Rebirth of Okuki Kofuro
Chapter 165 Reflection
Mrs. Zhuang's words surprised Liang's father, but after turning these thoughts in his mind twice, he roughly understood what his wife was thinking, and couldn't help feeling a little emotional.
Doing business all the year round, Father Liang knew a lot of people. Some people looked at the scenery outside, but the back house was a mess.
The conflicts between wives and concubines are almost irreconcilable. They originate from men, sons, and family property. In a sense, their positions are opposite. However, the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and husband-in-law are not so simple, and the causes are complicated. The results were mixed.
The first thing to bear the brunt is the power of the housekeeper. There are many things in the back house, involving all aspects, no matter whether it is a rich family or a poor family, they may get bloody because of petty gains.
In addition, there are other things. For example, mothers-in-law and mother-in-law feel that they should be the most caring and filial person for their son when they raise their son, while daughter-in-law and husband-in-law feel that they should be protected by men when they marry a man.
Another example is that the mother-in-law and mother-in-law have been worrying about their son for many years. Suddenly, the son has a daughter-in-law and husband. Meddle in the affairs of your own room.
Also, whether it is a woman or a brother, most of them are confined to the back house after they get married. They spend their whole life for the man in the family. The first choice for venting anger.
……
There are a lot of people crowded in the small back house. It is almost impossible to have a bowl of water. Naturally, there are many frictions between people. But it's just that there will be trouble.
The Liang family didn't have these conflicts back then, because when the Zhuang family married in, they didn't even have a mother-in-law, not even a sister-in-law. Later, there was only one son in the family, and there were no conflicts in the children's generation. The family was naturally harmonious, and the husband and wife were united. Think about it, use your energy to one place, and save your current family business.
Later, there was an extra son-in-law in the family. Father Liang was a man with a less delicate mind. Seeing that his wife and son-in-law got along well, he never thought that Mrs. Zhuang would have such troubles.
Seeing what Liang's father wanted to say, Mrs. Zhuang raised her hand to cover his mouth, and continued: "The change of thinking about Kang Sheng and Brother Yi made me consider Qingze and the others."
Thinking of Zhuang Qingze?Father Liang frowned. He knew that Zhuang Qingze was responsible for Qu Yi's marriage. He was in a coma at the time, and there were probably many inside stories that his wife didn't know. Did she think of something when she mentioned it now?
Zhuang's expression was blank for a moment, and he said in a low voice: "I was thinking just now that Kang Sheng is my son. When he grows up, I want to let them live alone. I don't want my younger brother." Too much?"
She didn't know if what she was thinking was right. Liang Kang gave birth to a son in her life, so she naturally thought of him wholeheartedly. The situation with her younger brother was much more complicated. When her parents left, she entrusted her younger brother to her. Occupying the title of elder sister, but most of the time she takes care of her younger brother no less than her son.
All of a sudden, she had so many thoughts because a lady said to her today when she was chatting with her, "a loving mother often loses her children". The lady was talking about another family in Yang'an County. Give money when things happen, and in the end the son lost all the money in the family.
After telling the story of that family, the lady even praised the Zhuang family, saying that she envied the Zhuang family's ability to teach their children well. Not to mention the success of the son, the life of the younger brother's family is also booming.
In fact, Mrs. Zhuang felt that she hadn't disciplined her son very much, and that his health was not good, so she couldn't even bear to say a harsh word. It was all because of his own understanding that he had today's achievements.
Relatively speaking, "the life of my younger brother's family is booming." She didn't feel it at all. Ever since her younger brother's family moved to Yang'an County, her younger brother always told her that the money was not enough, and she also subsidized them as much as possible. enough for their family to live on.
Now that his nephew is in his teens, Mrs. Zhuang thinks carefully, if it is really like what his younger brother said, without his own subsidy, wouldn't he be unable to support his family? The pillar of the family!
At that time, Mrs. Zhuang had to entertain guests during the day, and when the guests left, her mind was still thinking about what happened during the day, thinking that her younger brother and sister-in-law brought the Zhao family's niece to the house, and almost caused a scandal. She was suddenly very worried about the future. Will my younger brother accomplish nothing like the son of that family, or even accomplish less than fail.
She didn't just think about these things, when she thought of Zhao Wan'er, she thought of Zhao Hongmei, and further thought of when she was a child, although she had no mother-in-law after marriage, she had seen her mother and grandma, aunt, aunt, and aunt get along with them when she was young.
Mrs. Zhuang can clearly recall that her mother was scolded by her grandma and hid her tears. The girl went back to her house and picked and picked her mother, which made her feel very uncomfortable, but her mother did not complain and quarrel, at most she cried in private and continued to work.
