You can eat it but you are not allowed to miss it

The website where the money was remitted is outside the country, and there is basically no way to recover the money.

"Ayu, it's all mother's fault. You lost your job and ran home alone. You knew what I was talking about! I'm such a bad mother!" Mom blamed herself again.

E Yu persuaded her: "Mom, don't say that. Besides, I'm good at hands and feet. If I lose my job, I just need to find another one."

"Ayu, I'd better sell the house. I can live in your grandma's house. Your grandma and grandpa are also getting older, and they are worrying that they can't cook anymore. They said they want to hire a nanny, but I said there are outsiders at home. How can your grandma sleep? Or just let me go and give you a little labor fee." Mom said.

E Yu frowned, and said, "You said you wanted to take care of your grandparents, and I would definitely not object to moving in occasionally. But if you sell the house, where will I live?"

"You and my uncle are in Shanghai, and you only come back for a few days a year? You can just stay in a hotel."

"Who said I'm going back to Shanghai? I don't plan to leave when I come back this time." E Yu said.

My mother's eyes widened and she asked, "Aren't you leaving? What about my uncle? You just got married, you can't do this, you don't understand men!"

"I don't understand men?" E Yu felt that sometimes she really disagreed with her thoughts.So, in the eyes of his own mother, does he only have a skin left to tie this man?

E Yu vowed: "I don't want to talk to you, but we have already broken up. I really don't believe it, can't live without a man?"

I had nowhere to vent my anger after hearing these words, after all, it was my mother, and I had listened to her rambling all my life.However, when E Yu lowered his head, he saw the wrinkled facial features of his mother beside him, like a child who did something wrong.He really couldn't bear it, and comforted him: "Okay, okay, since we were young, we have always depended on each other for life, aren't we living well?"

"It's all my mother's fault. If I hadn't been so courageous and ruined all the family's money, you wouldn't have quarreled with my uncle because of it. But, you must listen to my mother's advice, and don't follow in my mother's footsteps! Uncle is really good to you." Mom persuaded.

E Yu felt that these words were getting more and more outrageous, what does it mean to follow in the footsteps of her mother?What time is it now, and he is a man, so it is impossible for him to be like his mother back then. He was pointed out and bullied for divorce, right?Big Shanghai can't stay any longer, and no one in the small county knows who he is, he just wants to keep a low profile.

Now that I have decided to settle down in my hometown, finding a necessary means of earning a living has become a top priority.Actually, E Yu didn't feel anxious.Since he was in college, he has been studying abroad seamlessly, graduating and doing internships abroad, and then returning to work in China. For several years, he has been spinning around, and he has no vacations that are completely his own. He can sleep until he wakes up naturally, have brunch, and enjoy the afternoon Sitting by the window basking in the sun, flipping through books, and emptying your mind until it gets dark.It seems that such a leisurely time only happened during the summer vacation when he was in elementary school.At that time, he was more obsessed with reading than children of the same age, although they were all idle books that had nothing to do with learning.

At that time, it was the time when "youth pain literature" became popular on campus.But E Yu is not interested in the romance between men and women. He likes to read Sanmao's travel notes.Turning to a chapter once, the author described the plot where she "peeked" at an African woman taking a shower in the desert.The dusky sandstorm in the sky, the African women who have accumulated dirt for more than half a year, full of rough wild vitality, seem to be vividly remembered.The charm of words is to take readers to experience a completely strange world, understand what the author sees and thinks, and thus extract rich life experience.

Starting from the reading room of the city library within an inch, his longing for the great world outside this small county sprouted and grew.He wants to study zoology, and later go to the African desert to raise lions, and drive an off-road vehicle to race with cheetahs.Later, he hoped to become a naturalist, sailing on a ship like Darwin, collecting leaves on desolate islands, and recording the habits of birds. For this reason, he especially loved sketching in notebooks.

And he happened to grow up with two enlightened elders.His grandparents were both born in poor families, and both of them lost their fathers before they were ten years old.However, they were all admitted to Nanjing's public-funded teacher's college with excellent grades. They first studied physics, and later transferred to Nanjing's Finance and Economics College to major in accounting in response to the call of the country.Because of their similar growth backgrounds, the two young people fell in love, which was considered a very trendy campus free love at that time.Later, because of family composition issues, they failed to stay in Nanjing, and my grandfather returned to his hometown county with his grandmother.A Yu remembers that when he was very young, he often sat on his grandfather's lap and listened to his grandfather telling stories about the outside world, including his experience of traveling by plane to various parts of the country.

