[Red Mansion] Sir, I'm a rough man

The Prince Liang's Mansion is naturally in the inner city, not far from the imperial palace. Because Emperor Qian said to let him go later, Jia Wan was not in a hurry. He rode a horse and jogged for two quarters of an hour before arriving.

It was very lively outside the gate of the mansion. There were only three older princes under the emperor's knees. Now that the second prince was gone, the eldest son of the emperor vowed not to be the prince. It was difficult not to attract attention to the remaining Liang Wang Zhao Fu.

Today, the king of Liang is out of the palace to open the mansion, and all the civil and military officials of the Manchu Dynasty, as well as the dignitaries of the whole capital, whoever is qualified to enter this gate, have to come to join in the fun.

Jia Wan came late, and the sound of dancing and music could be heard from inside the wall. It seemed that the banquet had already started, but there were still people coming in and out at the door, and guests' carriages lined up for two streets.

Jia played around, but couldn't find a place to tie the horse. Only then did he realize the necessity of bringing his entourage with him when he went out.Throw the reins away and let it play by itself. His horse is not very handsome, but it is beautiful and well-behaved. It is not worried about running around and not afraid of thieves when it is thrown on the street. It has the stamp of the military. Covered, some people dare to steal but no one dares to buy, after all, it is at the feet of the emperor.

He raised his legs and walked towards the steps, but he was stopped by someone who didn't want to. The Prince of Liang's mansion Shi, who greeted the guests at the door, cupped his hands with a smile on his face: "May I ask if there is an invitation card?"

Jia Wan was taken aback for a moment, he was used to brushing his face, he didn't expect to meet an ignorant person today, this is Prince Liang's mansion, he couldn't even recognize the people around the emperor, what kind of guest would he welcome?

He subconsciously touched his body, but it was empty without any surprise. He had the post, but it wasn't on his body—he wasn't planning to come, so why did he bring a post when he was on duty in the palace?

Chang Shi saw his embarrassment, and continued to smile: "Dare to ask the young master's name? Where did you get a job?"

Chang Shi was also complaining in his heart. The king of Liang opened the mansion, and the preparations were extremely hasty. The entire Liang Wang mansion was full of newcomers, and even he, Chang Shi, was recruited on the spot... He was originally a seven-year-old who had returned to Beijing to wait for orders. As a petty official, he was not even qualified to go to court, and he was kicked out of the court and became the long history of the Liang Palace after less than one-third of the face of the big boss of the court could be distinguished.

There shouldn't have been any mistakes, since the cronies of Liang Wang who know the dignitaries in the capital are greeting him by the side, he is good as a foil, I don't want the emperor to come over suddenly, these people follow the emperor's buttocks completely, and stay alone He barely managed it.

Although his official position is not low in Prince Liang's mansion, but the third-rank official of the prime minister's concierge, the people around the prince, who would pay attention to a seventh-rank sesame official who just came to Beijing?

The majestic prince's official history was forced to become a concierge.

Fortunately, most of the guests came with their entourage, handing over the registration number of the post in a regular manner, and no jokes were made.But I never thought that before I could breathe a sigh of relief, I would bump into a master who didn't take anyone with me, and didn't bring a post.

He didn't dare to play any official power: there are dignitaries everywhere in the capital, let alone in front of the palace?

Moreover, although this young master is dressed plainly, his appearance and bearing are there, and he is by no means a child of an ordinary family.

No matter how you say it, first accompany the smiling face.If there is no post, it is always okay to sign up for a name, right?

Chang Shi retreated to the next best thing, but Jia Wan was still embarrassed: everyone in the civil and military courts knew that he was wearing a heavy filial piety, so it was fine to pretend to be confused and sneak in. Wouldn't it be like smashing the field by reporting his name like this?

Even the emperor could not help complaining: If you take him with you when you leave, how can there be so many things?

It's a pity that in broad daylight, the defense is tight, and it is difficult to climb over the wall without a sound... How about going around the side door and pretending to be a servant to fish in troubled waters?

