Lucky husband

Finally, when Qian Xinghua finished complaining about her husband's family, she remembered her purpose of going back to her mother's house, and took out the bag from the basket: "Mother, this is the fine white flour that I saved by doing everything possible. You have bad teeth, so I made it from fine white flour." Noodles are the best."

Qian Xinghua didn't say that the fine white noodles were given by Mrs. Li, she took all the credit for herself, and talked about how hard it was for her to save these fine white noodles.

Previously, Granny Qian thought that Qian Xinghua was reluctant to take things back to her mother's house when she saw the bag that was not full enough. After hearing Qian Xinghua say that these noodles were saved from her own mouth, Granny Qian's dissatisfaction disappeared immediately, leaving only The distress and satisfaction for her daughter, as well as the dissatisfaction with Mrs. Li.

"Xinghua, you are pregnant, don't always think about your mother, you don't need to eat those good ones when you are old, just eat something and send it away." Mrs. Li picked up the bag of fine white flour and weighed it in her hand. I was happy for a while, with so much fine white flour, saving a little and adding some coarse flour can make several meals for the grandchildren in the family.

After Qian's mother said a few heartfelt words, Qian Xinghua finally said something she couldn't handle at her in-law's house: "Mother, you said that after I give birth, if my mother-in-law tortures me hard, what will I do?" manage?"

"What should I do?" Mrs. Qian was amused by her daughter's words, and poked her daughter's head, "Are you stupid, you just suffer stupidly when she teases you, you have forgotten what your mother taught you before ?”

Qian Xinghua looked at Granny Qian blankly, unable to remember what her mother taught her when she got married ten years ago.

"Woman, what is the most important weapon?" Granny Qian pinched her, "Cry!"

"Mother said that your mother-in-law is strong and aggressive. Everyone in Shanghe Village knows that mother told you to be gentle and weak. That old woman in Li's family bullied you. Don't say anything. Go out and do things. If you cry when you are hurting someone, no one will think you are disobedient, they will only think about how your mother-in-law did evil to your daughter-in-law!"

When Qian Xinghua first married into Li's family, she was safe and honest, and Mrs. Li treated her pretty well. In addition, she herself had never given birth to a son and felt that she could not stand up straight. She didn't dare to confront Mrs. Li. After a long time, she forgot After hearing what she had heard before she got married, Granny Qian realized it as soon as she said it. It is not right for her daughter-in-law to say anything outside, and it is best to just cry and not speak.

"Mother, you are so amazing!" Qian Xinghua looked at Old Madam Li with admiration in her eyes, Jiang was still old and hot, how could she have imagined without her mother's teaching.

"It doesn't matter which family's daughter-in-law is the same. Listen more, watch more, learn more and do more. Look at your sister-in-laws, how submissive they are under my old mother's control. None of them dare to choke with me." Mrs. Qian Indeed, she managed her sons and daughter-in-law very obediently, and the whole family was harmonious, Qian Xinghua only felt envious.

She also wanted to live a life like her mother's in the future, where her son was filial and her daughter-in-law was obedient, controlling the power of the family and saying what she said was right.

Seeing her daughter's thoughts, Mrs. Qian patted her hand: "You still have a long way to go, learn more, your mother-in-law is a bit more aggressive, and she still has good things in her body. There are also other people's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't just stare at your own three-acre land."

Granny Qian really hoped that her daughter could get over it as much as possible, so that she would send back more and more things to her natal family, not to mention that she would not always come back to trouble her natal family, so she taught Qian Xinghua that she would not hide anything. private.

"Actually, it's not easy to be a daughter-in-law in any family. If you really want to live comfortably, the only way is to divide the family. Unfortunately, the old man and the old woman of the Li family are still there, and it is impossible to separate the family." Granny Qian said a little He sighed regretfully.

The Li family is considered a relatively wealthy family in Shanghe Village. They have ten acres of paddy fields, eight acres of dry fields, and a large courtyard. Separate the family, even if the daughter's family is only allocated two acres of paddy fields and two acres of dry fields, as long as they work hard, they can live a nourishing and comfortable life.

But it’s useless to say these things? (???′)???, the separation of the family must not be mentioned from the mouth of the daughter-in-law, otherwise Mrs. Li and the others will let their family leave the house in a fit of anger, and everyone else will Not a word of injustice.

However, Qian Xinghua was really moved, and asked the old lady Qian to analyze: "Mother, you said that according to the current situation of my husband's family, is it better to separate or not?"

"Ming De and Ming Li from Dafang were both sent to the school in the county by my mother-in-law. The Shuxiu and the board and lodging of the two brothers in the county were provided by the grandpa. It costs five or six a year at least. Two silvers, although the eldest brother and sister-in-law have to figure out the cost of the pen, ink, paper and inkstone, but in the future, the big house will provide for the elderly couple, and I don’t believe that my mother-in-law will subsidize them.”

"Also, if the two Mingde brothers are well-educated, it is said that it will cost more to take the imperial examination. It costs more than a dozen taels of silver for one person to take the exam. Even if the family has gold and silver mountains, they can't afford such consumption. Wait until my family Ming will be ten taels of silver." There are still five or six years before I can go to the county at the age of one or two, what if my grandfather has no money at that time, what will my family do?"

"Now this is edible in my stomach, and it looks like a son at first glance. What should I do with this child?"

"By the way, Sanfang's belly was also conceived at this time. If Sanfang also gave birth to a boy, according to my mother-in-law's habit of favoring Sanfang, Brother Li is dumb and silent. At that time, our second bedroom will Can't you get nothing?"

The more Qian Xinghua thought about it, the more worried she became. Mingcai was so smart. If her mother-in-law threw all the money on Da Fang, Mingcai would have no money to study in the future, where would she get the money?

Mrs. Qian didn't know that Li's family sent two children to the county school. After hearing what Qian Xinghua said, she felt that there was a problem. It would be considered good if the whole family could support a scholar. Li's family had a big heart. You have to fly into the sky and serve two at a time?I don't even think about how many farmers really rely on reading to get ahead, and they will be the top of the sky if they pass the exam.

"This is a problem. Now that the two brothers Li Mingde and Li Mingli are still young, they should either cut off the way for them to study early, or find a way to separate the family so as not to be dragged down. Duanheng (ˉ(∞)ˉ) is too far ahead Being hated by others, it is better to separate the family. As long as there is no trouble, the relationship between son-in-law and brother-in-law will not be broken. If one of Li Mingde and his brothers really develops in the future, it will not be difficult for you as an aunt to rely on .” Granny Qian began to calculate the feasibility.

When Qian Xinghua heard this, she couldn't help muttering: "Mum, you don't know, my family is very smart, and they are good at reading, so there is no need to rely on the big house."

"I'm Mingcai's grandmother. Of course I look forward to Mingcai's well-being. I can't write two lis in one stroke. The blood relatives of a family break the bones and connect the tendons. No matter who gets rich, they will benefit from each other." Granny Qian taught Looking at his daughter, he thought in his heart that several of his grandchildren were also smart. If they should be sent to a private school to learn how to read and write, their own would be the most reliable.