The Red Mansion Is Like a Jade Gentleman

Jiang Shi was amused by Lin Hai's statement, and looked at Lin Hai dumbfoundedly, "You!" Sanyu and the others were lucky to have such a brother who was willing to stand up for them.

Lin Hai pouted and said, "That's what happened in the first place. Mother, don't blame me for speaking harshly. If the Lin family and the Jiang family marry again, do you dare to ask mother whether the second sister or the third sister has passed away? , will the younger sister who married in the past complain in her heart? After all, even the eldest sister is married to the son of the son, but her serious daughter is married to the son of the son. If it is as young as you said, mother Both my aunt and Jiang Hu are kind to my younger sister, so if the other younger sister who married to another family is doing well, it’s fine, but if it’s not going well, will she complain about mother-kissing you? Obviously everyone is the same Yes, why can't she marry the Jiang family?"

In this world, who has no selfishness, people, they always think of themselves at the first moment, and only think of others at the second moment.

Generally, a family with a long history pays great attention to the unity of relatives in the family. Everyone gathers firewood and strives high. Only when every member of the family does their best to fight for the glory of the family can the family prosper, and individuals can also rely on A big tree is good for shade; but if the relatives only know intrigue and tricks, then the family is not far from decline. Without the blessing of the family, no matter how talented a person is, he will not be able to make great achievements, even if he can make great achievements. Achievements do not necessarily end in a happy ending. This is the reason why the fate of lonely ministers is mostly bad.

A lonely minister is not long in the court.Why did the aristocratic family arrange all their children into the court?Naturally, it is hoped that the children will help each other.Why marry each other?It's just to form an alliance through the in-laws of the children and find another ally for the family!

But these are all based on the fact that the married daughter does not say that there is always a mother's family in her heart, but at least when there is no harm to the interests of her husband's family, she must think of her mother's family.If it is a married daughter, one or two will become sworn enemies.Then this is not a marriage, but a feud!

Just like the Jia family in the original book, Lin Daiyu's mother, Jia Min, was a descendant of the Jia family, but she was only ranked fourth. It stands to reason that there should be three concubine sisters in front of her, but did they appear in the original book? Not at all mentioned.Thinking about it this way, Mother Jia was harsh on them when she was in her boudoir, so after they got married, they never had any contact with each other!

Speaking of selfishness, Lin Hai also has selfishness.The reason why he treats his younger brothers and sisters well is not because he can bring him a powerful ally in the future, apart from relatives.

Lin Hai was also born into a big family in his previous life.I have seen this kind of thing a lot. On the surface, everyone is kind and friendly, but what happens in private is what it is. There are also unfilial children who refuse to save them.

What's more, the marriage of close relatives must be firmly resisted.

"You're from a small family. Where did you come up with so many ideas?" Jiang frowned. Although Lin Hai's words made sense, after all, she was a daughter who came out of his own fear, and Jiang was unwilling to let them all go. Think bad!

"I don't have so many thoughts. I just look at the other family's affairs and feel emotional." Lin Hai said with a pursed mouth.Not to mention other things, isn't the Jia family a living example?

"Although your words are harsh, they are reasonable. Sigh..." Jiang sighed.In fact, she is also unwilling to marry her daughter to the Jiang family, because she came from that family, so she also knows that there are many right and wrong in the Jiang family, and she doesn't want her daughter to go into troubled water.And although the Jiang family was sincere about this matter, they didn't know how sincere it was.Everyone has an abacus in mind.

"Mother, why are you sighing? It is right for my family to feel sorry for my family. Don't talk about others. If there is any conflict between me and Jiang Hu one day, mother will definitely turn to my son, even if it is my son's fault. .”

Not to speak to the Jiang family, Lin Hai continued: "Since ancient times, there has been a 'good relationship between two surnames', that is, a marriage between us with foreign surnames. This will not only expand the power of the family, but also help the stability of a family. After all, if everyone is related Therefore, it is not easy to restrain!"

"You're the one who thinks too much!" Jiang nodded Lin Hai's forehead and said with a smile.

Lin Hai said with a hippie smile: "Where is my son thinking too much, isn't my son thinking of my sisters?"

"Then tell me, how do you think about the younger sisters?" Jiang said jokingly.

Lin Hai raised his head, "It's not easy. Of course, I want to find a good husband for my sisters."

Jiang bawled, "You can say that too."

Lin Hai held back his mouth, "There's nothing that can't be said. Since ancient times, boys should be married and girls should be married. Don't talk about whether it hurts or not. Finding a good home for the younger sisters is the last word, mother." Is there anyone in mind?"

"You are the one who makes the most fallacies." Jiang smiled, and then said solemnly: "Although there are many families who want to marry, so far, I have taken a fancy to one."

