Teacher she is sweet and soft

Zhou Qing watched her go back, a little powerless, maybe he is really not suitable to be a teacher?

She returned to the office in a daze, and suddenly lost the motivation to stay. A teacher like herself is terrible, right?It seems that many people tell me how to teach students and how to be a good teacher. Maybe I am really not suitable for this profession. This is the first time that Zhou Qing has questioned himself.

But no matter what happens, time continues to move forward.

In a blink of an eye, this day's class is over, and the weekend that the students are looking forward to is coming.

There was no class for Zhou Qing in the afternoon, so Zhou Qing had already boarded the train home by now.

……

After Zhou Qing arrived home, his mother was not at home. He thought that his mother might be at school at this time. Yes, you read that right, Zhou Qing's mother Zhou Yan is also a teacher, just a primary school teacher.

But her mother should be back soon, Zhou Qing looked at the refrigerator, she decided to go to the supermarket to buy some ingredients and come back, after all, Qingfeng will come over at night.But before that, I have to give Ms. Zhou a call.

"Hello, Ms. Zhou!"

"Are you back?" Zhou Yan heard her daughter's voice, she hadn't seen her for nearly half a month!This person, as he grows older, he yearns for family happiness full of children and grandchildren, but hurry up!

"Ang, I'm going to go to the supermarket, Qingfeng will come over tonight."

"Damn, that girl, come here to eat and drink again! She came here a lot when you were not at home, and I will charge her for coming next time!"

"It must cost money! You don't need to say, I will charge you this time!" Zhou Qing also joked with his mother, but he was really moved in his heart.

"Okay, don't chat anymore, just watch what you two like to eat and buy something, and I'll make it for you when you come back!"

"Okay!" Zhou Qing cheerfully agreed, home, is the existence that can make people forget all their troubles!

After finishing the call, Zhou Qing sent a message to Li Qingfeng.

"Thank you for coming to accompany my mother!"

"Hey, they are all girlfriends, your mother is not my mother! I should take care of you more when you are not here, remember to cook what I like to eat! I have to be busy, so let's not talk about it!"

Li Qingfeng replied very quickly, and it looked like he was fishing during working hours.Zhou Qing smiled when he saw the message, it's good to have such a friend!

Zhou Qing took fish and shrimp from the supermarket, bought some meat and vegetables, and after thinking about it, he bought some fruit. When he got home, Ms. Zhou was already waiting at home.

Seeing Zhou Qing came back, the mother and daughter didn't communicate much, and they started cooking together tacitly.

When the food was about to be set, there was a knock on the door.

"It is estimated that Fengfeng is here, you go and have a look!"

Zhou Qing nodded, she was indeed the only one at this point.

"Come here, come here, what else can you bring, there is nothing missing in the house." Zhou Qing said, looking at Li Qingfeng who was carrying fruit.

"It's just a little bit of care, and it's not for you to eat."

"Oh, woman, you,,"

"Hey, Mom, why did you hit me?" Zhou Qing howled, and Zhou's mother came to stand behind her at some point.

"Can a girl look like a girl? Speak well, who speaks like you? And you are a teacher now, can you pay attention to your image? Do you talk like this with your students?" Can only say Zhou Mom is indeed an old teacher who has been working for many years, and she is as non-stop as a machine gun when she talks to others!

"Okay, okay, I know, how can I talk to my students like this!"

"Okay, okay, since Fengfeng is here, let's start eating, and it just so happens that the meal is ready."

The three sat around the table, talking and eating.Li Qingfeng is also a bit Mercury retrograde recently, and his work is not going well.

After all, Ms. Zhou is someone who has been here, and she gave some advice to the two of them. Soon the meal was over, and Li Qingfeng was about to leave.

"It's all over now, let's stay at home for one night!" Ms. Zhou asked to stay.

"Hey, forget it, Auntie, I'd better go back. My mother has a big opinion on me. She said that I won't be home all day or something. I've already told her that I'm going back tonight. I'll stay at the next time. Stay here with Auntie!"

"That's all right, then be careful on the way, Qingqing will give it to you." Ms. Zhou is a sensible person, especially now that she is old and her daughter is not around, so she can understand the feelings of these parents.

"Row."

After the two went out, Zhou Qing couldn't help asking, "What's the matter with you? Are you moving out? Why haven't you mentioned it to me?"

"Hey, what's there to say? I've been kicked out, right? I'm at home all day, and my sister-in-law just talks and talks and complains. Anyway, I can earn money by myself now, then It's not as easy as going out and living by yourself!"

"Your sister-in-law is a bit too much!"

"Heh!" Li Qingfeng sneered ironically, without saying much.

