Looking at the posture of the three trials in front of him, even Fu Li felt a little guilty.
But after knowing their purpose, Fu Li felt much more relaxed: "This fiancée does exist, but it can also be said that she does not exist, because the other party has not yet reached the stage. Whether this marriage can be successful depends on the personality and hobbies of the two children. Is it congenial?" After a pause, she smiled, "There is a high probability that they are congenial, after all, Brother Jin's girl is exactly what Brother Jin likes."
The other four couldn't fully understand Fu Li's words.
Because of their identities, Lin Ruhai and his wife are always restrained even when speaking, even though they have thousands of words hidden in their hearts, they are not easy to speak.
But the two old people did not have any worries in this regard. The old lady turned her head to look at the old man, and after receiving a urging look from him, she asked directly: "What is the other party's identity? What is his temperament? How is his age? What is his family background?"
"The other party is still young, what can you tell?" Fu Li smiled, "But in terms of family status, she is the eldest daughter of a merchant's family."
"The merchant's house?"
Now even Lin Ruhai and Jia Min couldn't help it anymore, Lin Ruhai said first: "There are so many girls with good backgrounds in Beijing, why did you choose a girl from a businessman's family for Brother Jin? Of those girls who want to get married with Brother Jin, don't you have any girls that you can see?"
He even wanted to ask, could those girls from merchant families be better than those girls raised from childhood in Beijing?
Fu Li raised his eyebrows, and said: "Because this girl has traveled all over the world with her parents since she was a child, and she has extraordinary knowledge. If she gets married in the future, she will definitely be able to chat with Brother Jin. Moreover, her beautiful appearance is exactly in line with Brother Jin's attitude towards women. Appearance requirements..."
"Marrying a wife and a virtuous man, accepting a concubine and a woman," Lin Ruhai felt absurd. "As long as you are good-looking, how can you include appearance as a condition for marrying a wife? As long as you are successful and famous, how can you miss a beautiful woman?"
Fu Li subconsciously turned his head to look at Jia Min, but saw that Jia Min's eyes were calm, and he didn't seem to think that his words were wrong.
Or maybe she's used to it
After all, the people she has come into contact with since she was a child are Jia Daishan who has many wives and concubines, Jia She who is greedy and lustful, Jia Zheng who spoils his concubines and kills his wives, and Jia Zhen who doesn't even care about morality for the sake of women...
Fu Li was speechless, so he could only repeat the conditions for choosing a spouse that Brother Jin said before, and finally added: "Since Brother Jin doesn't plan to take a concubine, I, as a mother, will naturally find a way to marry him a beautiful wife , otherwise wouldn’t he be wronged?”
Even if he is very affectionate with Jia Min, Lin Ruhai still can't understand it: "It's not unusual for a man to have three wives and four concubines..."
"Master Lin," Fu Li interrupted Lin Ruhai, "Your thoughts do not represent Brother Jin's thoughts, and there are not no men in this world who are willing to live alone with their wives. For example, when our Lord Marquis proposed to marry him, He once promised me that he would never accept sex, and after so many years, he has really fulfilled his oath."
Let Lin Ruhai continue, she is very worried whether she will directly drive people out of the Dingweihou Mansion, and it will not be good if there are rumors of a breakup between the two families, and it is true that Brother Jin is caught between her and Lin Ruhai Difficult to do.
Lin Ruhai was stunned for a moment, thinking that he had never heard that Marquis Dingwei had taken concubines these years, so he was speechless for a moment.
Jia Min's eyes moved, envy appeared in his eyes.
The old lady didn't quite agree with Fu Li's words: "Brother Jin was only ten years old when he said this, but how can he take it seriously when he said that when he was young? Even if he wants to marry a beautiful wife, this
The whole capital is not bad, so why do you have to marry a merchant woman?Isn't this lowering your own status?Relying on Dingweihou's Mansion and Lin's family, and the name of Liuyuan Jidi, what kind of girl can't Brother Jin marry?Not to mention the daughter of a duke, even a princess or princess would be an easy feat. "
Fu Li smiled: "But Brother Jin is only 13 years old this year, so he is still young? Why are you so eager to get engaged to him so early? Everything is waiting for Brother Jin to be old, the governor, and understand what I really want Isn't it better to choose a future wife for him slowly?"
