[Entertainment] Otome's game
Chapter 230
Wen Tinglan lost, but she didn't want to admit it. The way she didn't admit defeat was to kick the evolved wolf dog away, roll on the bed, pull up the quilt and cover her head, and roared "Sleep! "In this way, although she was close to losing,? But she didn't admit it.
If Ginger Dog didn't evolve, Ginger Dog would taunt on the spot, but Ginger Dog evolved.What the wolf dog did was to throw himself on the quilt, hug her and kiss the top of her head through the quilt, and then told her that he had to go back to Busan and come back tomorrow night.
The next day, Jiang Dongyuan returned to Seoul from Busan, and Wen Tinglan returned to Busan from Seoul,? She didn't want to see him.
Jiang Dongyuan made a phone call and asked her what she was doing. The girl said very calmly,? She needs time to commemorate her love, and Jiang Dongyuan was so blocked that he had nothing to say.Jiang Dongyuan, who has nothing to say, is running his movie promotion. He is here today and there tomorrow. He is so busy that he has nothing to do. Apart from calling and texting Wen Tinglan, he really has no way to go to Busan. No more sleep.
In contrast, Wen Tinglan in Busan is very leisurely. She doesn’t need to update. She just lays her dead body at home. The only activity is to accompany her mother occasionally to make faces, drink tea, go shopping, and spend time with the rich wife She felt very leisurely while living her life, and felt so boring at the same time.Nothing to do, a salted fish.
She lay at home for a week, and she was really bored, so she thought about whether to pick up the paintbrush again, but her grandfather told her that the scumbag father was back, and asked her if she wanted to meet him.
The frequency of Wen Tinglan's contact with the scumbag father is calculated on the basis of the year, or once every three to five years. It mainly depends on when the scumbag father happens to have something to go back to Korea to talk about, so he can meet her on the way.Wen Tinglan has always regarded the scumbag father as a passerby and a mutated version of the ATM, who will write her a check every time he sees her.I don't know if he wants to express that he is rich, or he is making up for something, using money to make up for the missing father's love or something.
Anyway, Wen Tinglan doesn't care whether he sees him or not. Although she was poor when she was a child, her grandpa took away the checks she received. When she grows up, she doesn't need money anymore, so it doesn't matter whether she sees him or not.On the contrary, Jiang Dongyuan, when he was a child, he was very afraid that his scumbag father would take Wen Tinglan to New York and never come back, but it doesn't matter when he grows up.
This time Wen Tinglan happened to have nothing to do, since the scumbag father is back, he will see him as soon as he sees her.
The meeting was not in Busan, but in the old mansion of the Wen family in Seoul. There are old-fashioned Korean houses, pavilions, pavilions, and everything, and there are a lot of helpers.Every time Wen Tinglan came here, she felt that she had time-traveled, because she would be called Miss by the helper, which felt weird.
When two people meet, they just go through the process, talk about how they are doing, what they are doing recently, etc. without embarrassment, and then receive the check.
Wen Tinglan stuffed the check into her pocket casually, thinking that after the process was over, she would almost be able to leave, but the scumbag opened a new topic, asking her what plans she had with Jiang Dongyuan.
"What do you mean by plan?"
"Are you going to get married?"
"Where did you hear that?"
"Mr. Jiang."
Wen Tinglan was taken aback for a moment, but she didn't expect her grandfather to care about this. She usually didn't ask about it, so she shook her head at the scumbag father and said, "We broke up."
"I'm asking if you want to get married."
"We broke up."
The daughter looked confused and felt that she had made it clear, but the father was slightly taken aback, and then found that they had diverged.
Mr. Wen has just turned half a century this year, but he has taken good care of his age. In fact, Wen Tinglan is very similar to him, the kind who can tell at a glance that he is his biological father and daughter.But Mr. Wen has the aura of a higher-ranking person, that kind of calm and prestige, just not to scare Wen Tinglan.
Mr. Wen explained to Ms. Wen that love is love and marriage is marriage. What he asked was whether Ms. Wen planned to marry Jiang Dongyuan when she reached the age of marriage.As for how they became husband and wife afterward, in fact or in name, he didn't care about that.
This passage shattered Wen Tinglan's three views, and for a moment he didn't know how to reply to him.Mr. Wen took her silence as an acquiescence, frowned slightly, and told her that he had no objection to her marrying Jiang Dongyuan, but the prenuptial agreement had better be clearly written to avoid future problems.
"You grew up in their parents' home, and your nature is biased toward their family. Fortunately, Mr. Jiang is here, and someone is watching over you. He is gone, his son..."
"I don't want to hear that."
Wen Tinglan interrupted directly. To her, Papa Jiang is her father, and this person in front of her is a passerby.She didn't want to hear passerby A speak ill of her father.
The blood-related father raised his eyebrows and looked a little fierce, but Wen Tinglan was not at all shy, and glared at the scumbag father, very reckless.When she became reckless, Mr. Jiang dared to hate her, so she was afraid of the father of a passerby.
Mr. Wen opened his mouth slightly, looking at that expression, he seemed to be planning to scold her, but for some unknown reason, he changed his words, saying that you should not have the intention to harm others, but you must have the intention to guard against others.Signing a prenuptial agreement is good for everyone. It can not only protect her but also Jiang Dongyuan. Jiang Dongyuan is the only son, and the entire Jiang family will be his in the future. They protect each other, which is no problem.
Wen Tinglan can still listen to these words, and it's not that she doesn't know what is good or bad. Although the scumbag father has never done much in the role of father and husband, this father has never touched anything that grandpa gave her, even It's not a dime.When I was handing over the inheritance as an adult, my grandfather was afraid that he would cause trouble, but I didn't expect everything to go smoothly, but my grandfather said that your father still looks like a human being.
It's no problem for Wen Tinglan that her father like a person asked her to protect her property. The problem is that "we won't get married, and we will break up when we break up."
Mr. Wen doesn't care how his daughter's relationship is discussed, he can talk about it as he wants, but if his daughter cares about emotional issues, then "you will never get back together after breaking up?" The relationship between childhood and adulthood has been so many years, since we can be together for sure It's a bet on friendship for many years, otherwise breaking up means never seeing each other again. Now that we have broken up, it's impossible to really see each other again, right? We still see each other from time to time, are you sure we won't reconcile?"
"Why do we have to block our friendship for many years?"
Mr. Wen, who has never talked with his daughter about such an in-depth topic, is a little out of touch, unable to keep up with the thinking of young people or his own daughter. After so many years of relationship, what else can they be together if they are not betting on years of friendship?Are you together casually, or are you breaking up casually?
Wen Tinglan really likes to be together and breaks up if she doesn't like it. She said it very frankly. The frank Mr. Wen found out that his daughter's view of love was a bit problematic almost instantly, or that she hadn't grown up.It's still a child's idea, just be happy, and don't care about others.
If so...
"I will go and communicate with Mr. Jiang, you will get married when you reach your age, that is, it will be a matter of one or two years." Mr. Wen pointed his index finger at the table, thinking, "You don't need to worry about the marriage contract, the family will arrange it when the time comes. The two of you just need to sign to attend the wedding. You can play the rest as you want, and you can be with anyone, as long as you maintain the identity of Mrs. Jiang on the surface."
Wen Tinglan resolutely refused, "I don't want it. I want to marry the person I like."
Mr. Wen said very naturally, "If you like that kind of thing, it will be hot for a while, and you will get tired of it in three to five months. You two can discuss it. If you want to fall in love, you can fall in love like this. Just control the illegitimate child." Seeing her face full of resistance, she tried Reason with her: "You are going to get married after all. Marrying a person who knows everything is only good for you. If you change another person, you need to add this to the prenuptial agreement. It is very difficult to set the standard for the relationship in the agreement. It's all trouble."
