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6 if not father and mother

If it weren't for the old man with messy hair as the father, but for the kind woman as the mother.

If it weren't for the fact that he had never seen his wrinkled father go to the barber shop for a haircut.A few cents for a haircut, for the people in the countryside, it is oil and salt money, which is reluctant.Even if Gu Guoxiong gave him a free haircut, he ignored it, which made Ruofei very puzzled.Later, if he hadn't learned how to cut hair from Gu Guoxiong for a few months, and wanted to give him a haircut, he still wouldn't do it.

If not, the most common thing is that the old father sits at the door of the house with a chair, holds scissors and a mirror, and cuts his own hair.But the old father was willing to spend the saved haircut money to Ruo Fei to buy that kind of popsicle with a hint of sweetness.If a popsicle can not add most of the afternoon, it will sweeten his whole childhood.

In Ruofei's impression, his father has been hunched over the mountains and fields since he can remember, working day and night. More than 20 years have passed, and the old father still looks like that until he is not an adult.

If you don't know that your father and mother's life is very tiring.It is indeed very tiring, the back is bent to support the family, and the hair on the temples is dyed white by wind and frost.In that isolated mountain village, where there is no source of income, it is indeed not an easy task to support so many children.

If it weren't for the fact that I had never heard my father cry out bitterness or tiredness.Perhaps, the torment of life has already made such a man forget what suffering is.For children, for a family, a man can endure all suffering.Until life can no longer continue, until the breath stops.Wind, frost, rain, snow, severe cold and harsh conditions, Ruo Fei's old father worked day and night all his life.

The old father gave Ruofei a good enlightenment education in life.If you are endowed, you must be an honest person, and you would rather others blame you than others.Suffering is a blessing, if you don't never forget this sentence.

If it weren't for the old father's teachings since he could remember, he hummed and sang songs and cleaned the hall diligently, wiping the dust off the tables and chairs.The old father will always give praise and give pointers when he is not doing things.Or read a few ancient poems to Ruofei from time to time.

The old father can write very smooth calligraphy.Whenever there are weddings and ceremonies in the village, the old father will go out and write down the wishes of the masters with his brush.

If it weren't for the young age, I followed behind my old father and watched him write, writing that kind of flamboyant calligraphy.If I hadn't been influenced by my old father, I would have learned to write calligraphy.At a young age, the couplets at home during the Chinese New Year are Ruofei's masterpieces, which have won everyone's appreciation.Later, even the couplets in Gu Guoxiong's house were written by Ruofei, which made him very satisfied.

If it weren't for knowing that the old father never shed tears no matter how hard or tired he was.Even if the sky was about to fall, the old father still resisted with his tired body.That is really a man who stands upright, an old man who holds up a piece of sky with his body.

Among Ruofei's imprints, the only moment when he left home was that the old father was in tears.Love permeates between him and his father.The old father's reluctance and distress for Ruofei forced a man who hadn't shed tears for most of his life to shed old tears.

Before the age of 15, Ruofei also longed for his father to become a tall, powerful and strong man.In that way, if not, you will feel a lot of security.That way, if you are not being bullied by your classmates outside, you can sue your father.However, the old father did not become what Ruobu thought.On the contrary, the old father grew up with the vicissitudes of life year by year.

The old father did not become the image of the tall and strong father in Ruofei's mind, but he did not kill Ruofei's heart of loving the old father. He will always be loved in Ruofei's heart.

Ruofei's old mother, the woman who brought him back in a basket, is the purest, kindest, and softest woman in the world, and she is also an authentic hot girl from Hunan who grew up eating chili.There is no hatred, all kindness is engraved in the wrinkles of the face and between the palms.

Ruofei's old mother is also a woman who has come through hardships.He told Ruofei how she was arrested and sent to build roads when she was young.In the cold and freezing days, the frozen fingers were sore and cracked, and they still had to work hard. They didn't even have chopsticks when eating, so they broke off two branches and pulled them to eat.In the cold weather, there are no long johns to wear, only a pair of thin trousers.If it wasn't for listening to it, the whole body was chilled, and goosebumps arose from the cold.When my mother told those stories, she always smiled faintly, and never regarded those sufferings as hatred. Those sufferings were faded by her smile, and faded between the wrinkles and palms of the years, as if those sufferings did not happen in the past. About her, she narrated it lightly, as if she was telling someone else's story.

The old mother told Ruofei that when she married her old father when she was young, the old father was poor, and he liked his hard work.The old mother is a beautiful woman who wronged herself to marry the hardworking old father.

The old mother told Ruofei when he was a child that she came here on horseback when she got married, and rode bumps and bumps from her mother's house on the other side of the Nanshan Mountain.Simple and simple, a few strong men on the old father's side carried the dowry, and the suona master blew the suona at the front as a welcoming team.Two large wardrobes, three wooden boxes and a few bamboo chairs were the dowry back then.The bride rode a horse and followed behind the dowry carrier. After such a long journey, she walked all the way home before dark. When a string of firecrackers were set off, it was considered that a girl was married back home.

If you don't think that the combination of father and mother is the most bitter encounter in the world, but it is also the most harmonious model in the world.There are no quarrels, no fights, and harmony in my life.Unlike today's young people, everyone has their own opinions, who can command others, and no one looks down on anyone, and the result is that a family is torn apart.

At that time, the words of the matchmaker and the orders of the parents were all very obedient. Although the material was not as rich as today, the life must be more comfortable and free than today.Three meals of radish and green vegetables are delicious.Working all year round, he is in good health.

An old father and an old mother have children, one is a breadwinner, one is darning, and the other is farming.Like tens of thousands of rural families, work hard and have no complaints or regrets.On the road of time, the two old men have worn their feet big, ushered in hardships, driven away the luster, and ushered in vicissitudes.Until the end, all the youth is gone.

If not, there are three older brothers and two older sisters.Ranked by grade, they are the eldest brother Ruoxu, the second sister Ruoqin, the third brother Ruodong, the fourth brother Ruobin, and the fifth sister Ruomei.The eldest brother, Ruo Xu, would be the same age as Wang Xiaoran if he wasn't 20 years old.Ruofei's youngest sister, Ruomei, is also ten years older than Ruofei.If it wasn't for the fact that the relationship with them wasn't good or bad, they would just maintain it so calmly.

If he hadn't watched his older brothers marry his sister-in-law back while growing up, he would also have watched his older sisters marry off and marry their brother-in-laws.They all got married early, gave birth to children early, and lived a traditional life that followed the rules.

The lifelong events of brothers and sisters are inseparable from the hard work of old parents.It is the hard work and hard work of the old parents that allowed the brothers and sisters to have their own belongings.

If you don't love your old father and mother very much.If he didn't know, if he didn't have their hardships, he wouldn't have grown up happily.Without their embrace and arms, there would be no world for him.If not feel the warmth and happiness of the world.Although the family is poor, everything would have gone smoothly if he hadn't never felt that there was no unfairness in his life.

If you don't want to, when you can make money, you must let them live a good life, and you must never worry about food and clothing in their old age.