far and near

"Face" is an important part of Yu Xiaomin's DNA.In the past, if she failed to get the first place in her class, she would lose face as the village party secretary. If she couldn’t get promoted every year at work, she would lose face as the number one scholar in the county. If her daughter Yu Ren couldn’t enter the experimental class and couldn’t get into a top university, she would lose face as chief physician, The face of the vice president.

The thing she didn't care about "face" the most in her life was getting pregnant when she was dating Ren Songhong, and finally got married with the child in her belly.As an obstetrician and gynecologist, this was an unspeakable mistake for her, because she was tricked by Ren Songhong's passionate sentence "It's definitely fine, I'll ejaculate outside".

The most embarrassing thing for her was given to her by Ren Songhong. The man cheated on him and was hit by his daughter at home. After the two divorced, Ren Songhong remarried and continued to be promoted.People in her hometown of Yuzhuang also said that Yu Xiaomin was "not a prosperous husband", and she couldn't spread the word that Ren Songhong was shameless and might be naked in front of her daughter-ass.

So Yu Xiaomin must stand out and let people see her independence, self-reliance and hard work.Every problem in work, life and parenting can be solved by Yu Xiaomin, and she will not be in the light of Ren Songhong.She also needs to pay close attention to the changes in the depths of Yu Ren's mind, and use the deep alliance of mother and daughter to protect and warm her.

When Yu Xiaomin gave Yu Ren 200 yuan to buy some food and play for her children, she received a call that gave her a headache: a representative of a medical device company checked her avenues many times to no avail, and now sent two people to guard her door. .

When people give gifts, they pay attention to knowing everything in their hearts, and they pay attention to going along with the flow and doing things with ease.But this company has used all kinds of tricks, and it didn't expect that the newly appointed Yu Xiaomin couldn't get in.Seeing that the signing date of the new contract between the hospital and another company was imminent, he took a slant and decided to replace all household appliances in Yu Xiaomin's house with imported famous brands.When Yu Ren was looking through the deposit at home, the furniture was tied up to the truck, and it just parked downstairs in her house so ostentatiously.

Yu Xiaomin went home angrily and made them feel uncomfortable, not afraid of being heard from all directions, "I haven't ordered it before, and I don't know Mr. Zhang and Mr. Li. If you insist on unloading, you can unload it on the road in the community, it has nothing to do with me."

When she opened the door and went home, she immediately realized that something was wrong: Yu Ren always left the key in the entrance every time he went home, and this time was no exception.But apparently she came back and went out in a hurry.

The desk in the daughter's room is a little messy, and the computer stays in a sleep state.Yu Xiaomin looked back at the bedside table in her room, there were signs of being opened underneath, and the file bags wrapped with various documents were still dragging out of the drawer.

The account book is gone, and so is Yu Ren.Yu Xiaomin's heart was so tight that it wanted to pop out of her throat.After she calmed down a little, she checked the landline records and copied down a few calls from strangers.Before going out, she hesitated, and returned to Yu Ren's desk to turn on the dormant computer. On the page was the Q exit interface, but it was obvious that Yu Ren failed to exit successfully because he left in a hurry.

Yu Xiaomin only thought for a few seconds before resolutely clicking on the rows of portraits.On the top is a girl with short green hair, named "I Sing The Story of the West Chamber", and it's probably Bai Maosheng.

It took her half an hour to browse through the conversation records. Most of the messages from the two children were before going to bed at night, and everything from learning instructions to complaining was very normal.The last few words suddenly caught my eye: I miss you Uso very much.

I also miss you Yu Ren.

Yu Xiaomin felt that the appearance of these two "thinkings" was particularly ambiguous.Combined with the two children's regular appointments to meet and sweetly complaining about each other's bitterness, Bai Maosheng is still very caring, and even Yu Ren's physical pain can be counted as a day... She has more difficulty breathing: she feels that she has been cheated.She thought the heart-to-heart relationship between mother and daughter turned out to be Yu Ren's choice.

Her daughter fell in love behind her back, secretly went to the provincial capital to see her little girlfriend desperately, and begged herself to help her little lover's family. In Q, she still had a lovely, gentle and naive look.This is not her high-spirited daughter who excels in study, has a high EQ, talks to her mother all the time, and looks down on others.

This is also a moment to test Yu Xiaomin's leadership ability for many years, even surpassing the challenge to her during the SARS period.She turned off the computer and called Ren Songhong, her words were both urgent, confidential and emotional, "Your daughter secretly went to the provincial capital to find a classmate to play with, she is only under 16 years old, what happened?"

Ren Songhong was moved by the long-lost words "your daughter", and immediately diverted the car to pick up Yu Xiaomin. The driver, who usually drove safely, almost flew up at the high speed, and it took two hours and five minutes to catch up to the provincial hospital.

Along the way, the two had an embarrassing exchange about Yu Ren's study and the situation of his elders. Yu Xiaomin's face turned blue, which was a sign that she was about to lose her temper.Ren Songhong tried to ease the atmosphere, "It's normal for her to have her own ideas at this age, she just went to meet her classmates, she shouldn't be out of line. Caicai is still very well-behaved."

Yu Xiaomin's glance at him after hearing this was extremely complicated, she seemed to hold back for a while before nodding, "The social situation is complicated at the end of the year."

"That's true." Ren Songhong agreed.What he didn't expect was that Shun saw his daughter at the entrance of the hospital, and his ex-wife dragged the child home regardless of basic human skills.She is just too neurotic, she used to be like this to herself, and now she is like this to her children.So they quarreled frequently in the few years before their divorce, which wiped out all the affection and love between husband and wife.

