[Red House] How to escape from a broken ship

"He is a child with ideas," Daiyu affirmed: "He has his own ideas and ideas, and he keeps his own affairs in mind. But what I like the most is that he is really tolerant and not narrow-minded. He is more than five years old. My child, I had a fight with our son, forget it after the fight, it doesn’t exist in my heart.”

Jia Yan stared: "I thought you would emphasize his hard work and progress..."

Daiyu laughed, and she asked back, "Isn't Yang Guang not studious enough?"

Uh, Emperor Yang of the Sui Dynasty, Jia Yan smiled helplessly: This His Majesty Yang Guang was also studious and knowledgeable since he was a child, but in the end it was inevitable that one would die and the country would perish.Because all the virtues displayed by an adult may be pretentious, that's why Daiyu valued Situ Xun's character. He is still too young, so he might pretend to be motivated when studying, but when dealing with others, given his background, he wouldn't pretend How flawless.

It turns out that everything his wife did today was to test the child in a stress-free environment, and the results seem to be gratifying so far.Jia Yan told Daiyu that Situ Xun did not defend himself at all today, "His father was worried about this. Usually children always have to defend themselves, but he didn't mention Fei'er at all."

"Are you worried that he will suffer because of his personality?" Daiyu pondered for a while: "Actually, this kind of temperament is quite good, but, um, their family will indeed suffer." , or fail to grasp the main points of the justification, it will really suffer a big loss.However, in the final analysis, whether it is justification or not explaining at ordinary times, whether it is right at the critical moment, it depends on the accumulation of knowledge to penetrate people's hearts.

This is difficult, "Boheng, Qi Ye knows, right?" Daiyu pulled him back to the bedroom: "What they need most is to break people's hearts, but this is also what they can't teach."

"Maybe he can feel it, but he has never said it directly. No matter how close someone is, he can't say it easily."

Daiyu leaned on the bedside: "Yes, so this kind of thing can only be understood and cannot be expressed in words. What's more, even if it is explained clearly, some people will only follow the scriptures, but turn themselves into a two-legged bookcase."

"But daughter-in-law, if that kid is really smart enough and you can teach him the Dharma well, my daughter-in-law might become the emperor's teacher." Jia Yan hugged Daiyu and twitched with a smile: "At that time, I will rely on Mr. Lin "What if the child's father is not serious?A slap would be enough, Jia Canjun was lightly slapped on the head by Mr. Lin.

Jia Canjun covered his head and pretended to be seriously injured, but was pulled up again by Mr. Lin, who leaned on his wife, "Younian, how are you going to teach him, formally teach him to read? Or choose some books to teach him. By the way, And our son." Speaking of her son, Daiyu's expression became serious.

"That stupid son of our family," Jia Yan was upset before she could finish her sentence.

Jia Yan objected: "How can we say that our family Feier is a stupid son? That's called simplicity. Liang Zhao and Sun Gui are both older than Feier, and they usually let him play together. Feier has never met him before." In this case, let’s talk about it, don’t you say it, it’s normal for children to say that the other party is wrong when they fight.”

Daiyu looked at Jia Yan, seeing that Jia Canjun didn't dare to speak, so she gave him a gentle smile with only six teeth showing: "I still remember who said to be a strict father? Where is the strict father?" Woolen cloth?"

"Cough cough, that, don't I believe in Jia?" Jia Yan smiled back cheekily: "Father Jia Yan, fake strict father. We don't have a strict father in our family. I can't do it. I can only ask my daughter-in-law to be a strict father." mother."

Daiyu pretended to ignore him, and finally couldn't help laughing, really, "It's a good idea, I don't want to be a strict mother, the right way is to combine leniency with strictness. As for how to teach Mu Geer, Shanren has his own clever plan, you Don't worry about it, it's time for our Ah Fei to study seriously, so let's start gradually from now on."

Jia Yan had a smile on her face, but she was crying in her heart: Son, you had a leisurely time for a year or so, and it was all because of your father. Sleeping soundly on the bed, the brother who will come tomorrow said that tomorrow he will compete with him to see who can run fast and jump high!

Little Master Jia still doesn't know that the days of being able to play like this are coming to an end...

In June, the garden is full of flowers, and there are quite a lot of bugs, but the place where the children often play together is covered with gauze.Now Daiyu also asked people to use gauze tents to cover the canopy of the tree, so that no insects would fall down. Now she was sitting under the tree with Situ Xun and Jia Fei, and she was asking questions. Of course, her main target was not her stupid son.

"What kind of books has Brother Mu read?" Daiyu said with a smile, "What your parents read for you counts."

Jia Fei has no image lying on the small table, and his mother doesn't have to make him sit upright, but Situ Xun asks to stand in class, he doesn't want to sit.Situ Xun wanted to see if this Mr. Lin, like his former teacher, had to be required to sit upright while studying, like a clay puppet in a temple.

Unexpectedly, the female teacher allowed him to be different without hesitation, and stood up while studying, but he was more respectful: "The student only listens to his mother's teaching and went through college."

Daiyu asked, "Can you recite it?"

"I can only recite one sentence," Situ Xun thought for a while: "The so-called people who rule the country in a peaceful world are those who are old and the people are filial; It’s the way of cleanliness.” After reciting it, he added: My mother taught it to me, and I recited it to the emperor, and my grandfather was very happy when he heard it.

