should be stacked to return to the north

On the day Bei's father and Bei's mother came back, it was Ying's mother who brought Ying Die and Xiaobei back to pick them up.

Ying's mother and Bei's father and Bei's mother have not seen each other for a long time. It was many years ago when they came to Yingcheng to build the railway.

Although we didn't meet each other, we still kept in touch.

This time, Mother Ying knew that they were coming back, and she was looking forward to meeting them again.

After all, I haven't seen it for many years.

Ying Die wasn't that nervous at first, but when she stood at the exit of the train station and watched the people coming out of the station, and she didn't know which one was Beigui's parents, she became inexplicably nervous.

I even wanted to go to the bathroom.

"What to do, I kind of want to go to the bathroom."

?

Beigui looked at her and said, "No way, big sister, are you nervous?"

Ying Die hurriedly shook his head in denial.

How can the child be aware of her bewilderment.

But anyone with a discerning eye can see that it is obviously nervous.

"You really don't have to be so nervous. Although I haven't seen my parents for a long time, they are not fierce at all." Beigui comforted.

It's not a question of being fierce or not.

Just inexplicably nervous.

Beigui whispered in her ear: "Didn't we all agree, let's not be honest with my parents for the time being. You don't have to worry, do you have nothing now, and you can't give me a good future."

"So don't think about what you're going to say to my parents today. Just pick them up normally."

After the two confessed to Ying's mother, Ying Die also shared his concerns.

What she wants to do now has not been completed, nor does she have a very stable income.If she were to face Beigui's parents in her current state, she would have no confidence.

There will be some anxiety.

Mother Ying said, if you think the timing is not right, then don't say it.

Not all parents are quick to accept.

What Ying's mother said made Ying Die feel relieved for the time being.

But a few days later, when she met Beigui's parents, she was at a loss again.

"Ying Zi, Mommy is here with you. You have to behave better." Ying's mother said appropriately.

Yes.

With my mother by my side, be the strongest backing.

What is there to be afraid of.

You should cheer yourself up in your heart.

……

After about 10 minutes.

Another batch of arriving passengers got off the train and left the station.

Bei's father and Bei's mother were in this car, and the car arrived at the station on time.Beigui looked at the returning passengers, and his eyes were also looking for his parents.

Really long time no see.

It seems that it takes a few more seconds to think about the appearance of parents in my mind.

Obviously comfort the people around you not to be nervous.

But he quickened his heartbeat.

Until, seeing that familiar person walking towards her.

Beigui moistened his eyes inexplicably.

She called out to them, Mom and Dad.

and into their arms.

Ying's father and Ying's mother were still a little surprised, because in their impression, Xiao Beigui never got close to anyone.

Ying's mother stood aside with Ying Die.

They also looked at each other with smiling faces.

Bei's father and Bei's mother probably knew what was going on.

After receiving Bei's father and Bei's mother, he went to the old city where he lived with his grandma before Beigui.

Beigui said that no one lived there for a long time.Now grandma lives in the country with uncle.Otherwise go to the house next to the school.

People often live there.

Mother Bei smiled and said, no need.I haven't lived there before, and it's better to live in the old town.And you children live there, it is not convenient for us to go there.

"But……"

Beigui wanted to say something more, but Ying's mother took it and said, "You can also go to the old town. I heard that there are a lot of food there. Just go home and pack it up, and go out to eat at night."

Mother Bei replied: "Yes."

Compared with corresponding mother's enthusiasm, Bei's father and Bei's mother are a little ordinary.

They treat everything like this, very calm and composed.It can even be described as unsmiling.

Many things, once they have made a decision, there is no room for negotiation.

They don't meddle too much in other people's affairs.

Even for returning to the north, they still have a sense of distance.

Beigui wanted them to live in the house next to the school, not just to make them live more comfortably, it was a new house after all.She also wants her parents to see what her daughter's life is like now.

But for Beibei Beimu, they are away all year round.

There are young people living in the new house, and they will be restrained in the young people.Moreover, they are more accustomed to living in the old city where they lived before.

Another one, the school district room was originally prepared for Beigui.

They don't have much requirements for housing.

You can stay temporarily.

After all, they always spend more time running projects outside than at home.

But for Beigui, she still hopes that her parents can participate in her life.

So when she heard that her parents were going back to live in the old city, she was a little unhappy.But fortunately, Ying's mother was there, and after arriving in the old city for dinner, she suggested that it was late today, and tomorrow I would go to the new house to see the life of young people.