The four people except Fu Li were stunned, unable to react to Fu Li's words for a while.
Didn't she say that Brother Jin had a fiancée before, why now she said that she would wait for Brother Jin to grow up before slowly choosing a wife according to his preferences?
"I just exchanged tokens with that family, but I also agreed that everything will be discussed after the girl gets married. Before that, I hope they will not be in a hurry to make a marriage for that girl." Fu Li turned his head and scanned the other people. He glanced at him and smiled, "After all, I don't intend to let Brother Jin get married too early, at least we have to wait until after the crown."
"Ji Guan?" The old lady's eyes widened. "Why is it so late? By then, how could there be good girls of the right age?"
The current trend of marriage is to start looking at the future partner for your children at the age of twelve or thirteen, and then at the age of fourteen or five, you must choose a suitable fiancé couple for your children. For people with too much affection, the three letters and six ceremonies follow the normal process. Generally, they can get married in half a year to a year; It is very likely to go on for two or three years, or even four or five years, until the girl of my family is seventeen or eighteen years old before getting married.
But even the latter type of family will assign the girl to a suitable family when their girl is fourteen or fifteen years old.
From the perspective of the four old ladies, if Fu Lizhen planned to marry Jin Geer after he reached the crown, he might not be able to meet a girl of the right age.
Fu Li pursed his lips, his eyes complicated: "It's really hard for this girl to find someone when she's old. Even if your family background is good, just one age will make people want to quit. But if a boy wants to get married, Is there still a girl missing?"
This is the way things are in this world. If a woman wants to marry a man who is much younger than herself, she will always attract criticism, but when a man marries a girl who is much younger than himself, no one will say anything.
The worries in the hearts of the old lady and others actually do not exist for Brother Jin, who is a man.
The old lady was stunned for a moment, her eyes hesitated: "But married at twenty, she is too old..."
But on this point, Fu Li will never give in.
Even if a teenager is married, what can he understand?If you don't even know the meaning behind getting married, why get married?Play house?
And if that happens too early, it's not good for the child's health.
Jia Min found another way, trying to convince Fu Li with the help of Brother Jin's fiancée whom she didn't even know existed: "You just said that when a girl gets older, her options are much smaller. You If Brother Jin and Guan are forced to discuss the marriage, if the marriage talk fails, how will the girl deal with herself?"
Fu Li laughed: "Don't worry, I've done the calculations. The girl is not old enough. When she reaches Ji, brother Jin will be just right in age. When the time comes, the two of you will look at each other. If you don't feel bad for each other, you can get married right away." It's settled."
Jia Min couldn't bear it and began to break
He counted the girl's age with his fingers, and when he calculated it, his eyes were full of astonishment: "Is that girl too young?"
"That's why I didn't engage the two of you." Fu Li spread his hands.
She would exchange tokens with Xue Qinshi before, and she was just worried that the Xue family would directly give Xue Baoqin to other families without her knowing it. Can helplessly give up.
After all, it is also a chance for the two children.
After all, Xue Baoqin is really outstanding, and Brother Jin will never humiliate the other party.
Seeing that Fu Li had considered all aspects, Jia Min was the first to realize that Fu Li had made up his mind that he would not choose his fiancée among these noble girls in the capital. He felt a little lost and helpless for a while.
After all, she is not Brother Jin's biological mother, so she can't take much care of Brother Jin's marriage.
Lin Ruhai wanted to take care of it, but before he opened his mouth, Fu Li "screamed" him back: "Brother Jin was like a kitten when he was born, and he almost couldn't keep him alive, but it scared me a lot. Afterwards It is easy to keep him down, and his bones are healthy, but this is based on the premise that I always pay attention to his body and never let him do things that will damage his body. The doctor said , getting married too early is not good for your health, knowing people too early can easily damage your energy, I don't care what you think, but I absolutely can't let Brother Jin get married too early."
