Ex-Girlfriend Growth Notes

Xu Wei knows Yao Pei'an very well.

She is by no means a stalker, once she has finished speaking, it is impossible to bow her head again.As the person in charge of the Yao Group, she still has a bit of self-respect.

So after she bluntly broke up, Yao Pei'an never came to her again.

Pretty good, Xu Wei thought.We are all adults, understand etiquette, know how to advance and retreat, and will not embarrass each other.

But for some reason, she always inadvertently recalled that when she was in college, she was blocked in the playground, toilets, stairwells, girls' dormitory, library, self-study room... all kinds of places that she couldn't think of, but she couldn't find them. That Yao Pei'an.

At that time, Yao Pei'an might have been a bit rebellious, her hair was dyed sorrel, her left ear was pierced twice, and she wore simple earrings. The metal shone brightly in the sun, always dazzled her eyes.

At that time, Xu Wei thought, why is this person so blind, he doesn't even know how to advance and retreat, doesn't he know that he has caused trouble to others?

But time flies, and finally one day Yao Pei'an learned all these things, and became as she imagined, still generous and cheerful, but learned to restrain her temper, pretend to be submissive.

Learned to compromise and give in.

Should be happy, no?

Xu Wei buried herself in the quilt and cried hard, then wiped away her tears, and went to do what she should do.

Still the same sentence, poor people don't even deserve to hurt the spring and the autumn.

Who does not turn the earth away from?Right, so there is no one who cannot live without someone.Besides, you have already been abandoned by others, so you have to make a good posture, at least don't make people despise you in their hearts.

Xu Wei's shop is located in the Demao Commercial Building in the city center. Speaking of which, she was able to get this shop thanks to Yao Pei'an's help.Although it is only rented out, the city center is very expensive, and there are a lot of people who want this kind of shops, and it doesn't matter if they can't take them down.

Xu Wei has saved a little money in the past two years. In fact, she intends to sell the store. Unfortunately, Demao is not stupid. When it was first developed, it never thought of selling it. The value has skyrocketed for so many years, and it is even more impossible to sell it now. .

Yao Pei'an suggested to her to rent another store with the saved money, open a branch store, and gradually expand it. One day, she will be able to buy her own store, or even buy a building.

But Xu Wei did not agree.

At that time, I didn't think there was anything, and Yao Pei'an didn't mention it later.But thinking about it now, this is actually the most fundamental difference between her and Yao Pei'an.

Xu Wei herself came from an ordinary family, and all she wanted was a little wealth and peace.Property—whether it’s money or a house—has to be in your own hands to be at ease.So if you earn money, you either save it, or you want to buy a shop, so that even if something happens in the future, it can be regarded as a way out.

But Yao Pei'an was born in a wealthy family, and only knew that money can make money. She couldn't understand Xu Wei's way of holding money in her hands, which was a waste of time and opportunities.

It's just that at that time, the two people's feelings were sweet and smooth, and these small problems never bothered them. Even if they couldn't agree, they could each take a step back and live in peace.

But now Xu Wei knows that this problem has not disappeared with the passage of time. She and Yao Pei'an have completely different values, and the choices they make on certain things are also completely different.These things accumulated bit by bit, and finally arrived today.

The first thing that caused the problem was that Yao Pei'an's family wanted her to marry the heir of another large group, to form a strong alliance and grow the two companies.

Yao Pei'an doesn't want to get married, but she is in favor of a strong alliance to develop the Yao family.Fortunately, Ji Tong has the same ideas as hers, so the two became friends and cooperated a lot.

But in the eyes of other people, this kind of contact between them is the acquiescence to this marriage contract.So when they didn't pay attention, the two elders had reached a consensus, and even the wedding date was set.

Xu Wei didn't care whether Yao Pei'an really didn't know, or pretended not to know, or she had other considerations about this matter.

This incident, which had been kept from her from the beginning to the end, and was finally discovered from the media's scheming reports, completely ignited the hidden dangers that had been planted between her and Yao Pei'an, and then exploded with a bang.Naturally, their relationship could no longer continue.

Xu Wei's separation from Yao Pei'an was not impulsive, but after careful consideration.

When I was young, I always thought that love was everything, but later I discovered that the little bit of contradictions and frictions in life can easily eliminate those loves, and gradually resentment arises.

Xu Wei still can't deny that she loves Yao Pei'an, but it's just love. She no longer has the confidence to manage the future of the two of them.That being the case, she chose to let go.

It's not anger, impulsiveness, or revenge. It's just the most helpless choice after seeing the status quo clearly.