"It's not that you are not allowed to fall in love with anyone. You can still fall in love with whoever you want. The bond between you and Jiang Dongyuan is a friendship for many years. It is difficult to find such a person. You are loyal to each other, husband and wife If there is loyalty between them, it can be maintained. If you change a person and make a lot of troubles, you will be tired after getting married. If there is no Jiang Dongyuan, I want to be raised by you, just as a dog who can wag his tail."
"Children, now there are test-tube babies and surrogates. If you want to give birth to yourself, you can give birth to yourself. If you don't want to give birth to yourself, let someone else give birth to you. If that's the case, this smooth and smooth life will pass away, and the support can only wag your tail at you." A dog who doesn’t dare to bark at you is very suitable. You can buy his loyalty with money. As long as the money is in your hands, the loyalty will always be there. Even if it doesn’t stop, it’s still bullying him, without him bullying you.”
"I still prefer you to keep a dog you like. I'm afraid that your temperament will change if you don't like it. Frequent marriage and divorce are not good. Now that you have Jiang Dongyuan by your side, husband and wife can communicate, have friendship, and The family relationship is also good, but it’s better to talk to people with equal status. You decide for yourself whether you want to raise a dog or marry Jiang Dongyuan.”
It is also the first time for Mr. Wen to be a father. Raising a son is different from raising a daughter. This daughter is not raised by his side.Therefore, it can be said that Mr. Wen has no expectations for his daughter.Yiwen Tinglan is living pretty well now and has a small career of her own. She is doing well, at least she is not involved in pornography|gambling|drugs, very good.Then he only thinks about how to let her live a peaceful life, so that he can also be regarded as an account to his wife and father-in-law.
The daughter didn't know what her father was thinking, Wen Tinglan only knew that the scumbag father was really a scumbag, and she wasn't surprised at all.
With such disagreement among the three views, Wen Tinglan didn't plan to marry him by force, so she prepared to leave.But the scumbag father told her that she was about to get ready for things, and asked her to make a decision as soon as possible, and tell him the decision when the time came, and he would take care of the rest.
These words made Wen Tinglan speechless, and she was not going to leave, she had to talk to her scumbag father, "Can't I take the third way, marry the person I like, and be together happily for the rest of my life?" ?”
Mr. Wen smiled, laughing at her naivety, and also at her cuteness, "How long can your love last? For decades, you and Jiang Dongyuan have been in a relationship for more than 20 years. Are you sure you have the confidence to be with the other party?" Will you stay together forever? Even if you have the confidence that your love will not change, will your partner not change? People are unpredictable, it is impossible to say."
Wen Tinglan wanted to say that you think everyone is as scumbag as you, and that I would definitely find the person who will spend the rest of my life with me, but when she touched his smiling face, she couldn't say anything, and she felt that everything she said would be blunt. Just very depressed.
This seems to be a crushing situation, but it can't be done.
The daughter who was sure that she couldn't handle the scumbag father began to talk nonsense, "According to your unpredictable saying, Jiang Dongyuan is not sure."
"That's why I said, I prefer you to raise a dog yourself." Mr. Wen said that this is easy to solve. "A man who is willing to bow his head for money has soft knees. He can kneel in front of you as long as you don't let go. Holding money in his own hands, he will not be able to stand up in his life."
What should I do if I can't beat others with nonsense?She's being shameless, no matter what she says, she's her own daughter, so she can't beat her up hard.
"You're talking about me as if no one wants me. I have to have a dog. Am I so bad that I can't find a man with a successful career?"
Mr. Wen said with a smile that this is a better solution, "Everyone wants to climb up, no matter what occupation he uses to achieve the goal of a successful career, he wants to climb to a higher place. The capital you hold is enough for [-]% of men They are all men with successful careers. No matter who you want to find, as long as you put your capital out, aggressive men will be attracted. The difference is just to choose the one you like, the one with soft knees, really No, I'll break his knee for you."
"In the eyes of those people outside, men with successful careers are just qualified to stand in front of you. They have spent half their lives trying to stand in front of you. Now they only need to take one step forward to cross the class. Ordinary people think To achieve success in his career, he must work hard, and his efforts need a fulcrum, which is aggressiveness, utilitarianism, and the desire to climb."
"Those things supported his day-to-day struggle. He climbed up to you exhaustedly. You are the ladder in front of him. How many people do you think will take shortcuts just for the sake of so-called self-esteem? , Arrogant? Such a person may not be interested in you, but on the other hand, you don’t like that kind of one-sided person, no matter how little we meet, I know that you prefer people who follow you. "
Ever since Wen Tinglan moved into Jiang's house, Mr. Wen saw his daughter just a few times, adding, subtracting, and subtracting never more than ten times. He could tell that his daughter was spoiled and brought up just by meeting like that. She's really good, otherwise, he wouldn't just let the Jiang family take care of Mr. Wen's inheritance.The reason is very simple, as long as Wen Tinglan is not afraid of him, the son in the family is afraid of him like anything, and he has never seen it a few times. That is the son who was taught by his mother to be raised and disabled.
How could a girl who was pampered and grown up like hard bones, she had never gnawed on hard bones in her life, and the meat brought to her mouth was smashed to pieces.Ten thousand steps back, even if she wanted to try something hard that she hadn't tried on a whim, she would lose interest after playing for a while. Wen Tinglan was not a girl who would wrong herself at all.
In this regard, Mr. Wen has absolute confidence, that's why he suggested that she raise a dog she likes that will wag its tail at her. That is the most suitable marriage for her.
A dog is obedient.If you like it, just touch your head and play with him. If you don't like it, just leave it aside and ignore him.
If Mr. Wen had to have any expectations for his daughter, it would be to be happy and nothing else.
The daughter didn't think there was anything to be happy about that, she just thought that he was worthy of being a scumbag, but she couldn't beat the scumbag father.The scum dad has a set of small words, a lot of big truths, and the three views are very weird, but they can be rounded up and turned into truths, which annoys her very much.
If you get annoyed, you will explode, and Wen Tinglan will not choose anything when his temper comes up, "You talk for a long time as if you are very successful, my mother is dead, and you are still cheating on her with a mistress! You are shameless!" As soon as she said that, she regretted it. Before she could apologize, the scumbag laughed.
The scumbag really laughed, the kind of laugh that made a sound, Wen Tinglan who laughed was confused, "What are you laughing at?"
Mr. Wen laughed, "Where did you hear what I did behind Wen Yan's back? We are the marriage I told you about. I played with mine and she played with hers. She died because of poor health. I was crazy, and I decided to have a baby when I was really sick. If egg retrieval and surrogacy were not immature at that time, you would see a mother with boyfriends all over the world."
This... is an answer that Wen Tinglan hadn't thought of at all. Are you so excited?
Having said all this, Mr. Wen is very interested in talking to his daughter about that hot and hot woman, and that woman is also a very interesting role in his life.It was not easy to find a Jin Wenyan in the team of ladies at that time, and it was more of a lady like Jiang's mother, who took care of her husband and taught her children, and was happy with the situation.
Mr. Wen said that Ms. Jin came to him for Jin Wenyan's marriage contract, because his reputation is very bad, and he claims that men and women are not taboo about meat and vegetables. Although the rumors are a lot of exaggeration, he really has a lot of fun.He doesn't care who he marries, he's the same with everyone, it's nothing more than having a few children and raising them, that's all.As for what the child will grow up to be and whether he can inherit anything, that's none of his business.
After I die, who cares about the flood.
But if the marriage partner is such an interesting Jin Wenyan, then the marriage seems to become more interesting.