He didn't speak, he was pondering on his own, Chang Shi was even more embarrassed: "This..."

Before he finished speaking, he saw the young man waving towards the steps.

Chang Shi was taken aback.

Most of the people standing on the steps are the new guards of Prince Liang's Mansion, and the other four are soldiers from the forward battalion who just followed the emperor. Although they are not big officials, they represent the dignity of the emperor. , I don't care... This brat recruited none other than the foreman of the Qianfeng Battalion.

Isn't this a curse? !

Just as he was jumping in a hurry, he saw the foreman of the Qianfeng Battalion stepping down the steps quickly, his expression... was similar to his appearance when he met his immediate boss.

Jia Wan breathed a sigh of relief. As expected, everyone in the forward battalion who is qualified to go out with the emperor recognizes him—the one in front of him is not good enough, so let's change the phone.

The foreman half-kneeled to salute, before he could bend down, Jia Wan held his arm and asked, "How long has the emperor been here?"

The foreman said: "Three quarters of an hour... Your Excellency?"

"Something has delayed the meeting," Jia Wan glanced at the gate, and said, "I'm late, my brothers help to hide it a little bit, so that the censor will come back to me... It's fine for me to pay you. Debates are too annoying to write."

The foreman laughed, and said: "My lord, don't worry, we brothers are too brave to chew your tongue, aren't we?"

Jia joked, "Thanks, I'll be the host tomorrow and invite the brothers to drink."

Patting him on the shoulder, smiling at Chang Shi again, he stepped briskly up the steps and entered the door.

Chang Shi looked at his back and quietly wiped off his cold sweat.

At this age, who else can make the soldiers of the vanguard battalion respectful, except for the legendary "lawless"?

This is the master who can't be controlled by the emperor holding a feather duster for several streets...

But, brats are used to it, this young master chopped off more than half of the Huns' envoys when he was unhappy, the emperor was reluctant to deal with him, so it's strange if he can control him.

In short, it's okay to mess with it.

……

Although the Prince Liang's Mansion was lively, the atmosphere was not festive. The story of Miss Zhang's "falling into the water" had already spread, and everyone dared not laugh too happily for fear of being misunderstood as watching a royal joke. Don't dare not laugh, after all, it's for congratulations, and the degree in it is also knowledge.

In the past, it would not have to be like this, but now the atmosphere in the court is tense, but within a few months, the emperor was assassinated, the emperor retired, the empress was deposed, the second prince was given to death, and countless officials were killed and demoted... Everyone is walking on thin ice, who dares not to be careful?

Jia Zheng is better, he is not qualified to enter the hall, even the seats in the open courtyard are in the farthest corner—why let him be a small official, and the Ministry of Industry is the most unpopular department?

Being inconspicuous has its benefits, those in the hall are the ones who are tired!

"Second uncle."

Suddenly someone yelled and sat down beside him with a stool. Jia Zheng turned his head and looked, dumbfounded: "You, you..."

Jia joked: "There is no room, Second Uncle, should I squeeze here?"

Jia Zheng has a black line: What do you mean no place?In this kind of banquet, everyone is particular about their position... Do you think you are eating a flowing banquet in the countryside?

In the end, I moved the chair to make room for him.

Jia Wan is used to living in secluded places, the two points of the palace and the mansion are on the same line, and those who are qualified to go to the court will naturally recognize him, but it is difficult for others to meet. This seat is too low, only two or two officials who recognize him, Thinking of the filial piety on his body, it is inconvenient to reveal his identity, so he just nodded and moved the seat to make room for him.

Lang Guan sitting on the other side of Jia Wan asked curiously, "Master Jia, who is this?"

Jia Zheng took a look at Jia Wan, who was beckoning the girl to find him bowls and chopsticks, and said vaguely: "The younger generation in the family is not used to rules...just kidding, just kidding."

The Lang official from the Ministry of Industry was a bit gossip, and said: "Nephew Ling is really good-looking, have you ever been engaged? Have you ever started a career?"

Jia Zheng said, "He's still young and hasn't been engaged yet."

As for starting a career...it's hard to say!

