romantic lover

Before Yu Miao got off work, she received a WeChat message from Jiang Jiahao. At this time, Jiang Jiahao was already waiting for him downstairs.

When it was time to get off work, Yu Miao went downstairs without delay.

The employees in the office were very surprised. Yu Miao usually left very late, but she left very early today, which made the employees who decided to work overtime suddenly feel uncomfortable.

After walking out of the gate, Jiang Jiahao's car drove up to Yu Miao.

Jiang Jiahao changed cars again.

But Yu Miao would not be surprised to see so many cars in the parking lot of Jiang Jiahao's house before.

After getting in the car, Yu Miao consciously put on her seat belt.

Jiang Jiahao said: "Let's go eat first, and then go to the doctor's when we are full."

Yu Miao has no objection to this: "Just look at the arrangement."

Jiang Jiahao directly drove the car near the doctor's private studio, and found a restaurant that looked good to have dinner with Yu Miao.

Yu Miao didn't know much about the psychiatrist she was going to see later, because it was arranged by Jiang Jiahao, and he didn't know some basic information about the doctor in advance. He naturally believed in Jiang Jiahao's ability, and he must find the best one for him. Doctor, but he didn't see it with his own eyes, so he was still a little uneasy.

Seeing that he was a little nervous, Jiang Jiahao comforted him: "We'll just see this doctor later, if you don't feel comfortable getting along with him, we'll get another one. I have the basic information of all the good psychiatrists in G City .”

Yu Miao nodded. The restaurant where they ate could just see the door of the doctor's private studio.

Jiang Jiahao said: "Everything depends on your feelings."

Seeing that the time was almost up, Jiang Jiahao and Yu Miao went to the doctor's private studio.

The studio is on the third floor, take the elevator upstairs, turn around a long corridor, and see the doctor's studio at the corner.

There is a female receptionist at the front desk. Seeing them coming, she has a very good attitude and a sweet voice: "Hello, do you have an appointment?"

"Jiang Jiahao." Jiang Jiahao's own registration number: "I have an appointment with Dr. Zheng at eight o'clock tonight."

The front desk looked at today's appointment registration form, confirmed Jiang Jiahao's appointment time, and asked the two of them to wait in the rest area, while he walked inside.

The overall decoration style of the studio gives people a warm feeling, but this feeling is not strong. It is in a comfortable area, and Yu Miao, who prefers cool colors, will not feel uncomfortable in such an environment.

The magazines and books on the table have nothing to do with psychology. In fact, there is nothing related to psychological counseling in the entire studio. If there is anything, it is the studio welded on the background wall behind the front desk. The name contains these words.

The other arrangements looked pretty good, and Yu Miao felt a lot more relaxed.

Recalling when he went to see a psychiatrist when he was a teenager, the doctor's studio was very deserted. As soon as Yu Miao entered the doctor's studio, she panicked and didn't want to stay longer.

Soon the receptionist came out from inside and invited them in.

There were four doors inside. They went to the last door. The door was not closed. Inside was a man in a shirt and glasses.

Seeing the two of them, the other party stood up and invited them to sit down. The front desk retreated and closed the door for them.

Jiang Jiahao had already met with Dr. Zheng in advance, and the two nodded slightly at each other.

Doctor Zheng focused on Yu Miao: "Mr. Yu, hello."

Yu Miao responded politely: "Hello."

There were no chairs in the office, only sofas. Yu Miao and Jiang Jiahao sat together, and Dr. Zheng sat on the side sofa.

Dr. Zheng took a form and handed it to Yu Miao: "This is an ordinary questionnaire. The questions are selected by me. Mr. Yu, you can fill them out."

Yu Miao didn't hesitate either, and ended up filling out the questionnaire.

The contents of the questionnaire are basically multiple choice questions, but there are 4 pages.

It took Yu Miao almost 10 minutes to fill out the questionnaire. He was struggling with some questions.

During this period, no one spoke, they were all quietly waiting for Yu Miao to fill in.

After handing the questionnaire back to Dr. Zheng, Yu Miao breathed a sigh of relief.

It took Dr. Zheng less than 2 minutes to read all of Yu Miao's answers, and he had a basic understanding of Yu Miao's general situation.

Putting down the questionnaire, he said to Jiang Jiahao: "Mr. Jiang, can you go out and wait? I'll have a chat with Mr. Yu."

Yu Miao nodded to him.

Only then did Jiang Jiahao get up and leave.

Dr. Zheng took out a stack of poker cards, but the cards were blank without any suits. He gave Yu Miao five cards and handed him a pen: "You can write down the cards that are most important to you. five people."

Yu Miao picked up the pen and wrote aunt first, then Ye Xi, Jiang Jiahao, and two cousins, and then Yu Miao realized that there were not enough cards, and he hadn't written uncle yet.

Doctor Zheng noticed it, but he didn't intend to give Yu Miao an extra card to write one more person, but asked him, "Anyone else want to write?"

Yu Miao nodded.

Dr. Zheng asked, "Is there anyone here that you think can be replaced?"

As he said that, he began to prepare to take away a card.

Doctor Zheng first took the card that said Auntie, Yu Miao held down the card and shook her head at him, followed by Ye Xi, Yu Miao still shook her head, and when it came to Jiang Jiahao, Yu Miao still shook her head, the remaining two belonged to him Cousin, Yu Miao is still unwilling to give the doctor the card.

Doctor Zheng asked him, "Why didn't you replace Jiang Jiahao?"

Yu Miao didn't know why, but he just didn't want to change it.