Fu Li has said so, what can others say?
Besides Brother Jin, Lin Ruhai has a son and a daughter, but the health of the son and the daughter is very bad, and almost all of them have been taking medicine since birth. He values the health of the children more than anyone else.
The same goes for Jamin.
The old man and the old lady didn't feel deeply about this because the younger generation was in good health, but Fu Li insisted that the Lin family had nothing to say, and it was really difficult for them to speak.
Fu Li is helpless, she also knows that she insists on letting Brother Jin get married at such an age, which runs counter to other people's ideas, but after decades of life in modern times, and the education she has received has already been deeply rooted in her bones, when it doesn't involve herself, Of course she will keep silent, but when it comes to herself and Brother Jing, she can't let it go.
When the old lady was busy with Lang Ge'er before, she felt that it was too early to get married, but neither the two old people in the family nor Wei Yan felt that there was anything wrong with it, and Lang Ge'er didn't seem to think there was anything wrong with it. If she said it again, it would be a bit suspected of sowing discord, so she could only acquiesce, and on this basis, fight for more right to speak for Lang Geer.
To be honest, Fu Li was very happy in his heart when Lang Geer chose not to be engaged after the engagement failed.
Because of this, when she has enough say in Brother Jin's marriage, she can't tolerate other people following the rules of this era, getting engaged and getting married in their teens.
Too unreliable.
Although she knew that other people had objections to her arrangement, she could only ignore it as if she hadn't noticed it.
The old man and the old lady chose to remain silent at this time, but Lin Ruhai still wanted to fight for it.
The Lin family has few heirs. As the only head of the Lin family and the father of Jin Geer, he of course wants Jin Geer to get married as soon as possible, and then give birth to an heir for the Lin family to inherit the incense as soon as possible.
But Brother Jin refused without hesitation after listening to Lin Ruhai's persuasion.
His reason is different from Fu Li's: "Eldest brother is not married, how can a younger brother get married before elder brother?"
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But after knowing their purpose, Fu Li felt much more relaxed: "This fiancée does exist, but it can also be said that she does not exist, because the other party has not yet reached the stage. Whether this marriage can be successful depends on the personality and hobbies of the two children. Is it congenial?" After a pause, she smiled, "There is a high probability that they are congenial, after all, Brother Jin's girl is exactly what Brother Jin likes."
The other four couldn't fully understand Fu Li's words.
Because of their identities, Lin Ruhai and his wife are always restrained even when speaking, even though they have thousands of words hidden in their hearts, they are not easy to speak.
But the two old people did not have any worries in this regard. The old lady turned her head to look at the old man, and after receiving a urging look from him, she asked directly: "What is the other party's identity? What is his temperament? How is his age? What is his family background?"
"The other party is still young, what can you tell?" Fu Li smiled, "But in terms of family status, she is the eldest daughter of a merchant's family."
"The merchant's house?"
Now even Lin Ruhai and Jia Min couldn't help it anymore, Lin Ruhai said first: "There are so many girls with good backgrounds in Beijing, why did you choose a girl from a businessman's family for Brother Jin? Of those girls who want to get married with Brother Jin, don't you have any girls that you can see?"
He even wanted to ask, could those girls from merchant families be better than those girls raised from childhood in Beijing?
Fu Li raised his eyebrows, and said: "Because this girl has traveled all over the world with her parents since she was a child, and she has extraordinary knowledge. If she gets married in the future, she will definitely be able to chat with Brother Jin. Moreover, her beautiful appearance is exactly in line with Brother Jin's attitude towards women. Appearance requirements..."
"Marrying a wife and a virtuous man, accepting a concubine and a woman," Lin Ruhai felt absurd. "As long as you are good-looking, how can you include appearance as a condition for marrying a wife? As long as you are successful and famous, how can you miss a beautiful woman?"
Fu Li subconsciously turned his head to look at Jia Min, but saw that Jia Min's eyes were calm, and he didn't seem to think that his words were wrong.