Jia Wan himself said, "I have taken the children's exam before, but I haven't passed the exam, so I haven't studied much."

Jia Zheng shielded his face with his hands, ashamed to see others: This kid demeaned himself, if he was despised by others, this kid himself is nothing, but if his identity is exposed one day, how will he behave in front of his colleagues?

Seeing Jia Wan's outstanding appearance and extraordinary bearing, the official Lang wanted to marry the girl whose eyes were above the roof, so he climbed up to Jia's house on the way, but when he heard that he had never passed the childbirth exam, he immediately lost interest.No matter how good-looking a straw bag is, it’s also a straw bag, isn’t it?Sideways chat with colleagues.

Jia Wan took the bowls and chopsticks from the girl's hand, and took a few mouthfuls of vegetables.

Jia Zheng asked in a low voice, "You are..."

Jia Wan said: "After taking a nap, I accidentally overslept. The emperor didn't call me when he left, so I had to come here... I almost couldn't get in the door."

Jia Zheng was speechless, and said again: "Then what are you doing here instead of serving the emperor?"

Jia Wan said: "There are many people around the emperor, why is I missing?"

The chefs in Prince Liang's Mansion were average, but the bowl of fermented glutinous rice soup stewed with cherries and white fungus was very good. Jia Wan drank two cups in a row, and just as he put it down, he heard a prolonged yell: "The emperor will drive back to the palace!"

Everyone hurriedly put down their bowls and chopsticks, and knelt down: "Respectfully send the emperor off."

That Lang Guan was kneeling beside Jia Wan, and he caught a glimpse of the idiot boy next to him who seemed to be a bit taller than him. He took a closer look and found that although his body was lying low, his knees did not touch the ground, but squatted halfway. Immediately shocked, he hurriedly coughed to remind him, so as not to be troubled by this disrespectful boy.

However, he coughed again and again, but the boy remained indifferent, and Jia Zheng ignored him as if he was blind, with his head lowered, almost hitting the ground.

Seeing that Sheng Jia was about to come, Lang Guan was sweating anxiously, and stretched out his hand to pull Jia Wan's sleeve.

This talk, but it was empty.

Lang Guan stared blankly at the boy's figure soaring into the sky, rushing towards Sheng Jia like a sharp arrow.

"Be careful, Your Majesty!"

"There are assassins!"

There were several shouts.

There was commotion on the left and right of Shengjia, people's shadows intertwined, and swords were unsheathed.

It's over, it's over!

Lang Guan lay limp on the ground: Who would have thought that this idiot would be an assassin!

Jia Zheng, Jia Zheng, I was killed by you!I was killed by you!

The author has something to say: It has been nearly a year since the accident occurred in the marriage. Duo Ma is a fragile person, and it is only now that she can finally face it calmly.

Turn on the computer, and say goodbye to my failed emotional experience.It doesn't matter if anyone reads it, I just want to write it out, put it somewhere, and then I can let it go completely.

……

Before graduating from university, the personnel department in Xinjiang went to our school to recruit people. I signed up in a daze, and in a daze, I traveled thousands of miles away and was assigned to my current unit.

I just walked out of the campus, faced with strange places and people, I was inevitably lonely and frightened. There was a colleague in my work unit who was four years older than me. He was a local. Catch me.

He is average in appearance, but he is very good at coaxing people. He cooks delicious food. He will send the delicious food to my dormitory in an insulated bucket. He will also help me clean up the house and buy snacks.

I don't know if it's love, but it's him anyway.

……

At that time, I was too young and foolish, without a penny dowry, without gold and silver jewelry, I bought a red dress for 200 yuan, and married myself to him.

His family's old house was a wedding room, the windows were rusty, and the tiles were not even pasted. It was sold for [-] a year later. One can imagine what kind of house it is.

It’s not that my parents-in-law don’t have money, they just don’t want to spend it on me. I don’t worry about this: I have hands and feet, so why spend the old man’s money?

The wedding was very embarrassing. If my sister hadn't given me 2000 yuan, I wouldn't even have the money to book a hotel for my parents.

