the other side of the cloud

Adults may think that children don't understand anything, are very innocent, and don't know all kinds of sophistication in the world.But it’s actually not the case. Take Sun Diandian as an example. Sun Diandian has already understood some rules in the world. For example, she can feel that Yu Jia is a rich and powerful person, and his father seems to be a little afraid of him. It's not that I'm afraid, it's that my father is also trying to please him, and when we get along with him, he always takes his feelings into consideration.Just like Dad loves her, Dad loves Sun Diandian, so Dad sometimes coaxes her, if she cries in front of Dad, Dad will have nothing to do with her, and will promise her many conditions.

This feeling, Sun Diandian thinks, when Dad was with this Uncle Yu Jia, Dad also cared about this uncle like this.That's why Sun Diandian felt that it was a good thing to be this uncle's goddaughter.Because this uncle will bring him a lot of benefits, and my father also cares about this uncle very much.

So many thoughts of Sun Diandian were running in her subconscious, which led her to make such a judgment——she could be this uncle's goddaughter.

Yu Jia naturally also saw that Sun Diandian was really willing to be his goddaughter.But Yu Jia didn't feel how much Sun Diandian liked him.Of course, the greater possibility is that children are more likely to immerse themselves in their own world and play the games they love. Their preferences are more straightforward than those of adults, but they are not so trustworthy.

Ni Yunxiu said to Sun Diandian: "Dad alone can't decide this matter. Ask your mother later."

Sun Dian nodded and said, "then ask mom, should you call mom now?"

Ni Yunxiu didn't expect that Sun Diandian would be so witty and would immediately say something like calling his mother.

Yu Jia couldn't hear the topic and turned to Sun Yawei, he said: "There is no need to call now, let's talk about it later."

Ni Yunxiu naturally didn't want to call Sun Yawei at this time, how did he and Sun Yawei talk about this matter?

Saying that a friend of mine wants to be Sun Diandian's godfather, in the eyes of the older generation, it is very solemn for children to recognize a godfather and godmother, and they may need a banquet or something.For example, in the past, Ni Yunxiu's mother also asked Ni Yunxiu to recognize Qiao's mother as a godmother, but later, due to various reasons, such as going to the horoscope, it was too troublesome, so the matter was shelved.

Therefore, Ni Yunxiu really doesn't know exactly how to operate the godfather and godmother now.However, he always felt that this matter should not be decided casually, but should be treated seriously.

Ni Yunxiu said: "Yu Jia, I will discuss this matter with my mother. I think this is a very serious matter, so I will treat it seriously, okay?"

Because Yu Jia doesn't like children, he never thought that he would be the father of a certain child, even if he was a godfather, he never thought about it.He just mentioned this to Sun Diandian, and he thought it was more like a brain twitch.But when she found out that Sun Diandian wanted to be her own daughter, Ni Yunxiu said that she should take this matter seriously.He also became serious, and said, "Okay, I'm very serious."

Yu Jia said he was serious, but Ni Yunxiu felt a little sad and said, "Actually, you don't have to be like this."

In fact, he had also seen before that Yu Jia didn't like Sun Diandian that much.At least it was like this when Yu Jia first came into contact with DianDian.

Yu Jia doesn't have to accept his daughter for himself, this is a very complicated matter.Ni Yunxiu didn't know what to say for a while, but after thinking about it, he felt that it's better not to discuss it now.

Yu Jia said, "I don't have to do anything?"

Ni Yunxiu wants to say, don't do things you don't like.But he didn't speak out.

Seeing that Ni Yunxiu didn't answer him, and didn't insist on embarrassing Ni Yunxiu, Yu Jia changed the subject and said, "Why don't you send all kinds of information about Diandian to my mobile phone, and I'll find someone to show her. Which school you can go to. I will tell you when the results are available, and then you can choose the school you like based on the results."