Wen Tinglan never thought that he could hear his father tell a story about two Neptunes teaming up to brush dungeons. The story was so bizarre that the Neptunes would exchange partners.The two sides are really close friends, or they can be friends, anyway, they are very high, so high that she doesn't know what expression to use to face those dungeon stories.
I don't know if it's because Mr. Wen hasn't talked with anyone for a long time about the story of his best friend, or because Mr. Wen is very happy to share his little secret with his daughter, or because Wen Tinglan's expression makes him feel very interesting.Anyway, Mr. Wen talked about a lot of bizarre copies, to the point that Wen Tinglan thought it was exaggerated to the point where he seemed to be making up stories.
Wen Tinglan didn't want to hear it anymore. His father was a scumbag, and he didn't feel anything if he was a scumbag again, but his mother still had such a good impression of her. If things went on like this, the whole family would be ruined. Neither her parents nor her seemed to be a scumbag. All good people only care about themselves, and don't care about people who will be flooded after death.
The daughter tries to find the logical holes in the father's story, such as "You two are so close, why didn't my grandfather teach me to you?"
"No one knows that we have a good relationship. Your grandfather thought your mother was because I played too messily, and she broke the jar in sadness." Mr. Wen rarely showed an expression that didn't fit his identity. The daughter shared a little secret, "You know Mr. Jiang's character, your grandfather is that character, old-fashioned, and he pays attention to girls who want to look like girls."
"I am your mother's shield, helping her against her father. She is also my shield, helping me against my parents. We are the most loyal comrades in arms, so I also want you to find your own comrades in arms, and you work together well , trust each other. That life is very happy, the years I married her were the happiest period of my life, the most interesting time of my life so far."
"It's not that I don't want to take care of you, but I really don't have that much time to spend on you. Your mother knew about the illegitimate child you mentioned. The original plan was to treat you and him as twins, and they were all born to your mother. She only wants to have one child, saying it is too hard. But we always need a son, and you are a daughter in the maternity examination, so you have to get a son. The mother of that child is the woman who abused you..."
Mr. Wen chuckled, and spoke casually, saying his son's biological mother with the attitude of telling his daughter about raising a dog, "I brought her in to take care of the two of you. I didn't expect to be ambitious, thinking that I could borrow my son to take over." Raise your hand, "If you don't mention her, your ears will be dirty, tell me about you, do you think Jin Wenyan's life is what you want?"
Wen Tinglan, who really thought her ears couldn't get any dirtier, said embarrassingly, "Then it's even more impossible for me and Jiang Dongyuan to get married. He likes me, he likes me so much, he won't be my comrade-in-arms. Feng, he might be jealous and lock me at home."
This surprised Mr. Wen, "Then why did you break up? You don't like him, so why were you together? After so many years, it's impossible to get in touch again. There's no break-in period. How can you break up after being together?"
On this issue, the story is long.
The scumbag shared N dungeon stories with himself, Wen Tinglan thought it would be a good idea to share two dungeons with him?There is someone who breaks through the sky between a scumbag father and a scumbag, and her kind of pediatrics is definitely nothing in the eyes of the other party.
What if he lied to her?Don't make trouble!Which father would lie to his daughter that I am a scum, and I am still very proud?It's definitely the truth, okay?
The daughter who trusts the scumbag father very much started her own dungeon session. Compared with the scumbag father's dungeon, her copy is extraordinarily fresh.If it wasn't for the fact that the narrator was his own daughter, the scumbag father wouldn't really want to listen to it. It's a very boring copy.
The boring copy said that it was almost dinner time, and the scumbag father who spent an afternoon together took his daughter to the wine cellar to choose wine. He was going to order the wine first and then the meat for dinner.
Wen Tinglan has no interest in wine, but she still wants to play with the wine that the scumbag father gave her and said it was for her to taste. It seems to be very interesting.Wine selection becomes wine tasting, and wine tasting becomes drinking. As soon as the wine is drunk, Wen Tinglan's dungeon story begins to have no boundaries. The protagonist is no longer two men but herself.
Her thoughts, her feelings, she felt that she was a bit bad, a bit scum, and she still couldn't figure out who had the problem between her and Jiang Dongyuan.
The daughter is already slightly drunk, but the scumbag father doesn't feel it at all. To Mr. Wen, this little wine is just the level of table wine, drinking and having fun.
The sober scumbag father opened up a new perspective for his daughter as the king of scumbags. First of all, people are inherently selfish, so don't talk about love so selfish that you only think about yourself.
Ninety-nine out of ten people who love dedication are dead, and the chances of those who survive to find an unselfish gene to pass on to them are too small.In other words, selfishness is human nature, there is nothing to tangle with, she is just a human being, and human beings have shortcomings, and to accept those shortcomings is also a part of her.
Secondly, based on the fact that human beings carry selfish genes by nature, Wen Tinglan has no problem with He Zhengyu's actions at all. In love, the point is not that other people are happy but I am happy.Otherwise, why should you be with that person, there is no need for people who can't make you happy.It's his honor that he can make you happy, and you make him happy in turn.When he doesn't have what you want, isn't it normal to break up the partner?
Last but not least, what went wrong with Wen Tinglan and Jiang Dongyuan, and whose fault it was.
"Have you read the Tao Te Ching?"
"The Tao Te Ching?"
"Correct."
Mr. Wen told his daughter the words of a sage: "Chapter [-] of the Tao Te Ching, if you are flattered and humiliated, you will be ashamed as you are. If you are surprised. What does it mean that you have serious troubles like your body? The reason why I have a big patient is because I have a body. And I have no body, what trouble do I have? Therefore, you value your body as the world, if you can send it to the world, love the body as the world, If you can trust the world."
This passage was spoken in Chinese, but Wen Tinglan was confused when he explained it to Wen Tinglan. Mr. Wen thought she could not understand Chinese, so he said it again in Korean, and at the same time said that the passage was only intercepted.What is flattery?Be the next to me.To be surprised by what you gain, and to be surprised by what you lose, is to say that you are as surprised by flattery or humiliation.This paragraph is fine, and this paragraph can perfectly explain the problem between her and Jiang Dongyuan.
"What does it mean to be frightened by being favored and being humiliated? Being favored is humble, being favored is extraordinarily pleasant, and losing favor is frightening. This is the meaning of being flattered and humiliated. If you care about favor, you place yourself Wrong, you put yourself in that low position, can you understand me?"
In a trance, Wen Tinglan shook her head stupidly.
Mr. Wen wanted to touch her head, but he already raised his hand. After thinking about it, he put it down. He just looked at her with a smile and said to her, "You will only care about a person if you put him in a higher position than you." Emotions, because his emotions can affect you, and even determine your emotions. If I am happy, you will be happy, and if I am not happy, you will not be happy. Your emotions follow me."
"It's the relationship between the high-ranking person and the low-ranking person, the high-ranking person and the low-ranking person, and the top and bottom. I can spoil you. I'm the high-ranking person, I'm the high-ranking person, I'm the high-ranking person, and I'm yours. Father, I'm much stronger than you. On the other hand, don't you think it's strange that you pet me. "
It seems...is that the case?Wen Tinglan was stunned.
"This can be changed into, I care about you, I care about you, so your emotions will affect me. If you care, it will be much gentler, right?" Mr. Wen saw his daughter nodding blankly, and wanted to touch his head again. But this time, he didn't lift his hand but moved his fingers, and then said, "This is the problem between you and Jiang Dongyuan. You are attached to him and hope to get his attention. This is the favor you want. But you put yourself Putting it in an equal position, you think he should dote on you, and it would be wrong not to dote on you."
"With that river..."
"He Zhengyu."
"He Zhengyu."
