because of the previous thinking pattern, he thinks that he is not the same as you, and you are born in a position of control. Now that he finally has the opportunity to escape, of course he will escape. And you are very domineering and want to take him back, how could he be willing? On the contrary, Zhou Ming is different. They are friends in life and mutually beneficial in work. This kind of equal relationship is what he lacks the most. What makes him most comfortable."
Zhuang Yunliu panicked when he heard this: "Then, what should I do?"
The man looked contemptuous: "Mr. Zhuang, do you focus all your skills on making money?"
Zhuang Yunliu was taken aback.
The man laughed, and said again: "Sorry for being one-sided, your skill points are clearly focused on beating people."
Zhuang Yunliu:! ! !
He was so ashamed and angry that the man laughed twice and patted his arm to comfort him.
"Okay, let's get down to business. The purpose of analyzing so much just now is to let you prescribe the right medicine. No one likes untimely violence, and no one will refuse the tenderness from the heart. In Yanlan's situation, what you need most is the tenderness of your partner. Understanding, accompanying, persuading, and admiring him makes him feel that his surroundings are filled with love that will not leave or deteriorate, and his sense of security is full, and he will come out step by step."
"For example, when Lao Zhuang always forces you to eat with him, when you have to stay with him in a hot spring hotel, when you are arguing about such boring issues as whether you should do housework yourself, when... the second day of Valentine's Day When he woke up this morning, if you had just had a calm chat with him instead of throwing a fit, I think you'd be together by now."
"And after the divorce, you have done a lot of things, but why do you keep holding back the most important words?" The man looked puzzled, "I really didn't expect that you blocked people for so long tonight, and you didn't even have a word of like." Didn't say?"
"I said remarriage! I said it twice!" Zhuang Yunliu emphasized unwillingly.
The man rubbed his chin, "But judging from what happened then and recently, it looks like you became angry out of embarrassment, possessive and controlling."
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
"Really?" His tone was weak, and his heart was a little shaken.
The man nodded, "Maybe it's because you're used to being the boss, so you really won't lower your profile."
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
"Also, didn't you help him buy the music cooperation copyright? It's not easy, didn't you mention it?"
Zhuang Yunliu's face darkened, he took a breath, and said angrily, "I didn't care about it."
The man who was drinking choked hard.
As he coughed, Zhuang Yunliu felt regretful and helpless: "I've been really mad with anger recently! I'm completely irrational!"
"Understand, but you must control if you want to solve the problem."
"I know." Zhuang Yunliu nodded convincingly, solemnly, as if promising himself.
After saying too many serious words, the man felt that he had to adjust the atmosphere, so he laughed again.
"But the premise of all this is... in case, I said in case, in case Yan Lan and Zhou Ming are in love with each other and I would like each other, in case the child is really not yours, then you can regret it and change it , it’s all useless.”
When Zhuang Yunliu heard this, his eyes were dangerous for a moment, and he said very firmly: "Impossible, the child must be mine. Today... I touched his belly, obviously I didn't just conceive it! And I remembered that there were several times in the past. Once, he had an upset stomach and wanted to vomit. I thought it was a stomach problem. I, I'm so stupid! So stupid! As for him and Zhou Ming..."
Recently, he was almost driven crazy by this question.
He saw a lot of so-called evidence, recalled a lot of past events, and felt panic and shaken, but even so, there was still a strong voice in his heart that said it was impossible, it was impossible!
Not to mention that there is no real hammer, even if there is, he will think that they are pretending!
He slammed his wine glass heavily, gritted his teeth and said, "You don't have to assume, there is no such case!"
The man smiled, "Okay, as long as you have confidence. To be honest, I didn't expect you to be quite teachable."
Zhuang Yunliu turned his head: "What do you mean?"
The man spread his hands, "Who are you after all? The dignified Mr. Zhuang, the proud son of heaven, is used to asking for rewards and value from people and things. Only others are chasing after you. As you are now, you realize your problems and decide to change them. Very difficult."
"One moment and another, I have already suffered a great loss because of it. If I don't change it, I may lose it for the rest of my life."
"That's right." The man patted him on the shoulder with relief, "But don't worry, it's not just asking you to pay. It's really difficult to get in with Yan Lan's personality, but once you get in, he'll give you feedback. More."
Zhuang Yunliu recalled it subconsciously, and it seemed that... it was true.
