Accumulate feathers sink the boat

Lu Xiangzhou's treatment process was not smooth, and it could even be said that there was no progress at the beginning.

Because he completely closed himself up, he refused to speak, and he did not give any response to the outside world. The worst thing was that he refused to take medicine, which made it impossible to advance the preparatory treatment in the early stage.

"Doctor Zhou, why don't you do this," Chen Min suggested after four or five days of trying, but still didn't take a single pill, "I'll go buy some sugar coating for children, tear apart the medicine and pour it in. Xiang Zhou didn't like taking medicine when he was a child." , that's what his father did."

"Will there be a lack of medicine in the process of detachable irrigation?" Zhou Shu heard of this medicine feeding method for the first time, and his mind was full of question marks.

"It's possible, but it's better than no medicine at all."

"What type of icing? How are you going to tear it down?"

"We have used two types, one is a round particle like a sugar pill, the size of a small fingernail, and some smaller tablets can be stuffed into it. The other is similar to a capsule but does not look like it. The sugar coating of the capsule has a relatively large capacity and can be used to hold powder, but it also melts faster, so it must be swallowed by the child before he finds out."

child?It's really pitiful to the world's parents, Zhou Shu thought, this Lu Xiangzhou is such an adult, his mother still wants to trick him into taking medicine by coaxing the child, is it because the family environment is usually too good, so he resisted? Is the pressure ability so bad?

"So the patient usually likes to eat sugar?"

"Well, I have loved sweets since I was a child, and I am used to it as a child."

"Okay," Zhou Shu pursed his lips, "Then you try, if it succeeds, we will adjust the treatment plan according to your medication situation."

"Okay, thank you for your hard work."

It is said that it has been a few weeks of hard work, but it is Chen Min himself who is tired.

The candy that Lu Xiangzhou ate when he was a child is no longer produced by manufacturers. She went to several places to buy some substitutes, and they were not the ones Lu Xiangzhou used to eat.In order to ensure the success of feeding the medicine, she can only try one by one, taste the taste, study the melting time, check the capacity and sealing degree, which is more troublesome than leading students to do scientific research.

It was very easy to find a suitable one, and it was a more complicated process to dismantle and pour the medicine.Chen Min is getting old, and his eyes are more or less presbyopic. Sometimes he can't see clearly when taking the pills close to him, and he has to repeat several times for a simple movement.Fortunately, I have been a doctor for so many years, and it is better to be patient, so I keep failing and repeating, and there are always more than a dozen successes out of a hundred times.

After working hard for more than half a week, Lu Xiangzhou's special baby medicine was finally prepared.

Zhou Shu and Chen Min were very nervous when feeding him for the first time, for fear that he would spit it out again and all previous efforts would be wasted.It turned out that this guy really loves candy too much. As soon as his tongue recognized the taste of candy, he immediately swallowed it down his throat. He didn't even use the water that Chen Min prepared for him. Two big doctors were watching It's dumbfounding.

"Yes, the first test is over. Let's observe his condition in the next few days. This medicine has a soothing effect on the nerves. When he is less nervous, we will try psychological intervention again."

"Okay, I will give you feedback on the medication situation in time, and we will adjust it in time if there is any problem."

The communication with colleagues was so smooth and pleasant, Zhou Shu nodded and left Lu Xiangzhou's ward.

After that is a course of treatment followed by a course of treatment.

Psychological intervention therapy begins with hypnosis.After Lu Xiangzhou no longer resisted communicating with the outside world, Zhou Shu slowly began to recall his subconscious memory to verify whether his previous speculation was accurate.It turned out that there was not much difference. Lu Xiangzhou was indeed afraid that he would be shaken by Gong Yu, so he made up some hints that were completely out of reality and stuffed them into his mind. After a long time, the falsehood overwhelmed the truth, and a split occurred.Compared with persecution paranoia, what he suffers from is more like unloved paranoia.

This kind of mental problem caused by psychological reasons does not help much by taking medicine.Therefore, the number of weeks reduced Lu Xiangzhou's medication dosage. Every day, together with his assistant physician, he took turns giving him psychological counseling in the morning and evening, trying to make him accept a little bit of himself who might be shaken or soft-hearted. His self-defense mechanism, even if he encounters a similar situation after being discharged from the hospital, he can try to face it correctly.

Of course, it would be best if we could not encounter similar situations.

Zhou Shu is making progress steadily, and Chen Min is not idle.

She was not a professional psychiatrist, so she didn't dare to give advice on Lu Xiangzhou's treatment, so she could do the logistical work with peace of mind.People who hardly cook since Lu Wenchuan left. During this period of time, they have suffered enough from the cooking fumes. Ordering.Even the number of weeks is interesting, saying that he did not expect young people with mental problems to be able to show their back-to-nature side like the old people.

But a good appetite is a good thing, a good appetite, the spirit will be good.When he first started doing psychological counseling, Lu Xiangzhou could only answer one sentence after saying ten sentences a week.It has only been more than a month now, and he has already been able to keep up with Zhou Shu's questioning speed. He can basically do one question and one answer. When encountering some core questions, he can not only answer but also give some simple explanations.