Or maybe she's used to it
After all, the people she has come into contact with since she was a child are Jia Daishan who has many wives and concubines, Jia She who is greedy and lustful, Jia Zheng who spoils his concubines and kills his wives, and Jia Zhen who doesn't even care about morality for the sake of women...
Fu Li was speechless, so he could only repeat the conditions for choosing a spouse that Brother Jin said before, and finally added: "Since Brother Jin doesn't plan to take a concubine, I, as a mother, will naturally find a way to marry him a beautiful wife , otherwise wouldn’t he be wronged?”
Even if he is very affectionate with Jia Min, Lin Ruhai still can't understand it: "It's not unusual for a man to have three wives and four concubines..."
"Master Lin," Fu Li interrupted Lin Ruhai, "Your thoughts do not represent Brother Jin's thoughts, and there are not no men in this world who are willing to live alone with their wives. For example, when our Lord Marquis proposed to marry him, He once promised me that he would never accept sex, and after so many years, he has really fulfilled his oath."
Let Lin Ruhai continue, she is very worried whether she will directly drive people out of the Dingweihou Mansion, and it will not be good if there are rumors of a breakup between the two families, and it is true that Brother Jin is caught between her and Lin Ruhai Difficult to do.
Lin Ruhai was stunned for a moment, thinking that he had never heard that Marquis Dingwei had taken concubines these years, so he was speechless for a moment.
Jia Min's eyes moved, envy appeared in his eyes.
The old lady didn't quite agree with Fu Li's words: "Brother Jin was only ten years old when he said this, but how can he take it seriously when he said that when he was young? Even if he wants to marry a beautiful wife, this
The whole capital is not bad, so why do you have to marry a merchant woman?Isn't this lowering your own status?Relying on Dingweihou's Mansion and Lin's family, and the name of Liuyuan Jidi, what kind of girl can't Brother Jin marry?Not to mention the daughter of a duke, even a princess or princess would be an easy feat. "
Fu Li smiled: "But Brother Jin is only 13 years old this year, so he is still young? Why are you so eager to get engaged to him so early? Everything is waiting for Brother Jin to be old, the governor, and understand what I really want Isn't it better to choose a future wife for him slowly?"
The four people except Fu Li were stunned, unable to react to Fu Li's words for a while.
Didn't she say that Brother Jin had a fiancée before, why now she said that she would wait for Brother Jin to grow up before slowly choosing a wife according to his preferences?
"I just exchanged tokens with that family, but I also agreed that everything will be discussed after the girl gets married. Before that, I hope they will not be in a hurry to make a marriage for that girl." Fu Li turned his head and scanned the other people. He glanced at him and smiled, "After all, I don't intend to let Brother Jin get married too early, at least we have to wait until after the crown."
"Ji Guan?" The old lady's eyes widened. "Why is it so late? By then, how could there be good girls of the right age?"
The current trend of marriage is to start looking at the future partner for your children at the age of twelve or thirteen, and then at the age of fourteen or five, you must choose a suitable fiancé couple for your children. For people with too much affection, the three letters and six ceremonies follow the normal process. Generally, they can get married in half a year to a year; It is very likely to go on for two or three years, or even four or five years, until the girl of my family is seventeen or eighteen years old before getting married.
But even the latter type of family will assign the girl to a suitable family when their girl is fourteen or fifteen years old.
From the perspective of the four old ladies, if Fu Lizhen planned to marry Jin Geer after he reached the crown, he might not be able to meet a girl of the right age.
Fu Li pursed his lips, his eyes complicated: "It's really hard for this girl to find someone when she's old. Even if your family background is good, just one age will make people want to quit. But if a boy wants to get married, Is there still a girl missing?"
This is the way things are in this world. If a woman wants to marry a man who is much younger than herself, she will always attract criticism, but when a man marries a girl who is much younger than himself, no one will say anything.
The worries in the hearts of the old lady and others actually do not exist for Brother Jin, who is a man.