This made Mrs. Zhuang suddenly think that she didn't criticize Qu Yi too much because she felt ashamed because of Chongxi, but would she talk too much because she was worried about their husband and wife, just like when her aunt came back to talk about her mother?
I still remember that when I first left the Zhuang clan, my younger brother often brought his younger siblings to the house. Later, the younger siblings gradually came less and less. In hindsight, many things were wrong.
Mrs. Zhuang didn't think of her younger brother and younger siblings in a bad way, she was just reflecting on her own mistakes, wondering whether she should try her best to restrain herself from asking and caring less in the future, but considering what her parents entrusted to her, it was very difficult for her to treat her younger brother As easy as it is for my son.
After all, even if Liang Kangsheng achieves nothing in his life, as long as Liang Kangsheng lives happily and healthily, the Zhuang family will be satisfied. If his son achieves success, then she will be happy and proud of him.
But if the younger brother can't do anything, and can't even support the family, how will she face her parents in the future? The younger brother is a special responsibility for the Zhuang family.
Just now, Mrs. Zhuang suddenly cried like that because she had so many emotions gathered in her heart, she missed her parents, felt guilty for not taking good care of her younger brother, and felt ashamed of using the Liang family's money to support her younger brother. There is frustration about not doing a good job, and there is also a little grievance hidden in the depths.
The Liang family had no elders to teach her, and the Zhuang family had no contact with them for many years and no elders could enlighten her. The pressure accumulated over the years made her emotionally out of control.
Father Liang listened to Mrs. Zhuang's rambling and talking about her troubles, and couldn't help curling the corners of her lips while feeling distressed. Although she would think that these were inseparable from what the lady said today, but more importantly, he It has something to do with the words that are whispered in her ear from time to time after knowing something.
Knowing his wife's temperament, Liang's father never thought of telling her about the bad things that Zhuang Qingze did. Speaking directly might make his wife feel disappointed and angry with her brother for a while, but after a long time, she might soften her heart towards Zhuang Qingze again.
It's better to let them drift apart slowly like now. If the relationship fades, there will be no soft-heartedness. Even if she knows what Zhuang Qingze has done, she won't be very sad.
Since it was their excessive care that made Zhuang Qingze think that he shouldn't, father Liang made his wife realize that not taking too much care is "good" for Zhuang Qingze.
Look, this is already effective, and she began to wonder whether she should continue to subsidize her brother.
"Qingrong, I have always remembered the care my father-in-law and mother-in-law took for me back then, so I have always taken care of Qingze as my younger brother. I hope he will live well just like you." Father Liang said without changing his expression, He really thought so before, but as for now, he just knows it in his heart, there is no need to say it out.
"What you said today reminded me of a sentence, it's not about helping the poor." Liang's father paused, "To be honest, our Liang family is small, and we earn enough money. It's no problem to support Qingze and the others all the time. Yes, I don't mind, but I didn't expect that this would make him lose his ambition, it's me, the brother-in-law, who didn't think carefully."
Listening to Father Liang's words, Zhuang's thinking became more and more clear. She always blamed herself for not doing what she should do, but she didn't think that Xianggong did anything wrong.
Back then, the natal family was indeed helpful to the Liang family, but after so many years, Xianggong has taken good care of his younger brother, and he can treat his younger brothers like this. He never minded using money to subsidize them.
"Xianggong..." Zhuang looked at this man who loved her for ten years, his worries were diluted by happiness, and his heart was full, as if there was nothing he couldn't solve with his presence.
"Qing Rong, would you like to hear my thoughts?" Father Liang surrounded Zhuang's and looked at her seriously.
After Mrs. Zhuang nodded, Father Liang said: "Actually, judging from the current situation of our family, it is not impossible to continue to treat Qingze and the others as before. We are sisters and brother-in-laws, and it is only natural to take care of my younger brother."
"It's just that Qingze seems to have realized that it's not good before, otherwise he wouldn't suddenly want to talk about doing other business. It may be that Qingze is not good at selling bars. After so many years, he has not improved in selling wine. The fabric business he went out to do last time seemed to be pretty good, at least a new way is considered a profit if it doesn’t lose money at the beginning, which shows that he has talent.”
"Now that Qingze is still young, he has time to start his own business from scratch. The two nephews are now in a critical period of growth. Qingze can also set an example for them."
It is impossible for Liang's father to continue to spend money to raise Zhuang Qingze, a white-eyed wolf. Although he seems to have given Zhuang Shi a choice in his words, she can continue to subsidize her younger brother unprincipled, but as long as Zhuang Shi still has expectations and a sense of responsibility for Zhuang Qingze, she will not will do that.
