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(One)

The little one at home likes to watch Peppa Pig very much recently.

From the first part to the sixth part, I watched it several times over and over again, and it seems that I won't get tired of it.

If I just watched it, then I wouldn't be so worried. It's just that Chen Li followed the hair dryer in the animation and learned a bad habit-diving into puddles.

From small puddles in the bathroom that we didn't have time to mop up to puddles on the side of the road, he would always jump into them while Chen Zheng and I were unaware.

By the way, it is usually accompanied by a very ceremonial "jump"!

Then I splashed a foot of water, soaking the fur slippers and small cotton shoes.

And he himself raised his head proudly, looked at us with sparkling eyes, "Amazing."

OK, let me boast about myself.

Chen Zhenghui lowered his face and said, "It's not bad, Jiu Jiu, it's not bad to do this."

Chen Li didn't listen at all.

Once he accidentally jumped into a big pit full of yellow mud, and the muddy water in the pit instantly reached his chest. He was frightened and froze, and we were also terrified.

After returning home, Chen Zhengpang beat him up, and he cried, "It's not bad, I was wrong, Dad, stop beating me."

I looked at his red buttocks, so I decided not to persuade Chen Zheng not to spank him.

This child is too egotistical. He always doesn't listen to what the adults say. He has to try out the problem himself to know if it doesn't work and to admit his mistake.

That night, Chen Li secretly said to me: "Today my little daddy sleeps here, don't sleep with him, okay?"

The kid pouted and frowned, and took my pillow away before I could answer.

I stopped him and said with a smile: "Who is he?"

Chen Li snorted in the direction of the bathroom, "That's... that's the one who is brushing his teeth right now."

"You don't even want to call me dad?" I pinched Chen Li's bulging face, "You won't call me anymore?"

Chen Li hummed and said nothing.

I asked him again: "Did you do something wrong today? Did your big dad and I tell you many times before that you should not step on the puddle? If the puddle is deeper today, you can't swim. How can you not swim?" Haven't thought about what's going to happen?"

"……It is my fault."

"Then do you have to be punished if you do something wrong? Daddy hit you today, shouldn't you?"

Chen Li whispered: "I will be punished! But, my butt hurts, he is too fierce."

I tapped his forehead, "If you're not aggressive, will you have a long memory? Besides, although Big Daddy beat you, he also took a bath and changed your clothes for you, right?"

"Ah."

"Then he will go back to the room later, remember to hug him, big daddy is scared to death by you today."

"Ah?" Chen Li felt wronged, "I just don't want to hug him today, I want to sleep with you."

"I'll give you two choices. The first one is that you go back to sleep in your own room. The second one is that you hug your big daddy and sleep between us tonight. Which one do you choose?"

Chen Li grabbed his fingers in distress, "I don't want to sleep alone, and I don't want to hug him." He squatted on the ground thinking for a long time, and finally raised his head, with a stern look, "I'll choose the second one."

Because of the addition of a six-year-old dumpling, Chen Zheng and I went to bed early, leaving only a small night light.

Chen Li was lying between the two of us, kicking and groping with little hands and feet from time to time, very vigorously. Chen Zheng pressed his legs against his feet and warned him: "Jiu Jiu, don't move around and go back to sleep in your own room."

Chen Li turned around disdainfully, facing me, "I just want to sleep with Baby Yuan Yuan."

I burst out laughing, "Yuanyuan baby" was something Chen Li learned from Chen Zheng at some point, and every time he wanted to get angry with Chen Zheng, he would call me this name on purpose.Over time, Chen Zheng got used to it.

I was laughing happily when Chen Zheng came over suddenly, covered Chen Li's eyes with one hand in lightning speed, pinched my chin with the other and bit me on the mouth.

Then he lay back indifferently, "I'm sleepy, go to sleep."

Chen Li's big eyes rolled around, and his face was full of curiosity.My ears were hot, and I closed my eyes evasively, "I'm sleepy too, go to sleep."

(two)

Dragon Boat Festival.We took Chen Li back to my mother's place to spend time together, and Yuan Jie also came.

Mom has steamed the big meat dumplings in advance, and we will have some to eat as soon as we arrive.Chen Li likes to eat this kind of glutinous rice that is covered with oil. My mother has no principles for him, so he ate three of them in one go under the joyful eyes of his grandmother.

After eating, my stomach is round and full, and I burp.

So when it was time for lunch, Chen Li couldn't eat anything.Everyone ate the vegetables, and he watched them eat, and the hills of vegetables in the bowls were not touched at all.My mother advised him to eat more, and he acted pitifully: "Grandma, I can't eat anymore, I have no stomach anymore."

My mother has no power to resist his coquettish offensive, and will only say: "Okay, okay, don't eat if you don't eat, just don't be hungry."

Chen Li was probably bored. She stared at Yuan Jie and asked him, "Uncle, didn't you bring your boyfriend back?"

Yuan Jie showed an embarrassed expression, and Chen Zheng and I were also embarrassed.

Chen Li is very good at learning. When I chatted with Chen Zheng before, as long as he understands what he understands, he can basically learn [-]% to [-]% of it. Later, we were afraid of affecting our children, so we tried to avoid him when we chatted.

About Yuan Jie's boyfriend, I remember talking to my mother on the phone last month, probably overheard by this studious little guy.

Yuan Jie glanced at his mother, then at me, "He doesn't dare to come now, uncle will bring him later, and then bring a gift for Jiujiu, okay?"

Yuan Jie's boyfriend is an English teacher in a key high school in City A. The two of them have been together for more than half a year, and they have never seen anyone, only photos.Mom asked Yuan Jie to bring him back for dinner several times. Yuan Jie was probably afraid that he would not get any good results this time, so he kept saying wait.

"Okay!" Chen Li clapped her hands excitedly, "Uncle, I'll tell you what I want, I want a big train!" After speaking, he ran to Yuan Jie's side, pulled Yuan Jie's collar and kissed him, "Thank you uncle!"

Mom looked at Yuan Jie worriedly, "Xiao Heng, don't put too much pressure on you, as long as you are happy, Mom can accept anything."

"Grandma, I'm looking for a boyfriend in the future, so I'll definitely bring it back for you to see!" Chen Li said something surprising, breaking the somewhat silent atmosphere.

I secretly pondered, do gay families really have such a big influence on children?What I try my best to avoid, and what I am afraid of, is to instill in my children a view of sexual orientation that has no choice.He is still so young, he shouldn't be assimilated by the people around him, and he shouldn't default to only having a boyfriend as his choice.

Chen Zheng hugged Chen Li to the sofa, and said seriously, "Why does Jiujiu think he will find a boyfriend in the future?"

Chen Li tilted her head in doubt, "Dads are like this too, and uncle, all of you are looking for boyfriends!"

"Are the children you met in kindergarten also have two fathers?"

"No, many people have fathers and mothers!" Chen Li shook her legs and raised her chin showing off, "But the teacher said that there are not only fathers and mothers in the world, there are fathers and fathers, and there are also mothers." and mom!"

"So, Jiujiu can't only find boyfriends, you can also find girlfriends. Just like me and your little dad both love broccoli, but you hate it. Everyone's choice can be different .” Chen Zhengyu said earnestly.

"More importantly, you are still so young, don't even try to find a boyfriend or girlfriend!!"

Chen Li was dumbfounded by Chen Zheng's roar, she blinked her eyes, and nodded with half understanding.

Next to me, my mood was up and down, from self-blame to worry, and finally to relief.

—He is still a child.

The author says:

Next is the story of Song Zhiyuan.There is also a milk baby episode on Weibo, search for the keyword [milk baby].