My brother became a playboy

When we got our marriage certificate, it wasn't particularly sweet.

At that time, my relationship with Zhao Xing had problems. If Zhao Xing hadn't proposed an open marriage plan, we would have broken up with a high probability.

We both had an affair, and our lives were a bit chaotic, but we were trying our best to find a more suitable mode of getting along with us. In this stumbling situation, the parents pushed us to get a marriage certificate. To be honest, I don’t So happy.

I wanted to refuse, and I also wanted to delay, but in the end I got the certificate because Zhao Xing really wanted to get the certificate with me.

In his words, it is: "Cui Minglang, if we don't get married, who else can we marry?"

His words successfully convinced me, and I thought, yes, in this world, Cui Minglang and Zhao Xing see each other right, even if there is a problem with their relationship, it is just "less love", not " don't love".

We love each other, of course we can get married.

With the help of Zhao Xing, my logic chain was smoothed out, so I reluctantly accepted Zhao Xing's invitation to obtain a certificate.

We found an ordinary afternoon and entered the lobby of the Civil Affairs Bureau. When we took pictures, the photographer frowned at us and said directly: "Why did you just come here with a white coat and a white vest, and there are clothes rentals nearby. place, change it quickly.”

Zhao Xing and I were so blushed by the photographer's words that we temporarily called the assistant to bring over two suits. After changing our clothes, we sat on the seats for the wedding photos again, listening to the photographer shout "three" , "Two", and "One" showed barely visible smiles.

After taking a photo of the certificate, Zhao Xing and I received two red books, and I directly stuffed the marriage certificate into Zhao Xing's arms, and said casually, "You just need to keep it."

Zhao Xing stuffed the marriage certificate into his handbag and clenched the handbag tightly.

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"Have you brought your marriage certificate?" Zhao Xing and I entered the office hall holding hands.

"Bring it." Zhao Xing raised the handbag in his other hand to me, "it's still this bag."

The Civil Affairs Bureau can handle marriages from Monday to Friday, but divorces can only be made on Mondays or Thursdays. You can make an appointment online or pick up a number on the spot.

I swiped the machine with my ID card, took a number on the spot, and found that there were three more people in front of me, so I handed the number to Zhao Xing and said, "Look at the dot number."

Zhao Xing clutched the note, as if he wanted to pass it to his subordinates, but after hesitating for a moment, he still held it in his hand.

I saw that his hands were tightly clenched, and I couldn't help reminding him: "Don't squeeze it."

Zhao Xing looked at me coldly, but didn't say anything - he didn't want to quarrel with me anymore.

Although there were only three people in front, the queue time was very long. After two hours, Zhao Xing and I were called.

The people we brought wanted to follow, but the staff directly refused. He said: "Husband and wife go in, and the others are waiting outside."

The place where the divorce is handled is not in the office hall, but in a separate office. Zhao Xing and I entered the door and found a middle-aged man and a middle-aged lady sitting inside, and their facial features were somewhat similar—or Be siblings, or husband and wife.

"It's not easy for same-sex couples to get married. After four years, why do we have to get a divorce?" The woman spoke first, but her tone was very gentle, like a casual chat of a neighbor's elder sister.

"When the relationship fades, we will get divorced." Zhao Xingxing is very used to this kind of occasion, so he answered the sentence familiarly.

"Divorce when the relationship fades?" The woman shook her head and said, "How many couples can stay in love forever? You two came in holding hands. There is still a foundation of relationship."

When the woman said this, I actually wanted to let go, but Zhao Xingxing held my hand tightly, and I just let him go.

"Do we need to fill out any forms for divorce?" Zhao Xing continued to ask, "We still have something to do in the afternoon, can we finish the formalities in the morning?"

This time it was a middle-aged man who spoke, and he said, "It can't be done."

"Why can't it be finished?" I couldn't help asking.

"Today I want to talk first, find out what's wrong with your marriage, and give some suggestions," the man said slowly, but his thoughts are still clear, "If you don't change your mind after a month, you can fill out the divorce application table."

"Then we can get a divorce?" Zhao Xing's words were filled with inexplicable anger.

"It's just an application, and there's still a three-month cooling-off period." The woman shook her head, looking at us as disobedient juniors, "The cooling-off period is up, come again."

"Then we can get a divorce this time?" I asked, but I already knew that there was a high probability that I couldn't.

"We need to mediate again, solicit the opinions of your parents and friends."

The woman replied in a deep voice.

"No, it's so hard to get a divorce?" Zhao Xing was also a little speechless, "We need to consult a bunch of people for our divorce? Then can you tell me how long it will be the fastest, and is it feasible to sue for divorce?"

"If you agree to the divorce after soliciting opinions, you can report to the higher authorities for approval. The review cycle is usually about 45 working days." The man took the conversation again and began to answer, "If you go this way, you can get divorced in six months at the earliest. If you take the litigation route, you must first determine whether there is a clear domestic violence between you. The litigation period for non-domestic violence must be at least one year. You are also unlucky. The new trial regulations that have just been released recently are three months earlier. If you want to get a divorce, there are not so many regulations."

——Three months earlier, I haven't made up my mind to divorce Zhao Xing yet.

Due to the constraints of objective conditions, we have no choice but to sit down and accept the mediation of these two middle-aged people in turn.Although Zhao Xing and I played wildly enough, we still need face. No one can say anything about cheating and messing around. We can only repeatedly emphasize that "the relationship has faded" and "there is no passion", but our words are really euphemistic. The mediator kept looking at us with "you really shouldn't get a divorce".

In the end, it took three hours. Zhao Xing and I were stuffed with a popular science book "How to Manage a Marriage", and we couldn't even fill in a single form.