Doing business all the year round, Father Liang knew a lot of people. Some people looked at the scenery outside, but the back house was a mess.
The conflicts between wives and concubines are almost irreconcilable. They originate from men, sons, and family property. In a sense, their positions are opposite. However, the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and husband-in-law are not so simple, and the causes are complicated. The results were mixed.
The first thing to bear the brunt is the power of the housekeeper. There are many things in the back house, involving all aspects, no matter whether it is a rich family or a poor family, they may get bloody because of petty gains.
In addition, there are other things. For example, mothers-in-law and mother-in-law feel that they should be the most caring and filial person for their son when they raise their son, while daughter-in-law and husband-in-law feel that they should be protected by men when they marry a man.
Another example is that the mother-in-law and mother-in-law have been worrying about their son for many years. Suddenly, the son has a daughter-in-law and husband. Meddle in the affairs of your own room.
Also, whether it is a woman or a brother, most of them are confined to the back house after they get married. They spend their whole life for the man in the family. The first choice for venting anger.
……
There are a lot of people crowded in the small back house. It is almost impossible to have a bowl of water. Naturally, there are many frictions between people. But it's just that there will be trouble.
The Liang family didn't have these conflicts back then, because when the Zhuang family married in, they didn't even have a mother-in-law, not even a sister-in-law. Later, there was only one son in the family, and there were no conflicts in the children's generation. The family was naturally harmonious, and the husband and wife were united. Think about it, use your energy to one place, and save your current family business.
Later, there was an extra son-in-law in the family. Father Liang was a man with a less delicate mind. Seeing that his wife and son-in-law got along well, he never thought that Mrs. Zhuang would have such troubles.
Seeing what Liang's father wanted to say, Mrs. Zhuang raised her hand to cover his mouth, and continued: "The change of thinking about Kang Sheng and Brother Yi made me consider Qingze and the others."
Thinking of Zhuang Qingze?Father Liang frowned. He knew that Zhuang Qingze was responsible for Qu Yi's marriage. He was in a coma at the time, and there were probably many inside stories that his wife didn't know. Did she think of something when she mentioned it now?
Zhuang's expression was blank for a moment, and he said in a low voice: "I was thinking just now that Kang Sheng is my son. When he grows up, I want to let them live alone. I don't want my younger brother." Too much?"
She didn't know if what she was thinking was right. Liang Kang gave birth to a son in her life, so she naturally thought of him wholeheartedly. The situation with her younger brother was much more complicated. When her parents left, she entrusted her younger brother to her. Occupying the title of elder sister, but most of the time she takes care of her younger brother no less than her son.
All of a sudden, she had so many thoughts because a lady said to her today when she was chatting with her, "a loving mother often loses her children". The lady was talking about another family in Yang'an County. Give money when things happen, and in the end the son lost all the money in the family.
After telling the story of that family, the lady even praised the Zhuang family, saying that she envied the Zhuang family's ability to teach their children well. Not to mention the success of the son, the life of the younger brother's family is also booming.
In fact, Mrs. Zhuang felt that she hadn't disciplined her son very much, and that his health was not good, so she couldn't even bear to say a harsh word. It was all because of his own understanding that he had today's achievements.
Relatively speaking, "the life of my younger brother's family is booming." She didn't feel it at all. Ever since her younger brother's family moved to Yang'an County, her younger brother always told her that the money was not enough, and she also subsidized them as much as possible. enough for their family to live on.
Now that his nephew is in his teens, Mrs. Zhuang thinks carefully, if it is really like what his younger brother said, without his own subsidy, wouldn't he be unable to support his family? The pillar of the family!
At that time, Mrs. Zhuang had to entertain guests during the day, and when the guests left, her mind was still thinking about what happened during the day, thinking that her younger brother and sister-in-law brought the Zhao family's niece to the house, and almost caused a scandal. She was suddenly very worried about the future. Will my younger brother accomplish nothing like the son of that family, or even accomplish less than fail.
She didn't just think about these things, when she thought of Zhao Wan'er, she thought of Zhao Hongmei, and further thought of when she was a child, although she had no mother-in-law after marriage, she had seen her mother and grandma, aunt, aunt, and aunt get along with them when she was young.
Mrs. Zhuang can clearly recall that her mother was scolded by her grandma and hid her tears. The girl went back to her house and picked and picked her mother, which made her feel very uncomfortable, but her mother did not complain and quarrel, at most she cried in private and continued to work.