For example, when he first got married, he only maintained his respect as a guest, but Yan Lan began to treat him well, and even approached him proactively.
Thinking of this, he regretted so much that his eye circles even turned a little red.
He took a sip of wine with his head down, wiped his face, and said sadly with sobs: "It doesn't matter, I... don't want him to return, I just hope that we won't... be like enemies anymore. I will It is indeed too impulsive and frizzy, will I, will I scare him? He is still pregnant with a child, and he doesn't know what is going on now... I don't know if he has gone home or slept. But I can't ask He, he will never talk to me."
"Then let me ask for you?" the man said casually.
Zhuang Yunliu's eyes lit up, and then he looked suspicious: "Why do you ask? You don't know him."
The man laughed confidently, shook his phone, and said the most powerful words in the most calm tone——
"I don't know him, but I think there are probably few people in this world who can refuse to chat with me."
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
Although very ordinary, I have to admit that what he said was quite right.
Looking at the man in front of him who was as proud as a peacock, Zhuang Yunliu suddenly realized a problem.
"Hey, you have never been in contact with Yan Lan, just listen to me for a while, how can you guarantee that your analysis is correct? Will it be self-defeating?"
He has been really confused lately, he seems to be in a hurry to go to the doctor, and he starts to believe no matter what anyone says.
The man burst out laughing, "Hey, Mr. Zhuang's shrewd mind is back?"
Zhuang Yunliu rolled his eyes at him again.
"What good does it do me to fool you?" The man raised his eyebrows indifferently, "You ask me what guarantee I can take, then I might as well tell you, I will use all the titles of actor since I entered the industry as guarantee. Mr. Zhuang, you are a businessman. What you study is how to make money, but I am an actor, and I study characters, motives and emotions. I even dare to say that Yan Lan’s understanding of himself may not be as thorough as I understand him. If you don’t believe me, go ahead Look."
Zhuang Yunliu frowned even deeper, "According to what you said, wouldn't you be invincible when you fall in love?"
"I don't want to be in a relationship." The man said bluntly, "But you know very well about my relationship."
In the bedroom, the thick curtains were tightly drawn, and the air-conditioner was blowing quietly. Yan Lan took off her make-up and took a shower, lying on her side under the soft quilt, unable to fall asleep for a long time.
The body is very tired, the limbs are sore, and the occasional nudge in the stomach always reminds him to be a father and to be responsible.
Not long ago, Zhou Ming confessed to him, and he was on the verge of agreeing once.
At the critical moment, the little guy tapped lightly in his stomach, and he suddenly realized that even if he really wanted to start a new relationship, now is not a good time, not to mention that he has been emotional all night and shouldn't make important decisions.
This is responsible for Zhou Ming.
Zhou Ming has always been very kind to him, and he can't hurt the other party because of his willfulness.
but……
Just now, Zhou Ming was used as a shield in front of Zhuang Yunliu, and Zhou Ming took Zhuang Yunliu's extremely humiliating punch for him, and he really couldn't... ruthlessly refuse.
So he told Zhou Ming that he knew it, but now is not the time to discuss this issue. He hoped that he had never heard of this sentence, and that Zhou Ming could act as if he hadn't said it yet, and think about it carefully.
Instead of directly refusing, Zhou Ming was naturally happy.
It seemed that because of this result, it was worth being punched by Zhuang Yunliu.
He laughed for the first time tonight, and nodded vigorously to Yan Lan, because in his opinion, this meant that he had broken through the clear line and entered the category of "requiring careful consideration", which meant that he could formally launched a pursuit.
Therefore, I have the motivation to cooperate with the healing.
Such vivid changes and joyful reactions moved Yan Lan.
Someone instantly turned from sadness to joy because of his words, and he couldn't help feeling that he...
How can He De He Neng?
He can't help but feel...
It is really time to calm down and seriously reconsider the future.
Turning over, he curled up under the quilt harder, a small beam of light suddenly lit up in the dark room, and the cell phone next to his head rang.
It is an information prompt.
this late……
Zhuang Yunliu?
I really don't allow myself to be at peace for a minute or a second.
Reluctantly closing her eyes, and letting out a deep breath, Yan Lan turned over, turned the phone up with one finger, and looked at it, stunned.