"When you are with He Zhengyu, your position is right. You put yourself lower and you obey him, maybe because his thinking makes you think he is more mature, or maybe because he is indeed older than you. You have done more things than you, and you think he should be in a higher position. So you have no conflicts, you are not equal, and the core conflict between you is money, which just causes the inequality of status, that is to say, separation is a an inevitability."
Wen Tinglan didn't quite believe it, "It's not to a certain extent, is it?"
The father, who has never lost since we met, taught his daughter "If he is always superior and you are inferior, and you can always obey him, then you can always be together. But Ting Lan, you will grow up as time goes by." , your world is much bigger than his, at least you will gradually think that your world is more important than his as time goes by. At that time, your positions are not coordinated again, and you will still quarrel or break up."
"This can only be an inevitability, because you can't always be the little girl who listens to him, enjoys his favor, and obeys his arrangements. You will grow up. When you grow up, the one who originally made you want to look up to, People who want to be pampered don't have those qualities that you can look up to."
Inexplicably feeling as if he had been brainwashed, Wen Tinglan said in a daze, "Then you mean that it's wrong for me to want to be pampered by others?"
"The idea itself is fine. It's good to let others pamper you, but the key is to be clear. Petting and obedience are not a word. Petting means pampering you if I want to pamper you. If you don't want to pamper you, you are nothing. Pets are In that way, pets are only petted when they want to play, and pets are left aside when they are doing things. That is also an act of petting, but the owner is always human."
"What you want should be obedience. If you want others to obedience to you, whether he wants to or not, he has to obedience to your obedience, because you are the venerable, the high position, and you are the one who looks down on the other party. Your emotions should affect him, not be affected by him, understand?"
Wen Tinglan seemed to understand but half understood, "Seems to understand?"
Seeing her like that, Mr. Wen believed that she didn't understand, and said in a more straightforward direction, "Since you are selfish, you will be selfish to the end. The relationship between two people is a tug-of-war. If you are stronger, he will be weaker. If you set yourself apart from the beginning In a position that needs petting, then he has the initiative. You can completely hold the initiative in your own hands, you are already doing that, although it is unconscious, but you are doing well."
"The next thing to do is to turn unconscious behavior into conscious action, don't worry about what he is thinking, what you have to care about is what you want, set goals, clarify goals, and then execute it. Love itself Is it behavior? Coaxing you, accompanying you, listening to you when making decisions, these are the behaviors you want him to do, and these behaviors can be controlled."
"Men are human beings, human beings are animals, and animals can be trained."
"You have to learn to train Jiang Dongyuan and ask him to change according to your wishes."
Wen Tinglan felt as if she had heard something extraordinary, and behind that extraordinary thing was a big net woven by the scumbag, covering her head, "Why do I think you want to fool me into marrying Jiang Dongyuan? "
"If Jiang Dongyuan can be trained, and you like him, and he likes you, then what's wrong with you getting married?" Mr. Wen said with a smile, "Besides, you are inseparable from Jiang Dongyuan. There was no one willing to marry him."
"I suspect even more that you are trying to trick me. How did Jiang Dongyuan become the only one."
"It's very simple, you naturally think that you are equal, even if you ask him to favor you."
Mr. Wen, who is destined to be the winner today, told his daughter two certainties. The first must be that she and Ha Zhengyu will definitely break up, and the second must be that she and Jiang Dongyuan will definitely reconcile.
Wen Tinglan shared the second necessity with Jiang Dongyuan.
It was already very late, and Mr. Wen, who was a temporary guest life mentor, had already flown back to New York. Wen Tinglan, who was still in Seoul, went to Jiang Dongyuan's house, and forced Jiang Dongyuan, who was so tired from running the schedule, to finally sleep. Shake awake.When Jiang Dongyuan just woke up, he was still a little angry, but when he saw her face, he lost his anger, only helpless.
"I slept for less than four hours in two days~~~~" Jiang Dongyuan's head was about to explode, he wanted to struggle but was crushed to death, he wanted to beat her but couldn't do it, and he was also vaguely happy, This guy is back~
Wen Tinglan didn't have such complicated emotions, she had too many things in her mind, her CPU was almost burning out, and she couldn't turn it on. "I'm going to see my dad."
"When I see my father, I see my father. Why did you come..."
"My dad, me! My dad, the one named Wen!"
Jiang Dongyuan was still sleepy and didn't react for a while, but when he was shaken twice again, he came back to his senses and opened his eyes a little bit wider.He reached out and pinched her waist to get her off the quilt and hugged her through the quilt, letting her speak slowly while he was listening.
Wen Tinglan, who insisted that he could not be destroyed by himself, first told him a bunch of legendary dungeons of Mr. Wen and Miss Jin. Jiang Dongyuan gradually became less sleepy. The dungeons were too legendary, and the group started with them.Jiang Dongyuan, who was fully awake, propped himself up and leaned against the bedside table to hug her, assuring her with normal thinking that she was not joking.Wen Tinglan said that even if she wanted to joke, she couldn't make up such a legendary story.
"Yes, you continue."
What I will continue to talk about is not a legendary dungeon, but the second must that Mr. Wen said very firmly, and the first must be skipped directly.
"My dad said, you are my one and only."
"Which aspect is unique?"
"Marriage, if I want to get married, you are the only one."
Jiang Dongyuan moved his shoulders, and if he got married... "Do you like a son or a daughter?"
"What a mess." Wen Tinglan hit him in the stomach with the back of his hand, "Let's go through the normal process, why did we jump to the son or the daughter." After speaking, he felt wrong, what process should we go "Don't interrupt, I'll focus Haven't said it yet."
Jiang Dongyuan, who was holding her hand and pressing it on his lower abdomen, felt that the main point had already been said, "If you go through the process, I will propose to you? What kind of marriage proposal do you want, a grand one or a warm one?"
"Shut up!" Wen Tinglan slammed his head. "Don't listen, my dad said you were the only reason."
Jiang Dongyuan didn't really want to hear it. He didn't have a good impression of Mr. Wen. On his side, he lost Wen Tinglan's role and would steal people at any time. It's strange to have a good impression, but she insisted on saying, then "you say .”
As a result, the girl read the Tao Te Ching at the beginning of the article, which made Jiang Dongyuan completely confused. Before he could digest the words of the sage, he heard the version that Wen Tinglan understood.The difference between the simplified version of Chong and Shun is that in the former, the opponent occupies the high position, while in the latter, you occupy the high position.
Sleeping in his own home, lying on his own bed, holding the girl he likes in his arms, and still sleepy, the combination of these conditions caused Jiang Dongyuan to ask her without any sense of crisis, "What's the point?"
Anyone who changes someone, really, anyone who changes someone, Jiang Dongyuan will die, the kind with no way out.Because Mr. Wen was so close to teaching Wen Tinglan how to tame a man, no matter how stupid Wen Tinglan was, he could absorb the experience of the king of scumbags, and Jiang Dongyuan was definitely dead.
But I don't know if it's his luck or Wen Tinglan's luck, or if it's a gift from the years to this pair of childhood sweethearts.Wen Tinglan, who has learned a lot of experience, performed a special operation, which can be called miraculous.
"My dad said that people are animals, and men are also animals. You can be trained. That is, you can be trained to be a small animal that listens to me. You have to do what I want you to do." Wen Tinglan said in his His eyes widened sharply and he wanted to cover his mouth before interjecting, "I think, I'm an animal too, are we all human? Logically speaking, we can all be trained by the other party."
The widened eyes retracted to normal size, Jiang Dongyuan pulled her hand down, complaining, "Is there something wrong with your dad's brain?"
"It's not that he was abnormal on the first day." Wen Tinglan said that it's not important, now let's get down to business, "There is a sentence in what he has and what doesn't, and I may only be the most natural when I face you." Tell me what I want, whether you are happy or not, because we belong to the same country, whether we are lovers or not, we are all from the same country.”