……

Not long after I got married, I went to see the elderly in the company and chatted with my parents-in-law. The father-in-law said that he had just sold a pig, and each pig cost more than 300. Yes, there is no other party's share in divorce.

I smiled and didn't speak.

During the period, neighbors from father-in-law and mother-in-law came to borrow money, and the neighbor’s son’s girlfriend had a big belly and was eager to get married, but the woman’s parents said that without the [-] betrothal gift, there is no way for a new daughter-in-law to enter the house.

My mother-in-law went to the room and gave 1 yuan to the neighbors. After talking with me about the family, my father-in-law was very disdainful, saying that the woman had no job, no education, she had a big belly, and she wanted so many gifts.

I didn't answer, thinking that they were satisfied with me anyway.He has a degree and can earn money, and most importantly, he didn't ask them for money.

After the divorce, I occasionally wondered, is it because I married myself too easily that I was not cherished?

My father-in-law and mother-in-law are wary of me except for money, but they are not bad to me, especially my mother-in-law, even if the neighbor gives her a few peaches, she will think of sending them to me to eat. Knowing that I like eating edamame, I bought it, picked it clean and cut it. It was only brought to me from the corn corner, and I will plant several nests of sweet potatoes specially for me every year.

……

Life after marriage is practical and sweet.My ex-husband was very kind to me, he didn't let me touch the dirty work, and he tolerated my occasional temper.

The housing prices here are cheap, and the frontier subsidies are high. It didn't take long for us to save money and buy a house.

After a while, my mother-in-law got a pneumothorax. She went to the hospital for an operation and found some other problems. It cost 1 yuan. We paid for it. My mother-in-law insisted on paying it back. I said no, so I gave in. Afterwards, we decided to make a compromise, and the money would not be returned, but the money reimbursed by the medical insurance was a little over [-] for us.

The day after the reimbursement came, the mother-in-law quietly brought over 5000 yuan. It turned out that her ex-husband bought her an oxygen machine, which cost more than 4000 yuan. Give me money and don't know, I don't know about it at all.

Of course I will not accept the money. This is what children should do. But when my ex-husband came back, I lost my temper with him. It was not because of the money, but because he kept it from me. In his eyes, what kind of person am I? ?

He had a great attitude, apology and reassurance.

After this incident, my mother-in-law treated me better.

I think it's good to live like this, plain and simple, having children and growing old together.

At that time, I wrote "Mao Mao", "Jia Huan", and "Lin Jiazi", with sweet and warm taste between the lines.

……

The precursor to the change was a phone call from her ex-husband, with a gentle tone, and they chatted for more than 40 minutes.

I casually asked, "Who's on the phone? We've been talking for so long?"

The ex-husband said: "Xu XX, she is divorced."

Xu XX is his childhood sweetheart. They grew up together. The two families are as good as one family. When they got married, my father-in-law even specially asked me to offer tea to her father.In the words of her ex-husband - "She is like my own sister".

Xu XX is one year younger than her ex-husband and three years older than me. She got married very early and has a daughter. She opened a pharmacy with her husband in other places. Although she doesn’t have a high degree of education, she is tall, in good shape, and good at dressing up. And have money.

The reason for the divorce was that her husband fell in love with the female employee employed in the store, and would rather divorce her than leave her daughter alone.

As a woman, I was extremely indignant, but there was nothing I could do. I could only tell my ex-husband, "It's not easy for a woman to take care of a child, so please help where you can."

……

Xu XX will come back soon.

After the ex-husband ran, he went through the admission procedures for her daughter.

She frequently went to the work unit to find her ex-husband, and then stayed there from morning till night.

The ex-husband gave her the spare key of his office so that she would not be unable to get in when she went to find him.

The leaders joked, let them pay attention to the impact.

And something else.

The leader's joke made me a little uneasy, but I didn't believe that this man would do something wrong to me, and I also didn't believe that the unfortunate woman who had just been betrayed by her husband would go to steal other people's husbands, so I didn't think much about it, I just persuaded my ex-husband to hand over the key Take it back: he is a petty official and has a separate office. The official seal and personnel files of the unit are all in his place. It is not appropriate to give the key to outsiders.

