The hookup of the scumbag

On the Hidden Worry of Marrying and Creating a Generation of Old Men

Author: Zhou Xiao

He Feng belongs to the first generation, and at the same time he is an old man.Therefore, he has many hidden worries in his marriage with his wife Kang Yasi, who is 30 years apart.

First of all, He Feng is a generation of founders.

Undoubtedly, He Feng is a very capable man.He started from scratch, from an Indonesian smuggler to the later chairman of the Tiankun Group, from penniless to wealthy, he created amazing wealth, built his own piece of land on Hong Kong Island, and became an existence that people look up to.He Feng has all three things: money, power, and power. He is such an old man. If there is one word to describe him, it would be "creating a generation".

The first generation of creators used to be a small person, just like He Feng before he made a fortune.In the midst of the vast crowd, no one expected that the boy who was once unknown would be very glorious after many years, and he would rise to the top of the upper class, and even be deeply remembered by history.The success of such a person is not accidental, and there must be a shining point in character.Dare to fight, be firm and confident, have a strong and optimistic will, etc. These advantages will only increase.If one word were to be used to describe these people, it would be "Xiaoxiong". Aim at a target, stalk and lurk in the dark, play with social rules in the applause, and only wait for the time to come. The door of life, to give the opponent a fatal blow, all the way to the bloody storm, and finally achieve great achievements.

Because of the ruthless success rules of the first generation, the bloody side of their work is often inadvertently substituted into their lives. Judging and getting along with the thought of "whoever opposes me perishes".

The smell of blood in He Feng's bones is too strong, he is like a wolf, although he pretends to be a gentleman and elegant, but there is still a strong sense of aggression in his gestures, making people unconsciously afraid, and then suppressed and tamed, In the end, he unconsciously became his loyal follower.Because of this, well-behaved and kind-hearted women couldn't catch his eyes easily, but Kang Yasi, who was arrogant, selfish and somewhat clever, caught his eyes.Maybe you noticed Kang Yasi, he just wanted to observe this divorced woman who was ridiculed by the media because of his initial interest, then curiosity and boredom, and finally played with firearms and lost his feelings.He Feng has never done business at a loss. Since he likes it, he will not allow her to stay out of the matter anymore and enclose her in his territory.

I have to say that at the beginning, for Kang Yasi, being liked by such a powerful and powerful man was a lucky thing.He fell in love with her and did all the romantic and considerate things for her. As long as she wanted it, he would try his best to get it for her, even if he risked the world's displeasure.How can any woman refuse such a rich, powerful and powerful man who is only for you?

However, a wolf is always a wolf, no matter how accommodating he is to you, there is a premise that you have not violated his bottom line, otherwise you will not have more preferential treatment than others just because you are his beloved woman .He Feng's bottom line is the desire to control.

As the executive chairman of Tiankun Group, a conglomerate on Hong Kong Island, he controls the fate of many people under him, and the company's development direction is also developing as he wants.His successful experience and past life experience convinced him that only what he has in his hands truly belongs to him, just as Kang Yasi learned from him "Anyone has a price, if you don't buy success , that’s because the price is not high enough.” Therefore, he never pins his hopes on others, he only believes in himself.He is like an emperor, saying one thing and not allowing any derailment of people and things under his control, and there is no exception in family life.

Even though the elder son He Zhenan has always behaved contrary to his wishes and opposed him everywhere, but after all, he is just a son, he is an individual independent of He Feng, and will not really affect his life direction.Therefore, He Feng can let He Zhenan's waywardness go, and tolerate his petty troubles.But Kang Yasi is different. In He Feng's view, she belongs to him. As his beloved woman, he generously gave her the supreme status beside her, high-quality and abundant material life, and even the ability to put his own country They gave each other away, but the premise was that she must be his. She obediently listened to him, put him first, and lived in a circle that he could control.That's why when Yu Weiting told him that Kang Yasi's heart had grown and she was no longer willing to be his little girl, and even started to try to control him in turn, He Feng panicked.Even though he knew that Yu Weiting was provocative, He Feng still couldn't control his doubts about his wife, and even this suspicion snowballed as the days went by.Eventually, when his suspicions were at their peak, all marital love was a thing of the past.In order to deter his increasingly powerful wife, he rudely used the excuse of "wife cheating" to teach her a lesson, and when this reason that he made up was mentioned by him too many times, he was also confused and couldn't tell the truth. It is true or false, but it is ridiculous to take it as the truth. While repeatedly abusing his wife, he also hurt himself.

