Scarlet Spirit Eye

Bone Twelve

"Afraid?" Han Wei was surprised.

He always thought that Jiang Siyan was deliberately against him, and never thought about this possibility.

Wei Yang whispered, "Jiang Siyan had a car accident, you know that, right?"

Han Wei faced forward and said, "I know."

Wei Yang: "After that incident, he had very serious sequelae, and the bureau arranged psychological treatment for him."

Han Wei still didn't understand: "I heard from Zhang Ju, but what does this have to do with fear?"

Wei Yang: "During the process of receiving psychological treatment, the doctor discovered that Jiang Siyan had more than one kind of psychological trauma. He also had other psychological problems."

"what is the problem?"

"He had a hidden avoidant and pleaser personality."

Han Wei turned his head to look at Wei Yang in surprise, not sure if he heard it wrong, and asked instead: "Avoid? Please? Are you sure?"

Wei Yang nodded: "The doctor said that it might be due to some childhood experiences. Jiang Siyan looks normal on the surface, very naughty, and talks casually every day, but this is actually his protective cover to cover up his inner feelings. Vulnerability. Once he suffers a blow or encounters a situation that he does not want to face, he will choose to avoid or please to deal with it. It is like now that you reprimand him, he will no longer actively talk to you. Because He is afraid that he will make you angry if he says the wrong thing again, so he simply chooses not to say anything. But you ask questions, what you ask, and what he will answer, in order to try to please you."

Han Wei's brows have not been loosened since just now, what Wei Yang said is exactly what Jiang Siyan is doing now.He wondered, "What has he experienced?"

Wei Yang shook his head: "Have you noticed Jiang Siyan's eating habits?"

Han Wei recalled: "He is picky eater and likes to eat meat."

Wei Yang: "Not only that, he only eats meat stuffing when he eats buns, yellow eggs, green peppers, and carrots. It sounds like a spoiled child, picky eaters, but he is not. The doctor tried it out, Secretly mixed these foods into his drink, who knows that he started to vomit after just taking a sip."

Han Wei was even more confused: "Spit up?"

Wei Yang let out a "hmm".

"why is that?"

"The doctor said it was most likely an injury from eating."

"Are you hurt?"

"It's just eating a certain thing for a long time, and excessive consumption of certain foods has caused physical and psychological resistance and fear. For example, if you eat potatoes every day, you don't want to eat anymore after you get tired of eating. Jiang Siyan probably ate too much when he was a child, which caused him One bite will turn your stomach."

"Did he have a poor family background when he was a child? I think he lives in a good place now." Han Wei has been to Jiang Siyan's house. The location is superior, and it is not an area that ordinary people can afford.Jiang Siyan was able to live there, not like a child from a poor family.

"I don't know. I've never heard him mention his parents. I've worked with him for the past few years, and I haven't seen his family. He has always lived by himself."

"Strange?" Han Wei didn't understand Jiang Siyan more and more.

"However, based on some of his performance and reactions, the doctor speculated that he may have been abused."

"Abuse?" Han Wei's eyes were instantly filled with horror.

Wei Yang: "Well. He may have been bullied when he grew up, which caused some problems with his personality. I didn't know about his problem at first. Later, he was late for a case because he stayed up late the first night to analyze the case. I I just scolded him, scolding him in front of many people, without even giving him a chance to explain. As a result, he suddenly seemed to be a different person after that. He treated me respectfully and asked for instructions on everything, which was completely different from him at the beginning. A casual look, like a robot, lifeless."

This is exactly Jiang Siyan's attitude towards Han Wei now, he raised his hand even when he said something, and chose to deliberately avoid his eyes when he spoke, just like a mouse seeing a cat and wishing to find a hole to burrow into it.

Wei Yang continued: "I thought he had learned his lesson. I was quite happy, and I finally got him under control, but in fact, it had the opposite effect. This restrained him instead, and the rhythm of solving the case was also affected. Jiang Siyan did not agree. He will not take the initiative to communicate, or dare not hide many things in his heart, because he does not know how to speak."

Han Wei had never encountered Jiang Siyan's situation before, "Did the doctor say anything?"

"The doctor said that Jiang Siyan was afraid of me. Maybe some of my actions and words stimulated him, reminded him of some childhood experiences, and touched the pain in his heart. He was overwhelmed and had to become cautious. Maybe in the past He just maintained this way to let him go through the most difficult period smoothly, so he thinks this is the best way. And once he falls into this kind of thinking, it will be very difficult for him/pull out/out." Wei Yang side said, sighing.

In the sub-office, many people didn't understand Wei Yang and Zhang Linhui's laissez-faire attitude towards Jiang Siyan. They felt that they loved Jiang Siyan too much, but in fact they didn't know Jiang Siyan's past.Outsiders only see Jiang Siyan's playful and mischievous side, but they don't know that his heart is as fragile as glass.

Jiang Siyan never wanted others to know the real him, he was used to disguising himself with a false mask.But when you get to know him better, you will love him more, and you will be reluctant to beat and scold him. Instead, you want to protect him under your wings and prevent him from being hurt again.