"and then?"
"Then shall we try to make up?"
"Why do you want to try again?"
Wen Ting Lanchong
If Ginger Dog didn't evolve, Ginger Dog would taunt on the spot, but Ginger Dog evolved.What the wolf dog did was to throw himself on the quilt, hug her and kiss the top of her head through the quilt, and then told her that he had to go back to Busan and come back tomorrow night.
The next day, Jiang Dongyuan returned to Seoul from Busan, and Wen Tinglan returned to Busan from Seoul,? She didn't want to see him.
Jiang Dongyuan made a phone call and asked her what she was doing. The girl said very calmly,? She needs time to commemorate her love, and Jiang Dongyuan was so blocked that he had nothing to say.Jiang Dongyuan, who has nothing to say, is running his movie promotion. He is here today and there tomorrow. He is so busy that he has nothing to do. Apart from calling and texting Wen Tinglan, he really has no way to go to Busan. No more sleep.
In contrast, Wen Tinglan in Busan is very leisurely. She doesn’t need to update. She just lays her dead body at home. The only activity is to accompany her mother occasionally to make faces, drink tea, go shopping, and spend time with the rich wife She felt very leisurely while living her life, and felt so boring at the same time.Nothing to do, a salted fish.
She lay at home for a week, and she was really bored, so she thought about whether to pick up the paintbrush again, but her grandfather told her that the scumbag father was back, and asked her if she wanted to meet him.
The frequency of Wen Tinglan's contact with the scumbag father is calculated on the basis of the year, or once every three to five years. It mainly depends on when the scumbag father happens to have something to go back to Korea to talk about, so he can meet her on the way.Wen Tinglan has always regarded the scumbag father as a passerby and a mutated version of the ATM, who will write her a check every time he sees her.I don't know if he wants to express that he is rich, or he is making up for something, using money to make up for the missing father's love or something.
Anyway, Wen Tinglan doesn't care whether he sees him or not. Although she was poor when she was a child, her grandpa took away the checks she received. When she grows up, she doesn't need money anymore, so it doesn't matter whether she sees him or not.On the contrary, Jiang Dongyuan, when he was a child, he was very afraid that his scumbag father would take Wen Tinglan to New York and never come back, but it doesn't matter when he grows up.
This time Wen Tinglan happened to have nothing to do, since the scumbag father is back, he will see him as soon as he sees her.
The meeting was not in Busan, but in the old mansion of the Wen family in Seoul. There are old-fashioned Korean houses, pavilions, pavilions, and everything, and there are a lot of helpers.Every time Wen Tinglan came here, she felt that she had time-traveled, because she would be called Miss by the helper, which felt weird.
When two people meet, they just go through the process, talk about how they are doing, what they are doing recently, etc. without embarrassment, and then receive the check.
Wen Tinglan stuffed the check into her pocket casually, thinking that after the process was over, she would almost be able to leave, but the scumbag opened a new topic, asking her what plans she had with Jiang Dongyuan.
"What do you mean by plan?"
"Are you going to get married?"
"Where did you hear that?"
"Mr. Jiang."
Wen Tinglan was taken aback for a moment, but she didn't expect her grandfather to care about this. She usually didn't ask about it, so she shook her head at the scumbag father and said, "We broke up."
"I'm asking if you want to get married."
"We broke up."
The daughter looked confused and felt that she had made it clear, but the father was slightly taken aback, and then found that they had diverged.
Mr. Wen has just turned half a century this year, but he has taken good care of his age. In fact, Wen Tinglan is very similar to him, the kind who can tell at a glance that he is his biological father and daughter.But Mr. Wen has the aura of a higher-ranking person, that kind of calm and prestige, just not to scare Wen Tinglan.
Mr. Wen explained to Ms. Wen that love is love and marriage is marriage. What he asked was whether Ms. Wen planned to marry Jiang Dongyuan when she reached the age of marriage.As for how they became husband and wife afterward, in fact or in name, he didn't care about that.
This passage shattered Wen Tinglan's three views, and for a moment he didn't know how to reply to him.Mr. Wen took her silence as an acquiescence, frowned slightly, and told her that he had no objection to her marrying Jiang Dongyuan, but the prenuptial agreement had better be clearly written to avoid future problems.
"You grew up in their parents' home, and your nature is biased toward their family. Fortunately, Mr. Jiang is here, and someone is watching over you. He is gone, his son..."
"I don't want to hear that."
Wen Tinglan interrupted directly. To her, Papa Jiang is her father, and this person in front of her is a passerby.She didn't want to hear passerby A speak ill of her father.
The blood-related father raised his eyebrows and looked a little fierce, but Wen Tinglan was not at all shy, and glared at the scumbag father, very reckless.When she became reckless, Mr. Jiang dared to hate her, so she was afraid of the father of a passerby.
Mr. Wen opened his mouth slightly, looking at that expression, he seemed to be planning to scold her, but for some unknown reason, he changed his words, saying that you should not have the intention to harm others, but you must have the intention to guard against others.Signing a prenuptial agreement is good for everyone. It can not only protect her but also Jiang Dongyuan. Jiang Dongyuan is the only son, and the entire Jiang family will be his in the future. They protect each other, which is no problem.
Wen Tinglan can still listen to these words, and it's not that she doesn't know what is good or bad. Although the scumbag father has never done much in the role of father and husband, this father has never touched anything that grandpa gave her, even It's not a dime.When I was handing over the inheritance as an adult, my grandfather was afraid that he would cause trouble, but I didn't expect everything to go smoothly, but my grandfather said that your father still looks like a human being.
It's no problem for Wen Tinglan that her father like a person asked her to protect her property. The problem is that "we won't get married, and we will break up when we break up."
Mr. Wen doesn't care how his daughter's relationship is discussed, he can talk about it as he wants, but if his daughter cares about emotional issues, then "you will never get back together after breaking up?" The relationship between childhood and adulthood has been so many years, since we can be together for sure It's a bet on friendship for many years, otherwise breaking up means never seeing each other again. Now that we have broken up, it's impossible to really see each other again, right? We still see each other from time to time, are you sure we won't reconcile?"
"Why do we have to block our friendship for many years?"
Mr. Wen, who has never talked with his daughter about such an in-depth topic, is a little out of touch, unable to keep up with the thinking of young people or his own daughter. After so many years of relationship, what else can they be together if they are not betting on years of friendship?Are you together casually, or are you breaking up casually?
Wen Tinglan really likes to be together and breaks up if she doesn't like it. She said it very frankly. The frank Mr. Wen found out that his daughter's view of love was a bit problematic almost instantly, or that she hadn't grown up.It's still a child's idea, just be happy, and don't care about others.
If so...
"I will go and communicate with Mr. Jiang, you will get married when you reach your age, that is, it will be a matter of one or two years." Mr. Wen pointed his index finger at the table, thinking, "You don't need to worry about the marriage contract, the family will arrange it when the time comes. The two of you just need to sign to attend the wedding. You can play the rest as you want, and you can be with anyone, as long as you maintain the identity of Mrs. Jiang on the surface."
Wen Tinglan resolutely refused, "I don't want it. I want to marry the person I like."
Mr. Wen said very naturally, "If you like that kind of thing, it will be hot for a while, and you will get tired of it in three to five months. You two can discuss it. If you want to fall in love, you can fall in love like this. Just control the illegitimate child." Seeing her face full of resistance, she tried Reason with her: "You are going to get married after all. Marrying a person who knows everything is only good for you. If you change another person, you need to add this to the prenuptial agreement. It is very difficult to set the standard for the relationship in the agreement. It's all trouble."