The ex-husband was kind and good, and explained to me that due to special reasons, except for a few units in southern Xinjiang, other places were disconnected from the Internet. Xu XX went to his office to snag the Internet.

……

After I got the key back, Xu XX stopped going to our unit. Based on my trust in my husband, I didn't take this matter to heart until I came home from get off work one day and found that there was an extra dry hair cap in the house, which still smelled of wet hair. gas.

The ex-husband explained: Xu XX doesn’t have a water heater at home, so come here to wash his hair.

However, just washing your hair and boiling water is enough. Why go to someone else's house, you need a water heater to take a shower.

The ex-husband also explained: It was a bath, but it was not Xu XX who took the bath, but her daughter. The little girl was used to living in the city, and the company's house did not have a bathroom heater or a water heater. It was cold and unaccustomed, so I came here.

He took out his phone again, and if he didn't believe it, he called himself and asked.

……

I accepted his explanation, after that, Xu XX seemed to disappear in my life.

Then one night, I finished typing and came out of the study. The TV in the living room was on, but no one was there. I went to the room and found my ex-husband on the phone on the dark balcony, smiling happily.

Seeing me coming in, he hung up the phone and came out.

I asked, "Whose phone number?"

The ex-husband said "no one".

Because most of his social circles and mine overlap, and I basically know everyone he knows. When I saw him cheating, I took out his mobile phone and checked it for myself—the call log was empty.

My mind went blank.

I foolishly believed all his explanations, but he himself felt guilty.

……

And so war broke out.

The ex-husband explained it at first, but then got angry: "I knew you would do this, so I deleted it!"

It was my fault.

I took his mobile phone and claimed to go to the mobile phone to check the call records and see how long they talked on the phone every day. He refused to let me go, and repeatedly explained, "I just want to see her pity" "I and you are together day and night. What are you doing?" and so on.

Seeing my reluctance, my ex-husband finally gave it up: "Yes, I like her, I have liked her since I was a child, what's wrong?!"

It's okay, let's get a divorce.

……

The ex-husband regretted it after he finished speaking, and began to apologize and explain endlessly.

I wrote the divorce agreement and forced him to sign it.

He procrastinated and refused to go through the formalities, he was going on a business trip today, he was too busy at work tomorrow, and he forgot to take his ID card the day after tomorrow...

During the period, I was forced to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau twice, once saying that the date was wrong, and once that the procedures were not complete. Later, my mother-in-law secretly hid the household registration book.

The mother-in-law tried her best to keep the family safe.

She went to Xu XX's house and made a big fuss, scolding very badly, Xu XX's reaction was funny, saying "how is that possible", and swore that she had nothing to do with my ex-husband, it was all because I was thinking too much, mother-in-law didn't After listening to her explanation, she still scolded, Xu XX finally couldn't take it anymore, and hid out, and went to the mainland.

The leaders of the unit talked to me one by one, persuading me not to be impulsive, my parents, and all relatives and friends advised me.

The ex-husband cried in front of me, saying that he had done this one sorry thing in his life, and vowed never to contact Xu XX again, saying that if there was a next time, he would leave the house without leaving the house.

……

I feel disgusting, but also a little reluctant.

From the first day I entered the society, I lived under his wings, working and living, all supported by him. I don't know whether to love him more or rely more on him, but when I think of leaving, I felt both uncomfortable and terrified.

At that time, I was too young and didn’t know the importance of timely stop loss. I rewrote the divorce agreement, which was very harsh on my ex-husband. I asked him to sign it first, and left the date blank, saying that one day he would be sorry for me again. , we divorced with this divorce agreement and let him leave the house.

He readily signed it.

……

Although she didn't get divorced, she still had a thorn in her heart, her life seemed to be cast a shadow, and her attitude towards her ex-husband became indifferent.I can no longer feel the taste of happiness.

Make do with it.

During that time, the code words were also intermittent. "Lin Jiazi" was half written, and it took a long time to pick it up again.

