Feminism and donkeys

The mother's strength lasted until her high school.

Qingxuan knew that the relationship between his parents was gradually indifferent, but his father's derailment was unexpected.

This time, they quarreled at grandma's house.

Qingxuan knew that grandma didn't like her, so she seldom talked to Qingxuan, she just raised her eyes and hummed with her nose as a greeting.

The mother was crying, her hair stuck to the corners of her eyes, and she wiped her face and cried out her dissatisfaction in life.

After graduating from college, I gave up my job and became a full-time housewife. After marriage, I kept everything in the house in order. I thought that the relationship between husband and wife was just alienated due to busy work, but I didn't expect her husband's sudden betrayal.

The father was out of breath, pointed at the other party and began to complain about his wife's madness and strength, and the gentle and obedient early marriage seemed to have disappeared

"When a man cheats, it's because the woman is not doing well enough."

The people present were stunned for a moment, and the living room was silent for a moment, only the crackling sound of bone china being knocked, and the exquisite lady took a sip of black tea, "I have already said that a hen that does not lay eggs is bad luck ,Why bother"

"Mom, how do you put it so harshly? What is it called?" Father was also very embarrassed. Although it was not the first time that a noble lady had dissatisfied with his wife in front of him, after all, husband and wife were a community. It's different from slapping him in the face.

"Snapped."

The next moment, he was really slapped by his mother.

"Give me some courage." Although the lady is not young, she still has the aura. She stared at her fiercely, and the tall adult man fell silent for a moment.

Her mother's words were already ringing in her ears. She knew that her mother-in-law had always been dissatisfied with herself, but when she married, she always served without complaint and never complained. Her attitude towards herself hadn't changed a bit over the years.

At first she thought it would be all right to have a son—the son is the mother's wife and a passport to a patriarchal society.

Unexpectedly, it turned out to be a daughter. Disappointed, she decided to have an abortion, but her physical condition did not allow it.

The doctor said that if it is aborted, there will be no more children for the rest of my life.

Helpless, can only give birth.

After Xiao Qingxuan was born, she couldn't hold her head up in front of her mother-in-law for a long time.

I wanted to have another one, but the fertility damage suffered was too serious, and I sought medical treatment for many years to no avail.

She admitted that she only had Qingxuan as her own child in her life.

But she is not reconciled, in order to restore her position in her husband's family, she must train Qingxuan to be an excellent daughter who is thousands of times better than her son.

Her daughter is no worse than any son.

And the daughter must be able to prove herself with the best grades.

She'd danced in chains for far too long in order to win.

"If the wife is not good enough, then the husband will not cheat.

As a daughter-in-law, you should reflect on yourself, instead of making a scene at your husband's house like a lunatic. "The lady didn't look at anyone when she said this, picked up her handbag, and left after speaking.

The matter was finalized by the lady, and the man froze on the spot. After realizing it, he chased her and ran out, leaving his mother standing there blankly.

Is it really her fault?What did she do wrong?

If she is not wrong, then now, is there any point in everything she does?

The husband was right, why did she force herself to be like this.

Mother stood for a long time, and finally noticed Qingxuan who was shrinking in the corner, and she took Qingxuan's hand calmly:

"We go home."

Since then, my mother's attitude has undergone earth-shaking changes, like a string that was always tense and suddenly snapped.

She relaxed her requirements on Qingxuan, and no longer obstructed Qingxuan's hobbies, and even allowed Qingxuan's madness and rebellion during the rebellious period within the scope, allowing Qingxuan to grow freely.

She is beginning to learn how to be a mother.

As long as she is healthy and happy.She loves her daughter.

She begins to love herself.

The weak and incompetent father was also very guilty at the beginning. With the illusion of a happy family, he tried his best to make up for his wife and daughter.

There are only 0 times and countless times of derailment.

She didn't wallow in the false happiness of her husband's prodigal son returning.

But a full-time wife has no choice but to endure the nausea and reconcile her.She doesn't have any savings, how can she get out of this disgusting home.

One must be independent before one can enjoy freedom.

She is looking for a job.

At the beginning, she didn't think about high-paying jobs, and she cast the net widely, as long as she thought she was capable, she would apply, but the resumes she submitted never heard of it, and there was no response.

She became more and more disappointed, and her resume was getting lower and lower. Even a small company with more than ten employees refused to employ her.

She is unwilling and miserable, and she is also a graduate of a prestigious university, so why can't she even apply for a clerical job with a monthly salary of more than 2000?

The young Hr saw that this beautiful woman's skirt was completely wrinkled by her, as if she was about to cry, couldn't bear it, and told her the answer.

So what if she graduated from a famous university, has no work experience, and has been a housewife for nearly 20 years. Which unit would dare to ask her?

Who can guarantee that one day she will resign and go home to continue to be an expensive wife? Who can guarantee the stability of her job?

Besides, at the same cost, wouldn’t it be good to find another young girl who is willing to work overtime? Why would you want to find a middle-aged woman who needs to take care of the family and commute to and from get off work on time?

She had no choice but to try to invest.

She kept finding excuses to ask for money from her husband, she reported the amount of household expenses in a panic, and started saving every penny without letting anyone know.

It's so sad that the housewife seems to be the master, but in fact she is the housekeeper and servant. If she is divorced, she will not even have the money to pay her daughter's school fees.

In the stock market, the price is different every second. Her heart beats up and down violently with the changes in the numbers, but she always loses a lot.

Without experience, she could only stumble and fumble.

She started to buy books, read the news, joined the stock market, and a lot of messages kept popping up on her mobile phone.

She is racing against time, and she wants to beat the road of independence at this age.

She believed that she would be able to get rid of the man's control.And she did.

Suddenly one day, she finally filed for divorce, and the man realized that the pain caused by his cheating on his wife could not be healed.

His wife's indifference, his daughter's strangeness, and his mother's disappointment made him disheartened.

If you want to blame it, you can blame the lady for being too controlling, blame the wife for being too strong and not obedient, and blame the daughter for giving birth to a few boys. In short, people all over the world are sorry for him. It was all the fault of these women that the family was in a state of chaos.

After the college entrance examination, they finally divorced.

Qingxuan followed her mother.

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