"It's not that you are not allowed to fall in love with anyone. You can still fall in love with whoever you want. The bond between you and Jiang Dongyuan is a friendship for many years. It is difficult to find such a person. You are loyal to each other, husband and wife If there is loyalty between them, it can be maintained. If you change a person and make a lot of troubles, you will be tired after getting married. If there is no Jiang Dongyuan, I want to be raised by you, just as a dog who can wag his tail."
"Children, now there are test-tube babies and surrogates. If you want to give birth to yourself, you can give birth to yourself. If you don't want to give birth to yourself, let someone else give birth to you. If that's the case, this smooth and smooth life will pass away, and the support can only wag your tail at you." A dog who doesn’t dare to bark at you is very suitable. You can buy his loyalty with money. As long as the money is in your hands, the loyalty will always be there. Even if it doesn’t stop, it’s still bullying him, without him bullying you.”
"I still prefer you to keep a dog you like. I'm afraid that your temperament will change if you don't like it. Frequent marriage and divorce are not good. Now that you have Jiang Dongyuan by your side, husband and wife can communicate, have friendship, and The family relationship is also good, but it’s better to talk to people with equal status. You decide for yourself whether you want to raise a dog or marry Jiang Dongyuan.”
It is also the first time for Mr. Wen to be a father. Raising a son is different from raising a daughter. This daughter is not raised by his side.Therefore, it can be said that Mr. Wen has no expectations for his daughter.Yiwen Tinglan is living pretty well now and has a small career of her own. She is doing well, at least she is not involved in pornography|gambling|drugs, very good.Then he only thinks about how to let her live a peaceful life, so that he can also be regarded as an account to his wife and father-in-law.
The daughter didn't know what her father was thinking, Wen Tinglan only knew that the scumbag father was really a scumbag, and she wasn't surprised at all.
With such disagreement among the three views, Wen Tinglan didn't plan to marry him by force, so she prepared to leave.But the scumbag father told her that she was about to get ready for things, and asked her to make a decision as soon as possible, and tell him the decision when the time came, and he would take care of the rest.
These words made Wen Tinglan speechless, and she was not going to leave, she had to talk to her scumbag father, "Can't I take the third way, marry the person I like, and be together happily for the rest of my life?" ?”
Mr. Wen smiled, laughing at her naivety, and also at her cuteness, "How long can your love last? For decades, you and Jiang Dongyuan have been in a relationship for more than 20 years. Are you sure you have the confidence to be with the other party?" Will you stay together forever? Even if you have the confidence that your love will not change, will your partner not change? People are unpredictable, it is impossible to say."
Wen Tinglan wanted to say that you think everyone is as scumbag as you, and that I would definitely find the person who will spend the rest of my life with me, but when she touched his smiling face, she couldn't say anything, and she felt that everything she said would be blunt. Just very depressed.
This seems to be a crushing situation, but it can't be done.
The daughter who was sure that she couldn't handle the scumbag father began to talk nonsense, "According to your unpredictable saying, Jiang Dongyuan is not sure."
"That's why I said, I prefer you to raise a dog yourself." Mr. Wen said that this is easy to solve. "A man who is willing to bow his head for money has soft knees. He can kneel in front of you as long as you don't let go. Holding money in his own hands, he will not be able to stand up in his life."
What should I do if I can't beat others with nonsense?She's being shameless, no matter what she says, she's her own daughter, so she can't beat her up hard.
"You're talking about me as if no one wants me. I have to have a dog. Am I so bad that I can't find a man with a successful career?"
Mr. Wen said with a smile that this is a better solution, "Everyone wants to climb up, no matter what occupation he uses to achieve the goal of a successful career, he wants to climb to a higher place. The capital you hold is enough for [-]% of men They are all men with successful careers. No matter who you want to find, as long as you put your capital out, aggressive men will be attracted. The difference is just to choose the one you like, the one with soft knees, really No, I'll break his knee for you."
"In the eyes of those people outside, men with successful careers are just qualified to stand in front of you. They have spent half their lives trying to stand in front of you. Now they only need to take one step forward to cross the class. Ordinary people think To achieve success in his career, he must work hard, and his efforts need a fulcrum, which is aggressiveness, utilitarianism, and the desire to climb."
"Those things supported his day-to-day struggle. He climbed up to you exhaustedly. You are the ladder in front of him. How many people do you think will take shortcuts just for the sake of so-called self-esteem? , Arrogant? Such a person may not be interested in you, but on the other hand, you don’t like that kind of one-sided person, no matter how little we meet, I know that you prefer people who follow you. "
Ever since Wen Tinglan moved into Jiang's house, Mr. Wen saw his daughter just a few times, adding, subtracting, and subtracting never more than ten times. He could tell that his daughter was spoiled and brought up just by meeting like that. She's really good, otherwise, he wouldn't just let the Jiang family take care of Mr. Wen's inheritance.The reason is very simple, as long as Wen Tinglan is not afraid of him, the son in the family is afraid of him like anything, and he has never seen it a few times. That is the son who was taught by his mother to be raised and disabled.
How could a girl who was pampered and grown up like hard bones, she had never gnawed on hard bones in her life, and the meat brought to her mouth was smashed to pieces.Ten thousand steps back, even if she wanted to try something hard that she hadn't tried on a whim, she would lose interest after playing for a while. Wen Tinglan was not a girl who would wrong herself at all.
In this regard, Mr. Wen has absolute confidence, that's why he suggested that she raise a dog she likes that will wag its tail at her. That is the most suitable marriage for her.
A dog is obedient.If you like it, just touch your head and play with him. If you don't like it, just leave it aside and ignore him.
If Mr. Wen had to have any expectations for his daughter, it would be to be happy and nothing else.
The daughter didn't think there was anything to be happy about that, she just thought that he was worthy of being a scumbag, but she couldn't beat the scumbag father.The scum dad has a set of small words, a lot of big truths, and the three views are very weird, but they can be rounded up and turned into truths, which annoys her very much.
If you get annoyed, you will explode, and Wen Tinglan will not choose anything when his temper comes up, "You talk for a long time as if you are very successful, my mother is dead, and you are still cheating on her with a mistress! You are shameless!" As soon as she said that, she regretted it. Before she could apologize, the scumbag laughed.
The scumbag really laughed, the kind of laugh that made a sound, Wen Tinglan who laughed was confused, "What are you laughing at?"
Mr. Wen laughed, "Where did you hear what I did behind Wen Yan's back? We are the marriage I told you about. I played with mine and she played with hers. She died because of poor health. I was crazy, and I decided to have a baby when I was really sick. If egg retrieval and surrogacy were not immature at that time, you would see a mother with boyfriends all over the world."
This... is an answer that Wen Tinglan hadn't thought of at all. Are you so excited?
Having said all this, Mr. Wen is very interested in talking to his daughter about that hot and hot woman, and that woman is also a very interesting role in his life.It was not easy to find a Jin Wenyan in the team of ladies at that time, and it was more of a lady like Jiang's mother, who took care of her husband and taught her children, and was happy with the situation.
Mr. Wen said that Ms. Jin came to him for Jin Wenyan's marriage contract, because his reputation is very bad, and he claims that men and women are not taboo about meat and vegetables. Although the rumors are a lot of exaggeration, he really has a lot of fun.He doesn't care who he marries, he's the same with everyone, it's nothing more than having a few children and raising them, that's all.As for what the child will grow up to be and whether he can inherit anything, that's none of his business.
After I die, who cares about the flood.
But if the marriage partner is such an interesting Jin Wenyan, then the marriage seems to become more interesting.
Wen Tinglan never thought that he could hear his father tell a story about two Neptunes teaming up to brush dungeons. The story was so bizarre that the Neptunes would exchange partners.The two sides are really close friends, or they can be friends, anyway, they are very high, so high that she doesn't know what expression to use to face those dungeon stories.
