dance like a butterfly

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I don't want to paraphrase Tolstoy's great and classic quote, but Lao Tuo vividly and accurately summed up the similarities and differences of marriage and family.During the period of getting along with Lao Han later, I felt that even though I was a comrade, even though our common life was not recognized formally, our union was happy, and it was very typical and envied by many comrades. "Loving marriage".

After the Gregorian calendar year, it will not be long before the Spring Festival.The Spring Festival is a great and grand traditional festival in our country.Whether you have money or not, don't you have to live happily and happily?Compared with other cities, Xi'an pays more attention to traditions, so the kind of solar terms and the kind of expectations for festivals are often hung on people's lips.When everyone meets each other, the first sentence is often: Chinese New Year is almost here, what are you busy with?The expressions on each other's faces are filled with an unconcealable excitement, as if tomorrow is the Chinese New Year, and when the Chinese New Year comes, all my wishes will be fulfilled immediately.

Cutting Lao Han's clothes this time is the most boring time since I quarreled with Lao Han.All my grievances against Lao Han were tolerantly resolved and forgiven by Lao Han in a calm manner.When I think about it, I often blush and feel ashamed. I have no reason to distrust my old Han.I also swear that I will never quarrel with Lao Han again, and I also ordered myself——to get rid of my bad temper!I can't be willful anymore, I told myself, everything should be from Lao Han's point of view, and think more for him.The second sister-in-law said last time that since she is determined to live with Lao Han, she must accommodate Lao Han wholeheartedly.From the standpoint of Lao Han, I am not afraid of losing myself.Besides, Lao Han is not a reckless person like me!Thinking of my second sister-in-law's words, I feel at ease and know how to deal with things.

Because the new year is approaching, Lao Han has become busy with more and more things.Seeing him spend less and less time at home during the day.Many times, Lao Han said: "Xiaohui, go, go out with brother, do something, it's no fun if you stay at home alone."

At the beginning, asking clearly didn't hinder him, so I went out with him.Now that I have the reality of husband and wife without the name of husband and wife, I am more willing to show my face.Lao Han always said to strangers in front of outsiders, "This is my brother, god brother, call him Xiaohui! Come and get to know each other so that we can take care of each other in the future." At this time, I would always smile openly and talk to The other party shakes hands, or greets with a smile neither humble nor overbearing.I am also becoming more and more known to everyone, and I have gradually met many people, such as all the cadres of the village committee and the village branch, the police, the industrial and commercial taxation, some developers, the foreman of the construction team, and of course the gangsters in the village.

No matter on the drinking table, on the construction site, or in the village committee compound, at the beginning, I followed Lao Han like a shadow.But slowly I lost interest in it.Because I feel that if this continues, it will create a bad impression on others, as if I have become a follower.Now that he is familiar with Lao Han's living environment, it is necessary to stop in moderation. If this continues, it will be counterproductive to be gossiped about Lao Han.

Old Han bought a new phone.The one broken by Chen Hanzhang, Lao Han wanted to throw it away, so I snatched it and locked it in the drawer.What are you throwing?It's true that this phone can't be used anymore, but this is a testimony of the relationship between Lao Han and me after we met.When we are not together, how much lovesickness and joy it carries between us!

I packed it in a small box, wrapped it in gift paper, tied it with a red ribbon, and carefully tied a bow, together with the jade wrench that Lao Han gave me, and the thick gold necklace Treasure it.Lao Han really has no culture!There are so many mobile phones on the market today that it's overwhelming.I am looking at a new Gionee mobile phone, Liu Tianwang's endorsement, voice king, MP3 and MP4, the camera function is very good, the pixel is 1000 million, the photographic effect is almost invisible, the handwriting tablet, handwriting recognition ability Strong and fast.However, Lao Han just didn't like it.He prefers a Philip, saying it looks comfortable.What's so comfortable about that candy bar model?Lao Han also said that Philip's standby time is long and durable.I argued that there is nothing to be afraid of when the standby time is short. If I am at home and I will charge your spare battery every day, what are you afraid of? Philip sent a text message to slow you down.Lao Han said with a smile: "It's not that you don't know, my brother doesn't have much education, he rarely writes, and the pinyin he learned when he was a child has long been returned to the teacher. How can he send any text messages?"

I was stunned for a moment, and then I suddenly realized that since I met and made friends with him, this big bastard has never sent me a text message with sweet words!It turned out that he would not send messages at all!The feeling of being cheated made me want to pounce on him and bite him to death.

I pretended to be narcissistic and said to him: "A person like me who has an education, is so young, and his appearance is not obtrusive, how can he follow a big boss and an illiterate and still be at a loss all day long!"

Lao Han saw that my vanity was rapidly expanding, and immediately interpreted all my thoughts. He stood a meter away and said to me with a wicked smile: "What's the matter? I regret it, right? You know my education level. Regret it, right? However, I solemnly and solemnly declare that it is useless for you to regret it now. As long as the daughter-in-law tricks her into the door, as long as she has sex, it will be too late to regret it."

