Confess to you in early summer

Before Qin Yuwen finished chatting with Yan, he was about to go back after making notes, and happened to meet Yan Chu who hurried to the hospital outside the door of the ward.

Seeing that Yan Wei's eyes were red, Yan Chu hurried over and asked, "Weiwei, why are you crying?"

"I'm fine." Yan Wei wiped his eyes, wiped away his tears, then turned to introduce to Qin Yuwen: "This is my sister Yan Chu, most of the sisters know about me, the last time I went out of school to find You Yi, It was my sister who helped me, this time I jumped off the car and was injured, and it was my sister who took care of me for half a month."

"Hello." Qin Yuwen stretched out his right hand friendly, "I am the policeman in charge of mediating the dispute this time, and my name is Qin Yuwen."

Yan Chu shook hands with her, and then heard her say: "I have already learned about the situation with Yan, if it is convenient, can I ask Ms. Yan to come with me to the guard room? After all, dispute mediation requires both parties to talk face to face. of."

The two parties with opposing positions only need to have a representative. Obviously, Yan Chu will speak from Yan Wei's position.

Qin Yuwen's move was to protect Yan Wei, Yan Chu immediately agreed, turned around and told Yan Wei to go downstairs to rest with Qin Yuwen, Yan Wei only realized at this moment, and hurriedly chased after them: "I'll go with you!"

Yan Chu and Qin Yuwen stopped at the same time and looked back at her. They saw her standing at the top of the stairs with red eyes but a firm expression: "It's okay, I can do it."

Some things still need to be clarified with her parents.

She has found courage and strength from people who love her and from friendly police officers.

The guard room was not too spacious, there were a few wooden stools with peeling paint scattered around the table, and several people were tightly squeezed into the cramped space.

The two sisters stood at the door and did not go in. Qin Yuwen entered the room and whispered a few words to the team leader. After a while, the team leader came out with Yan Tingyue and stood opposite Yan Wei.

Qin Yuwen opened the previous transcript and said, "Mr. Yan, you and your wife came to the hospital to pick up your daughter, and you just want to take her home for a while, right?"

Her tone was very calm, with an attitude of stating the facts in a business-like manner, without any intention of favoring any party.

Yan Tingyue nodded: "Yes, we really have no other ideas." He was still repeating this sentence.

Qin Yuwen agreed without expressing his attitude, and asked again: "Student Yan said that you tried to persuade her to receive treatment for mental illness. Is this true?"

"No!" Yan Tingyue replied decisively, and even gave Yan Wei a look, "That's all her assumption! This child always feels that her parents have plots against her, which is too wrong."

Feeling his gaze, Yan Wei clenched his fists, and couldn't help interjecting: "Your original words were to take me to a place to meet someone, so why don't you tell me where it is and who it is?"

Qin Yuwen glanced at her, his expression was a little helpless, fleeting, and before Yan Tingyue got angry, he said lightly: "Then, Mr. Yan, please answer this question."

Yan Tingyue's expression was unnatural for a moment, his heart heaved violently a few times, and he barely suppressed his anger: "It's my friend's psychological consultation room, but we took Weiwei there not to treat her, but there have been a lot of things recently, We are afraid that she will be stressed, so we want this friend to chat with Weiwei."

Yan Wei was so angry that he lost his temper, and rolled his eyes coldly.

Qin Yuwen asked Yan Tingyue three questions in a row, then turned to look at Yan Wei, and asked her, "Why do you resist going home with your parents?"

"Because they don't respect me." Yan Wei replied calmly, "Not only did they steal my schoolbag and take my mobile phone to invade my personal privacy, they also restricted my travel and prevented me from going out alone."

Yan Tingyue's expression was a little distorted, but it returned to normal when Qin Yuwen looked over.

Qin Yuwen asked him: "Mr. Yan, is what student Yan said true?"

"Are you kidding me?!" Yan Tingyue raised his voice, "Do you believe children who say such things?!"

Yan Chu spoke at this moment: "What Weiwei said is true."

"What nonsense are you talking about?!" Yan Tingyue looked at Yan Chu with fierce eyes, as if he wanted to eat people.

