no crossing the line

Ji Jinglian hurried to the kindergarten after receiving the teacher's call. The other party's parents haven't arrived yet. Besides the teacher and Jian Jian, there is a crying little boy in the lounge.

"Single! Did you get hurt anywhere?"

"Mommy!" Jian Yuan sat on the small bench with a stubborn face. When he saw Ji Jinglian, a grievance appeared on his face instantly. He threw himself into Ji Jinglian's arms with tears in his eyes. "Wooooow, Mommy!"

"Baby, baby, don't cry, don't cry." Ji Jinglian picked up a simple inspection, and looked at the teacher who was comforting the little boy, "Mr. Li, what happened? Did you just fight with this kid? "

Ji Jinglian thinks she knows her daughter very well. Shan Shan has always been a very well-behaved child. She is not only polite to children of the same age, but also takes good care of children younger than herself. She is very popular in the class, and the teachers also praise her for being sensible. No? Fighting with others for no reason.

"Is such that……"

Teacher Li briefly described what happened. The little boy is a student in the big class of Giraffe, one year older than Jian Jian.The two of them pushed and shoved for some unknown reason, and it can be seen from the surveillance video that it was simply the hand that moved first.Facing a boy who was one year older than herself, she showed her strong fighting power. Not only did she have nothing to do with herself, but she also made the little boy look bad.The boy kept crying, and the garden had no choice but to call the parents of both parties to come over.

Ji Jinglian was close, and it happened that the company had nothing important to do, so he skipped work and came over.However, the parents of the other party haven't arrived yet. In order to avoid responsibility, the kindergarten hopes that the two of them can stay until the little boy's parents come.

Although Ji Jinglian didn't believe that her daughter would?take the initiative?to fight with others, the monitoring screen did show that it was her who made the move first.No matter what the cause is, it is a fact that it is easy to make other children face? She should not just walk away because of emotion or reason.

And she also wants to figure out the cause and effect of the matter, what did the boy say to make Jian Jian move his hands to beat him.

"I know Mr. Li, but I want to be alone with Shan Shan for a while first."

"Woooooh, Mommy..."

Simply hugging Ji Jinglian's neck, feeling extremely wronged, Ji Jinglian was not angry because of her fight? Instead, he took her to a quiet corner and said gently: "Mommy is here, just don't cry. "

"Uuuuu...yes, I'm sorry..."

Ji Jinglian gently stroked the simple little head: "Before you apologize, can you tell your mother why you fight with others? Mom knows that you are a good boy, won't you fight with others for no reason?" , But no matter what the reason is, take the initiative? Fighting? It’s wrong, you talk to your mother, let’s see if there is any other solution, okay?”

Jian Jian cried with red eyes, and his little nose twitched: "He, he said that I only have Mommy, and it's strange not to have Dad. Mommy is not strange, woo woo woo, there are only Mommy, yes, mother, and Godmother...it's not surprising to be alone...uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu..."

Ji Jinglian's heart couldn't help trembling slightly, and her hands holding her daughter tightened a little.

"Honey's right, isn't it? No wonder."

"Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu...

Although Ji Jinglian understood that the issue of growing up with simplicity would sooner or later be put on the agenda, but when she first heard it, she couldn't help feeling sad.

"Single, both father and mother? It's just a title. Other children only have one grandma, can you? You have two grandmas, right? Others? There is only one mother, and you have two mothers. Isn't that ridiculous?" Is it flat?"

"Woo... But? Yes, but..."

"Or, you don't want a mommy, but a dad?"

Jian Jian shook his head again and again, clutching Ji Jinglian's clothes tightly and crying, "No, no, just mommy, just dad!"

"Shan Shan is Mommy's baby, even if there is no father, Mommy? Will? Make Shan Shan happy every day."

"But? I'm different from other kids..."

"Shan Shan is not different from other children, sure? If you want to say different, Mommy thinks Shan Shan is cuter, more sensible, and smarter than other children. And it's a little bit different? It's okay, Especially a good thing."

Ji Jinglian comforted her patiently while wiping her daughter's tears.

"Really, really?"

"Of course it's true. Let's not talk about Mommy and Mom for the time being. Are your godmother and Mama Zheng treating you very well? Are you happy when they come to see you?"

Jian Jian gradually stopped crying, tilted his head to think for a while, nodded fiercely and said: "Happy!"

"In Mommy's opinion, just being happy is the most important thing. It has nothing to do with having a father or not. How do you think about it?"

Jian Jian sobbed: "Me, me too? It would be nice to have Mommy and Mommy, but the other kids? It's weird... They're not good!"

Ji Jinglian sighed softly: "Shan Shan is obedient, but other children? They are not bad children, they just can't understand things they don't understand. They only have one mother and one father, so I don't know there are many mothers. Shan Shan is actually very happy.”

Jian Jian pursed his lips, still looking aggrieved: "Then I won't play with them in the future."

"But? Is it because you don't have fun with your children?"

Simply stunned for a moment, then slowly shook his head: "Happy..."