Ni Yunxiu wants to say that going to school near home is of great benefit to children, and going too far to go to school will cause both adults and children to suffer.

But he immediately thought of Yu Jia's divorce from Sun Yawei, and he sighed heavily in his heart.Whether it will move later has also become uncertain.

He thought for a while and said to Yu Jia: "Then trouble you, I will send you Sun Diandian's information. Yu Jia, our house is in the school now, and for her to go to school, it may not be possible to change the house immediately If you have a way to change to a better school, then we will see what to do. If there is no way, the primary school attached to our school and our whole family feel that there is no problem."

Yu Jia said: "Okay, I will give you a good answer. But if she goes to a private elementary school, is she willing to go?"

Ni Yunxiu thought for a while, and remembered that Yu Jia's family also had a lot of investment in the education industry. Maybe Yu Jia had a higher probability of finding him a private elementary school.

Ni Yunxiu said: "The family may not have that much money for her to go to a private elementary school."

Yu Jia said: "It doesn't matter, since I am his godfather, I should also do something for her growth."

Ni Yunxiu wanted to refuse, but he knew that if he refused at this time, Yu Jia would be angry again, so he could only say: "Thank you then."

Yu Jia glanced back at him and said, "You have become so polite that you actually said thank you to me."

Ni Yunxiu was a little embarrassed and a little ashamed, so he had to shut up.

Diandian has been paying attention to the situation of these two adults, but there are too many wits in the words of these two people, and she doesn't understand it at all. In the end, she only knows that she might go to a better elementary school.

When Sun Diandian was more than four years old, she already knew that there are good schools and bad schools.

When the mother-in-law took her with her, she would sometimes meet children who went to other kindergartens, and people would ask her mother-in-law, where does your baby go to kindergarten?

Then her mother-in-law would say a certain kindergarten.Others say, oh, that's really good.

So Sun Diandian knew that the kindergarten she went to was not bad, and she was going to go to primary school next year, and the family was always talking about his going to primary school, and Yueyue's family was also talking about Yueyue's going to primary school.

In this city, there are good and bad primary schools. Some of the kindergarten classmates will live in other places because they want to go to a good primary school in that place.

Even the five or six-year-old children can understand the current school district housing problem, which school is better and which school may not be so good.

Although Diandian still looks innocent, as if she hasn't woken up about anything, she also knows that some elementary schools are good, and some elementary schools are not so good.

But she didn't speak at this time, but she didn't want to read the children's poems on the phone either.She returned the phone to her father, grabbed her father's hand again, and held it tightly, feeling a little uneasy for some reason.

There were quite a lot of people in the Summer Palace on Sunday, and a group of three people went in after buying tickets.

The Summer Palace is so famous that Yu Jia visited it when he was in elementary school, and so did Ni Yunxiu.

Later, when the two were in college, there was a summer vacation, and the two came to Beijing to play and went to the Summer Palace again, so for the two of them, there was no novel place for them to visit.

But this time with a little girl, everything is different, and everything about them basically revolves around children.

Sun Diandian is quite different from other children. She has strong physical strength. In some places, Ni Yunxiu was afraid that she would fall and wanted to hug her, but Sun Diandian was unwilling and insisted on walking alone.

They hired a commentator, but what the commentator said was only for adults to listen to, or for children in the upper grades of elementary school to understand. Sun Diandian could not understand what she said, and she would ask her father from time to time. what is that.Her father explained it to her, but she still doesn't know.

So it didn't take long before she became a little bored, and instead of watching it seriously, she made a fuss.

At noon, Sun Diandian was about to take a nap.

Ni Yunxiu had no choice but to let Yu Jia carry the schoolbag, and he hugged his daughter and let her sleep on his shoulder.

Sun Diandian lay on her father's shoulder and fell asleep in a daze. In her sleep, she smelled the fragrance unique to Uncle Yu Jia.

