I'll move the bricks, and slap my daughter-in-law

Naturally, A Ling would not just sit back and watch all of this go unnoticed.

Just kidding, today's protagonist is her, okay?

She coughed heavily and pulled back the topic: "You don't need to act here. I don't believe that my sister would quit such a good job. Besides, even if she really quit that job, she must have a better place to go .And after so many years, I must have saved a lot of money, how could I need to eat and drink other people's food? What's more, you are just friends, how can you give her free food and drink?"

Her theory considers itself unassailable.

However, Chu Xi just smiled: "You think too much, Xiaocheng hasn't saved any money for so many years. With her little salary, it's good to be able to support herself. As for us... Heh, of course we are friends. But Sometimes the feelings of friends are not shallower than those of family members. Reliable friends are sometimes more worth relying on than unreliable family members."

What she said is of course the truth.

Moreover, the relationship between her and An Cheng just reflects this fact.

However, hearing these words in the ears of An's family and A Ling, it was a bit jarring.

Doesn't this clearly imply that her friend is more reliable than their family members and has a deeper relationship with An Cheng?

An's father and mother feel a little uncomfortable, but they still feel guilty.

But Carole is purely disgusted.

After all, the sister-in-law and sister-in-law are not real relatives and have no real feelings, but they are forcibly defined as the so-called "family".

This is similar to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

But it is easier to show contradictions than the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Because, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, conflicts are not easy to show.

First, the mother-in-law is the "mother", occupying the absolute moral high ground, and the word "filial piety" can overwhelm the daughter-in-law.

Unless a daughter-in-law completely ignores public opinion and her husband's opinion, she doesn't dare to be tough.

Secondly, the mother-in-law has expectations of her daughter-in-law for retirement.

After all, the world is used to machismo.There are still not many men who personally serve their bedridden parents, and they basically rely on their daughter-in-law.

Therefore, the mother-in-law often does not dare to offend her daughter-in-law too much.

It can be said that, basically, as long as the mother-in-law does not close her eyes and build the coffin for a day, the mother-in-law will not give up on her daughter-in-law's pension expectations.

Taking a step back, even if the mother-in-law knows that this daughter-in-law is completely unreliable and will rely on her son or grandson/granddaughter to provide for her in the future, she doesn't want to have conflicts with her daughter-in-law too clearly.

After all, the daughter-in-law is the wife of the son and the mother of the grandson/granddaughter. There are really too many conflicts, and it is not easy to handle the care of the elderly in the future—either it will affect their image in the hearts of their children and grandchildren, or it will cause the daughter-in-law to make trouble in the future .

In short, each has its own abacus.

There are too many scruples between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

It's not good to be too hostile on the surface.

Basically, they will maintain a peaceful surface, only insinuating and stabbing each other, or secretly using a little trick.Or, find all kinds of reasons to prove how bad the other party is and how wronged you are, to win over the man in the middle, and to win over public opinion.

But between sisters-in-law, it's much simpler.

There is neither "filial piety" as a weapon of fate.

There is no ultimate expectation of "retirement".

Between each other, no matter how big the conflict is, there is no great psychological burden or moral pressure.

Therefore, there are often more conflicts between aunts and sisters-in-law on the bright side.

Even, some sisters-in-law obviously have no contradictions.However, the daughter-in-law has a deep grudge against her mother-in-law, but she can't explain many things clearly, fearing that her husband will not stand on her side, so she deliberately leads the conflict to the other's brothers and sisters.

For example, don't say that the parents-in-law are cruel, but only say that the uncle or sister-in-law is bad, deliberately attracting the parents-in-law to do something...to win over the husband and separate the intimacy between the husband and the in-law's family.

These tricks have been passed down for many years and are constantly being refurbished.It has long been a tacit secret among the parties involved.

A Ling has been in those environments, so she is naturally clear about these things.

Therefore, she directly pointed the finger at An Cheng right now.

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Anyway, she wasn't afraid of offending An Cheng.

If An Cheng is rich and promising, as long as An's parents ask, she should help her younger brother or help her.Help no matter what.

This is her duty as a sister.

It is also the prerequisite for her to live a prosperous life in Anjia.

Even if she gets married in the future, as long as she doesn't want to cut off the family relationship of her mother's family, she must listen to her parents and help her younger brother.It has nothing to do with whether the sister-in-law is good or not.

And if An Cheng really has no money and no prospects, then it doesn't matter whether he is offended or not.

She couldn't help herself anyway.

Sister-in-law and sister-in-law who can't contribute money and effort are all burdens, okay?The more offended the better!It's best to be so offended that you won't have any contact with each other for a lifetime!

Therefore, A Ling has no psychological burden, and she doesn't want to give An Cheng any face.

On the contrary, she was very happy that An Cheng and Chu Xi stood up.

In this way, she doesn't have to confront An's father and An's mother openly.

Although she speaks now in the name of being pregnant with a boy, she is invincible.

But it's not good to leave a bad impression after all.

It's not a good thing to make your in-laws hate you early.

After all, these parents-in-law are not poor parents-in-law from the countryside.

If they are poor and just waiting to be raised when they are old, then naturally the more they offend the better, and it is best to offend them so that they will not have any contact with each other for a lifetime.

But if the parents-in-law are rich and well-connected, they will naturally leave a good impression.

Only in this way can they better make money and effort.

Although they only have one son, An Jie, everything in the future will not be given to anyone other than their son, daughter-in-law and grandson.

But after all, people are selfish, and they also have places where they want to spend their money.If it really gets in a hurry and the old couple gives up their minds and spends all their money on carpe diem, that would be bad.

They still have to be coaxed, so that they are willing to live frugally and do their best to save all the money for their son and daughter-in-law, and to worry more about their son and daughter-in-law's work and life, and make more contributions to them.

Parents with a certain status are enthusiastic about making arrangements, which is still very helpful to young people.

For example, A Ling herself has always wanted to become a full-time nurse, but she failed every time she took the exam.

An's parents are in the local old system, and they have some contacts. She also pointed out that they can find someone everywhere with their old faces, and get the job of becoming a regular.

Therefore, compared with An Cheng, it's better to offend An Cheng's father and mother less.

What's more, even if you don't consider other things, only An Jie's feelings are considered.

Everyone has special feelings for their parents.

And the "filial piety" that has been taught since childhood is deeply rooted in my heart.

Few people can completely stand on the side of their daughter-in-law and really hate their parents.

But siblings are different.

After growing up, they have their own small families, and brothers and sisters are scattered all over the world to live their own small lives, so they are no longer a real "family".

The brotherhood that used to be blood thicker than water will naturally grow gradually.

The author has something to say: Happy Spring Equinox~~

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