Lucky husband

When Bai Zhiwen and Li Mingde returned to Changping County, it was already the end of September, and there was still a month before they got married.

As fiancés who are about to get married, they can't meet again at this time, Bai Zhiwen endured his thoughts and asked Li Mingde to send Li Mingjin the new script he brought back this time.

Li Mingjin happily accepted the script, and said enviously to Li Mingde: "Brother, you and Brother Bai will definitely be very lively when you return to the village this time. If you pass the exam, you are a scholar and you are still a grand running water seat."

Back then, when Li Mingde and Bai Zhiwen passed the exam together, the two families held a three-day feast together, and the village was lively every day. More than two years later, Li Mingjin still remembers it clearly.

At that time, there were only banquets, but this time I heard that the opera troupe will be invited to perform in the village. It seems that the Bai people are discussing whether to build an archway, and there is a lot of movement, but unfortunately he can't go back and see it with his own eyes.

"Brother Jin, stay at home for the last month and don't think about going out. After this month, if there is any lively event in the future, you can go and see it." Li Mingde looked at his younger brother helplessly.

As the only brother in the family, Li Mingjin was quite favored. A few years ago, the third uncle had only Brother Jin alone. When he and the third brother were young, they often took Brother Jin out to play. He has a similar temperament, maybe he will slip back quietly just to watch the fun, it would be bad if people know about it.

"Brother, I will stay at home." Li Mingjin was also helpless, and almost everyone would tell him not to run out after seeing him, as if he was still a child who only knew how to have fun and was ignorant.

Li Mingde completed Bai Zhiwen's commission, and after saying a few words to Li Mingjin, he left Sanfang's side, letting his wife and son continue to play here. He had just returned to the county and had many invitations, so he had to go.

Changping County is the old base camp of Bai Zhiwen and Li Mingde. Both of their relatives are here. There is no need to offend the local local snakes. As long as the dinner and tea parties are not excessive, the two of them need to go to a few games to express their opinions .

After putting the things Bai Zhiwen gave her into the room, Li Mingjin ran out to talk to his sister-in-law and nephew.

Li Chengxiu is now one year and one month old, and he can speak many simple words. Children of this age are the most fun, teasing him to talk, making him laugh, leading him to walk, crawl, and hold him high.

As an aunt, Li Mingjin prepared a brightly colored wooden wind chime early on. Each piece of wood has a small bell installed under it, which can jingle just by playing with it.

It was the first time for Li Chengxiu to see such a fun thing. Under the temptation of the toy, he uttered the word "aunt" quite clearly after a while. Li Mingjin gave him the new toy very faithfully.

Qiu Nanny watched from the side, observing Bai Ting, whom she should also teach manners in the future, with a little thought in her eyes.

Bai Ting is different from Li Mingjin. Li Mingjin is not sure. You have to hang him first and let him be interested in learning something before you can start teaching, otherwise it will be a waste of effort.

From what the Li family said, we can know that Bai Ting is a woman with her own ideas, probably because she accompanied her husband to study in Fucheng. She has come into contact with some students' wives. As a country girl who was once illiterate, she already has a bearing It has changed a lot, and the direction of teaching is different from that of Li Mingjin.

Aunt Qiu thought to herself, Li Chengxiu got presents from the third grandma and the eldest aunt whom he met for the first time, and after playing for a while, he looked at Aunt Qiu, probably wondering if this old grandma would give him something fun too. .

Bai Ting looked amused, and in order to avoid embarrassment from her son's surprising words, she called her son's attention back and planned to coax him to continue playing with the small wooden blocks prepared by the third aunt.

Seeing that Li Chengxiu was about to turn around and stumble back, Madam Qiu tried to ease her expression, bent down and took out a small ball of five-color thread from her bosom.

This ball of thread was made with the materials she had at hand when she was free, and she planned to give it to the children as a meeting gift. Children of this age like such gadgets.

Li Chengxiu knew that he wanted to say thank you for taking other people's things. He didn't understand Qiu Nanny's cold face, hugged Qiu Nanny's thigh, and said obediently: "Thank you, grandma."

Everyone who was so sweet by this child laughed, Li Mingjin walked over and picked up a ball of string to tease Li Chengxiu, one of them couldn't control Li Chengxiu for too long, Li Chengxiu flattened his mouth, and looked at his mother aggrievedly: "Mother..."

"You know how to file a complaint at such an age. Aunt tells you that if you want to file a complaint in the future, you should avoid it, otherwise it will be useless. Do you know?" Li Mingjin pinched Li Chengxiu's cheek.

Li Chengxiu couldn't understand such a long sentence. Seeing that his new toy was still being held by his aunt, he finally couldn't help crying.

Seeing this, Bai Ting didn't feel sorry for her son, and said to Li Mingjin, "Brother Jin, you've made me cry so much that I need you to coax him, but I don't care."

Li Mingjin smiled easily when he heard the words, coaxing the child is not easy, he picked up a piece of pastry: "Chengxiu, look at what Auntie is holding?"

Li Chengxiu blinked his small eyes, looked at the white and soft pastry in his aunt's hand, cried less, and looked at Li Mingjin eagerly.