Qin Yuwen tapped on his notebook and interrupted them: "Don't be noisy, just speak slowly if you have something to say, and you can always make it clear."

She turned to Yan Tingyue: "Mr. Yan, according to the relevant regulations, even parents, if the child's request is normal and reasonable, they cannot invade the child's privacy, let alone restrict the child's personal freedom."

"What's more, student Yan is 17 years old. Although he is legally underage, he already has strong capacity for civil conduct and judgment. Although you and your wife want to take her to relieve psychological pressure out of good intentions, student Yan has the right to refuse. As long as she is unwilling, you cannot use any drastic means to force her to compromise."

"Family harmony is not achieved by either the parents or the children, but the result of mutual understanding and mutual respect. From what we know, Mr. Yan, you and your wife's care and love for Yan is obvious to all. But the discipline chosen may have been inappropriate."

"Of course, there may be some misunderstandings in this. Student Yan misunderstood your kindness." She said, looking at Yan Wei, "Student Yan, it is wrong for you to arbitrarily and maliciously speculate that your parents have ulterior motives."

Yan Wei lowered his eyes and nodded.

"Many family conflicts can be resolved through communication, but the premise is not to be stubborn, to be calm, to be willing to listen to the other party's voice, and to respect the other party's choices and ideas."

Qin Yuwen concluded: "Everyone, no matter how young they are, they are themselves first, and then they are the children of their parents. I say this, Mr. Yan, can you understand?"

Yan Tingyue's complexion was not very good-looking when she was halfway through her words. After she finished speaking, Yan Tingyue's entire face turned dark, her brows were twisted so hard that a fly could be killed, and she raised her voice in displeasure: "Why do you think it's Our problem? Is it wrong for us as parents to want our children to learn well?!"

Qin Yuwen closed the notebook and raised his eyes seriously: "Mr. Yan, please clarify your logic. Of course there is nothing wrong with your original intention of teaching the child and wanting her to learn well, but if it is just because your ideas are good, you think that the following All actions from this point of view are correct, and I beg to differ."

"For example, if there is a parent who kills or imprisons the child in order to prevent the child from breaking the law, the original intention is undoubtedly good, then do you think this parent's behavior is right? Doesn't it break the law? "

Yan Wei couldn't help giving the police sister a thumbs up in her heart.

Yan Tingyue was speechless by Qin Yuwen, but how could he admit his mistakes willingly? He has been stubborn about education for decades, and never thinks that he is at fault, let alone a small policeman can sway him.

"At your age, you must have no children of your own?" Yan Tingyue said with a cold face, "When you become a parent, you won't say such a thing for granted! Being a parent is an unmarried young man like you. Can't understand!"

"Mr. Yan."

Qin Yuwen's tone was still calm, but in Yan Wei's ears, she could feel a trace of sullenness, but her good professionalism covered up this subtle mood swing.

"I hope you can understand that whether a person has children has nothing to do with whether she is sane, whether she can tell right from wrong."

"Then if your child is gay, can you bear it?! Can you also reason with her so calmly?!" Yan Tingyue was stunned and said without choice.

He couldn't stand the young policeman preaching to him in a seemingly impartial manner.

"Mr. Yan, first of all, homosexuality is not a crime, nor is it a mental illness. Sexual orientation is a personal choice and should not be forcibly intervened."

"Secondly, although same-sex marriage has not been widely recognized, in principle, it is not prohibited. It exists objectively, and it will not be affected by your personal wishes."

"Finally, I would like to give you a piece of advice. If you still refuse to cooperate with our mediation work, then we will consider you to be potentially aggressive, and we can properly provide protection for Yan."

"Sometimes people need to know how to be content. Yan is good enough in all aspects. No one is perfect. You should not, and it is impossible, to let her grow and develop completely according to your ideas, and give each other A little free space is actually fulfilling yourselves.”

"From my point of view, this sentence may be presumptuous. It doesn't matter if Mr. Yan listens to it or not." Qin Yuwen's tone did not fluctuate much from the beginning to the end, but it gave people an inexplicable pressure, which made people have to believe .

"In the end, family harmony is the most important thing, isn't it?"

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