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In the past two days, Wen Langxi was very attached to Fu Guan, except for sleeping at night, the rest of the time he followed Fu Guan, serving tea and water, very attentive.

But there are also many actions that make Fu Guan difficult. For example, Wen Langxi always wanted to hold Fu Guan's hand, always wanted to hug his waist. Once Fu Guan was making breakfast, Wen Langxi came down from upstairs and saw the man wearing an apron. With a slender waist, she couldn't help but hugged him from behind.

Fu Guan didn't break free, he's gotten used to it these days, no matter how he breaks free, it's useless, but subconsciously he still can't help but resist, they are all men, besides he is gay, if he is hugged by the same man every day Hug it, I am afraid that the relationship will deteriorate after a long time.

He is always reminding himself that Wen Langxi is temporarily sticky to him because of BPD, he can't think wildly, and he can't have other emotions for a BPD patient.

The inability to produce emotions here is not to discriminate against Wen Langxi who suffers from BPD, but Wen Langxi himself is not suitable for dating. He will make others suffer, and he will also make himself suffer. His unstable emotions will make Both are in a dilemma.

This day, he got up early in the morning, instead of making breakfast for the three of them as usual, after greeting Shen Qiu, he went to the hospital to find Fu Huasheng, and wanted to ask him what to do when faced with a clingy BPD patient Do.

Either let it go or stop it.

Just going out, he hesitated for a moment before returning, and said to Shen Qiu: "Auntie, if Wen Langxi asks, just say that I will be back at noon, and tell him not to worry, if he has anything to do, call me."

"Don't worry, I've been taking care of him for two or three years, and he's stable."

Fu Guan was driving, and there was some traffic jam on the road. It took more than an hour to arrive at the hospital where Fu Huasheng was staying. He looked in through the crack of the door. Fu Huasheng was talking to a patient with a smile, so he didn't dare to go in and disturb him, so he went to the hospital. Go to Fu Huasheng's special lounge and wait.

After sitting in it for a while, I felt a little dizzy. This was because I hadn't eaten breakfast. Thinking that Fu Huasheng would not end so soon, I thought about going down to have a meal before coming up and waiting.

Just as he was about to enter the elevator, someone grabbed his arm.

Looking back, it was Suki.

Xu Ji is Fu Guan's university senior. Although they are not directly related, they have a very good relationship. After graduation, with the support of family capital, they registered a real estate company. Although it is just the beginning, its future is limitless.

Xu Ji is three years older than Fu Guan, and he takes good care of him, taking care of everything in school. Even after Xu Ji graduated, he often went to chat with Fu Guan, but the two of them haven't had much contact recently. It's been a long time since they last met. Several months passed.

Fu Guan looked at Xu Ji, with a smile that he didn't often have on his cold face, "Senior, why are you in the hospital?"

Xu Ji let go of the hand holding Fu Guan's arm. Because he has been in the society for several years, he has become more mature and stable. He exudes a temperament of a social elite, but he is extremely gentle to Fu Guan. .

"Guan, long time no see. Today I came to get some medicine for my mother. I didn't expect such a coincidence that I ran into you."

"Yes, how is Auntie doing recently? Is there anything better?"

Xu Ji nodded, and said with a smile: "It's much better, do you want to go downstairs?"

"Well, go buy some breakfast."

Xu Ji looked at Fu Guan with tenderness in his eyes, "Why do you eat breakfast so late, it's not good for your health, just as the medicines have been taken, I'll go with you, let's talk again."

Xu Ji was too busy during this time, and he hadn't seen Fu Guan for a long time, so the two talked a lot this time, and when Fu Guan realized it, it was almost noon, and he hurried back to Wen's house at noon, so he didn't see Xu Ji again. After talking more, the two said goodbye and went to the hospital.

As soon as they went upstairs, they met Fu Huasheng who was about to rest, and the two went to the lounge.

"Dad, are you tired recently?"

Fu Huasheng took a sip of hot water, smiled and shook his head, "Not tired, not tired, how are you doing at Wen's house, how are you getting along with Wen Langxi?"

"It's good. His mood is basically stable, and he doesn't act impulsively. He is very friendly to me, but it seems to be a bit too much."

Fu Huasheng nodded, "Continue."