I don't know if it's because Mr. Wen hasn't talked with anyone for a long time about the story of his best friend, or because Mr. Wen is very happy to share his little secret with his daughter, or because Wen Tinglan's expression makes him feel very interesting.Anyway, Mr. Wen talked about a lot of bizarre copies, to the point that Wen Tinglan thought it was exaggerated to the point where he seemed to be making up stories.
Wen Tinglan didn't want to hear it anymore. His father was a scumbag, and he didn't feel anything if he was a scumbag again, but his mother still had such a good impression of her. If things went on like this, the whole family would be ruined. Neither her parents nor her seemed to be a scumbag. All good people only care about themselves, and don't care about people who will be flooded after death.
The daughter tries to find the logical holes in the father's story, such as "You two are so close, why didn't my grandfather teach me to you?"
"No one knows that we have a good relationship. Your grandfather thought your mother was because I played too messily, and she broke the jar in sadness." Mr. Wen rarely showed an expression that didn't fit his identity. The daughter shared a little secret, "You know Mr. Jiang's character, your grandfather is that character, old-fashioned, and he pays attention to girls who want to look like girls."
"I am your mother's shield, helping her against her father. She is also my shield, helping me against my parents. We are the most loyal comrades in arms, so I also want you to find your own comrades in arms, and you work together well , trust each other. That life is very happy, the years I married her were the happiest period of my life, the most interesting time of my life so far."
"It's not that I don't want to take care of you, but I really don't have that much time to spend on you. Your mother knew about the illegitimate child you mentioned. The original plan was to treat you and him as twins, and they were all born to your mother. She only wants to have one child, saying it is too hard. But we always need a son, and you are a daughter in the maternity examination, so you have to get a son. The mother of that child is the woman who abused you..."
Mr. Wen chuckled, and spoke casually, saying his son's biological mother with the attitude of telling his daughter about raising a dog, "I brought her in to take care of the two of you. I didn't expect to be ambitious, thinking that I could borrow my son to take over." Raise your hand, "If you don't mention her, your ears will be dirty, tell me about you, do you think Jin Wenyan's life is what you want?"
Wen Tinglan, who really thought her ears couldn't get any dirtier, said embarrassingly, "Then it's even more impossible for me and Jiang Dongyuan to get married. He likes me, he likes me so much, he won't be my comrade-in-arms. Feng, he might be jealous and lock me at home."
This surprised Mr. Wen, "Then why did you break up? You don't like him, so why were you together? After so many years, it's impossible to get in touch again. There's no break-in period. How can you break up after being together?"
On this issue, the story is long.
The scumbag shared N dungeon stories with himself, Wen Tinglan thought it would be a good idea to share two dungeons with him?There is someone who breaks through the sky between a scumbag father and a scumbag, and her kind of pediatrics is definitely nothing in the eyes of the other party.
What if he lied to her?Don't make trouble!Which father would lie to his daughter that I am a scum, and I am still very proud?It's definitely the truth, okay?
The daughter who trusts the scumbag father very much started her own dungeon session. Compared with the scumbag father's dungeon, her copy is extraordinarily fresh.If it wasn't for the fact that the narrator was his own daughter, the scumbag father wouldn't really want to listen to it. It's a very boring copy.
The boring copy said that it was almost dinner time, and the scumbag father who spent an afternoon together took his daughter to the wine cellar to choose wine. He was going to order the wine first and then the meat for dinner.
Wen Tinglan has no interest in wine, but she still wants to play with the wine that the scumbag father gave her and said it was for her to taste. It seems to be very interesting.Wine selection becomes wine tasting, and wine tasting becomes drinking. As soon as the wine is drunk, Wen Tinglan's dungeon story begins to have no boundaries. The protagonist is no longer two men but herself.
Her thoughts, her feelings, she felt that she was a bit bad, a bit scum, and she still couldn't figure out who had the problem between her and Jiang Dongyuan.
The daughter is already slightly drunk, but the scumbag father doesn't feel it at all. To Mr. Wen, this little wine is just the level of table wine, drinking and having fun.
The sober scumbag father opened up a new perspective for his daughter as the king of scumbags. First of all, people are inherently selfish, so don't talk about love so selfish that you only think about yourself.
Ninety-nine out of ten people who love dedication are dead, and the chances of those who survive to find an unselfish gene to pass on to them are too small.In other words, selfishness is human nature, there is nothing to tangle with, she is just a human being, and human beings have shortcomings, and to accept those shortcomings is also a part of her.
Secondly, based on the fact that human beings carry selfish genes by nature, Wen Tinglan has no problem with He Zhengyu's actions at all. In love, the point is not that other people are happy but I am happy.Otherwise, why should you be with that person, there is no need for people who can't make you happy.It's his honor that he can make you happy, and you make him happy in turn.When he doesn't have what you want, isn't it normal to break up the partner?
Last but not least, what went wrong with Wen Tinglan and Jiang Dongyuan, and whose fault it was.
"Have you read the Tao Te Ching?"
"The Tao Te Ching?"
"Correct."
Mr. Wen told his daughter the words of a sage: "Chapter [-] of the Tao Te Ching, if you are flattered and humiliated, you will be ashamed as you are. If you are surprised. What does it mean that you have serious troubles like your body? The reason why I have a big patient is because I have a body. And I have no body, what trouble do I have? Therefore, you value your body as the world, if you can send it to the world, love the body as the world, If you can trust the world."
This passage was spoken in Chinese, but Wen Tinglan was confused when he explained it to Wen Tinglan. Mr. Wen thought she could not understand Chinese, so he said it again in Korean, and at the same time said that the passage was only intercepted.What is flattery?Be the next to me.To be surprised by what you gain, and to be surprised by what you lose, is to say that you are as surprised by flattery or humiliation.This paragraph is fine, and this paragraph can perfectly explain the problem between her and Jiang Dongyuan.
"What does it mean to be frightened by being favored and being humiliated? Being favored is humble, being favored is extraordinarily pleasant, and losing favor is frightening. This is the meaning of being flattered and humiliated. If you care about favor, you place yourself Wrong, you put yourself in that low position, can you understand me?"
In a trance, Wen Tinglan shook her head stupidly.
Mr. Wen wanted to touch her head, but he already raised his hand. After thinking about it, he put it down. He just looked at her with a smile and said to her, "You will only care about a person if you put him in a higher position than you." Emotions, because his emotions can affect you, and even determine your emotions. If I am happy, you will be happy, and if I am not happy, you will not be happy. Your emotions follow me."
"It's the relationship between the high-ranking person and the low-ranking person, the high-ranking person and the low-ranking person, and the top and bottom. I can spoil you. I'm the high-ranking person, I'm the high-ranking person, I'm the high-ranking person, and I'm yours. Father, I'm much stronger than you. On the other hand, don't you think it's strange that you pet me. "
It seems...is that the case?Wen Tinglan was stunned.
"This can be changed into, I care about you, I care about you, so your emotions will affect me. If you care, it will be much gentler, right?" Mr. Wen saw his daughter nodding blankly, and wanted to touch his head again. But this time, he didn't lift his hand but moved his fingers, and then said, "This is the problem between you and Jiang Dongyuan. You are attached to him and hope to get his attention. This is the favor you want. But you put yourself Putting it in an equal position, you think he should dote on you, and it would be wrong not to dote on you."
"With that river..."
"He Zhengyu."
"He Zhengyu."
"When you are with He Zhengyu, your position is right. You put yourself lower and you obey him, maybe because his thinking makes you think he is more mature, or maybe because he is indeed older than you. You have done more things than you, and you think he should be in a higher position. So you have no conflicts, you are not equal, and the core conflict between you is money, which just causes the inequality of status, that is to say, separation is a an inevitability."
