No touching porcelain, no coquetry! [campus]

"Students, don't be too cautious. In fact, today is mainly for a simple chat. You can ask any questions you are interested in, such as anxiety before the exam, major choice, confusion about the future or curiosity about college life..." Ye With a business-like smile on his face, Jue tried his best to show his charisma at the invitation of Principal Li.

In fact, this kind of thing was not within the scope of Ye Jue's work, but he and Pei Yanqiu had thoroughly sorted out all the materials during this period, and found that the five students who could not be checked with the visiting list at the beginning were still looking for him. No related files were found.

So, he was arrested yesterday when he went to the principal to inquire about the situation.

"Recently, a student from the No. [-] middle school next door had an accident because of too much pressure. Our leadership held a meeting and wanted you to mobilize them. You don't need to be too serious, the main thing is to relax. By the way, Xiaoye, you tomorrow Remember to dress up nicely."

This is what Principal Li said.

Although Ye Jue doesn't quite understand why the other party has to emphasize the second part of the sentence, after all, the beautiful baby who has a clear understanding of his appearance has always firmly believed that even if he comes to work every day wearing a vest and slippers with a beard, he will still be radiant.

But Principal Li has always taken good care of him, and he is an old classmate with his tutor, so he still needs to be respected.

So today, after Ye Jue coaxed away the unhappy classmate Xiao Pei, he dressed up in the office with the highest courtesy for attending a mother's family gathering.

Ye Jue's mother, Ms. Clarissa's family can be regarded as an old aristocrat. Although they don't communicate very often, they still hold several large banquets every year. Ever since Ye Jue was able to speak, he replaced the taciturn Ye Zhanyun to accompany his mother to country B for an appointment. became his job.

Although Ye Jue does not reject this kind of occasion, he is deeply affected by the casual living environment after all. Although he has a noble and delicate face, he always believes that a real man should be informal in his daily life wildness.

It's definitely not because I'm lazy, I just want to pursue that style.

Of course, the chain will not be lost at the critical moment.

Ye Jue, who exudes an elite temperament, pushed his temples and leaned against the edge of the podium, not showing any restraint. He slightly bent his beautiful blue eyes and winked at the students sitting under the stage: "I want to ask My personal information is actually fine.”

Hearing this, the classroom erupted instantly, with applause and booing, pushing and pushing friends to ask questions.

Ye Jue was very good at controlling this kind of scene, seeing that the atmosphere was almost heated, he randomly picked a girl in the front row by the window, and tapped his lips twice with his index finger, making a gesture of silence.

When the room was quiet again, the girl said excitedly: "Ms. Ye, do you have a girlfriend?"

Unexpectedly, Ye Jue who came up with such a question was slightly taken aback, and the others burst into laughter.

Ye Jue smiled and shook his head: "Unfortunately, not yet."

"Where's the boyfriend!" Another girl's voice came from nowhere.

The classroom was in a mess, Ye Jue simply gave up looking for the questioner, and just replied frankly: "Not for the time being."

The answer given by Ye Jue is very open-minded. After all, he has never had any feelings that can be called love for anyone, so he has no clear judgment on whether he is straight or crooked, and the others obviously understand from his answer. Some clues came out, and the scene became more lively for a while.

Ye Jue tapped on the podium lightly to try to maintain order, and then said lightly, "I'm actually about the same age as you, so you don't have to call me teacher, brother, senior, or just call me by my name."

People will always have a good impression of people with outstanding appearance and easy-going personality. Ye Jue is well aware of this commonality, and also knows how to use it skillfully.

All the teenagers here are in their teens, and it is a time when they are eager for others to understand and are not good at expressing their own emotions. The easiest way to get to the point and achieve the effect that Principal Li expected is to get closer to them, and the teacher This appellation is obviously not conducive to the establishment of an equal relationship with healthy communication.

After Ye Jue answered more than a dozen personal questions in a row with sincerity and wit, someone finally took the initiative to bring the topic back.

The person who asked the question was still a girl with a pretty face and looked a little introverted. She smiled and nodded at Ye Jue and said, "Hello, Brother Ye Jue. Actually, I know the girl who had an accident in No. [-] Middle School recently, and we used to I have exchanged my feelings after being promoted to the third year of high school."