Later, when I was pregnant with a child, my life was peaceful and uneventful. When I asked Xu XX occasionally, my ex-husband said that he was doing business in the Mainland and that he was already married.

……

In the first few days after her daughter was born, she cried a lot. Even after eating milk for a long time, she couldn't let it go. She would vomit milk and cry loudly.

I can only hold it all the time.

The ex-husband went to work during the day, and walked back and forth in the room with the girl in his arms at night, constantly muttering: "Chenchen, Chenchen, Chenchen, Chenchen is daddy's little girl..."

A walk is more than two hours.

When the girl fell asleep, he would hug her and sleep sitting up against the head of the bed. Lying down was not acceptable.

Suddenly my heart softened.

If you think about the past, let it pass. Although this man has all kinds of problems, he is a good partner to live with.

……

When the girl was a little older, she became very worry-free. Thanks to her, life became sweet again. At that time, I wrote "Dandy".

The response to that book was good, but it was not what I imagined. At the end of the writing, I only saw family affection but not love. The editor said that this is not possible, because the label is pure love.As a last resort, I assigned a passer-by to the main character in the episode, and was scolded by the readers not surprisingly, and I didn't blame them, I wanted to scold myself.

……

In a blink of an eye, the girl was three years old, and I finished writing "Daddy", and then "Cannon Fodder".

My ex-husband, who hadn’t left Xinjiang for several years, was sent to Shanghai to study for a month.

It changed when I came back.

The first is to quit smoking. The old smoker who smokes at least one pack a day suddenly stops smoking, saying that he feels sick when he smells smoke.

Then his temper became very irritable, always getting angry for no reason, and he would become impatient when he said a word casually.

He often yells at the child because of a little thing, even my mother who is protecting the child, and then slams the door and leaves - he has never spoken ill to the elderly before.

On the contrary, my mother persuaded me, saying that my father was also like this when he quit smoking, and he had a particularly violent temper.

……

I think his smoking cessation is very abnormal. How can a person who is so addicted to smoking suddenly feel sick when he smells cigarettes, and then stop smoking?

I went to the Internet to check, and there was not much relevant content, but the word "lung cancer" appeared frequently.

I was terrified, and discussed with him to go to Urumqi with him for inspection after I was busy with this period.

He agreed.

My mother-in-law came to me quietly and said that since my ex-husband went to Shanghai, he seemed to be a different person when he came back, and asked if he had mixed up with Xu XX again.

I was stunned for a moment, and said no, isn't Xu xx married?

The mother-in-law hesitated and didn't answer, she just asked me to pay more attention.

I comforted my mother-in-law with the words "quit smoking" and persuaded her to leave.

……

My ex-husband's temper was getting worse and worse. I was afraid that he really had some serious disease, so I endured it all the time.

Another night, my ex-husband suddenly said that he would go to Urumqi for a physical examination tomorrow morning. I held back my anger and said that I would call to ask for leave now. The ex-husband said that he had already bought the plane ticket and only bought it for him alone.

He left early the next morning. He called in the evening and said that he had finished the inspection and was waiting for the result. Then he called again and turned off the phone. When he got in touch, he said he was in a bad mood and wanted to go out for a walk. He is currently in Chengdu. , and said that the test results were all right.

……

My ex-husband returned from staying in the Mainland for nearly a month, and his temper became even worse.

I finally understood what "Even breathing is wrong", he started to find faults frequently, quarreled over little things, and then had a cold war, I was watching TV in the living room, he went to the room, I was in the room, he went to the living room... at night I sleep on the bed and he sleeps on the sofa.

He was playing with his mobile phone on the bed that day. I wanted to talk to him and sat down by the bed, but before he could speak, he turned around and left, cleaned up the vacant bedroom next to him, and moved in.

I finally gave up and understood what he meant, and said, "Let's get a divorce."

He quickly agreed: "Okay."

……

The ex-husband started to go through the procedures with high efficiency. The mother-in-law repeated the old trick and hid the household registration book. The ex-husband immediately went to the police station to make a new copy, physical examination, community certificate, leader's signature...etc. The tedious procedures were completed within a few days , quickly divorced.