Long story short, back to Xu Wei’s store, she signed a five-year lease at the beginning, because she was the first batch of merchants to settle in, and the German trade can be regarded as a big concession, and the rent was very favorable at that time, let alone a few years. after now.

If you want to renew the lease with Demao, the rent will definitely increase a lot.So Xu Wei is very hesitant now, whether to continue renting this place, or go out and set up a shop by herself, which can be regarded as a little bit of property.

Soon, however, she didn't have to worry about it.Because her father called and asked her to go home.

Xu Wei is a single-parent family. Her mother died of a heart attack when she was very young. Her father worried about her existence and was afraid that the person she remarried would treat her badly, so he insisted on taking her to live alone for so many years.

Xu Wei often heard from her neighbors that her father was actually very hot-tempered when he was young, and he would stare and want to hit people when he disagreed with him. He was very intimidating and well-known in their area.

After marrying my mother, I restrained myself a little.When Xu Wei's mother passed away, he took on the responsibility of raising and educating his daughter, and miraculously restrained his temper and became gentle and prudent.

So although it is a single-parent family, Xu Wei was actually doted on and grew up. Her father is her most solid backer, and this is how she developed a carefree and optimistic personality who doesn't care about anything.

When Xu Wei graduated from university, his father just retired and began to take care of his life at home.Because of being with Yao Pei'an, Xu Wei actually felt a little guilty towards her father, so she seldom went home after graduation.The longest time was because of a big fight with Yao Pei'an, with nowhere to go, and subconsciously hid back home in a daze.

Dad is so wise, he must have seen that something happened to his situation at that time, but from the beginning to the end, he didn't ask anything, just comforted himself without any trace, chatting with him every day, talking, watching TV, playing chess... no matter what he did She took everything with her, lived for a month or two, and Xu Wei slowly recovered.

Since then, the father-daughter relationship, which has become more and more alienated as she grows up, has returned to her childhood.Xu Wei suddenly realized that her father has always been a mountain behind her, even when she grows up, even if he is getting old.

So this time when my father called, his words were vague, implying that there seemed to be something wrong with his body. Xu Wei was so frightened that she immediately packed her luggage and went home.I couldn't tell the truth about the breakup, and the sadness that had been lingering all the time, was so frightened that it almost dissipated.

When I got home, I found that my father was in good spirits, in good spirits, without any problems at all!Xu Wei immediately thought that something was wrong, and as expected, Father Xu stared at his daughter sitting opposite him with flickering eyes, and said with a smile, "Wei Wei, you are 24 this year!"

If Dad speaks in this tone, it is often because he has done something wrong.Xu Wei immediately became vigilant, and subconsciously sat up straight, "Yeah, why are you talking about this all of a sudden? 24 is still young!"

"What's young?" Xu's father frowned, "People say that once a woman is over 25 years old, she is going downhill! In the future, whether it is talking about marriage or other things, it will become more and more difficult. Dad thinks that you have a stable job now. , it’s time to think about family issues, don’t you think?”

"Father, don't you already have someone you like?" Xu Wei glared at her father.

Father Xu smiled awkwardly, "I'm doing it for your own good too. The other party is an officer, I've seen him before, he's extraordinary, and worthy of my daughter!" The man couldn't be more pleased.

Xu Wei was speechless, "Dad, I remember that your occupation is a middle school teacher, when did you take care of the job of mediators?"

"You child!" Xu's father was a little unhappy, "Your father asked about your marriage. Is that the mediator's handicap? That is the order of the parents! You can go and see it tomorrow, and tell me if you are not satisfied."

Xu Wei talked all kinds of things, but she couldn't convince her father. In the end, she could only reluctantly agree to meet her.Anyway, it's just a meeting, so it's fine to say that you're not interested.

Faced with such a forced marriage as soon as she came back, Xu Wei certainly wouldn't be in a good mood, and she didn't want to stay at home with her father, so she called her former classmates to hang out.

Who knew that after making a phone call, she found out that two of her classmates were already planning to get married, and the wedding date was set for next month, and it was a group wedding for two couples!

"I was just about to call to invite you, and I'll send you an invitation later. I'm busy with the wedding every day, so I probably don't have time to go out and play, so have fun!" The happy bride-to-be said with a smile in her tone jump for joy.

Xu Wei made two more phone calls. One of them went on a trip with her boyfriend, and the other had just given birth and wanted to take care of the baby at home...

People around my age seem to have families and jobs.

Xu Wei pursed her lips, really annoying, as if after breaking up, people all over the world were showing affection.Especially when I opened the WeChat circle, I couldn't bear to look directly at it, either posting about marriage and happiness, or posting about my baby and all kinds of shopping...

I feel like I am out of touch with society, what is this called?