summer spring

round and round:

Spread the letter good.

When I saw the similar ring, I was a little confused.As a mother, I have imagined your future.You will have a fantastic university.During this period, you may make one or two close friends, and you share joys and sorrows with each other; you may talk about one or two unforgettable love affairs, no matter whether you can go to the end; , get together; you may study hard, get college scholarships, school scholarships, and national scholarships, and integrate a grand slam...

After four years have passed, you are faced with three choices, postgraduate entrance examination, public examination, or employment.At this time, you are almost at the age to get married. You will look at the male friends around you, choose a suitable one you like, and fall in love. You will get married in two or three years, and I am at ease.

After getting married, you have your first child and you like her (him) very much.At this time, it happens that your career is ushering in a rising period, you neglect your family, and your children may become unruly, so you have to pay proper attention to your family.

After a few years of balance, your child is almost sensible, and his career will no longer have a rising period.At this point your husband may persuade you to have another child, and you say yes.This child is different from the first child, she has your careful care, and she will become the well-behaved and sensible appearance in your eyes as she wishes.Your whole life has come to this point, and the next thing is to revolve around these two children.

.........

But I didn't expect that things went wrong in the first step.

You fell in love with a girl.

This is something mom never thought about.On the day of the crash, I lay in a daze on the sofa for a long time, thinking about the details of your relationship, and peeling off cocoons.

Every time you come out of the room, your lips are rosy, and you don’t fit in this cold winter; when I asked about the ring, Fang Qian’s eyes first looked at your hand; the day you went out camping, passing by At the door, you call her Qianqian, not sister...

Not to mention those small actions when we went out to play, now it seems that it is not just a simple relationship.

You are a couple.

Sitting on the sofa, I thought a lot.It's not that I haven't seen homosexuality in school, and I treat it with an open attitude on weekdays.It's just that I didn't expect this to happen to my daughter, and all of a sudden, I didn't know what to do.

After thinking about it for a few days, I had to think about society, family, age, and even the national marriage policy, and the conclusions I came to were all inappropriate.

However, after thinking about it, I told your dad and your grandma that it was inappropriate, saying that following a small policeman would be useless.After so many years, your father has been promoted steadily, and the family is harmonious, so I think it is quite suitable.

You have your likes, and I also have my concerns, give me some time to think about it.

Sincerely,

salute.

mom

202x x month x day

round and round:

How have you been?

In the blink of an eye you'll be off to college.I remember the last time I wrote a letter when I was in the freshman year of high school, you said that you didn’t like living in a dormitory, but we, as parents, disagreed and felt that living in a dormitory is good for learning.

Now that you can go to college alone, you have indeed grown up.

When I learned from your mother that you fell in love with a girl, I was a little surprised.I'm wondering if my dad didn't pass the test, which caused you to lose interest in men.If this is the case, I blame myself and feel ashamed for not leaving you with a good father image.

In the past few days, your mother has been worrying about you all the time. She can't eat or sleep well. I feel very uncomfortable.Next time, if possible, tell me the matter first, and then I will tell your mother, she will probably feel better.

Your mother also discussed this matter with me. She was more worried about the secular aspects, while I was more worried about the economic gap between the two of you.Fang Qian has been out to work for several years, and the family conditions are better than ours.And you are still in college, I am worried that this will be your point of contradiction.

That's all for now, although Dad and Mom are not billionaires, we are always standing behind you.I hope that you will think twice before doing things in the future, cherish the people in front of you, and don't let people down.

Sincerely,

salute.

father

202x x month x day

Mom and Dad:

Spread the letter good.

I'm sorry that the romance was discovered at such an embarrassing time.I haven't matured yet, and my relationship with her may seem naive to you, but I really, really cherish her.

In fact, it was only a month or two ago that Sister Fang Qian and I were together.Originally, I thought I was confessing this matter to you when I was capable, but it happened suddenly.

I am glad to hear from you.I heard from my father that my mother was in a bad mood. In fact, I also knew that I was also in a bad mood.Haven't I imagined my future just like my mother, which is similar to what my mother thought, that I will get married and have children, and spend my old age peacefully.

It's just that feelings are so uncontrollable, I fell in love with Sister Fang Qian.It wasn't her fault that I seduced her, I hope mom and dad don't misunderstand that it's not my sister's fault.

Facing my own feelings, I have also hesitated and hesitated, thinking about whether it is appropriate for us women to be together.But when I see other admirers appearing beside her, I feel very sad.

As for the society, family, age and national marriage policy that my mother talked about, I have also thought about it.Now society is much more open, and homosexuality is no longer a mental illness.Although most people can't accept it, they understand it.

In fact, Sister Fang Qian's family already knew about our relationship and acquiesced.The most important thing now is the economic gap, which is also what my father is worried about. I will study hard and start a business.I made a little money recently, which is enough to make up the down payment for a [-]-square-meter house in City Z. After my mother figured it out, we will find a suitable house in City Z and live together.

As for age, I think it's just right.Now sister Fang Qian takes more care of me, and I can take care of her more when I get old, so age is not a problem.The national marriage policy level is actually relaxing.Whether it admits it or not, it can't change our relationship, right? It's human-made.

Mom and Dad are always the most important people in my heart, and I don't deny it. I really want to be recognized by you in this relationship.Dad doesn't need to say those words, in my heart, you are the best father in the world.You will teach me how to be a human being, teach me how to box, and care for my growth, but you will not determine the direction of my growth.Of course, my mother is also the best mother in the world to me.

From then on, I will think twice before doing things and carefully weigh the consequences.Finally, I hope that my parents will not worry too much about the relationship between me and Sister Fang Qian. We are still young, so just watch.

Regardless of the outcome, good or bad, I have no regrets.I have worked hard and fought for it.

Sincerely,

salute.

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202x x month x day

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