Therefore, it is not because He Feng is sick that he can't trust others, but because he has a suspicious temperament in the first place, so that this heart knot arises and grows day by day.The cautious and suspicious character contributed to the success of the "Creative Generation", but the same character also brought the hidden worry of breaking up his family.

The second point is that He Feng is still an old man.

The marriage concept of "old husband and young wife" is not unfamiliar. With the popularization of the love pairing images of "uncle" and "loli" in the 21st century Blue Star Korean dramas, it can be said that "old men" are becoming more and more popular in the marriage market.If it is said that "Lolita" has three good things: light voice, soft body, and easy to push down; then "Uncle" also has its own praise, that is: gentle, rich, and less angry. Of course, there are also versions that say it is mature, forbearing, and easy to push down .It is undeniable that an old man has a charm that men of the same age or younger men cannot match, because after going through wind and rain, his mind has matured in all aspects, and his temper has gradually restrained due to his age. When dealing with his younger wife, It is more patient and tolerant like treating one's own children, allowing and even willing to spoil his little wife unscrupulously and lawlessly. This is the picture of a couple getting along that many women dream of.

However, one thing to note is that this is a common way of getting along with "uncle" and "loli". If the "uncle" is older than "loli" by more than 20 years old, it will become a "grandfather and grandson match". Will "grandfather and grandson match" be happy?

As the saying goes, there is a generation gap between three years old, and the generation gap between He Feng and Kang Yasi, who are 30 years apart, is as deep as the Mariana Trench.In this marriage, He Feng has a dazzling aura of super prominent social status, monstrous power and wealth.When He Feng was still all-powerful, he took it for granted that the reason why the woman he loves married to him must be attracted by his personality charm, and those external auras only increased his charm, and he also Proud to have created these.But when he began to retreat behind the scenes and was gradually forgotten by others, but his wife began to shine and replaced him, the thoughts of inferiority spread unstoppably.Age is always the biggest gap between him and his wife. When she was in her most beautiful years, he had already declined. The more capable a man was, the more he couldn't bear the fact that his beloved woman was stronger than himself.But this age gap is something he can't reverse no matter how much he can do, he can't help thinking, he has spent so much effort to cultivate this beautiful flower himself, but he doesn't have many days to take possession of it. , this flower will be taken away by another man.Thinking of this possibility, He Feng felt uncomfortable, and even no longer wanted to see his wife showing a beautiful smile, because the more beautiful she smiled, the harder it was for him to control himself thinking about the scene where someone else had her.In the end, He Feng's thinking inevitably turned into a distorted situation. Since he can't belong to me alone, then I will be destroyed.It can't be said that He Feng doesn't love Kang Yasi anymore. It is precisely because he loves her so much that he can't bear the possibility that she belongs to someone else, so he reluctantly destroys her.This is another hidden worry of marrying an old man.

If He Feng's temperament could trust others a little bit, and if he was a little younger, maybe his marriage with Kang Yasi would not have ended in tragedy.

System abuse: score 95 points.

good news!Due to the achievement of the loyalty contract, Zhou Xiao and Lin Mo share their abilities and resources, and now re-evaluate the previous four stages of course scores:

The first stage (challenge by Li Yu): 80+5=85 points;

The second stage (Zhafu Guangyuan’s article): 75+15=90 points;

The third stage (Zha Fubu Guodong chapter): 60+30=90 points;

The fourth stage (Zhufu Wen Ruifan): 55+30=85 points.

The author has something to say: This chapter is still a short one. The Lun family took two days to write it out, which disappointed everyone. For convenience, the next chapter will also be written in the form of a paper, so I won’t bother .

And I forgot to say in the last chapter, thank you Zhixi Yunyou children's shoes for rewarding again, my Sogou pinyin remembers you! O(∩_∩)O