What to do if you have a crush on Party A

After hearing this question, Mai Wenche was not shocked at all.

When he revealed his intention to buy a house, Mai Chixue couldn't understand it, saying that the place at home was enough.Seeing Mai Wenche's insistence, he suggested buying the neighborhood next door, saying that it would be convenient for her to help take care of the children when she got married.

Not only did Mai Wenche not listen, he even picked a real estate that was far away from his mother, which was more or less a silent resistance.

However, even though it is far away, and it takes a few subways and buses to come here, Mai Chixue still likes to run to his house when he is free, loves to clean up for him, and will rummage through his things. This is the fundamental reason why he didn't give his mother's house password .

After losing her temper several times, saying that she messed up her things and couldn't find them, that she would have a housekeeper to clean them regularly, and increased the frequency of going back to her mother's house, Mai Chixue reduced the number of times she came to his house.

Now that he and Ming Zhen live together, there are too many couple-oriented things in the house, and the traces are too obvious. As long as you pay attention to it, it will be seen sooner or later.

Anyway, I have already said some unpleasant things today, so let's talk about this as well.

Mai Wenche replied: "Since you ask that, doesn't it mean that you see it?"

Mai Wenche was ready to f*cking roll and go crazy, and secretly rejoiced that it was really smart to let Ming Zhen go back just now.

Mai Chixue supported her forehead, and murmured: "Actually, I've been skeptical—I saw the rose you posted on your Moments two days ago, how can a man accept roses—I just can't believe it. Today I saw it with my own eyes. I have seen it, and I have to believe it." After speaking, he smiled wryly, "I really don't know my son too well."

"Didn't you just say that you hope I can live a happy life. Let me tell you, I am living a very good life now, I am very happy with him, and I also like my current job very much."

Mai Wenche was still rejoicing that today's communication went smoothly. Mai Chixue over there was silent for a few seconds without saying a word, then suddenly wiped her face, fisted her chest hard, and howled, "How can I Such a hard life! Having such a husband and giving birth to such a son! Sin! Sin! What did I do wrong in my previous life? God wants to punish me like this—”

It's time to come.

But for some reason, when he heard his mother crying, Mai Wenche breathed a sigh of relief.He got up and calmly took out a tissue and handed it to his mother, waiting patiently for someone to continue venting.

Mai Chixue kept crying that night, telling some past events over and over in her mouth.Crying about her irresponsible and irresponsible trash husband, crying about her parents feeling ashamed and not accepting her, crying about Mai Wenche's disobedience and filial piety.

To be honest, it’s bad to kidnap someone who is still grieving morally, but in this state, it’s a way to quickly empathize with the other person, so McWenche took the opportunity to say: “Yes, your parents got pregnant early because of you , I don’t understand that you don’t accept you and drive you out, so you want to sever ties with me now? Why don’t you try to understand and accept me? "

Mai Chixue, who was still sobbing, started howling again.

It seems that it still needs some time, Mai Wenche thought in his heart.So he hugged his mother in the past to comfort him: "I'm sorry to disappoint you."

Mai Chixue struggled for a long time that night.

He said something over and over again, telling him to see a psychiatrist, saying that this is a modern disease, just like obsessive-compulsive disorder and intensive phobia, it is a modern disease that is only researched when people are full and have nothing to do. The doctor is so powerful, he will definitely be able to cure it.

Mai Wenche reassured her calmly: "Okay, I'll watch it when I have time—well, let's go watch it together."

When his mother finally had enough trouble and was tired from crying, Mai Wenche asked her to wash and rest.

After Mai Chixue settled down, Mai Wenche felt that the sound of crying was still ringing in his ears, and he returned to his room and collapsed on the bed exhaustedly.

After thinking about it, he found it a little funny, touched the phone and dialed a voice call for Ming Zhen.

"Mr. Ming." Mai Wenche called him, and said lazily, "You are miserable, you will be hunted down by Ms. Mai!"

"......Um?"

Mai Wenche laughed: "The charge is that she kidnapped and sold her lovely son."

"What do you mean?" Ming Zhen was puzzled.

Mai Wenche said lightly: "My mother saw it. Then I walked out of the closet."

Ming Zhen stuttered instantly: "Then... what did your mother say?"

"I just cried." Mai Wenche said a few words about the process of talking with his mother, afraid that Mingzhen would be worried, and comforted him, "It may take some time, but I think it should not be difficult. "

Hearing Mai Wenche's confident look, Ming Zhen also relaxed a little, and he said with a vow: "I will prove to your mother that I am sincere to you."

Mai Wenche turned around on the bed, stretched his body comfortably, and complained: "Sincereness is not enough, you still need three matchmakers and six hires. You have to show my mother your financial strength."

Ming Zhen smiled softly: "Then how much dowry gifts does your family receive?"

"A lot, maybe you have to sell yourself as a slave for the rest of your life—"

The two were chatting nonsense, making jokes, but now Mai Wenche relaxed.This can be regarded as a heavy burden that has been on his heart for a long time. Now that he has talked about everything, all the pressure has been let go.What's more, Mai Chixue is so attached to him that she is reluctant to sever ties with him. At most, she will fight a protracted war and do more psychological counseling.