This made Mrs. Zhuang suddenly think that she didn't criticize Qu Yi too much because she felt ashamed because of Chongxi, but would she talk too much because she was worried about their husband and wife, just like when her aunt came back to talk about her mother?
I still remember that when I first left the Zhuang clan, my younger brother often brought his younger siblings to the house. Later, the younger siblings gradually came less and less. In hindsight, many things were wrong.
Mrs. Zhuang didn't think of her younger brother and younger siblings in a bad way, she was just reflecting on her own mistakes, wondering whether she should try her best to restrain herself from asking and caring less in the future, but considering what her parents entrusted to her, it was very difficult for her to treat her younger brother As easy as it is for my son.
After all, even if Liang Kangsheng achieves nothing in his life, as long as Liang Kangsheng lives happily and healthily, the Zhuang family will be satisfied. If his son achieves success, then she will be happy and proud of him.
But if the younger brother can't do anything, and can't even support the family, how will she face her parents in the future? The younger brother is a special responsibility for the Zhuang family.
Just now, Mrs. Zhuang suddenly cried like that because she had so many emotions gathered in her heart, she missed her parents, felt guilty for not taking good care of her younger brother, and felt ashamed of using the Liang family's money to support her younger brother. There is frustration about not doing a good job, and there is also a little grievance hidden in the depths.
The Liang family had no elders to teach her, and the Zhuang family had no contact with them for many years and no elders could enlighten her. The pressure accumulated over the years made her emotionally out of control.
Father Liang listened to Mrs. Zhuang's rambling and talking about her troubles, and couldn't help curling the corners of her lips while feeling distressed. Although she would think that these were inseparable from what the lady said today, but more importantly, he It has something to do with the words that are whispered in her ear from time to time after knowing something.
Knowing his wife's temperament, Liang's father never thought of telling her about the bad things that Zhuang Qingze did. Speaking directly might make his wife feel disappointed and angry with her brother for a while, but after a long time, she might soften her heart towards Zhuang Qingze again.
It's better to let them drift apart slowly like now. If the relationship fades, there will be no soft-heartedness. Even if she knows what Zhuang Qingze has done, she won't be very sad.
Since it was their excessive care that made Zhuang Qingze think that he shouldn't, father Liang made his wife realize that not taking too much care is "good" for Zhuang Qingze.
Look, this is already effective, and she began to wonder whether she should continue to subsidize her brother.
"Qingrong, I have always remembered the care my father-in-law and mother-in-law took for me back then, so I have always taken care of Qingze as my younger brother. I hope he will live well just like you." Father Liang said without changing his expression, He really thought so before, but as for now, he just knows it in his heart, there is no need to say it out.
"What you said today reminded me of a sentence, it's not about helping the poor." Liang's father paused, "To be honest, our Liang family is small, and we earn enough money. It's no problem to support Qingze and the others all the time. Yes, I don't mind, but I didn't expect that this would make him lose his ambition, it's me, the brother-in-law, who didn't think carefully."
Listening to Father Liang's words, Zhuang's thinking became more and more clear. She always blamed herself for not doing what she should do, but she didn't think that Xianggong did anything wrong.
Back then, the natal family was indeed helpful to the Liang family, but after so many years, Xianggong has taken good care of his younger brother, and he can treat his younger brothers like this. He never minded using money to subsidize them.
"Xianggong..." Zhuang looked at this man who loved her for ten years, his worries were diluted by happiness, and his heart was full, as if there was nothing he couldn't solve with his presence.
"Qing Rong, would you like to hear my thoughts?" Father Liang surrounded Zhuang's and looked at her seriously.
After Mrs. Zhuang nodded, Father Liang said: "Actually, judging from the current situation of our family, it is not impossible to continue to treat Qingze and the others as before. We are sisters and brother-in-laws, and it is only natural to take care of my younger brother."
"It's just that Qingze seems to have realized that it's not good before, otherwise he wouldn't suddenly want to talk about doing other business. It may be that Qingze is not good at selling bars. After so many years, he has not improved in selling wine. The fabric business he went out to do last time seemed to be pretty good, at least a new way is considered a profit if it doesn’t lose money at the beginning, which shows that he has talent.”
"Now that Qingze is still young, he has time to start his own business from scratch. The two nephews are now in a critical period of growth. Qingze can also set an example for them."
It is impossible for Liang's father to continue to spend money to raise Zhuang Qingze, a white-eyed wolf. Although he seems to have given Zhuang Shi a choice in his words, she can continue to subsidize her younger brother unprincipled, but as long as Zhuang Shi still has expectations and a sense of responsibility for Zhuang Qingze, she will not will do that.
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