Lucky husband

Seeing that Li Mingjin had obviously started to wander again, Jiang Zhiyun was very helpless, she shook her brother's head: "Brother Jin, what's the matter with you? Tell mother what's going on, and mother won't blame you .”

Facing his mother, Li Mingjin forced a smile: "Mother, let me think about it."

After finishing speaking, Li Mingjin escaped from Jiang Zhiyun's grasp like a loach that couldn't slip, and he ran back to his own room and locked the door inside.

Looking at Li Mingjin's back, Jiang Zhiyun had the feeling that he was running away.

After thinking about it, since Brother Jin didn't reject it outright, Jiang Zhiyun felt that he looked a little shy instead, so she shouldn't be disgusted with this marriage.

Just thinking that brother Jin was always distracted today, Jiang Zhiyun guessed that something must have happened to him, maybe he had some kind of dream.

There are two types of Li Mingjin's dreams. One is to remind everyone that bad things will happen, and the other is to indirectly remind everyone that good things will happen.

Jiang Zhiyun thought that Brother Jin's attitude didn't look like something bad happened, so maybe this dream was a picture of Brother Jin and Bai Zhiwen getting married?future life?Or the two will have a little awkwardness in the future?

Suddenly knowing that she would have someone to marry, it was normal for her to feel uncomfortable for a while, so Jiang Zhiyun decided to let him think about it before asking him.

Li Mingjin thought about it all day, except when he came out to eat, he locked himself in the room at other times.

Until the next morning, after Jiang Zhiyun waited for Li Mingkang to go to the private school, she couldn't help but approached Li Mingjin again: "Brother Jin, you've been thinking about it all day, running away from this matter won't solve the problem , are you willing or not?"

Li Mingjin pursed her lips, looking at Jiang Zhiyun with a look of bewilderment: "Mother, I still don't know."

It seemed impossible for him to figure it out by himself. Jiang Zhiyun sat next to Li Mingjin and asked him: "Brother Jin, is there anything you don't understand? Do you want to talk to your mother, who will help you analyze it?" analyze."

Li Mingjin's face was slightly red, he was embarrassed to say that he had dreamed about Bai Zhiwen's life in the past few years for two consecutive nights, and he seemed to be someone he had always paid close attention to.

Playing with his fingers, Li Mingjin held back a question: "Mom, why do I have to get married?"

Apart from being embarrassed to face Bai Zhiwen, Li Mingjin was not yet fully prepared mentally. He always felt that getting married was a bit scary.

First of all, he has to leave the home where he grew up and his family members. Secondly, he has to join a family he is completely unfamiliar with, and he has to work hard like the eldest sister to conceive and give birth. Why can't he be like his cousin, What about not getting married?

To be honest, Li Mingjin stumped Jiang Zhiyun with this question, why did she have to get married?

If someone else answered, they would definitely say that women and brothers should marry when they reach the age. This is a matter of course and why there are so many.

But Jiang Zhiyun saw that Li Mingjin was really troubled by this problem, she thought about it, and finally said: "Mother doesn't know how to tell you why you want to marry, but mother can analyze with you not to marry, marry, marry The difference between being right and marrying the wrong person.”

"If you don't get married, you not only have to endure gossip from outsiders, but you also have to consider how to support yourself. You must know that according to the regulations of our Dayu Dynasty, except for special cases such as widows and widows, other women and brothers cannot be independent. household."

"Your cousin and the Liang family have reconciled, and her and Brother Qiu's household registrations are under the name of your second grandfather. There are four people in their family. The head of the household can only be your second grandfather, not your second grandmother. , can’t be your cousin, let alone your cousin.”

"Maybe it's nothing now, but when your second grandfather passes away, their household will have to find a man to be the head of the household, or they will have to belong to your uncle in the lobby."

"By the way, since we are talking about your cousin, the mother said a few digressions. He has reached the age when he should marry and has not married. You have a good relationship with him. He should have told you why he didn't marry. Right, but Niang thinks the reasons he said are not the real reasons.”

"Xiang Yiyu, who lives in the right wing of our house, has already clearly expressed his willingness to marry Brother Qiu, but Brother Qiu still refuses him all the time and treats him with integrity."

"Mother guessed that what really made Brother Qiu unable to make up his mind to get married was what happened to him when he was a child. His father treated him and his mother too much, which made him think that men are bad and unreliable. If he wants to live, he has to rely on himself. .”

"That's why he learned medical skills from Lang Xing, thinking that he can live on his own, but the household registration is still a problem, but he has medical skills in his hands, and he should be able to solve it after thinking about it."

"Let's talk about the example of Miss Laidi. Liu Laidi has never been married because of her looks and strength. No matter what she did in those years when she was not married, as long as she appeared in front of everyone, she would be discussed by everyone. .”

"Of course, even if she married Bai Wu, your second brother-in-law's younger brother, some people in the village would still like to talk about her when they mentioned her. This is unavoidable."

"But at least she doesn't need to worry that she can only live on her brother or nephew after her father gets old."

Jiang Zhiyun used the example around Li Mingjin to tell him what problems he would face if he didn't marry, and then he talked about marrying the right person and marrying the wrong person.

"Brother Jin, mother is very glad that she married your father back then. Your father is a good husband, and your grandma is also a good mother-in-law. Although my life in Li's house is not as comfortable as in my mother's house, mother and father get along well. I have cultivated a relationship with you, and with you and your brother, the two of you brothers are treasures given to my mother from heaven, watching you grow up from little babies, my mother is very happy every day."