When I went to buy clothes for Lao Han, Lao Han only chose a set of casual clothes and refused to buy anything else.I felt very sorry: "Brother, I tore and cut so many of your clothes, so let me buy you a few more for compensation. If you don't want it, you just don't want to accept my apology! I feel very uncomfortable in my heart." !"

Lao Han patted my face and said with a smile: "Brother, you are wrong. I am with you. I am afraid that I will have no clothes to wear in the future. When I want to wear new clothes in the future, you will buy them for me. Now If you buy too much, you won’t be able to wear it, and it will be out of fashion if you press it down. You, didn’t you just tear up my brother’s clothes? In fact, my brother is very happy!”

"Happy?", Lao Han is not insane, is he talking ironically to make me happy?

"I'm happy. If you don't have a brother in your heart, if you don't care about how you spend the night outside, what kind of feelings do you have? How does it feel in your heart? So you say that brother is very happy. You can only show that I have a brother in my heart, isn’t it just a few clothes? It’s like tearing away the shabby yesterday and welcoming a beautiful future life! Also, there is an old play, what’s the name of that play?”, Lao Han closed his eyes, He patted his head, and suddenly opened his eyes: "Oh, it's "Qingwen Tearing the Fan". As soon as the little maid tore the fan, my son burst into laughter!"

I suddenly became angry!It turns out that Lao Han still knows "Dream of Red Mansions", and he compares me to a little maid!You're not looking for smoke, are you? If it weren't for the crowds in the mall, I would have rushed over and twisted his ears off!

Said that I bought clothes for him, but in the end he paid for it abruptly.On the car back, I pouted: "Didn't you say that we are a family? Didn't you say that I will buy you clothes? Why did you pay for it?"

Lao Han smiled and said to me while driving: "My little ancestor, why are you still so fussy at this time! My brother's blood is almost bleeding together, and you still say this! I Is it your brother? How can there be any reason for a brother to let his brother pay? Isn’t what’s yours mine, and what’s mine is yours? It’s my brother’s duty to protect you and go ahead of you in everything. Our family doesn’t Without a younger brother, it is like losing a soul."

When I saw that the time was up, I put my hand on the ball of flesh between his crotch, and said: "My heart, my brother, my uncle, then tell me when I will work, and what should I do?" , I can’t eat at home, can I? I don’t want to be supported by you for the rest of my life!”

Old Han laughed out loud. It seems that my random address to him is very useful to him: "It's almost Chinese New Year, what about work, let's talk about it after the New Year. Well, if you are really busy, I will find you something to do." Dry!"

As soon as Lao Han said to give me something to do, I immediately got excited, and I was a little overjoyed!I longed for him.

"Well, Zhang Wenqing doesn't have a lot of things to do now. I'll contact him and ask him to teach you how to drive! Don't we have a car?" Old Han patted the steering wheel, showing his white and beautiful teeth: "As the old saying goes, skills don't weigh you down. In the future, you can drive the car for my brother, and be a sweetheart for my brother, so that I can enjoy your service. My brother is getting old and his eyesight is getting dizzy, so I will temporarily entrust you with my safety plan for driving!"

I was a little disappointed; "Well, my brother, after a long time, you just have such a wishful thinking, let me drive for you for the rest of your life, and be a driver for the rest of your life!"

"What's the matter? You don't want to? You don't want to be with brother all day? Brother, but I don't feel solid when I don't see you for a while."

When Lao Han said this, his expression was extremely serious.

I laughed: "No, brother, look, your car costs hundreds of thousands, so you can rest assured that I will drive it? I don't have much interest in this iron-clad means of transportation. If you don't want to drive it, find a car." A good driver is all that matters.”

Having said that, my petty mind immediately became restless again. If I find a handsome young man, if the driver is a comrade who is in love, can I rest assured?I don't feel comfortable touching him now.

As soon as he thought of this, Lao Han smiled and said, "It's uncomfortable to stay in the same car with another man all day long!"

"Okay then, I'll follow your advice and learn to drive. But brother, I don't want to learn from Zhang Wenqing. I don't like him. I'd rather go to a driving school!"

Thinking of Zhang Wenqing, I feel uncomfortable all over, Zhang Wenqing is like a ghost, I would rather not see him for the rest of my life!

"Hey, don't mention the driving school! Those people know it's for money. Besides, they study for so many hours a day, and there are so many people waiting for a car to practice. Don't you feel tired and panic? Brother asked Zhang Wenqing to get you an Alto, Just make do with this car and practice first, Zhang Wenqing will definitely teach you with all your heart. According to your intelligence, learning to drive is like a child's play!"

I seem to have no other choice, just learn to drive, just to relieve boredom.But when I think about spending a lot of time with Zhang Wenqing, I always feel vaguely that something will happen.