Bei's father and Bei's mother did not refuse this point.

They didn't notice Beigui's emotions either, but Mother Ying saw it all.

She will use her way to relieve Beigui's sensitivity.

Just like the big sister, give her enough peace of mind.

……

The night was very quiet.

Bei Gui told Ying Die about this.

Beigui asked her why she felt so unfamiliar with her parents.

It should be repeated, maybe your parents, like you before, are not very good at expressing.It's just that it doesn't show on the surface, maybe it's not what I think in my heart.

"In fact, I do not know."

Beigui's parents rarely talked about love and expressed love to her, and Beigui never realized this before.But after getting in touch with Yingchao, she slowly learned to express herself.

Since she met her parents today and tried to give them a hug.

This is something she would never do before.

But now she's starting to try.

Learn to express love with loved ones.

Obviously.

Her parents were still a little uncomfortable.

During the meal, although everyone talked and laughed, it was obvious that there was no such intimacy.

Ying Die hugged Bei Gui into his arms, comforted her and said:

"It's okay. Maybe your parents also need a process. Besides, I still think that although your parents don't have that kind of intimacy with you verbally and physically, at the same time, they are nothing suffocating to you. shackles and some unreasonable demands."

"Most Chinese parents, after having children, spend all their lives on their children. They give their children invisible constraints. They are overwhelmed."

"But for your parents, while giving you enough freedom, they also gave you the best education. Including preparing a school district room for you, and respecting your wishes and choices."

"The most important thing is that they are your parents. But they also have their own lives."

"Isn't that a really cool thing to do?"

Hearing the elder sister's whisper, Beigui's mood gradually improved.

No more depression at night.

Ying Die patted her on the back lightly and said: "And you think about it, in the future, we may have our own little baby. Do you want to lose your life after having a baby?"

Beigui replied sullenly: "Of course I don't want to."

Ying Die: "That's it."

"How many people want their parents to control them less. Don't change their aspirations, don't get involved in their work and marriage. But how many parents don't participate in their children's lives in the end."

"And you have to know, all that you are missing."

"In our house, they will be found."

"It means that you are not missing."

"right."

Bei Gui is completely convinced by Ying Die.

"Is that so, in the future we will be frank with my parents about my coming out. They won't find it strange and won't interfere a lot."

Ying Die: "I can't promise you this."

"But what I'm sure of is that your parents will definitely accept it faster than ordinary parents."

"Oh."

"Hmm."

"Go to bed early, let's go to the supermarket tomorrow. Buy some food and drinks, and cook a meal for parents at home in the evening."

"it is good."

On the second night.

The two of them were busy.

Ying's mother went out to pick up Bei's father and Bei's mother, so she probably chatted along the way.It's been almost two hours since I went out, and I still haven't come back.

Beigui chatted with Ying Die: "Tell me, Mom and the others might get lost."

Ying Die echoed: "It's probably because my mother told me that I don't want to take her car anymore."

Haha.

Bei Gui smiled and opened his eyes.

Half an hour later, everything was ready, and Ying's mother and his party arrived home.

Ying Die thought they were old friends who hadn't seen each other for a long time, and they got lost in the chat, but they went around and went to the flower market to return to the house where they live now, and bought a lot of green plants and flowers.

Bei's father and Bei's mother didn't know what to say for a while, this is a gift for Beigui to live in a new house.

Ying's mother said appropriately: "Come on, Beigui, this is a gift from your mother, Ms. Cheng Xun, and your father, Mr. Beidu."

Ying's mother not only called Bei's father and Bei's mother, but she was always called Xiao Beigui.

He also called out Beigui's name.

This is quite surprising to Ying Dian.

After a few seconds of astonishment, Beigui said, "Thank you, Mom and Dad."

Cheng Xunhui: "I hope you like it."

Beidu also said: "These are easier to support. After you go to school, you can live for a long time."

At this time, they seemed to be equal to Beigui.

It seems that they are not the parents of Beigui.

They also called out their mother's name.

It was the first time Ying Die heard her mother's name being called.

They called her:

"Luo Ying."

It turns out that my mother's name is so beautiful.

In the past, she was always called by people, Aunt Ying, or Mrs. Ying.

Nobody calls her first and last name.

But at this moment.

She is no one's wife, nor is anyone's mother.

She is herself.

Ying Die seemed to understand.

It belongs exclusively to the friendship between their adults.

very nice.

The author has something to say: In the future, no matter whether there are children or not.

We still have our own lives.