It's not Zhuang Yunliu, but a friend request——
[Hi, I'm Zhang Yinan, you bumped into me just now. ]
Yanlan:? ? ?
Different from the usual question marks, these three question marks are floating brightly in the air now, and the font size is huge and each is bolded.
how to say?
This is simply a fraudulent template, similar to the kind of "I, Qin Shihuang, pay money", and even looking at it is an insult to one's IQ.
Yan Lan directly buckled the phone.
He must hurry to sleep now.
After all, he had worked hard all day, had an emotional breakdown, and endured it for so long. His pregnant body couldn't take it anymore. His consciousness gradually became hazy, and when he almost fell asleep, those words rushed into his mind again. ——
[You bumped into me just now. ]
wrong.
In the darkness, Yan Lan regained consciousness and opened her eyes again.
"It is indeed difficult for such a person to enter an intimate relationship. He needs a sense of security, and then let go of his defenses, uncover the scars, and let the other party heal with himself. If any link is insufficient or wrong, he will immediately withdraw into the shell And if you shrink once, it will be more difficult to get out of the shell next time. Because he is very eager, cautious and sensitive, and has a low fault tolerance rate, which is number one."
"Secondly, Yan Lan must always be under an invisible and powerful pressure. If you think about it, since he was a child, from the time he remembers to the present, almost every day, he is either under the pressure of his distant relative, or Bearing the pressure from Mr. Zhuang and you..."
Zhuang Yunliu's expression changed, his lips moved, and the man raised his hand to signal him not to worry.
"Great malice and great kindness can become pressure. Every day, what he pretends in his mind is that I have done something wrong, that my relatives want to treat me like that, or that I am worthy of what others pay. There's a huge net hanging over his head like a shadow."
"Why does he keep working hard? Of course some of them want to work hard, but there must be some because they think that only by working hard can they fight against malice and return good intentions. Over the years, he has continuously hinted and strengthened Lao Zhuang's goodness, so that Mr. Zhuang will never refuse no matter what he says, don’t you think this kind of mentality is out of balance? But he may not realize it at all.”
Zhuang Yunliu frowned slightly.
The man added: "Another problem that comes with it is that he will feel that he has no self at all in his life. No matter what he does, he must first consider comparing himself with others. For example, he wants to marry you as Lao Zhuang always wanted, but If you don’t want to, you can’t get married. On the contrary, as long as you are willing, you don’t need to ask about his mood at the time; for example, you must propose a divorce, and he has no right to say no or express his emotions; even what he usually wears Clothes, where to eat, which house to live in, and what kind of entertainment you have are all up to you."
"Maybe you think you didn't force him, he can express himself, but in his opinion, it is not possible, because his life is given by you, in front of your dealers, he should not have any other than gratitude and obedience. A kind of emotion; maybe you will think that he has lost his temper, it is because people have limits, and it is only towards you. Believe it or not, if it is the old boss Zhuang, even if there are unreasonable demands, he will definitely not lose his temper. "
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
"But thinking about it the other way around, the reason why he can still lose his temper with you is probably because you are somewhat... a little different, which is what I said just now, he doesn't necessarily have no feelings for you, otherwise he will be more like a machine, Including after the divorce, his various reactions are quite big, his mood is unstable, and like you, he does things from time to time without thinking about the consequences, which are abnormal performances."
The man spread his hands like this.
"A stable love can lead to optimism, and an unstable crush can lead to chaos."
Zhuang Yunliu:! ! !
His heart was beating violently, but the man's face was not optimistic.
"But further, while he feels that you are different, at the same time, because of the previous thinking pattern, he thinks that he is not the same as you, and you are born in a position of control. Now that he finally has the opportunity to escape, of course he will escape. And you are very domineering and want to take him back, how could he be willing? On the contrary, Zhou Ming is different. They are friends in life and mutually beneficial in work. This kind of equal relationship is what he lacks the most. What makes him most comfortable."
Zhuang Yunliu panicked when he heard this: "Then, what should I do?"
The man looked contemptuous: "Mr. Zhuang, do you focus all your skills on making money?"
Zhuang Yunliu was taken aback.
The man laughed, and said again: "Sorry for being one-sided, your skill points are clearly focused on beating people."
Zhuang Yunliu:! ! !
He was so ashamed and angry that the man laughed twice and patted his arm to comfort him.