For example, once Zhou Shu asked him: "If you are exiled to a desert island, how many days do you hope someone can come to rescue you if you have enough food and drink?"

"No...don't hope," Lu Xiangzhou replied slowly but firmly, "because if you don't...you don't want...you won't...disappoint..."

"Then if you find your own way, will you rescue yourself immediately?"

"Nor... I won't... I still want... someone to save me."

So this is a problem buried deep in Lu Xiangzhou's personality, which he may not even realize.

Zhou Shu guessed that Lu Xiangzhou should have had a good childhood, enjoying the love and even doting of his parents, so he developed the habit of relying on others for everything.But when this kind of childhood suddenly disappears, he loses someone he can rely on, and suddenly meets the unreliable Gong Yu, he will doubt himself, thus forcing himself to lower his expectations of dependence.

In fact, he wanted but didn't dare to want it. All his subsequent behaviors, including his attitude towards Gong Yu, can be explained from this starting point.

Zhou Shu told Chen Min his thoughts, saying that in order for Lu Xiangzhou to fully recover, besides letting him get rid of his fear of Gong Yu, he also needs to help him find someone who is completely worthy of his trust, so that he will not always put himself Put it in an isolated position, and when encountering problems, you will not be responsible for yourself in the first place.

Zhou Shu only made a diagnosis and treatment suggestion based on Lu Xiangzhou's condition, but to Chen Min's ears, it was all blame for his absence as a mother.

You said she didn't know that her son didn't trust herself at all?Of course she does.

Before Lu Xiangzhou even knew the word trust, Chen Min knew that it would be difficult for him to form an emotional bond with his son in his life.She has suffered, struggled, and regretted, but since there is really nothing she can do, she convinces herself that this is fine.Anyway, with a worrying father like Lu Wenchuan, his son's growth will not be short-changed.

But what she never expected was that Lu Xiangzhou would be unable to leave Lu Wenchuan.

Because of long-term over-spoiling, Lu Xiangzhou's dependence on Lu Wenchuan has exceeded the need of an ordinary son on his father.Just like the foundation of a building, everything in Lu Xiangzhou is built on the cornerstone of Lu Wenchuan. If the cornerstone is hard and stable, the building can rise from the sky, but once the cornerstone crumbles, the building will collapse no matter how majestic it looks. It's just a moment.

He didn't live for Lu Wenchuan, it was only when Lu Wenchuan was there that he truly felt alive.

So it's hard to say whether Lu Xiangzhou has transferred his trust in his father to Gong Yu, because the timing of their acquaintance is too ingenious.

At that time, it was the fifth year since Lu Wenchuan left. Lu Xiangzhou had already come out of the previous emotions of great grief and pain. He no longer cried, got angry, and ran away from home, but fell into a kind of depression. In the mood.Let him take the Ph. D. exam, he lacks interest, and let him work, and he is ambiguous, busy all day for a graduation thesis, but the progress is not advanced at all.

But after Gong Yu appeared, the child was instantly set on fire.All day long, he surrounded himself with questions, and all the things that were not on the agenda before were carried out at high speed, as if he was trying hard to climb a hill in order to be worthy of Gong Yu.Chen Min was happy from the bottom of his heart, so the person who never interfered with the students' personal lives was approaching Gong Yu step by step, and he couldn't allow him to say a word.

She thought it was for the good of Lu Xiangzhou, but who would have thought that it was the first step of an irresponsible mother to push her child into the abyss.

"Mom, the sweet and sour pork ribs are too sour." Lu Xiangzhou didn't know Chen Min's remorse, he was devoting himself to eating the meal in front of him, his beautiful brows were frowned, and at first glance he seemed a little naive.

"I made a mistake. I thought it was a soy sauce bottle. When I found out, it was too late to redo it. Let's make it today, and make it up again tomorrow."

"Tomorrow," the innocent diner pouted, "Dad won't make mistakes."

dad...

This was the first time Lu Xiangzhou mentioned Lu Wenchuan since he was admitted to the hospital. Chen Min's heart softened, and he asked, "Do you miss Dad?"

"Think about it, think about it all the time."

"What do you miss Dad?"

"Food, a lot of books, my father gave me cartoon sheets, saying that I will always be a child."

Chen Min thought for a while before realizing that the bed sheet Lu Xiangzhou mentioned was his rite of passage.He had just graduated from high school that year. On his birthday, Lu Wenchuan bought him a whole set of blue and white beds with Snoopy on it. He said that other parents would congratulate their children on their coming-of-age ceremony, but he was different. , he hoped that Lu Xiangzhou would always be a child, and always be his father's treasure.

But Lu Wenchuan left suddenly in the next year, and his beloved child grew up overnight, and he was no longer anyone's baby.

"Then wait for you to feel better, let's go see Dad together, shall we?"