Seeing that Ni Yunxiu was tired from holding Sun Diandian all the time, Yu Jia forcefully asked Ni Yunxiu to hold the baby for a while on the way.

Ni Yunxiu was really tired from hugging his arms, so he gave Sun Diandian to him, but he took off the dirty shoes on Sun Diandian's feet before, lest Sun Diandian kick Yu Jia's expensive clothes in a mess Xi.

The two walked to the pavilion in the center of the lake. Yu Jia sat in the pavilion with the child in his arms, watching Ni Yunxiu unscrew the mineral water to feed himself. After drinking the water, he glanced at Sun Diandian in his arms and said, "Xiu Xiu, are you happy with Sun Diandian like this?"

Never expecting to hear such a question, Ni Yunxiu looked at Yu Jia suspiciously and asked, "Why do you ask this question?"

Yu Jia said: "Raising a child, I feel very tired, and I don't have much happiness. I can't see what kind of happy thing it is."

Ni Yunxiu understood what Yu Jia meant, and he didn't find it strange that Yu Jia would say such words, Yu Jia was such a person.

Yu Jia seems to be very concerned about input and output, businessmen have always been like this, so he can ask Ni Yun whether it is worthwhile to cultivate Sun Diandian.But many things cannot be measured by input and output.

Ni Yunxiu said seriously: "Sun Diandian is a person. She was born and she is my daughter. So, it is my responsibility and my obligation to raise her well. Raising a child must be very tiring sometimes because of the great responsibility. And when I feel overwhelmed, but there are also happy times, or even if there is no happy time, there is nothing I can do. She was born, and she is here, so it is impossible not to love her, and it is impossible to give up on her. As for whether I Being happy, even in this world, there can be no things that are always good, and there can be no people who are always good, but none of these have much to do with it, because she is my daughter, and it is my responsibility to raise her and love her."

Yu Jia obviously didn't think so, and said, "Really?"

Ni Yunxiu looked at Yu Jia seriously and said, "Actually, you should ask yourself, why do you still want to be with me? I hurt you, why do you still want to be with me?"

Yu Jia was a little dazed, he was silent for a while, and said: "Because I love you, Xiuxiu, it's just that simple."

Ni Yunxiu said: "Yu Jia, I know you love me, but I always thought that because you have a lot, you don't lack material things, and you don't lack someone to love you, so you love me because you want to give It is a kind of giving that is given when you are happy, not a responsibility. When you don’t love anymore, and you don’t know when you don’t love, then you have the possibility to withdraw and leave at any time. When you give birth to leaving When you think about it, you can have no nostalgia. You make me very sad."

Yu Jia looked at him in surprise, as if he didn't understand, but also seemed to understand.

Yu Jia said: "Do you think that my love for you is just a kind of giving in my boredom? I give when I want to give, and when I don't want to give, I turn around and leave. Don't you care about your feelings at all? "

Ni Yunxiu said: "That's not what I mean. In the past, I just thought that when you don't love me, you only need to turn around, and you still have the whole vast world, and you still have everything. But I am different from you , when you don't love me, you turn around and leave, I may have nothing. So, I was very scared at the time, I hope that when you turn around and leave, I also have my whole world, so you said to me, You want you to be my everything, you are my whole world, when you said you can give me everything. Yu Jia, I didn’t feel very happy at that time, nor did I feel safe, I even felt scared.”

Yu Jia was in a daze, nodded slowly, and said, "I understand."

He hugged Sun in his arms tightly, and said, "I see what you mean, I will think about it carefully."

Afraid that Ni Yunxiu might misunderstand, he said again: "I said I think about it, not that my love for you is worth discussing. It's just that I want to make myself more firmly understand that even if we are together, it is not always a good thing. It's not always a happy thing, I still love you that much. I think you also know that I came back to you this time because I knew I didn't want to be separated from you. Actually we have been separated for a few years, but we will still be together in the future Have a long time together. I love you, not just for fun, I'm not such an irresponsible person."