"Although the reasons for your second sister and second brother-in-law were not good, they got along very well after getting along. Now they have a well-behaved and lovely daughter, and their lives are very happy."

"Of course, not every couple can be like me and your father, Miss Chun and Bai Chen. Some people will become a bitter couple in getting along, such as your second uncle and former second aunt, or your cousin And Uncle Qiantang, they are just not happy..."

Li Mingjin, who had been quietly listening to Jiang Zhiyun's words before, suddenly interrupted her: "Mother, how can I be like you and father?"

Most of Li Mingjin's worries about getting married come from this, perhaps because he has lived a happy life since he was a child, and he is not sure what his life will be like after he gets married.

Jiang Zhiyun didn't answer, but instead asked Li Mingjin: "Brother Jin, how do you think parents get along?"

"Hmm..." Li Mingjin thought about it seriously, "The relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious, and the children are obedient and sensible?"

Li Mingjin occasionally heard others describe his mother like this.

"Well, it's about the same. Mom thinks that your grandma is very right in saying that you live your own life. And your grandma told me to change your heart for your heart." Jiang Zhiyun felt that these two sentences were very correct. "At the beginning, I I got married without knowing your father at all. My mother was a little flustered before she got married. After I got married, I treated your father sincerely. I treated your grandparents just like I treated your grandparents. I treated your uncle and uncle , Second Uncle and the others are like treating your uncle and aunt..."

Facing her brother who had reached the age of engagement and it was time to get married, Jiang Zhiyun didn't hold back, and spoke out her feelings before and after marriage, the problems she thought about, and various things she did after marriage.

It is true that leaving the comfortable natal family will make you uncomfortable, there will be friction, you will be wronged, and you will feel uncomfortable, but as long as that period passes, you will be fine, and you will have feelings for your caring and considerate husband. After conceiving their child, Jiang Zhiyun I feel that all my suffering is worth it.

Therefore, when Jiang Zhiyun talked about her past experience, she had a happy smile on her face, and Li Mingjin looked at her thoughtfully.

After Jiang Zhiyun finished speaking, she looked at Li Mingjin who was obviously thinking, and calmed down, waiting for him to think slowly.

When children encounter confusion, Jiang Zhiyun believes that parents should not directly help children make decisions, but should guide children to think and think for themselves.

Because children will leave the shelter of their parents when they grow up, they must learn to grow up on their own in order to better live their future.

"Mother." Li Mingjin said after a while, as if he had made up his mind, "Actually, I have been having the same dream in the past two nights, and the dream is the memories related to me these years after Big Brother Bai came to Shanghe Village. "

"Then what, I think Big Brother Bai should like me, but I don't know if I like him, let alone if I marry him, can he be like you and dad."

Li Mingjin spoke slowly, as if he was thinking about how to express his inner feelings at the moment, especially when Bai Zhiwen was the candidate for marriage, which made him more entangled than when facing other people.

Listening to her son's words, Jiang Zhiyun finally understood the reason why he was abnormal for the past two days. She never expected that Brother Jin would still have this type of dream.

Moreover, Jiang Zhiyun keenly noticed the difference in Li Mingjin's treatment of Bai Zhiwen. The child didn't realize it himself. While he was thinking about this question, he had already shown that he actually accepted Bai Zhiwen.

Because he didn't worry about marrying or not, but was thinking about what would happen after he got married. He knew that Bai Zhiwen might have always had a good impression of him, and he didn't know if he could respond to this good impression. He was worried that it would make Bai Zhiwen and his family people disappointed.

People with different personalities will meet different people and feelings, some people with different personalities complement each other, and some people with the same personality attract each other.

Jiang Zhiyun has a gentle personality, and Li Chengshi is a down-to-earth person. She and Li Chengshi have been together for a long time after they got married and naturally developed feelings. As they grow older, this relationship will slowly ferment into a family relationship.

As the eldest son and grandson, Li Mingde has been obedient and sensible since he was a child, and he naturally developed this slightly serious and upright personality when he grew up. He and Bai Ting, who is also the eldest sister, are in harmony. They are very family-friendly and are not prone to conflicts.

Like Li Mingli, who is so lively and jumpy, Miss Qu Jia fell in love with him at first sight, and the two hit it off.

And Li Mingchun has always been a little timid because of the willingness of the environment in which she grew up. She was not happy with the same environment in which she grew up, but it was very suitable to be together with Bai Chen who dared to resist the elders who fought for her. Bai Chen taught her to be brave.

Li Mingxia is different from her sister, she has the right ideas, and she matches well with the silent Zheng Shan.

Besides, Li Qiusheng, who is cold on the outside and soft on the inside, is afraid that only someone as enthusiastic as Yi Yu can melt his protective disguise.

Jiang Zhiyun didn't dare to say with certainty how the relationship between Li Mingjin and Bai Zhiwen would be in the future, but she felt that the mature and stable Bai Zhiwen and her optimistic and kind brother Jin were suitable, and the two would attract each other.

Moreover, Jiang Zhiyun also believes that the Bai family is as good a husband's family as the Li family, and that the children she and Sister Lanyue have taught can manage their lives well, and will not let those who care about them worry about them.

Author’s gossip: Xixi struggled a lot when writing this paragraph. She wanted to express Jiang Zhiyun’s thoughts on teaching children, and also wanted to show that Ming Jin’s thinking was free from the constraints of ordinary worldly rules, but she also felt that he was a native of ancient times. His thinking is too advanced, like a time traveler, which doesn't fit the environment he grew up in. I want to skip this paragraph and write that they are engaged and married.