Grandpa has a distant nephew who is a descendant of his uncle's second wife.There was a famine in that era, everyone was poor, and it was a problem to have enough to eat.The nephew's honest peasant parents originally planned to let their children enroll in a free vocational secondary school.When the grandfather found out about it, he strongly objected, "This kid has such good grades in the senior high school entrance examination, he must be expected to go to college in the future! You listen to me, let him go to high school even if you want to sell everything! He will definitely have a great future!" Because grandpa is one of the elders. Cultural people, the parents of that family listened to the words of the grandfather.But the files had already been submitted, so there was no other way. Grandpa had no choice but to ride a bicycle for dozens of miles overnight to the Education Bureau, and asked his old colleagues in the office to bring back his nephew's files and put them in the ordinary high school.

Sure enough, my nephew lived up to expectations and was admitted to Nanjing University in one fell swoop, and in the 90s he flew to the University of Pennsylvania to study for a doctorate.After studying, he returned to China to start a business.Now, every time he returns to his hometown, he has to visit his grandfather respectfully.Under the influence of her grandfather, the young Ayu longed for distant countries, those schools with a strong academic atmosphere.He also became the first grandchild in his family to study for a Ph.D. in a prestigious foreign school, just as his grandfather expected.It's a pity that in the end, A Yu still failed to let his grandfather touch the doctor's degree certificate with gold letters on it.Sometimes, he felt ashamed of his grandpa's high expectations.

With the expansion of university enrollment in recent years, reading is no longer like in the past, grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents' nephews have such a profound impact on a person's destiny, and it can even cross classes.Especially young people like A Yu who returned to Shanghai after studying abroad for a master's degree, they caught a lot of them.Many employers will have a special headache for them, fearing that they will demand too much. Although they can speak well, they may not be more hardworking than "local students" when it comes to actual work.Of course, these opinions are also biased, after all, there are thousands of people with different faces.

A Yu said that she wanted to find a job.His uncle suggested that he take the civil service exam.Civil servants are stable and have good benefits.Once, he went to eat in the cafeteria of his uncle's work unit, and found that the meals in it were a combination of meat and vegetables, with less oil and salt, and he could also order homemade steamed buns and other delicacies from the master chef.The price is much lower than takeaway.It was like liberating a lazy cancer patient like him.

A Yu's aunt persuaded him to take the exam for a bank qualification.Speaking of him studying abroad, even if he was an ordinary teller at the beginning, he must have great potential!He will be selected for promotion in the future.However, whether it is a civil servant or a bank examination system, how can you take the examination if you want to?A Yu felt dizzy at the thought of reciting political history.Moreover, he is not used to the interpersonal relationship in that system.

I heard from my mother that when my uncle was promoted, my aunt worked hard secretly.A Yu is the kind of person who has a very low face. His mother asked him to give some local specialties from his hometown to his mentor, but he was embarrassed and embarrassed.You know, flattery or giving a gift during the New Year is just the beginning, the key is to weave a mutually beneficial "ecological network".For example, A's son needs a place in a key school this year, and B's friend happens to be in charge of admissions at that school and helps matchmaking.Then next time, maybe someone in B's family is sick and needs to see a specialist, and A's uncle has someone in that hospital.Knowing how to manage this kind of interpersonal relationship is particularly important here.

The young people of A Yu's generation have accepted more foreign cultures, even though they understand these rules, they are very repulsed psychologically.A Yu once worked as an intern in a foreign company.It cannot be said that the superiors and subordinates in foreign countries have no "interpersonal communication" at all. Everyone will also build teams, such as organizing some "yoga" and "meditation" activities, or the boss treats guests to share working lunches.However, as soon as it's time to get off work, the difference is immediately clear.The off-duty time belongs to you, and you have the right not to reply to messages from your boss, and no one will ask you to be friends with your colleagues.

But apart from these "iron rice bowls", there really isn't much work that the small county can do for E Yu.Mainly concentrated in the service industry, such as supermarket staff, restaurant waiters, sales and so on.To a certain extent, it is indeed out of face, and I feel that I am also a "high-achieving student" who graduated from a prestigious school, and it is a bit "overqualified" to work in the service industry.Maybe even if he is willing to save face, others will think that he has high vision and low power, so it is better to find a migrant worker without a degree.He thought about whether he could find some online jobs because he had experience in writing, but his mother rejected his idea as soon as he put it forward.

My mother said: "Your aunt's daughter majored in art and animation in college. She applied for a job at a local newspaper before. She hated the low salary and now she doesn't go to work at all. Her mother asked her to pay social security, but she doesn't pay it either!"

"Mom, you don't understand. What era is it now? In the Internet age, anyone can show their talents through the Internet platform. That sister may be drawing comics at home and doing illustrations. Maybe she has many fans! You can also produce picture albums and peripheral products. Don't underestimate your home