The reason was "incompatibility".

It's been less than half a year since my ex-husband came back from Shanghai for the first time. A harmonious and peaceful family broke up unexpectedly.

……

At the beginning of that period, I felt extremely uncomfortable.

I never knew I was so weak.

A person was crying secretly in the office, crying under the quilt, and seeing a colleague talking on the phone with her husband, she pretended to be sleepy and lay down on the desk, quietly wiping away tears.

When I got off work, the colleague on duty asked, "Why didn't you take your husband's car today?" I waved my hands without looking back, and said with a smile, "It's a fight, don't let him go." The reason I didn't look back was because tears fell again, I dare not show it to others.

It hurts like cutting flesh.

……

When I was really uncomfortable, I pulled the girl into my arms and hugged her tightly, saying: "Mom likes you." I just wanted to grab something.

The girl didn't dislike me either, she obediently put down the toy in her hand, hugged me too, and said, "I like mom too."

Then he added: "I also like my grandparents, and I also like my dad... Is dad working overtime again? I miss him."

I said "um", thinking that the really poor person is not me, but a girl, so I couldn't help crying again.

……

I decided to break it off completely, I would not contact my ex-husband, and I would not allow my parents to contact him, but one day, the girl suddenly said to me: "Mom, is my father dead?"

My parents and I were terrified. I didn't know how a little girl over three years old would have such a terrible idea. After comforting her, I called my ex-husband for the first time and asked him to pick up the child to play.

……

Two months after the divorce, the unit arranged for a group of people to study in Zhejiang. My ex-husband and I were on the list. My colleagues and I set off together. My ex-husband left half a month early, and it was said that he went to Chengdu.

Not long after returning from Zhejiang, a colleague who has a good relationship with me told me that when my ex-husband was chatting in the office, he said that he had bought a 120-square-meter house in Chengdu.

However, during the divorce, the house, car, and facade were all given to him, and I took almost all the deposits. It is impossible for him to have the money to buy a house.

I called to question, and my ex-husband said that the house was bought after the divorce, and it had nothing to do with me.He also said that his house will belong to girls in the future?You also said how much money you have at home, you don’t know it yourself?

I really don't know, the money used to be managed by my ex-husband, and if it exceeds a certain amount, it will be transferred to his card, stock trading or financial management, I rarely ask.

However, although I don't know the exact figure, I know that even if he concealed his property, it would not be enough to buy a house in Chengdu, even the down payment, so I called my mother-in-law, who was shocked, and they had 45 in the ex-husband's account. He helped buy money.

She quickly called to ask, and the money was gone.

So the thing about buying a house is real.

But none of their family has a registered permanent residence in Chengdu. Whose name is the house bought in?

……

That night, my parents-in-law and my ex-husband had a big fight, but they couldn't get an answer.

I warned him that if I didn't make clear about the house, I would sue him to transfer the pre-marital property, and then I consulted a lawyer and asked someone to inquire about the news.

Because the end of the year is too busy, it has been delayed until the Chinese New Year is approaching, but there is no result.

During the Spring Festival, my mother-in-law relapsed and was hospitalized, but my ex-husband went to Chengdu again at this time.

In less than a year, my ex-husband, who hadn’t left Xinjiang for a few years, went to Chengdu four times. I knew something was wrong, but I didn’t have the energy to think about him.

……

Not long after the epidemic broke out, the unit required everyone to fill in the information in the online form of the QQ group, and fill in the number of people in the family.

Because the ex-husband is a small leader, his name is very high. When filling out the form, I accidentally saw his name. There are two other familiar names below, "Xu XX" and "Li XX", who are employees of the unit "Family".

My mind was stunned.

The woman who swore to be innocent with my ex-husband was taken back from the mainland by her ex-husband with her daughter and lived in my former home.

It was a house I had chosen for a long time. Everything in it, from the floor to the curtains, from the sofa to the chandelier, from the flush toilet to every faucet, was selected by myself.

