dear psychiatrist

During these days, Tao Yaoyao seemed a little busy.The guests seemed to have been negotiated and appeared in groups.Make her breathless.

Li Manyun seemed extra excited, she was more willing to be full and busy than to have no business from morning till night.After all, there is a purpose to being busy these days.At least at the end of the month, the considerable income will still make her feel good.

Hey, don't say that Li Manyun is too practical.Can people be unrealistic?Is it not practical?Chai, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar tea, which point does not cost money?Unless it's a god who doesn't eat fireworks in the world, who doesn't care about money gains and losses?

Speaking of which, Tao Yaoyao was also willing to go through this busy schedule.Living separately from her parents and paying the rent alone, she has no problem with money.

No, as soon as a man who was trapped by love was sent away on the front foot, another woman who was trapped by love came on the back foot.The Buddha said that there are seven sufferings in the world: birth, old age, sickness, death, meeting with hatred and hatred, parting from love, and not getting what you want.

Most people are suffering from a love.The woman in front of Tao Yaoyao is no exception.

The woman walked into the counseling room, took a cup of coffee from Li Manyun's hand, held the coffee cup, and warmed her hands.From time to time, he looked at Tao Yaoyao.I don't know how long it took before the woman finally opened her mouth.

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I have always put my career first, and I feel that I don't have a lot of money for any kind of love, which makes people feel at ease.

You can't rely on anything, men, friends, and maybe family.But money is the most disgusting thing, but also the most comforting thing.

Ten years ago, my desire for money was stronger than you would have imagined.It's like if there is a handful of money in front of me, I can immediately pounce on it.

In addition to hard work, it is hard work.During the period, I also did a lot of stupid things and stupid things. After ten years of struggle and ten years of youth, I finally got money.You have a career, you have money, and you don't have to worry about everything about your car and house.

However, people are not always easy to be satisfied.When one goal is met, another goal emerges.I don't know if this counts as human greed.

Perhaps because I am getting older, I suddenly want to find a home, a shoulder that I can rely on.

Of course, the idea didn't come out of nowhere by itself.Waking up early one morning, groggy and light-headed.The mouth is very dry, and I want to get up to drink a glass of water, but I feel weak all over.After struggling for a while, I still couldn't get out of bed.His body was clamoring for discomfort, and he knew in his heart that he had a fever, but he didn't have any strength.

When people are sick, they are vulnerable.At that moment, I was lying on the bed dizzy and thinking a lot.I was thinking, if I died on the bed at that moment, how long would it take for someone to notice my disappearance?

Will I be like the news that is often reported on TV.He died at home for many days, his body already stinks with his body, and the neighbors noticed something strange just now?

It wouldn't be a bad thing if there was someone who could appear by my side at this moment, asking me warmly and caring for me.

Such an idea lingered in my mind for a long time.But it's just an idea after all. I'm a smart person in business, but an idiot in love.Probably because of my EQ, all of it was borrowed by IQ.

I don't know how to get along with boys. Unlike business, I have no way to grasp the other person's mind.Perhaps this matter depends on fate, and has nothing to do with my own efforts.

Be patient, I learned to wait.It was at this time that the current boyfriend appeared.The encounter with my boyfriend is a bit like a Korean drama.

Maybe it has become a habit. I buy a cup of coffee every morning and take it to the company to drink.This is no secret, anyone who knows me a little bit knows this habit of mine.

That day, I walked in the direction of the company with a cup of coffee in my hand as I always did.He just bumped into me in a daze, bringing a mess, but bumped into my world.

Although from the very beginning, I knew that he bumped into me on purpose to strike up a conversation with me, but I believed in my heart that he loved me.

The relationship between my boyfriend and I developed very quickly, and within a month, we had sex.

It stands to reason that after the lover goes to bed, the relationship will be more stable.But I always feel that the relationship with him is flat, and nothing can arouse my emotions except the heartbeat at the beginning.

If you want to describe him with one color, I think he should be blue.It's not a fiery red, nor a bland milky white, just a beautiful blue illustration.The surprise at the beginning is not worth the passage of time.

Tepid with her boyfriend, just like this day by day.What's interesting is that my parents are very fond of my boyfriend, he always has a way to express himself.

My parents liked him, so they kept urging me to get married as soon as possible.Ever since, the marriage of men and women was quickly put on the table.

His parents were in their hometown, and they sent a car to pick him up with great fanfare.The boyfriend said that in this way, his parents' faces will be bright, and they will be able to hold their heads up in the village in the future.This kind of petty bourgeois mind, I will accommodate as much as I can.

What is incomprehensible is that his parents' attitude towards me is so cruel and unreasonable.Their appearance and inner life are just like the ignorant old men and women in the countryside.

How arrogant you are when you talk to me.It seems that I have committed myself to my boyfriend, so I have no capital and can ask for more.It's as if I can never get married except for her son.

His parents said high-sounding words, and to put it bluntly, they just wanted my name on the real estate certificate to be changed to theirs.Then move my company into the hands of my boyfriend.

If it was just because of his parents' embarrassing 'poor calculation', I would not consider breaking up.After all, the people who will be with me for the rest of my life are not his parents, but my boyfriend...

What's more interesting is that when I went to his hometown to pick up his parents, I saw my boyfriend flirting with a girl.Later, I found out that the girl was his girlfriend who had been with him for many years.

Suddenly, I understood.Why does he want to speed up the pace of love? Everyone likes the feeling of being ambiguous, but he only wants to establish a relationship as soon as possible.When you go to bed, you open your mouth to get married.I also understand why he always keeps saying that he wants an opportunity to start a business and work hard, but he suffers from no source of funds and cannot find Bole.

The funny thing is, at that time, I even opened my mouth to comfort him, that Maxima will always meet Bole.

Of course, there are also things to be thankful for.I always make a clear distinction between work and love.So when he hinted that a sum of money was needed to start a business, I never thought of handing over my wealth.

To put it bluntly, he just wanted to defraud my house and my money.Then turn around and go to be with that woman and live a sweet little life with gusto.

I think I'm stuck in a dream I created and can't extricate myself.I also understand that the person I love is not the boyfriend in front of me, but a perfect boyfriend in my fantasy.

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The woman talked about memories to herself, as if Tao Yaoyao in front of her didn't exist at all.Talking intermittently, it seems that he wants to express all the emotions that have been accumulated in his heart for a long time.

Seeing the woman taking a sip of coffee, she let out a long sigh and said, "I'm in pain, but the source of the pain is not love. Maybe it's because I heard some rumors from my boyfriend, and my parents have been urging us to hurry up Marriage. They conservatively believe that a woman should be consistent to the end. I am like being held hostage by my family, I have no right to autonomy, and some are just obedient and compromise."

"I think you already have the answer in your heart. You came to me just to clear your mind." After listening to the woman in front of her talk a lot, Tao Yaoyao finally opened her mouth.

Tao Yaoyao's words hit the nail on the head, as if she hit the woman's heart.Seeing the woman smile wryly, she said, "Yeah... you've hit everything. I really need someone to listen to my inner thoughts. I don't know who to tell these things to. To be honest, parents I was in a hurry to get me married, and I also hated marrying in my heart. But it is obvious that he is not my destination."

"It's not the first time I've brought up the matter of breaking up, but I hope this is the last time..." Even Tao Yaoyao had a good impression of the woman in front of him.

You know, most people who come to the consultation room, whenever they mention feelings, they all have snot and tears, crying to the ground.But the woman in front of her just plainly expressed what she thought in her heart, and then rationally made a correct analysis and decision.Perhaps this is the secret of her success, Tao Yaoyao thought to herself.