She paused, and her expression gradually became a little sad: "The two of us are in a similar situation. The results of the two weekly exams have declined significantly since the beginning of school, but in fact, I have put more energy into my studies than before. A lot, but no matter how hard I try, I still can’t see any results.”

"What's worse, now I even forget or get confused about some knowledge points that I used to use freely. I am very weak and depressed. I feel that I can't do anything well, and I can't learn anything. Seems like a vicious circle..."

Speaking of this, the girl's eyes were slightly red, and her voice was a little choked up. The relaxed atmosphere in the classroom suddenly became serious. Presumably everyone has heard about what happened in the middle school next door, or had a similar experience. of feeling.

Ye Jue didn't respond right away, but just nodded, and then pushed the question back to the students present, asking if they had any opinions on it.

At first, everyone looked at each other in blank dismay, and seemed a little unsure of what to say, but after all, they were all at the age of seventeen or eighteen, and after a while, the classroom was full of comforting voices.

"Damn, sister Ning Wei, why are you so anxious? Look at me, the weekly exam ranking has dropped by more than [-] places, and the scholarship is gone. Don't you still have to eat and sleep every day?"

"You are heartless!"

"Oh, I think it's good to try my best, don't put so much pressure on yourself."

"Sister Weiwei, I am the same. I did one wrong one of the political multiple-choice questions, and I was so angry that I hid in the quilt and cried in the middle of the night, suspecting that I was a pig."

"It's not bad, sister. If you don't get into college, you can find a label and get a job again."

……

However, there are always a few atmosphere destroyers in a harmony.

"I don't know what you are hypocritical about studying liberal arts. Isn't that stuff just memorizing things by rote, and it's as difficult as it is."

"That's right, we haven't called the pressure yet."

"I am tortured by physical and chemical methods every day, and my hair is almost gone. It is better to do two more questions when I am dying."

Ye Jue frowned immediately when he heard this, he was unavoidably displeased, especially after he found that Ning Wei, who had recovered from the jokes of the crowd, became depressed again, and even a little more embarrassed and ashamed .

There are only eight classes in each grade in Jincheng's general department, three liberal arts and five sciences, and they are all gathered in the same lecture theater at this time, so naturally there are everyone.

Although Ye Jue, who lived overseas since he was a child, can't quite understand this subtle chain of contempt, he can probably hear the general idea from the remarks of these people.

Thoughts born of prejudice are not necessarily malicious, but they are certainly not true.

Ye Jue coughed twice, and drew the attention of the two groups of people who were already quarreling to himself, and then asked calmly, "Have you ever heard of Dunning Kruger's psychological effect? "

Seeing everyone shaking their heads, Ye Jue recovered his smile, and explained unhurriedly: "Actually, it's what we often call the Duck effect. In layman's terms, it means that people who are lacking in certain aspects cannot correctly realize their own shortcomings, and will suffer from it." Draw wrong conclusions on the basis of false perceptions, and indulge in the illusory sense of superiority created by the self or group because of disdain for deeper understanding."

What Ye Jue said was straightforward, and the faces of the boys in the science class who made violent remarks just now became unsightly, but because of Ye Jue's identity, they didn't explode on the spot.

"This is just a small part of the Duck effect. We gave this stage a vivid name - the Mountain of Ignorance." Ye Jue tidied the broken hair blown to the front of the forehead by the wind to the side of the ear, and then slyly He smiled calmly: "Of course, this is not the point I want to say, but it is still necessary to remind the students, try not to express extreme conclusions at will when you are in a different field from others, otherwise you will not realize it if you make a joke. How embarrassing it is to be complacent."

Having said that, many people in the liberal arts class in the classroom started to laugh.

Ye Jue knows the truth to the point. After all, the purpose of this mobilization meeting is to relieve the anxiety of senior high school students, not to adjust the contradiction between arts and science.

He waved his hand at Ning Wei, signaling him to sit down first, and then continued: "After passing through the stage of the mountain of ignorance, you will enter another emotional deception, called the valley of despair."