"He has a strong affection for me, even with dependence, and sometimes, there will be some excessive actions."

"for example."

Fu Guan pushed his eyes, and continued after hearing the words: "It's more intimate, following me all the time during the day, sometimes holding hands, and even hugging. Dad, how can this be explained in terms of the behavior patterns of BPD patients? If it's just affection, it will Wouldn't it be too much?"

Fu Huasheng took another sip of hot water, smiled, and looked at Fu Guan with a smile in his eyes, "Guan, do you think his behavior is abnormal? Or, what do you think he means to you?"

Hearing this, a trace of uneasiness flashed across Fu Guan's face immediately, and Fu Huasheng's words broke his mind.

Fu Huasheng saw that Fu Guan looked away and didn't speak, so he couldn't help laughing again, "In his eyes, you are now a person who just met and thought he was pretty good, and his physical contact with you is just to show his kindness to you. Some BPD patients will buy expensive things for the person they like, and some will be particularly dependent on them. In short, everyone is different, don't think too much, try to enter his heart, communicate with him spiritually, Knowing what he thinks, and gradually guiding his way of thinking, that's what you need to do now."

"Then what if he asks for more extreme actions in the future?"

Fu Huasheng thought for a while, and said: "Actually, this may also be because he has empathized with you. Has he mentioned anyone to you, such as someone he can't forget and liked?"

"No." He only mentioned that scumbag.

Fu Huasheng thought for a while before he said: "Well, this situation is more complicated, but the time you have been together is too short now, in the future you have to go deep into his heart and talk to him, and let him tell you what he really thinks, so that you can Understand the meaning of his actions. As for hugs, it is very likely that the lack of a sense of self has caused a persistent emptiness in their hearts, so they are eager to feel their own existence through physical contact with others. Of course, this is only for now According to the preliminary judgment, further understanding of him still needs to communicate with him. I should go to Wen's house in three days, and I will talk to him then."

"Okay, I see."

"Well, also remember, don't be obedient to him, but treat him consistently, which will help him build trust in you. If you want to inquire about the child's inner world, you must let him trust you, and at the same time You also need to be sincere, tolerant and patient in your feelings towards him, understand?"

Fu Guan stroked his fingers, lowered his eyes slightly, and said after a while: "Yes, I understand."

Fu Huasheng put down the hot water cup in his hand, and the seriousness on his face just now disappeared, replaced by a smile all over his eyes: "Guan, let me ask you, did you meet Suki just now?"

Fu Guan knew what his father was going to say next, and as expected, he heard the other party say: "You and him..."

"We're really nothing."

Fu Huasheng nodded with some regret, "Okay, then I won't talk about it, I just think Xiaoxu is young and promising, a good-looking talent, and has a bright future..."

"I just graduated."

Fu Huasheng smiled and waved his hands, "I know, I believe that with my family's eyes, I will definitely find a satisfactory young man..."

Fu Guan couldn't stand listening to it, and immediately stopped the other party's next words, "Dad! I have to leave quickly, Wen Langxi is still waiting for me."

"All right, all right, hey, my son is too big to stay, and I too..."

Fu Guan didn't listen to the next words, he went out and pressed the elevator to leave.

His father knew about his sexual orientation. He said it when he first realized it at the age of 15. Fu Huasheng didn't have much reaction to this, he just asked him to confirm it, and said that it would be a lifetime delay.

But unexpectedly, things finally developed in a direction he could not have expected.

After he became an adult, Professor Fu looked for young talents for him every day, including those in the medical field, education field, political and legal field, and most recently Xu Ji and the financial field.

All of them are elite talents in those circles, and all of them are top-notch in family background and knowledge. Although it is a good thing to be supported by family members, this support is a bit too much. Fu Guan only feels that he has been unable to bear it for the past two years.

Just as I thought of this, my phone rang.

It's Shen Qiu.

As soon as the phone was connected, the other party hurriedly said: "Mr. Fu, why haven't you come back? Xixi came down early in the morning and saw that you weren't there, so she didn't eat or drink, so she just stood at the door and waited until 12 o'clock when she went upstairs. He locked himself into the room and couldn't come out, no matter how I knocked on the door, he wouldn't open, I was afraid he was inside..."