Daiyu nodded, this sentence is about a gentleman's way of governing the country, and the princess is also very careful with her son.Before she could speak, Situ Xun first asked, "Sir, why do you have to recite the book?" Jia Fei's eyes lit up, and he sat up straight and said to his mother, "Yes, mother, why do you have to recite the book? Just understand the meaning." ?

"Brother Mu, wait a minute," Daiyu said with a smile, "Let's talk about you first, Fei'er. You're going to take the imperial examination in the future, if you don't memorize the book word by word. During the exam, it's important to draw questions and write the scriptures silently." An extremely important topic, what will you do when the time comes? Are you going to write, what is your understanding of this sentence, but you can’t write the original sentence when you write so much flowers?”

Jia Fei pouted and nodded, Daiyu looked at Situ Xun: "Let's talk about Brother Mu, you don't have to take the imperial examination, but for reading, if you want to read well, you must memorize it well. In fact, reading is not only If you don’t memorize the Four Books and Five Classics, there are history books and poems, you won’t understand what it means when you encounter allusions when you read history and poems, wouldn’t it be a thousand miles away?”

For example, people quote "Weng Zhong", but people who don't understand it may take the literal meaning and change the position to become "Zhong Weng". Isn't it from a stone statue to the second uncle.Situ Xun laughed out loud at Daiyu's example, and Brother Fei also understood what his mother meant, and laughed along with him.

"May I ask, sir, which book shall we begin?"

Daiyu handed over a book, "Selected Works of Zhaoming?" Situ Xun wondered, "Why this book?" A literature book, how to teach homework...

"We don't just talk about anthologies, we don't have to recite each one." Daiyu said with a smile: "Starting from the first article, in addition to memorizing famous articles, we mainly talk about the background of the article and the author's life. Why did you write this article, and what important things happened at that time. We just focus on the time of this book," she pointed to the stacks of books prepared by others, "there are all references over there."

Jia Fei opened his mouth wide and took a deep breath. There are so many, when will we read it?He ran over and compared: "Mom, so many books add up to be taller than me."

But Situ Xun was very happy: "Sir, don't you plan to follow the Four Books and Five Classics? But, you just said that I don't need to take the imperial examination, but Ah Fei will in the future. Will this delay him?"

Well, knowing how to take care of others, Daiyu smiled more gently.

She told Situ Xun: "Every school has its own way of reading. In fact, this is the foundation. Otherwise, how could there be folk proverbs with bad anthology and half a scholar in the notes of Lu You in the Song Dynasty. You also need to read and memorize the classics of filial piety, but those are simple and catchy, and not difficult. Although you study together, the focus will not be the same. Your main coursework is the anthology. "

Situ Xun got an anthology, and Jia Fei got a book of filial piety. In fact, when Jia Fei usually used branches or brushes to draw ghosts, he used these two books, the Analects of Confucius and the Book of Filial Piety.Therefore, although he has never read it seriously, he often hears it like listening to monks chanting scriptures every day. Now when he sees it, it is like seeing a long-lost friend.

At this point, Daiyu began to read books with her two children. It was the first time for Situ Xun to experience this method of reading. Taking a book as the main line, he read history, classics, and anecdotes at that time through a book.Mr. Lin has all kinds of anecdotes and allusions at his fingertips. In her mouth, these are not boring words, but vivid pictures before her eyes.

Situ Xun was studying in class, and he was fascinated by reading. For the first time, he found that reading can be so easy.

The son of the King of Chu is good at reading, but the King of Chu himself is in big trouble. The Xihai Yanzi is in a hurry. After more than a month after arriving there, the King of Nan'an was defeated... The urgent documents were delivered directly In the hands of the King of Chu.He didn't dare to delay, and hurriedly took Jia Yan into the palace to meet the emperor.And Emperor Duanping is choosing a son-in-law with Empress Su for their beloved young daughter Situ Bao.

"I feel like I'm reporting a funeral," Situ Kuo said with a gloomy expression on his face, "Oh, I'm afraid the good mood of the emperor father and the queen mother will be ruined by me. What's going on with Yan Lue!"

Jia Yan paused for a moment, and comforted him: "Thinking about it, he took away those sons and sons, and now that he is defeated, at least he can exclude the princess as a son-in-law. However, Qi Ye, what is more important is that His Majesty asks you how to do it. How about it?"

The King of Chu stopped, and then continued to move forward firmly: "I ask for orders to lead the army!" Jia Yan was stunned for a moment, then smiled wryly, and then said in a low voice: You can say it, but I guess, Your Majesty will not will agree.

Sure enough, the emperor was furious: Nan'an is useless!If the soldiers are lost and the generals are lost, I will immediately send a large army to the Yanzi of the West Sea. The specific dispatch of troops and generals will be discussed by the King of Chu in conjunction with the cabinet.

At this point, it is considered that the matter is settled, and it is enough to decide who will go. Unexpectedly, there will be another change right after.Fighting against Great Wu was also extremely stressful for the Xihai feudal kingdom.They are very wise, Jia Yan held the letter and said: at least the kings of this generation are very wise.The letter in Jia Yan's hand is the peace petition written by the king of the vassal state. They asked Wu for peace and were willing to pay tribute and become a minister, but the king asked the emperor to marry the princess and go to the West Sea.

In order to achieve peace between the two countries forever.

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