"Okay, let's get down to business. The purpose of analyzing so much just now is to let you prescribe the right medicine. No one likes untimely violence, and no one will refuse the tenderness from the heart. In Yanlan's situation, what you need most is the tenderness of your partner. Understanding, accompanying, persuading, and admiring him makes him feel that his surroundings are filled with love that will not leave or deteriorate, and his sense of security is full, and he will come out step by step."
"For example, when Lao Zhuang always forces you to eat with him, when you have to stay with him in a hot spring hotel, when you are arguing about such boring issues as whether you should do housework yourself, when... the second day of Valentine's Day When he woke up this morning, if you had just had a calm chat with him instead of throwing a fit, I think you'd be together by now."
"And after the divorce, you have done a lot of things, but why do you keep holding back the most important words?" The man looked puzzled, "I really didn't expect that you blocked people for so long tonight, and you didn't even have a word of like." Didn't say?"
"I said remarriage! I said it twice!" Zhuang Yunliu emphasized unwillingly.
The man rubbed his chin, "But judging from what happened then and recently, it looks like you became angry out of embarrassment, possessive and controlling."
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
"Really?" His tone was weak, and his heart was a little shaken.
The man nodded, "Maybe it's because you're used to being the boss, so you really won't lower your profile."
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
"Also, didn't you help him buy the music cooperation copyright? It's not easy, didn't you mention it?"
Zhuang Yunliu's face darkened, he took a breath, and said angrily, "I didn't care about it."
The man who was drinking choked hard.
As he coughed, Zhuang Yunliu felt regretful and helpless: "I've been really mad with anger recently! I'm completely irrational!"
"Understand, but you must control if you want to solve the problem."
"I know." Zhuang Yunliu nodded convincingly, solemnly, as if promising himself.
After saying too many serious words, the man felt that he had to adjust the atmosphere, so he laughed again.
"But the premise of all this is... in case, I said in case, in case Yan Lan and Zhou Ming are in love with each other and I would like each other, in case the child is really not yours, then you can regret it and change it , it’s all useless.”
When Zhuang Yunliu heard this, his eyes were dangerous for a moment, and he said very firmly: "Impossible, the child must be mine. Today... I touched his belly, obviously I didn't just conceive it! And I remembered that there were several times in the past. Once, he had an upset stomach and wanted to vomit. I thought it was a stomach problem. I, I'm so stupid! So stupid! As for him and Zhou Ming..."
Recently, he was almost driven crazy by this question.
He saw a lot of so-called evidence, recalled a lot of past events, and felt panic and shaken, but even so, there was still a strong voice in his heart that said it was impossible, it was impossible!
Not to mention that there is no real hammer, even if there is, he will think that they are pretending!
He slammed his wine glass heavily, gritted his teeth and said, "You don't have to assume, there is no such case!"
The man smiled, "Okay, as long as you have confidence. To be honest, I didn't expect you to be quite teachable."
Zhuang Yunliu turned his head: "What do you mean?"
The man spread his hands, "Who are you after all? The dignified Mr. Zhuang, the proud son of heaven, is used to asking for rewards and value from people and things. Only others are chasing after you. As you are now, you realize your problems and decide to change them. Very difficult."
"One moment and another, I have already suffered a great loss because of it. If I don't change it, I may lose it for the rest of my life."
"That's right." The man patted him on the shoulder with relief, "But don't worry, it's not just asking you to pay. It's really difficult to get in with Yan Lan's personality, but once you get in, he'll give you feedback. More."
Zhuang Yunliu recalled it subconsciously, and it seemed that... it was true.
For example, when he first got married, he only maintained his respect as a guest, but Yan Lan began to treat him well, and even approached him proactively.
Thinking of this, he regretted so much that his eye circles even turned a little red.
He took a sip of wine with his head down, wiped his face, and said sadly with sobs: "It doesn't matter, I... don't want him to return, I just hope that we won't... be like enemies anymore. I will It is indeed too impulsive and frizzy, will I, will I scare him? He is still pregnant with a child, and he doesn't know what is going on now... I don't know if he has gone home or slept. But I can't ask He, he will never talk to me."
"Then let me ask for you?" the man said casually.
Zhuang Yunliu's eyes lit up, and then he looked suspicious: "Why do you ask? You don't know him."