"Don't cry when you eat pastry, understand?" Li Mingjin held the pastry closer to Li Chengxiu.

Li Chengxiu looked at Bai Ting, seeing that Bai Ting didn't express his opinion, he took a step back aggrievedly, and continued to look at Li Mingjin with tears in his eyes.

Pastry Dafa actually failed?Li Mingjin was surprised, this method of coaxing the child was obviously not successful on Niu Niu.

After a while, Li Mingjin conceded defeat and put the ball of string into Li Chengxiu's hand: "That's all, I'll give it back to you."

After getting the toy again, Li Chengxiu was aggrieved and reluctantly said "Thank you, Aunt" to Li Mingjin, and then hid behind Bai Ting with the new toy, carefully guarding against Li Mingjin.

Li Mingjin couldn't laugh or cry when he saw it, but he held back his desire to continue teasing him, ate the pastry by himself, and said with emotion: "Sister-in-law, this child is not gluttonous, unlike Niu Niu."

Aunt Qiu could see clearly from the sidelines that Li Chengxiu wasn't greedy, he didn't eat without Bai Ting's permission, a child who was a little over one year old was taught to be like this, the child was smart, and the teacher taught it well.

Jiang Zhiyun could also see it clearly: "Niu Niu was able to be coaxed by you because she knew she could eat the cakes you gave her. Chengxiu was not coaxed by you because he was not familiar with you, and the cakes you gave were not as good as your sister-in-law's." Nodding, he resisted eating."

"Sister-in-law, is that so?" Li Mingjin was surprised, and did not expect such a reason.

"Yes." Bai Ting nodded, seeing that Li Mingjin didn't quite believe it, she proposed, "Why don't you give Chengxiu another piece of pastry, brother Jin."

Li Mingjin, who did not believe in evil, picked up a piece of pastry again. He noticed that Li Chengxiu subconsciously glanced at Bai Ting. After Bai Ting nodded, he took the pastry with a happy face, thanked Li Mingjin sweetly, and completely forgot Just now Li Mingjin snatched toys from him and told him about him crying.

Li Mingjin found it very interesting, and he wanted to try again, but was stopped by Jiang Zhiyun: "Brother Jin, Chengxiu can't eat much, and if he eats too much pastry now, he will eat less later. Can't feed anymore."

Jiang Zhiyun, who had raised two children and watched her nephews grow up in Li's courtyard, knew how much a child of Li Chengxiu's age should eat.

Seeing that Li Mingjin was ignorant, Jiang Zhiyun suddenly thought that she had always taught Li Mingjin how to behave and understand the world, and she forgot to teach him how to raise children.

No wonder Jiang Zhiyun couldn't think of it, because Old Jiang Wang didn't teach her much before she got married. After she got married, became pregnant, and gave birth, she looked at her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and recalled when she was a child, and slowly figured out what to do. Raising children.

Thinking that Li Mingjin was going to get married soon, Jiang Zhiyun was a little flustered. Bai Zhiwen seemed to have a bright future, and Brother Jin would probably not be by her side in the future. She was worried that Brother Jin would not know about pregnancy and childbirth. There is no one to discuss things.

At this time, Jiang Zhiyun was a little thankful that the Bai family had an elder named Bai Yao. If Bai Zhiwen settled somewhere in the future, Bai Yao would definitely follow her as a widowed mother, so that Brother Jin would have elders to take care of her.

But mother-in-law and mother-in-law are different after all, Jiang Zhiyun is still worried about Li Mingjin, wondering if she should teach him something before he gets married.

Seeing the changes in Jiang Zhiyun's expression, Madam Qiu guessed Jiang Zhiyun's thoughts, and recalled the families she had been in contact with before. Most of the women or elder brothers in the family would have a dowry mother next to them when they got married. The function of the dowry mother was to replace them mothers, to remind them when they are pregnant, giving birth, and teaching their children.

The Li family obviously didn't have that condition, and neither the dowry mother nor the dowry maid would have it. Judging from the frailty of the Bai family, it would be no harm to let Brother Jin know something in advance.

After Bai Ting left after dinner, Madam Qiu approached Jiang Zhiyun and discussed with Jiang Zhiyun how to teach Li Mingjin about this.

Fortunately, things like pregnancy and childbirth were not as embarrassing for Jiang Zhiyun as the things in the room. She closed the door and talked with Li Mingjin all afternoon, and when the door was opened, both mother and son were blushing.

After talking about the red-faced matter, there are still things to pay attention to when raising a child. Mother Qiu and Jiang Zhiyun thought together, and finally wrote a booklet.

It clearly states what changes will happen to children who are a few months old, what to start learning, what to do with them, and what needs to be paid special attention to when taking care of children.

This booklet, Jiang Zhiyun, was placed in Li Mingjin's dowry, and asked him to take a good look at it in the future.

When Li Mingjin was at home listening to how to raise children, both Li Mingde and Bai Zhiwen went back to the old house in the village and received congratulations from outsiders every day.

Both the Bai people and the Li family planned to make this celebration more lively than the time when the two passed the exam two years ago. After some discussions, everyone decided that the time for this celebration will be nine days.

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