Wen Tinglan didn't quite believe it, "It's not to a certain extent, is it?"
The father, who has never lost since we met, taught his daughter "If he is always superior and you are inferior, and you can always obey him, then you can always be together. But Ting Lan, you will grow up as time goes by." , your world is much bigger than his, at least you will gradually think that your world is more important than his as time goes by. At that time, your positions are not coordinated again, and you will still quarrel or break up."
"This can only be an inevitability, because you can't always be the little girl who listens to him, enjoys his favor, and obeys his arrangements. You will grow up. When you grow up, the one who originally made you want to look up to, People who want to be pampered don't have those qualities that you can look up to."
Inexplicably feeling as if he had been brainwashed, Wen Tinglan said in a daze, "Then you mean that it's wrong for me to want to be pampered by others?"
"The idea itself is fine. It's good to let others pamper you, but the key is to be clear. Petting and obedience are not a word. Petting means pampering you if I want to pamper you. If you don't want to pamper you, you are nothing. Pets are In that way, pets are only petted when they want to play, and pets are left aside when they are doing things. That is also an act of petting, but the owner is always human."
"What you want should be obedience. If you want others to obedience to you, whether he wants to or not, he has to obedience to your obedience, because you are the venerable, the high position, and you are the one who looks down on the other party. Your emotions should affect him, not be affected by him, understand?"
Wen Tinglan seemed to understand but half understood, "Seems to understand?"
Seeing her like that, Mr. Wen believed that she didn't understand, and said in a more straightforward direction, "Since you are selfish, you will be selfish to the end. The relationship between two people is a tug-of-war. If you are stronger, he will be weaker. If you set yourself apart from the beginning In a position that needs petting, then he has the initiative. You can completely hold the initiative in your own hands, you are already doing that, although it is unconscious, but you are doing well."
"The next thing to do is to turn unconscious behavior into conscious action, don't worry about what he is thinking, what you have to care about is what you want, set goals, clarify goals, and then execute it. Love itself Is it behavior? Coaxing you, accompanying you, listening to you when making decisions, these are the behaviors you want him to do, and these behaviors can be controlled."
"Men are human beings, human beings are animals, and animals can be trained."
"You have to learn to train Jiang Dongyuan and ask him to change according to your wishes."
Wen Tinglan felt as if she had heard something extraordinary, and behind that extraordinary thing was a big net woven by the scumbag, covering her head, "Why do I think you want to fool me into marrying Jiang Dongyuan? "
"If Jiang Dongyuan can be trained, and you like him, and he likes you, then what's wrong with you getting married?" Mr. Wen said with a smile, "Besides, you are inseparable from Jiang Dongyuan. There was no one willing to marry him."
"I suspect even more that you are trying to trick me. How did Jiang Dongyuan become the only one."
"It's very simple, you naturally think that you are equal, even if you ask him to favor you."
Mr. Wen, who is destined to be the winner today, told his daughter two certainties. The first must be that she and Ha Zhengyu will definitely break up, and the second must be that she and Jiang Dongyuan will definitely reconcile.
Wen Tinglan shared the second necessity with Jiang Dongyuan.
It was already very late, and Mr. Wen, who was a temporary guest life mentor, had already flown back to New York. Wen Tinglan, who was still in Seoul, went to Jiang Dongyuan's house, and forced Jiang Dongyuan, who was so tired from running the schedule, to finally sleep. Shake awake.When Jiang Dongyuan just woke up, he was still a little angry, but when he saw her face, he lost his anger, only helpless.
"I slept for less than four hours in two days~~~~" Jiang Dongyuan's head was about to explode, he wanted to struggle but was crushed to death, he wanted to beat her but couldn't do it, and he was also vaguely happy, This guy is back~
Wen Tinglan didn't have such complicated emotions, she had too many things in her mind, her CPU was almost burning out, and she couldn't turn it on. "I'm going to see my dad."
"When I see my father, I see my father. Why did you come..."
"My dad, me! My dad, the one named Wen!"
Jiang Dongyuan was still sleepy and didn't react for a while, but when he was shaken twice again, he came back to his senses and opened his eyes a little bit wider.He reached out and pinched her waist to get her off the quilt and hugged her through the quilt, letting her speak slowly while he was listening.
Wen Tinglan, who insisted that he could not be destroyed by himself, first told him a bunch of legendary dungeons of Mr. Wen and Miss Jin. Jiang Dongyuan gradually became less sleepy. The dungeons were too legendary, and the group started with them.Jiang Dongyuan, who was fully awake, propped himself up and leaned against the bedside table to hug her, assuring her with normal thinking that she was not joking.Wen Tinglan said that even if she wanted to joke, she couldn't make up such a legendary story.
"Yes, you continue."
What I will continue to talk about is not a legendary dungeon, but the second must that Mr. Wen said very firmly, and the first must be skipped directly.
"My dad said, you are my one and only."
"Which aspect is unique?"
"Marriage, if I want to get married, you are the only one."
Jiang Dongyuan moved his shoulders, and if he got married... "Do you like a son or a daughter?"
"What a mess." Wen Tinglan hit him in the stomach with the back of his hand, "Let's go through the normal process, why did we jump to the son or the daughter." After speaking, he felt wrong, what process should we go "Don't interrupt, I'll focus Haven't said it yet."
Jiang Dongyuan, who was holding her hand and pressing it on his lower abdomen, felt that the main point had already been said, "If you go through the process, I will propose to you? What kind of marriage proposal do you want, a grand one or a warm one?"
"Shut up!" Wen Tinglan slammed his head. "Don't listen, my dad said you were the only reason."
Jiang Dongyuan didn't really want to hear it. He didn't have a good impression of Mr. Wen. On his side, he lost Wen Tinglan's role and would steal people at any time. It's strange to have a good impression, but she insisted on saying, then "you say .”
As a result, the girl read the Tao Te Ching at the beginning of the article, which made Jiang Dongyuan completely confused. Before he could digest the words of the sage, he heard the version that Wen Tinglan understood.The difference between the simplified version of Chong and Shun is that in the former, the opponent occupies the high position, while in the latter, you occupy the high position.
Sleeping in his own home, lying on his own bed, holding the girl he likes in his arms, and still sleepy, the combination of these conditions caused Jiang Dongyuan to ask her without any sense of crisis, "What's the point?"
Anyone who changes someone, really, anyone who changes someone, Jiang Dongyuan will die, the kind with no way out.Because Mr. Wen was so close to teaching Wen Tinglan how to tame a man, no matter how stupid Wen Tinglan was, he could absorb the experience of the king of scumbags, and Jiang Dongyuan was definitely dead.
But I don't know if it's his luck or Wen Tinglan's luck, or if it's a gift from the years to this pair of childhood sweethearts.Wen Tinglan, who has learned a lot of experience, performed a special operation, which can be called miraculous.
"My dad said that people are animals, and men are also animals. You can be trained. That is, you can be trained to be a small animal that listens to me. You have to do what I want you to do." Wen Tinglan said in his His eyes widened sharply and he wanted to cover his mouth before interjecting, "I think, I'm an animal too, are we all human? Logically speaking, we can all be trained by the other party."
The widened eyes retracted to normal size, Jiang Dongyuan pulled her hand down, complaining, "Is there something wrong with your dad's brain?"
"It's not that he was abnormal on the first day." Wen Tinglan said that it's not important, now let's get down to business, "There is a sentence in what he has and what doesn't, and I may only be the most natural when I face you." Tell me what I want, whether you are happy or not, because we belong to the same country, whether we are lovers or not, we are all from the same country.”
"and then?"
"Then shall we try to make up?"
"Why do you want to try again?"
Wen Ting Lanchong
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