The ex-husband cheated on Xiaomin Yu, who could scold behind closed doors at home, but with Ren Songhong in the car and a strange driver, Yu Xiaomin could only swallow all the words about Yu Ren's feelings, and put a stern face on her daughter.She can't lose the face of raising children in front of Ren Songhong: If you teach your daughter this virtue, she will be one step away from homosexuality.

Yu Xiaomin didn't expect that she would meet the strongest opponent in her life: Yu Ren didn't speak.After being slapped and reprimanded, she even acted calmly.

Ren Songhong said that you should tell your family and accompany you to the hospital when adults are free.

Yu Ren revealed the facts: I asked my mother for more than an hour and she just refused.

"Then you go and go, what are you doing stealing the household registration book?" The mother stole the household registration book in order to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to obtain a certificate.

The daughter did the same thing, and said without shame, "I think I need to register for accommodation. I originally planned to stay in the provincial capital for a few days before going back."

"You're just selfish. You don't even think about how anxious or worried I should be without your whereabouts for a few days."

"I left a note on the table in the living room." Yu Ren felt that she had considered everything, and her little face was as serious as Yu Xiaomin's, "I will do everything I can for my friends."

When Ren Songhong turned the corner to praise the child, Yu Xiaomin took a deep look at Yu Ren, as if the X-ray of the hospital had photographed her internal organs and bones, "Friends?" She laughed sarcasticly, "You are so kind."

Both mother and daughter immediately understood that there was a grudge between them.If this is a harbinger of war, the qualitative doubts about "friends" are also a well-known dip on the intelligence front.

Resetting the computer password after returning home is Yu Xiaomin's information blockade.Mother and daughter do not speak to each other for two days, which is a silent state against the enemy.The mediation of the discerning grandparents at the New Year's Eve dinner table is tantamount to the intervention of a third party to promote peace.

Yu Ren turned his contemplative gaze to his mother, "I won't delay my studies."

Grandpa and grandma said that this is a good boy.But Yu Xiaomin smirked weakly, "Other things must be obedient, you are still young and don't know the complexity of society."

Back and forth, the slang mode of the mother and daughter started.

Yu Ren was bitter about his mother's kick and slap, "Mother and daughter should also respect each other."

Yu Xiaomin said, "That doesn't mean I respect you for crossing the line."

After all, Yu Ren was young, and his face was almost unsteady. "I just went to see my good friend and her mother. It's not crossing the line. Many children go to other places to work when they are fifteen or sixteen years old. Isn't their family very relieved?"

"I believe you will understand in the end." Yu Xiaomin brought food for her daughter, "For Chinese New Year, let's not talk about this. I helped to say hello and changed to a single ward, which is the most benevolent."

Her benevolence includes but is not limited to: continue to help Yu Ren sign up for one-on-one math teacher tuition during the winter vacation; do not agree with her taking Huai Fengnian home; pocket money and lucky money will be confiscated in the name of depositing university tuition; The clock-in time at home...squeeze Yu Ren's time, energy and money, and she will have no time to fall in love and think about a lover.

Yu Xiaomin is full of confidence in this: at most half a year, Yu Ren, who has cut off the advice with Bai Maosheng, will recover from various honor scores and future prospects.

As a doctor, Yu Xiaomin has seen a lot of such "puberty" cases.She tends that the intimacy of girls when they are young is a substitute for yearning for the opposite sex.When they enter a more mature and enlightened heterosexual environment, the same-sex intimacy in the past will return to the category of friendship.

She doesn't have to clearly state "Your feelings for Bai Maosheng are abnormal", which will disturb the rhythm of thinking between her and her daughter, and cast a shadow on future exchanges.

Just like the art of gift giving, it is more important to know the world and do things with ease when you are with your adolescent daughter.This is ambiguous, emotional intelligence, and convenience.Yu Xiaomin believes that with Yu Ren's cleverness, she will eventually respond to the secret space her mother reserved for her.

But she doesn't know another secret.On the sixth day of the first lunar month, Yu Ren went to Yuan Huifang's house in the west of the city because of the temporary adjustment of tutoring time.Although she didn't get through to Bai Maosheng's phone number, she still suppressed her mood and led Xiao Yuanliu to learn a dozen words and review the nine-nine-nine subtraction table.

Before leaving Yuan's house, she went to say hello to Yin Xiu, and Yuan Huifang looked at her strangely, "Xiao Yin went out yesterday, and the big and small bags said she was going to the provincial capital for a few days." This time she forced Yu Ren a lot of snacks, " Every time our Xiaoliu eats your food, I have to trouble you to teach me. There is no one else here, so tell Auntie why you care so much about my Xiaoliu?"

Yu Ren's inner double turned into outer double due to forcefully opening her eyes. She stared at Yuan Huifang seriously, and showed the self-cultivation that she used to communicate with Yu Xiaomin, "I have always wanted to be a teacher since I was a child, but I have no students. Xiao Liu is cute and obedient , and she is very smart. My cousin learned the addition table that he could not learn in a month, Xiaoliu learned it in half a day. I love teaching her very much, and I am reluctant to leave this student behind."

On Yuan Huifang's round face, the two nasolabial folds deepened, and he took a fancy to Xiaoliu as a good play toy.She looked at Yuan Liu with some pride, "Yes, although my children did not go to kindergarten, their learning level has surpassed that of the first-grade children. They are very smart, and my family is born with it."

She enthusiastically stuffed a handful of snacks into Yu Ren's pocket again, and cultivated herself as a businessman in the spirit of mutual benefit, "Come and play more when you have time."