"Oh! Which one?" Although he knew that the Jiang family was very picky about Lin Yingyu and Lin Xiangyu's marriage, he didn't expect to be picky to this extent. Not to mention the others, Lin Hai knew eight of them, and there were other Lin Hais. I don’t know, I didn’t expect that among so many people, the Jiang family only took a fancy to one family. This made Lin Hai a little curious, and he didn’t know which family’s young master fell into Jiang’s eyes.

"The second son of Uncle Feng's family in Xiangcheng." The Jiang family announced the candidate.

To say that the Feng family of Uncle Xiangcheng also has a place in the upper class of the capital. The Feng family produced a large number of talents at the beginning of the founding of the country. Three generations have worked as aides beside Feng Tianzu Feng Taizu, and they can be regarded as family friends with the Lin family, because this The staff did a good job, and one of his ancestors was also Feng Taizu's teacher, so he was exceptionally granted the title of hereditary earl.When the world was just stabilized, I couldn't see it. At that time, the reputation of the four kings and eight princes was the loudest, but it has been decades, and this advantage has come out. He is a hereditary earl, so he will not be lowered. .

To say that the Uncle Feng's family in Xiangcheng can be regarded as a big family in the capital. Although there have not been any prominent figures, there will always be some descendants of each generation who will be able to join the cabinet.All adults who walk in the cabinet, regardless of their official positions, will be called prime ministers by outsiders, and even officials with higher ranks than them can be treated as equals.

What's more, the family education of Uncle Feng's family in Xiangcheng is very strict. I heard that when a daughter-in-law enters the house, the first thing she does is not to be filial to her in-laws and establish rules, but to memorize the laws of the Feng Dynasty in her own room. Here comes.In this way, I will not be afraid that this daughter-in-law will be bold and do something illegal.

Feng Qing, the second son of Uncle Feng's family in Xiangcheng, Lin Hai has also met and had contact with.

Although his appearance is not as good as his own, he can still be called 'handsome', and there is a lot of ink in his stomach. Now that he has obtained the fame of Juren, he thinks that the birth of a Jinshi will be indispensable in the future.Gentle and elegant, with the style of a Pianpianjia son.

But let Lin Hai evaluate Feng Qing, there is only one thing - a bun with sesame stuffing.Looking gentle and elegant, in fact, there are many hooks in the belly!

But in all fairness, this Feng Qing is a good brother-in-law. He needs a family background and talents. As for him not being able to inherit the position of Uncle Xiangcheng in the future, it may be a pity in the eyes of others, but in Lin Hai's eyes But it is an advantage!The Lin family's limelight is already very strong now, so there is no need to add to the icing on the cake, so as not to become a thorn in the emperor's eyes.

In fact, Lin Hai once calculated how much the eldest son and the second son would inherit from the family business. According to the customs of this era, the eldest son would inherit the family's ancestral property and offer sacrifices to the land. Although it may be regarded as a large amount of money, the money Basically, there is no such thing. When the grain is produced, it can be sold for money.For families like the Lin family, their ancestral home is not in the capital but in Suzhou, so the money is usually placed in the clan, and the patriarch helps to spend it. Let alone whether the patriarch will be corrupt, he hires someone to look after and clean the ancestral graves every year , plus incense money, all of these require silver.Moreover, part of it should be given to the clan, which is regarded as filial piety money.

The remaining things are generally six or four points, and there are also five or five points for loving the second son, and then some families may extra compensate the second son with a house.

To be honest, although looking at the second son will suffer a bit, it will be relatively less troublesome.Let’s not talk about people like the Lin family who don’t have titles to attack, but people like the Feng family who have titles to attack. If something happens in the clan, do you think they will go to the eldest son who has a title or the second son who has no title? Son, this is very obvious, and he will definitely go to the eldest son.

Not being able to look for it means less right and wrong, less right and wrong means less trouble, and less trouble means that the days to come will be much easier.And in the future, the eldest son will take care of the father-in-law and mother-in-law. Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a university question. Who would want to grow old, and there is a mother-in-law on top of him!You have to follow her heart first in everything, and if you are a little negligent, you have to prevent her from taking off the hat of 'unfilial piety' for you.

Look at Mrs. Xing and Mrs. Wang in the original book. They are very old and their grandsons are hugging them.But because Jia Mu is still alive, she has to set rules every day and serve Jia Mu for dinner every day.Even some trivial matters, you have to discuss it with Jiamu first. If you can't make up your own mind, you need Jiamu's consent.How sad it is, how sad it is, and I don't know how good the 'endurance' is to be able to persevere!

Thinking about it this way, if you don't particularly value money, marrying the second son is actually much more beneficial than marrying the eldest son.

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