"After people have learned a lot of information in related fields, due to limited knowledge, they cannot use the knowledge they have learned proficiently, which will lead to a certain degree of inferiority complex, caution and even self-doubt. All the students here may have experienced or are currently experiencing this stage."

"And the negative emotions that arise at this time are actually only temporary. As long as you continue to use appropriate learning methods and persevere, they will be relieved after your ability level is further improved. If you have survived the valley of despair, then congratulations, welcome to come To the slope of enlightenment."

Ye Jue actually prepared some clichés and more traditional speeches today that would make people feel "ah! It's on fire!", but he temporarily changed his mind by reminding those science students.

If you want to untie your spiritual knots, you still have to start from the source.

This is also something in his business scope. Instead of just motivating students, it is better to tell them bluntly that it is normal to have such emotions or thoughts.

He smiled lightly: "After establishing a certain foundation of trust with the client, the first thing our psychological counselors do before starting follow-up treatment is to guide the client to accept themselves."

"Acceptance here refers to complete acceptance, to think deeply about the causes and effects of your own problems, to admit your imperfections, to admit your vulnerability and pain, and to seek breakthroughs."

"No break, no stand. When a person can take the initiative to choose to escape from the false mountain of ignorance, and accept the despair in the low period, and bravely and firmly walk on the right path, he will eventually reach the slope of enlightenment with increasing margins. Although everyone applies The methods are different, the personal abilities and basic qualities are different, but the most important thing is to recognize yourself and treat yourself fairly."

"Confusion, confusion, and pain are all normal. Freud said that 'unexpressed emotions will never die', and this is also the purpose of the school's establishment of a psychological counseling office, which is the meaning of our profession. If you feel depressed, there is no need to wait for it to digest by itself, my office always welcomes you."

Ye Jue's mouth was a little dry after speaking this long series of words, he unscrewed the mineral water on the podium and took a sip, while the classroom fell into silence.

After a while, he put down the water bottle and added in a joking tone: "Oh, by the way, remember to make an appointment on the school's official website before coming. There should be no scalpers recently, right?"

The dull atmosphere was broken in an instant, a few gossip activists laughed and joked that the scalpers were still rampant, and asked Ye Jue if he could find a way to let them go through the back door, and the scene became lively again after a while.

The afternoon sun came in through the skylight of the lecture hall, and inlaid a light layer of gold on Ye Jue's outline.

His eyes are bright, his expression is gentle, and he is as beautiful as a noble young master who is ignorant of the world, but the words he speaks inexplicably make people feel at ease.

At this moment, the outstanding appearance was no longer the focus of others' attention. Pei Yanqiu, who had been listening to Jiang Yu outside the door for half the time, was touched while feeling somewhat surprised.

During the time when he was making up classes in Ye Jue's office, every time a student came to visit, he would be driven into the cubicle, so in fact Pei Yanqiu had never seen Ye Jue's major before.

There really is such a person, he couldn't help but have such an idea.

On weekdays, he is casual and has a gentle personality but never makes people feel bored. He is like a small animal who can't learn how to shine his claws, but when it comes to his field of expertise, he is so calm and outstanding.

The surrounding colors seemed to be dimmed against him.

Looking at the light shining in Ye Jue's eyes, Pei Yanqiu only felt his heart tremble inadvertently.

Jiang Yu elbowed him, and said in a surprised tone, "Mr. Ye is awesome, my blood boils when I hear it, and I feel like I can climb that slope in the next second."

"It's the first time I've seen him so serious, and he's so charming. It makes sense for those people on the forum to go crazy every day. He usually talks to you like this? No wonder you don't want to hang out with us."

"Slope of Enlightenment, don't worry, your brain won't be enlightened in the next life." Pei Yanqiu verbally attacked Fa Xiao absent-mindedly.

Before Jiang Yu cursed and attacked him, Pei Yanqiu turned her head and deliberately looked away from Ye Jue.

His voice was very soft, and he didn't know whether he was answering Jiang Yu's question or talking to himself.

"It's also the first time I've seen it."