In short, no problem.

After talking about his mother, the two chatted for a while, and Mai Wenche talked about Song Jiaxing's talk about Zhang Jing's audit in the morning. Opinion: "Dou, if your boss suppresses you, what will you do?"

Ming Zhen on the other end of the phone told Mai Wenche what happened when he first joined Lingniao, saying that when Lingniao scooped him up, he didn't really want to reuse him. up.Therefore, Ming Zhen came to the conclusion: "If my boss suppresses me, if I have no ability, I can only endure it, and if I can't bear it, I can only leave; if I am capable, I am not afraid of his suppression. Let customers and resources go together to see who loses more."

Mai Wenche listened carefully, their service company is still different from his own situation, but Ming Zhen's statement still gave him a little inspiration.

In the workplace, what should you do if your boss suppresses you?

The choice for most people is to endure or to roll.But in Mai Wenche's dictionary, there is absolutely no choice of "forbearance" either to be ruthless or to get out.

Before, Mr. Zhu said that he would transfer the dental project to him, so he has been occupying the people under Mai Wenche during this time.When Mai Wenche occasionally needs to find someone to do something, his subordinates reply in embarrassment that he has to be busy with Zhu Zong's affairs recently, and he can only postpone the processing on his side.

Mr. Zhu is now the top leader of the branch, and Mai Wenche was so insulted that he had long thought of fighting back.

In the workplace, my subordinates are in opposing camps. Once such suspicion arises, the cracks will only grow wider. This kind of trust breakdown is difficult to repair.The tree moves the dead, the dead move the living, anyway, if he is targeted, he will run away. Is he, Mai Wenche, a high-end talent, afraid that he won't be able to change to a good employer?

So he won't bear it quietly, even if he leaves, he has to stir up the situation and vent his anger before leaving.

After returning to the office the next day, Mai Wenche began to deploy.

Mai Wenche's first step was to immediately withhold the entire plan for upgrading the oral brand image, and all the data of the previous electric toothbrush project survey were also removed from the company's shared files.At the beginning, he led the data preparation, with the cooperation of the people below, and Cheng Yao was responsible for the compilation. Mr. Zhu knew that they were doing this, but he didn't know the progress.

He was sure that Cheng Yao was with him, so he asked her not to leak the information.No matter who came to ask for the materials, they all insisted that there was no final draft and asked the other party to ask Mai Wenche for it.When someone asked about Mak Wenche's practice of Tai Chi, "Maybe not", "I don't seem to have done it", "Reply later", "I guess I have to re-investigate".

Mai Wenche's second step is to search for people who can fight on the same front as him.While asking Cheng Yao to find out the tone of each member for him, at the same time, he began to talk to his subordinates one after another under the guise of communicating at the end of the year.After the communication, I made a confession with Cheng Yao, and quickly located which ones were loyal to me, which ones were quite critical of Mr. Zhu, and which ones didn't care about standing in line.

If Mr. Zhu really crosses the line one day, he can take the whole team away and catch him by surprise.Of course, he didn't worry about job opportunities. Wen Xian was hoping that he would resign immediately.

Mai Wenche's third step is to hug the CEO's thigh.

After all, there is still a general manager between him and the president, so there is no possibility of leapfrog communication.

There is the last monthly meeting just before the holiday at the end of the year, so he must seize this opportunity.Tomorrow is the peak season for daily chemical products at the end of the year, and the sales curve is growing upwards, but his whole report is infinitely modest. The performance has only increased by 10%, otherwise it should have increased by 30%"...

Although Mr. Zhu also sat down and listened, he often said, "Actually, the oral category can also do this blahblah", and after he finished speaking, he pretended to be annoyed, "Hey, it's useless to have an idea, and it can't be implemented anyway."

The president asked in doubt: "Why can't it be implemented?"

Mai Wenche is special about green tea: "I will not be in charge of this project next year, and Mr. Zhu said I can't do it."

The president looked puzzled: "Isn't this a good idea? Why can't it be done?"

Mr. Zhu flatteringly opened his mouth and explained: "President, I can't do it because I'm afraid he doesn't have enough energy, not because he doesn't have enough ability."

Although Mr. Zhu couldn't change his words at the meeting in the end, the message was at least conveyed to the president.And when Mr. Zhu explained to the president that he "has too much business at hand", Mai Wenche asked the president for annual leave on the spot.First, he said miserably that he is a single-parent family. He has been busy with several projects this year, and he has not been with his mother for a long time.

The president agreed after thinking about it.

This is exactly the fourth step of Mai Wenche, passive sabotage-asking for annual leave.There are 10 days of annual leave at the director level. When he is in his position, he is busy with duties. Generally speaking, he will take it multiple times throughout the year. This time, he plans to take all 10 days off at the beginning of the new year.I deliberately said it in front of the president because I was afraid that if I followed the normal procedure, I wish the boss would not approve it, and even the fake order process would not reach the president and I would be stuck.