Dr. Zheng handed him a box of matches, took the cards away, messed up the order, and then said to Yu Miao, "You draw a card, and the one you draw will be burned."

Yu Miao couldn't understand: "Why burn it?"

Dr. Zheng: "It means disappearing."

Yu Miao was unwilling to do what Dr. Zheng said.

Dr. Zheng pointed the face of the card at Yu Miao, and he could clearly see the name on the card. Dr. Zheng said, "Why don't I draw for you."

After finishing speaking, Dr. Zheng directly mentioned Jiang Jiahao's name. He clearly saw the change on Yu Miao's face. Yu Miao was nervous and fearful.

Dr. Zheng: "Still unwilling?"

Yu Miao hummed.

Dr. Zheng put away all the cards and said, "Then we won't burn the cards, so tell us your story with them."

Jiang Jiahao waited outside for two hours, refilling several cups of coffee before Yu Miao and Dr. Zheng came out.

He immediately got up and stepped forward.

Jiang Jiahao asked: "How do you feel?"

Yu Miao recalled the two hours of getting along with Dr. Zheng. In the first half hour, Dr. Zheng basically guided him to make various choices. In the next hour and a half, he talked with Dr. Zheng about many things. A past that he rarely talks about.

Later, Dr. Zheng said that he had no emotional barriers, and he still fell in love with Jiang Jiahao.It’s just that he was afraid in his heart. He lacked the care of his parents in his childhood and had no concept of family. When he first suffered from autism, he lived in the house of his aunt and uncle. He often heard fierce quarrels between the two of them, so that he subconsciously thought that family is There will be all kinds of quarrels, and there will be conflicts with the family in my heart.

In addition, the boy who led him out of autism caused him to encounter school violence after learning about his thoughts, which hurt his heart so much that he has been unwilling to admit that he likes it, because if he doesn't like it, he won't be hurt. Hurt, as time goes by, even if he likes it, it is difficult for him to distinguish it by himself.

All kinds of reasons are mixed together, and this is him now.

The problem is not serious, but various remaining problems need to be solved bit by bit.

Dr. Zheng suggested that he go to a children's playground or a parent-child playground to feel the family atmosphere.

Yu Miao said: "Very well, I have made an appointment with Dr. Zheng, and I will come for psychological consultation every day from now on."

Dr. Zheng also told Jiang Jiahao: "It's not a big problem, but it will take some time to solve it slowly. It doesn't take a day to freeze three feet, and it will take time to unblock it."

Doctor Zheng called Jiang Jiahao aside, Yu Miao didn't know what they were going to talk about, so she sat in the leisure area and waited.

Dr. Zheng said: "Yu Miao doesn't have major psychological problems, but there are many minor problems, which are related to his previous living environment. Don't be impatient. Change his thinking slowly. Too much urgency may have the opposite effect."

Jiang Jiahao: "Then what should I do?"

Dr. Zheng: "Accompany him more, and then bring him into more contact with families to see how other people get along."

Jiang Jiahao: "Won't this make him more uncomfortable?"

After all, Yu Miao didn't have the company of her parents. Seeing that others had them, and thinking of herself, what if his thoughts were aggravated?

Doctor Zheng comforted him: "Don't worry, he is much stronger than you imagined. Besides, even if he feels uncomfortable, wouldn't you still be by his side?"

Jiang Jiahao felt that he probably understood what Dr. Zheng meant.

Yu Miao sat quietly in the leisure area, giving off a very lonely feeling.

Jiang Jiahao and Dr. Zheng finished chatting and returned to the leisure area: "Let's go back."

Yu Miao got up and left with him.

On the way back, Jiang Jiahao looked at Yu Miao many times.

Being watched too many times, Yu Miao also felt uncomfortable: "Why do you always look at me."

Jiang Jiahao said: "I can't help it, I want to see you, when I think I won't be able to see you, I want to see you a few more times."

Yu Miao: "..."

Jiang Jiahao asked: "Shall we go to the Children's Paradise together on weekends?"

Yu Miao: "Is it just us?"

"That's right." Jiang Jiahao didn't intend to hide anything: "Doctor Zheng suggested that I take you to the Children's Paradise."

"I know."

Doctor Zheng also told Yu Miao.

"So are you going?" Jiang Jiahao was not sure if Yu Miao would like to go.

Yu Miao nodded in agreement: "Since the doctor has said it, let's go."

But isn't it appropriate for the two of them to go to the Children's Paradise?

In the end, Yu Miao didn't express her doubts.

Jiang Jiahao sent Yu Miao downstairs, it was already late, so he didn't follow him upstairs.

Yu Miao got off the car downstairs and said to him, "Good night, remember to report to me when you get back."

Jiang Jiahao smiled at him: "Good night."

Yu Miao turned and walked into the building. Jiang Jiahao watched him get into the elevator, and waited until the upstairs lights turned on before driving away.

Dr. Zheng made Yu Miao make many choices, which was actually a way to make Yu Miao realize how important Jiang Jiahao was to him.

The effect is naturally obvious, Dr. Zheng succeeded.

Although Yu Miao's problems have not been resolved, Jiang Jiahao's status has been confirmed, and what is lacking now is time to heal him.

Dr. Zheng asked him to say one of the most memorable things he felt when he got along with Jiang Jiahao. Yu Miao was the first scene that came to mind in his mind. accident.

Everything is telling him that Jiang Jiahao is very important to him.

Why it's important, Dr. Zheng doesn't need to say the answer, Yu Miao knows it herself.

He likes Jiang Jiahao.