The man laughed confidently, shook his phone, and said the most powerful words in the most calm tone——
"I don't know him, but I think there are probably few people in this world who can refuse to chat with me."
Zhuang Yunliu: ...
Although very ordinary, I have to admit that what he said was quite right.
Looking at the man in front of him who was as proud as a peacock, Zhuang Yunliu suddenly realized a problem.
"Hey, you have never been in contact with Yan Lan, just listen to me for a while, how can you guarantee that your analysis is correct? Will it be self-defeating?"
He has been really confused lately, he seems to be in a hurry to go to the doctor, and he starts to believe no matter what anyone says.
The man burst out laughing, "Hey, Mr. Zhuang's shrewd mind is back?"
Zhuang Yunliu rolled his eyes at him again.
"What good does it do me to fool you?" The man raised his eyebrows indifferently, "You ask me what guarantee I can take, then I might as well tell you, I will use all the titles of actor since I entered the industry as guarantee. Mr. Zhuang, you are a businessman. What you study is how to make money, but I am an actor, and I study characters, motives and emotions. I even dare to say that Yan Lan’s understanding of himself may not be as thorough as I understand him. If you don’t believe me, go ahead Look."
Zhuang Yunliu frowned even deeper, "According to what you said, wouldn't you be invincible when you fall in love?"
"I don't want to be in a relationship." The man said bluntly, "But you know very well about my relationship."
In the bedroom, the thick curtains were tightly drawn, and the air-conditioner was blowing quietly. Yan Lan took off her make-up and took a shower, lying on her side under the soft quilt, unable to fall asleep for a long time.
The body is very tired, the limbs are sore, and the occasional nudge in the stomach always reminds him to be a father and to be responsible.
Not long ago, Zhou Ming confessed to him, and he was on the verge of agreeing once.
At the critical moment, the little guy tapped lightly in his stomach, and he suddenly realized that even if he really wanted to start a new relationship, now is not a good time, not to mention that he has been emotional all night and shouldn't make important decisions.
This is responsible for Zhou Ming.
Zhou Ming has always been very kind to him, and he can't hurt the other party because of his willfulness.
but……
Just now, Zhou Ming was used as a shield in front of Zhuang Yunliu, and Zhou Ming took Zhuang Yunliu's extremely humiliating punch for him, and he really couldn't... ruthlessly refuse.
So he told Zhou Ming that he knew it, but now is not the time to discuss this issue. He hoped that he had never heard of this sentence, and that Zhou Ming could act as if he hadn't said it yet, and think about it carefully.
Instead of directly refusing, Zhou Ming was naturally happy.
It seemed that because of this result, it was worth being punched by Zhuang Yunliu.
He laughed for the first time tonight, and nodded vigorously to Yan Lan, because in his opinion, this meant that he had broken through the clear line and entered the category of "requiring careful consideration", which meant that he could formally launched a pursuit.
Therefore, I have the motivation to cooperate with the healing.
Such vivid changes and joyful reactions moved Yan Lan.
Someone instantly turned from sadness to joy because of his words, and he couldn't help feeling that he...
How can He De He Neng?
He can't help but feel...
It is really time to calm down and seriously reconsider the future.
Turning over, he curled up under the quilt harder, a small beam of light suddenly lit up in the dark room, and the cell phone next to his head rang.
It is an information prompt.
this late……
Zhuang Yunliu?
I really don't allow myself to be at peace for a minute or a second.
Reluctantly closing her eyes, and letting out a deep breath, Yan Lan turned over, turned the phone up with one finger, and looked at it, stunned.
It's not Zhuang Yunliu, but a friend request——
[Hi, I'm Zhang Yinan, you bumped into me just now. ]
Yanlan:? ? ?
Different from the usual question marks, these three question marks are floating brightly in the air now, and the font size is huge and each is bolded.
how to say?
This is simply a fraudulent template, similar to the kind of "I, Qin Shihuang, pay money", and even looking at it is an insult to one's IQ.
Yan Lan directly buckled the phone.
He must hurry to sleep now.
After all, he had worked hard all day, had an emotional breakdown, and endured it for so long. His pregnant body couldn't take it anymore. His consciousness gradually became hazy, and when he almost fell asleep, those words rushed into his mind again. ——
[You bumped into me just now. ]
wrong.
In the darkness, Yan Lan regained consciousness and opened her eyes again.
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