Every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. Seeing that she didn't say anything, Zhou Qing considerately stopped asking her.

"Okay, let's go here, you go back quickly! I called the express train and it will be here soon."

"I'll put you in the car before leaving. Remember to send me a message when you get home!"

Li Qingfeng made an OK gesture.

The two chatted about something else, then Li Qingfeng asked him to copy it, Zhou Qing sent her to the car and went upstairs.

"Fengfeng is gone?"

"Ang! Mom, I want to sleep with you tonight!"

Ms. Zhou laughed as soon as she heard it, "How old are you, why are you still acting like a child?"

"Is that good?"

"Of course, no matter how old you are, you will always be mother's little baby!"

……

The mother and daughter lying on the bed at night, the two whispered.

"Mom, now I doubt whether I should continue to be a teacher or not?"

"Are you kidding me again, what would you do if you weren't a teacher?"

"I don't know, but am I really suitable to be a teacher?"

Zhou Qing briefly described the recent events to Ms. Zhou.

"Qingqing, you shouldn't have self-doubt because of this matter. From my point of view, you are not wrong."

"After all, if you don't talk about your identity as a teacher, you are a person, and if you are an individual, you will have your own emotions, and you will have your own preferences."

"Take my mother as an example. The primary school students my mother teaches now, but I also have a preference for primary school students. I like those children who are clean, have good grades, and are well-behaved, but for those who are sloppy I don't like it very much, kid."

"But as a teacher, shouldn't everyone be treated equally? And she is my class representative!"

"You are not a saint, how can you make a bowl of water level? And as a student, the most important thing for her is to study, not to pursue the teacher's love. No one stipulates that the person with the best relationship with the teacher must be the class representative Ah! But in this sense, you, the teacher, have really failed, you let the students feel that they want to work hard to win your preference, instead of working hard to learn knowledge."

"And according to your description, her family should also be very bad. The original family really has a great influence on a child's growth, and there are some things that you really shouldn't take care of."

"I also feel that I am really unqualified. But as a teacher to teach and educate people, is it just to give them the knowledge in the textbook? Then anyone can do this job!"

"But now you are in charge of two classes, more than 100 students, and more than 100 families in the back, and you have your own family, can you manage it?"

"I can't control it, but now I know this!" Zhou Qing felt that if he didn't care, he would feel very guilty.

"It's just because you are just starting out as a teacher. After a long time, you won't think so. This matter should be handled by the head teacher, right? You said that you saw the slap print, which means that the parent is very likely Eight or nine were hit in front of the head teacher. But you didn't think about it, why didn't the head teacher take care of it?"

"So when you can't even teach books well, don't think about educating people, let alone love students! If you can't even teach books well, you are not qualified to talk about these things."

"I,,," Zhou Qing said exhausted, indeed, I can't teach my own books well, so what else do I think?Zhou Qing stuffed his head into the quilt, feeling very depressed.

"Baby, don't blame your director for speaking harshly, but what he said is correct. You should go and listen to your other teachers, some of your seniors' classes, and see what their classes are like."

"As a teacher, the first thing you should do is to change your thinking. You have to understand that you are a teacher, don't always think about being friends with students, don't always think about making students like you, don't understand them too much. Even if they are very Bitter, even if they are very tired, they all come here. Remember, establish your authority and let them be afraid of you."

"But why?"

"Then tell me, what is the purpose of students coming to school to study?"

"College entrance examination."

"It's very realistic, it's just for the college entrance examination, so why do you need the college entrance examination?"

"Go to the university of your choice?"

"You could say the same thing, and then go to college?"

"Earn money to support the family?"

"There is no problem, so in the final analysis, the purpose of students coming to study is to pursue happiness. What is happiness? I am here to say bluntly, happiness is money ability."

"Don't argue with me, saying that being rich doesn't necessarily mean happiness, but then I'll ask you if you don't have money, are you happy? Are you happy without money? Are you happy when you are trapped in firewood, rice, oil and salt every day?"

"Take love as an example. For rich people, it's romance, but for poor people, it's thinking about each other, fighting each other, and quarreling endlessly every day."

Zhou Qing remained silent. Ms. Zhou's words were very heart-rending, but very true.She has always been like this!

"So in such a big situation, for those who have no money, their grades largely determine their future life. Treating them well is harming them. If they become friends with them, they will not appreciate you in the future!"

"On the contrary, if you can teach grades, no matter how good or bad you are to them, you are the teacher who will be remembered."

Zhou Qing was silent for a long time. She thought a lot. What Ms. Zhou said was right. Since she chose to become a teacher, maybe she should really take on the responsibilities she should.

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