Everyone has the mentality of protecting the calf. Jiang Siyan is his team member, younger than him, just like his younger brother, so he naturally cares more.Similarly, Zhang Linhui paid special attention to Jiang Siyan.For this reason, people in the sub-bureau always joked that Zhang Ju was the father, Wei Yang was the mother, and Jiang Siyan was the cub, relying on their parents' favor to do whatever they wanted.

Wei Yang said frankly: "To be honest, many people think that Zhang Ju and I treat Jiang Siyan well because of his ability to solve crimes, but there are so many capable people, not everyone is Jiang Siyan. Different people have different ways of discipline. , it will only be counterproductive if you treat Jiang Siyan the way you used to treat others."

Han Wei: "It's about what people order, right?"

Wei Yang: "That's right. You have to know your purpose before you know what to do next. Since you have chosen Jiang Siyan as a team member, you must first determine your purpose for choosing him. If you choose him to make him obey, Then it's better to change someone, he is much easier to discipline than he is obedient, there is no need to waste time on him. But if you choose him to solve the case, then you let him grow wantonly, you just need to be responsible, and he will I will give you an unexpected surprise."

Han Wei smiled helplessly: "You can put it bluntly, I just need to be responsible for the accident and wipe my ass."

Wei Yang also laughed: "The meaning is indeed the same, but I said it in a civilized way. So if you want to get along well with Jiang Siyan, you need to think about what you want first."

After hearing so much, Han Wei couldn't help but regret the harsh words she had said to Jiang Siyan.He didn't know about Jiang Siyan's past, so he didn't know that he would have such a problem.In the past, he only suspected that Jiang Siyan was a PTSD patient, but he did not expect to have other mental illnesses.Han Wei unconsciously began to think about how to solve the current situation, after all, going on like this is not the answer.Jiang Siyan's state can easily affect the progress of the next work.

In order to solve the case, he must solve this trouble quickly.

And there is only one way to solve the trouble - summation.

The communication between the two stopped with the start of the meeting.Lu Yitao was at the front of the conference room emphasizing the work arrangement of the Public Security Bureau for the next month. Han Wei sat down and didn't have much interest in listening. He just scribbled down two things related to him, and the rest of the time he was full of thoughts about the next How to seek peace with Jiang Siyan.

An hour later, the meeting ended and everyone left the meeting room one after another.

Some people were discussing in low voices.

"Only for an hour? It's a bit fast!"

"It is said that this is the style of our new bureau chief. We never procrastinate in meetings, and say what we have to say. My buddies in the provincial bureau told me that our land bureau is a time-controller, and meetings are always stuck in seconds."

"I've also heard that he thinks meetings are a waste of time, it's better to go to work, so the meetings he chairs never talk nonsense, and they end after they are finished. Of course, you must complete the tasks he gave, otherwise you will not be able to eat. "

"I like this style."

"Compared with the one-day-one-afternoon style of the Forestry Bureau, it's a world of difference."

"Okay, be careful not to be heard."

Wei Yang listened to the discussion of a group of people, and felt the same way: "It ended sooner than I imagined."

He got up to leave, but noticed that Han Wei was sitting still on the chair, curiously said: "It's over. Aren't you leaving?"

Han Wei came back to his senses: "Oh, let's go."

The two left the conference room together, and Wei Yang was about to go home: "Team Han, I'm going back to the branch office first, and I have a chance to have dinner together."

Han Wei nodded: "Okay, go slowly."

As soon as Wei Yang took two steps, Han Wei called out to him: "Captain Wei, please stay."

Wei Yang stopped and turned around, looking at Han Wei in confusion: "Captain Han, what's the matter?"

Han Wei: "I have a question to ask."

Wei Yang: "Are you asking?"

Han Wei hesitated for a while and said, "How did you do it?"

Wei Yang was taken aback: "What?"

Han Wei: "Didn't you say that you also scolded Jiang Siyan? Then how did you reconcile with him?"

Wei Yang chuckled: "So that's what you wanted to ask."

Han Wei nodded: "Yes."

Wei Yang smiled and said nothing, took another step, and walked towards the gate. Han Wei naturally followed, walking on his left.

The two walked side by side. Wei Yang walked all the way to his car and opened the door before speaking again: "Actually, the answer you want to know is very simple."

Han Wei: "Simple?"

Wei Yang: "If you want to reconcile with Jiang Siyan, just two words."

Han Wei didn't speak, the desire in his eyes completely exposed his thoughts.

Wei Yang smiled slightly: "Coax him."

"Coax him?" Han Wei looked at Wei Yang in disbelief, as if he heard a strange word, which had never appeared in his 34 years of life.

"Yeah." Wei Yang nodded, "That's right, just to coax him. Although Jiang Siyan is in his 20s, he has the same temperament as a child, just coax him."

"How to coax?" Han Wei looked embarrassed, he had never coaxed anyone at such a young age.

"Follow what you like, but it's up to you. Whatever offends you, you can make it up. But Team Han, you have to remember one thing."

"what?"

"Take your heart for your heart. Now Jiang Siyan can no longer trust you. If you are not sincere, it will be difficult to regain his trust." Wei Yang patted Han Wei on the shoulder, with a smile on his face, and silently mourned for him: The road is long and obstructive. You can't run away from what I have experienced. This is life.

The author has something to say: dig a hole and bury yourself.

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