The woman who intervened in my marriage and cast a shadow over my life, and finally got divorced, is living in the house I bought, sleeping on the bed I bought, and taking a bath in the bathtub I bought... I think disgustingly vomit.

There has never been any major change in temperament, there is no disagreement in personality, it's just that the wolf-hearted man didn't want that woman to be called a "little three" and forced me to take the initiative to file for divorce.

There's nothing nauseating when you suddenly smell smoke, it's just that some woman told him to quit smoking.

The house in Chengdu was naturally bought for her and her daughter.

……

I have a seizure.

I can accept divorce from my ex-husband because I don’t know how to run a business because I don’t know how to run a business. I can accept getting involved by another woman because I’m not attractive enough, but that woman...

I can't stand it.

It is unbearable to be deceived, and it is unbearable to be divorced by "incompatibility".

The hard-earned money was used to buy her a house, which is unbearable.

……

At this moment, I can type in front of the computer very calmly, without any emotional fluctuations, but at that time, I almost completely lost my mind.

Why don't I know it's not worth it, but there are thousands of people, some are calm and wise, and some are impulsive and fragile. I know that I am worthless, and I will be devastated by a little setback, but life is not a novel. If you are decisive, you will be able to let go of everything and be reborn.

To really come out, you have to rely on the broom of time to kill you repeatedly, and the whip of life to beat you constantly.

……

I started to make trouble.

I didn't make a fuss when my relationship with my ex-husband deteriorated rapidly and I was deliberately picked on by him. I didn't make a fuss during the divorce. After half a year of the divorce, I started to make a fuss.

Then it gets more and more boring.

No matter how much trouble there is, what can be the result?

Remarried?impossible.Such a dirty man, even if he wants to, I don't want to.

Let him leave the house?Less likely.

I consulted a lawyer, not to mention that he openly cohabited with that woman after the divorce, even if a bed photo of him cheating was taken, the law would not support such a lawsuit.

The divorce agreement he signed when he cheated for the first time a few years ago has no legal effect either.

The only reliable thing is to sue him for transfer of marital property.

……

Perhaps because he felt that it was too embarrassing to go to court, he promised to give me 20 yuan, but he had no money for the time being, so he could only write an IOU.

The lawyer said that the IOU was useless because there was no real transaction, and a supplementary divorce agreement should be written.

I wrote it and sent it to my ex-husband, and asked him to type it out and sign it to me. I didn’t write anything superfluous, but only said to compensate the woman an additional 20 yuan. When my ex-husband sent it to me, he added a few words on it "for Daughter's upbringing and education", I trembled angrily and told him not to change a single word.

This man abandoned his wife and daughter, concealed his marital property, stole the blood and sweat of his parents, and spent it on another woman, but he still had the face to use his daughter as a cover.

……

He transferred 20 to my account within the time limit.

The moment I received the money, it was as if something had been taken from my body.

ended.

I deleted all his contact information, and my mind went blank.

During this period of time, even when the trouble was the worst, I still held my breath and coded intermittently, as if I wanted to prove something. When I really couldn’t write this book, I gritted my teeth and started a new article... Today's two big pits.

However, what makes people desperate is that no matter how hard I try, the things I write are like a pool of stagnant water. If there is no warmth in my heart, how can I write warm words?How can you impress others when you can't even impress yourself?The more I write, the more I suffer.

The moment I received the money and deleted all the contact information of my ex-husband, I suddenly lost all strength.

There is no point in trying any more.

That's all.

whatever.

……

I don’t think about anything, put the computer in the corner to collect ashes, go to work casually every day, in a daze, squeeze a smiley face in front of my colleagues, build Lego, build blocks with the girl after get off work, watch bears and dog teams, and wait for my parents to call me for dinner.

A little recovery.

Life has to go on, no matter what, we have to support the family, the elderly, the children, and me.

After calming down, I gradually figured it out. I chose the path myself. In fact, I have more responsibilities to get to where I am today.

If I had been stronger and more decisive, I would have insisted on divorce the first time I encountered cheating