The old lady was stunned for a moment, her eyes hesitated: "But married at twenty, she is too old..."
But on this point, Fu Li will never give in.
Even if a teenager is married, what can he understand?If you don't even know the meaning behind getting married, why get married?Play house?
And if that happens too early, it's not good for the child's health.
Jia Min found another way, trying to convince Fu Li with the help of Brother Jin's fiancée whom she didn't even know existed: "You just said that when a girl gets older, her options are much smaller. You If Brother Jin and Guan are forced to discuss the marriage, if the marriage talk fails, how will the girl deal with herself?"
Fu Li laughed: "Don't worry, I've done the calculations. The girl is not old enough. When she reaches Ji, brother Jin will be just right in age. When the time comes, the two of you will look at each other. If you don't feel bad for each other, you can get married right away." It's settled."
Jia Min couldn't bear it and began to break
He counted the girl's age with his fingers, and when he calculated it, his eyes were full of astonishment: "Is that girl too young?"
"That's why I didn't engage the two of you." Fu Li spread his hands.
She would exchange tokens with Xue Qinshi before, and she was just worried that the Xue family would directly give Xue Baoqin to other families without her knowing it. Can helplessly give up.
After all, it is also a chance for the two children.
After all, Xue Baoqin is really outstanding, and Brother Jin will never humiliate the other party.
Seeing that Fu Li had considered all aspects, Jia Min was the first to realize that Fu Li had made up his mind that he would not choose his fiancée among these noble girls in the capital. He felt a little lost and helpless for a while.
After all, she is not Brother Jin's biological mother, so she can't take much care of Brother Jin's marriage.
Lin Ruhai wanted to take care of it, but before he opened his mouth, Fu Li "screamed" him back: "Brother Jin was like a kitten when he was born, and he almost couldn't keep him alive, but it scared me a lot. Afterwards It is easy to keep him down, and his bones are healthy, but this is based on the premise that I always pay attention to his body and never let him do things that will damage his body. The doctor said , getting married too early is not good for your health, knowing people too early can easily damage your energy, I don't care what you think, but I absolutely can't let Brother Jin get married too early."
Fu Li has said so, what can others say?
Besides Brother Jin, Lin Ruhai has a son and a daughter, but the health of the son and the daughter is very bad, and almost all of them have been taking medicine since birth. He values the health of the children more than anyone else.
The same goes for Jamin.
The old man and the old lady didn't feel deeply about this because the younger generation was in good health, but Fu Li insisted that the Lin family had nothing to say, and it was really difficult for them to speak.
Fu Li is helpless, she also knows that she insists on letting Brother Jin get married at such an age, which runs counter to other people's ideas, but after decades of life in modern times, and the education she has received has already been deeply rooted in her bones, when it doesn't involve herself, Of course she will keep silent, but when it comes to herself and Brother Jing, she can't let it go.
When the old lady was busy with Lang Ge'er before, she felt that it was too early to get married, but neither the two old people in the family nor Wei Yan felt that there was anything wrong with it, and Lang Ge'er didn't seem to think there was anything wrong with it. If she said it again, it would be a bit suspected of sowing discord, so she could only acquiesce, and on this basis, fight for more right to speak for Lang Geer.
To be honest, Fu Li was very happy in his heart when Lang Geer chose not to be engaged after the engagement failed.
Because of this, when she has enough say in Brother Jin's marriage, she can't tolerate other people following the rules of this era, getting engaged and getting married in their teens.
Too unreliable.
Although she knew that other people had objections to her arrangement, she could only ignore it as if she hadn't noticed it.
The old man and the old lady chose to remain silent at this time, but Lin Ruhai still wanted to fight for it.
The Lin family has few heirs. As the only head of the Lin family and the father of Jin Geer, he of course wants Jin Geer to get married as soon as possible, and then give birth to an heir for the Lin family to inherit the incense as soon as possible.
But Brother Jin refused without hesitation after listening to Lin Ruhai's persuasion.
His reason is different from Fu Li's: "Eldest brother is not married, how can a younger brother get married before elder brother?"
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