Mai Wenche not only took annual leave for himself, but also granted annual leave for the managers below.He told Cheng Yao that, except for the next year's budget, which is more important, he must be notified of any progress, and all other affairs will be delayed during the vacation.

The budget for the new year is related to the development of all marketing in the next year, and it is the last major event before the year.Once Mai Wenche was on vacation, the dental brand couldn't find anyone even if he wanted to find someone, and everything had to be done from scratch.

After the annual leave was confirmed, Mai Wenche acted good to his mother, saying that he would take the annual leave to travel with her, to the Northeast or Northwest, and let her mother choose a destination by herself.

Mai Chixue was very happy, chattering about various itineraries, and then proceeded to buy various equipment.

Mai Wenche thought to himself, when he had a confrontation with his mother a few days ago, he had just finished saying "I like my current job very much". If Mai Chixue knew that he was planning to resign now, his mother would probably be angry at him up.

In fact, Mai Wenche took the annual leave early not only because his mother's conscience awakened after being cheated, but also because Mingzhen's company was about to have an annual meeting abroad for four or five days.

The end of the year for spirit birds is a relatively off-season.After all, the end-of-year holiday is approaching, and many companies will prepare for advertising in advance. In addition, many companies have not made a good plan for the new year at the end of the year, and most of the budgets will be tightened. Therefore, Lingniao will have large-scale team building and year-end activities at the end of each year. meeting.

The annual meeting of Party B's service company like Lingniao is very grand every year. After all, it has to do image engineering and show it to Party A's fathers.It is very popular for Internet companies to hold annual meetings in Southeast Asian countries these years, and organizing employees to go abroad is considered a face-saving, and Southeast Asian countries are cost-effective, and Lingniao is no exception to catch up with the trend.

This year, the destination of Lingniao is Bali, and a notice was sent out early to let the employees apply for passports. Because it is visa-free, the specific date has not been set yet.

After the departure date was finalized, Ming Zhen hurriedly told Mai Wenche, and only then did Mai Wenche plan to take his mother to travel on annual leave—anyway, Ming Zhen is not around, so go out and wander by yourself.

Mai Wenche will be on vacation tomorrow, and he has to do some finishing work when he returns to the company today, but Song Jiaxing called him over as soon as he stepped into the company door.

After entering the office, Mai Wenche asked: "What, is there any new progress in Zhang Jing's audit?"

"Yes." Song Jiaxing nodded, and said mysteriously, "I received very definite gossip."

Mai Wenche hurriedly asked what it was.

Song Jiaxing told Mai Wenche some important news: Although Zhang Jing is not a relative of the emperor, he has a great relationship with the president.

Two years ago, the CEO traveled to Europe, and went to a bar in the next block with his wife and daughter in the middle of the night. When he returned to the hotel, he was on the phone and his phone was robbed.Even in a foreign country, the bloodiness of the former soldier made him chase after him without even thinking about it.Unexpectedly, the other party had accomplices. After chasing for a block, he was surrounded by four or five people.

After all, the president is too old to be flexible enough in his hands and feet. In the end, he didn't get the phone back, and he was injured in the beating.At that time, Zhang Jing, who happened to be dispatched abroad on a business trip and went downstairs to a convenience store at night, met Zhang Jing, who shouted and threatened to call the police, and the gangsters left.The president was seriously injured. Zhang Jing enthusiastically sent him to the hospital. He also guided the president's wife, who was not familiar with the local environment, to go through various procedures, contact insurance and call the police.

So to be precise, Zhang Jing was the president's savior.Later, when Sanchen found a suitable job position, the president hired him.

The reason why Mr. Zhu suspected Zhang Jing's bidding was because a legal person of Party B, which the marketing department had worked with before, seemed to be related to Zhang Jing.However, after verification by the audit team, the "Zhang Jing" that the legal person knew just happened to have the same name as Sanchen's "Zhang Jing".

It's just that the process of the audit team has started now, and all the projects handled by Zhang Jing will still be audited, and the process will not be completed until a formal report is issued.

After saying this, Song Jiaxing started his own speculation: "I think the president deliberately arranged for Mr. Zhang to come to our company. Because the previous executives had a good relationship, maybe the president wanted to drive them apart—"

Mai Wenche very much approved of Song Jiaxing's speculation.

For a leader, the employees below must be united so that they can work together, but they must not be overly united.If the subordinates are all in a group and deceive the superior and the subordinate, the leader will be empty instead and will not be able to obtain real information.It is even more difficult to prevent high-level executives from covering up each other and embezzling the company's property together.Only when his subordinates check and balance each other, "small report" to each other, and report to him in a single line, can he know the real situation of the company's operations and avoid becoming a puppet.

The news Song Jiaxing revealed was crucial, and Mai Wenche instantly felt that the situation was not too bad for him.And to deal with Mr. Zhu, Mai Wenche still holds an ultimate big move in his hand, but he is not going to release this big move until the critical moment.

It really made Mai Wenche decide to turn against each other