"Only, everyone?is different, and everyone?has their own special features. We can't stop making friends with others just because we are different, because that will reduce a lot of happiness."

"Then what to do..."

Ji Jinglian smiled slightly: "Can you tell other children how happy you are with mommy? Although not all children can understand it, mommy believes that existence really likes you, even if you are a little special Also? Kids who want to be friends with you."

Jian Jian looked at Ji Jinglian thoughtfully: "Mommy, what should I do?"

"How to do it, Mommy will tell you slowly when I get home," Ji Jinglian patted her small body, persuasively, "No matter what the other child said, hit someone? This is your fault, later? Go with mom to apologize to little brother, okay?"

Simply pouted: "He was the one who said about me first..."

"But people didn't hit you, right? You can't use violence if you can't make sense, but beating people can't solve the problem. I know that just being a good boy doesn't like fighting, right? ?”

"Um..."

Jian Jian seemed a little shaken, Ji Jinglian continued to say: "It's okay, Mommy will accompany you to apologize."

Jian Jian finally nodded, looked at Ji Jinglian and asked cautiously: "Mummy, are you angry with me?"

Ji Jinglian touched her small face: "Mummy is not angry? Mommy knows that you are a good boy. The fight is to protect Mommy and Mommy. When you go back at night, Mommy will cook for you. You too? Don't be sad, okay?"

"Ok!"

Maybe? I don’t know? I don’t know what to say about Ji Jinglian’s luck? Good, or simple luck? Well, the little boy’s parents happen to be employees of Ji Jinglian’s company. This matter ended in a relatively harmonious atmosphere, but whether it is Simple or Ji Jingliandu? Didn't feel happy because of it.

Jian Jian felt the pressure of being "different" for the first time, while Ji Jinglian was worried about her mental health.

After Jian Qin knew about this, she hurried back home. Fortunately, after arriving home, Jian Qin's mood had stabilized. She ate the small cake bought by Ji Jinglian, with a smile on her face again.

The two of them tacitly didn't discuss what happened today in front of Jian Jian. They just loved her more and more, and at night they took the initiative to let her sleep between them.

"Mom, Mommy," Jian Jian is a child who is very sensitive to emotions. He knows that the reaction of the two mothers is not only because of the fight in school today, "Our teacher taught us to sing, saying that only mothers in the world Good. There are only two good mothers, so it's okay to not have a father."

A sensible child always makes people feel distressed. Jian Qin hugged her daughter tightly and kissed her forehead tenderly.

"Be good, baby."

Simple today's experience may be just the beginning, as long as she mentions the situation at home, she will definitely meet more strange eyes in the future.Both Ji Jinglian and Jian Qin felt guilty about this incident.

However, they didn't want to forbid talking about the family situation in a simple and normal way, because that would be tantamount to admitting that a family of three like them is very strange, which would undoubtedly be a huge blow to the children.And simplicity is very good at? Make friends, is she still forbidden to bring friends home to play in the future?

Ji Jinglian hugged both mother and daughter into her arms, and kissed each other: "Shan Dan, although fighting is a bad thing, but you are very good today, and you beat a boy who is one year older than you. Mommy is very happy about that.”

Jian Qin heard that Ji Jinglian suddenly became out of tune, and lightly patted her on the shoulder: "What nonsense are you talking about, don't spoil the children."

Ji Jinglian smiled and grabbed Jian Qin's hand: "How can I be talking nonsense? Bullying others? Although it is wrong, but when being bullied by others? Absolutely can't hold back and swallow."

As she spoke, she looked at her daughter and said with a smile: "Mummy told you that you can't take the initiative to fight, but if someone... takes the initiative? If you offend me, I will be offended. It is a legitimate defense. But it is inevitable that you will be injured in a fight, let alone people. My family is a boy and is older than you. Mommy doesn't want to see you bullying the weak, but she doesn't want you to get hurt ,Understand?"

Looking at Ji Jinglian simply and ignorantly: "Then if it's like today, others? Say me? I'm so angry? So angry?..."

"Then you think about how to say it back. I know Shan Shan is very smart and can solve problems with children by himself. You were just too? angry at that time, so you didn't think about it carefully."

Jian Jian puffed his face: "I wanted to talk to him at first, but the other kids all supported him."

"The other kids aren't supporting him, they're just talking about what they know. Although they're the same in this matter, those kids are all your classmates, right? This boy is in the big class Why did you come to your middle class to make trouble? This is bullying the small, and it is his fault. If you don’t move? Hit him, unite with your classmates and tell the teacher, it is his fault.”

After a brief thought: "It's so troublesome..."

Ji Jinglian laughed: "But I know you are a smart baby who is not afraid of trouble."

Jian Jian pouted, thought for a long time and suddenly said: "Mum, I'd better learn to fight. This way, when someone else hits me, I can beat him."

作者有话要说：单单：因为我很聪明，所以我决定采用简单粗暴的解决方法。感谢在2021-07-2603:08:39~2021-07-2717:31:06期间为我投出霸王票或灌溉营养液的小天使哦~

Thanks to the little angels who threw mines: 1231;

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