Ai Ruo's life in the red mansion

"If you change the loan, can you become a descendant?" Jia Yuan already understood what her mother meant, and gently took Jia Ying's little hand, and sighed, "We haven't told you all these years. , you are not born, it’s not that you mind, it’s that we forgot. Yes, no one took this matter to heart. For us, you are our Ying’er, and nothing else matters. Do you understand? ? You are our Ying'er, it doesn't matter whether you are a descendant or a concubine, the important thing is that you are you."

"Your parents sent you to the capital when you were born? They were afraid that you would be wronged. The people you came with were the same as your sister Yuan. Your eldest brother handed you over to us. I know what they mean. In your parents' eyes, your future is the most important. If you are raised by our side, the matchmaker will say, don't look at the concubines, but you will be raised by Mrs. Jia and Mrs. Lin. I grew up with Princess Dongping." Ai Ruo stood up, walked in front of Jia Ying, lifted her chin, and let her look into her eyes.

"Everyone has forgotten that you are not a descendant, but you are the only one who cares about it. Because in our opinion, the most important thing is not your origin, but you! Self-reliance can be self-improving, and a descendant's identity cannot change you If you are always afraid of people knowing that you are a concubine, and you hate your own identity, you will never be strong. There will always be a shadow in your heart, 'I am a concubine, my identity was stolen...' In the future, you will never be able to stand upright and stand in front of others. Don’t let yourself have weaknesses. You have to know that life is a mirror, and what you think others see is actually what you care about.”

She didn't expect Jia Ying to reply her immediately, and asked someone to take her back to the courtyard, and she was not allowed to eat dinner, because Ai Ruo said.She was punished not to eat, and what the head of the family said was like water poured out, which could not be taken back.But it can't be true that no one will take care of her. Ai Ruo asked Zisu to bring a few suitable people to go there first, and wait for this person to figure it out before re-selecting people.

"Nurse and the others..." When Jia Ying left the door, she turned around and made up her mind for a long time before saying.She didn't intercede just now, not because she was cold-hearted, but because she didn't know where she was going.She really felt that it would be better not to follow these people than to follow her. Now she seemed to have caught something, and she wanted to plead for mercy.

"Just now I said your fault, your sister Yuan's fault. Now I will tell you why I transferred everyone and beat the board. Because they are the ones who made the most mistakes. They have not been with you for a year or two They should understand the reason why the master humiliated the servant to death. You have been wronged. They should feel even more wronged. If something happens to you, none of them will survive. But it is obvious that something is wrong with you, and they don’t know how to persuade you or tell the head of the family. , let you fend for yourself, you deserve to die. Because they have never regarded you as their master. They have never regarded your honor and disgrace as their own. I will not keep any such slaves, so you go back and think clearly .While there is still time, carefully select some slaves, who will be your soldiers in the future, and you will rely on your in-laws, understand?"

"Yes!" Jia Ying saluted Ai Ruo seriously.ready to go out.

Ai Ruo stopped her, "You were raised as a noble girl since you were a child. A noble girl is not only about her birth, but also about her heart."

Jia Ying went out, but everyone could see that the she who went out at this time was different from the one who came in before. Maybe the change did not happen overnight, but change is always a good thing.

The next day, when Jia Ying came to pay her respects, she took the initiative to accept Utensil's job.Ai Ruo asked Zhou Rui's family to go to the school, and picked out the dead contracted ones to come back for Jia Ying to pick out, and he watched from the sidelines.

Xiaoliu and Jia Yuan didn't ask any more questions, but quietly accompanied Jia Ying to choose.It has to be said that Jia Min and Jia Yuan's education on Jia Ying's housekeeper was successful, and what should be learned is not bad at all.Pick people's vision, thinking is right.If you ask, it depends on the person's attitude, she really looks like a lady.

Although Ai Ruo didn't get her apology, she knew that Jia Ying had changed.Some things can only be figured out by yourself.She didn't ask, seeing that she was right, she asked the accountant to pay the money, and gave the deed of sale to Jia Ying in front of others, and left it to her to teach herself. These are the people she will take away in the future. Her life was supposed to be in her own hands.

After breakfast, Jia Hu and Xiao Tang came to plead guilty.Fortunately, Xiumu was at home this day, and Jia Zheng was also at home. However, he was used to seeing Jia Hu outside, so Xiao Tang came in and said nothing, but outside, Jia Hu honestly admitted his mistake to Jia Zheng and apologized!

Jia Zheng really didn't know about these "little things", so he could only send someone to invite Ai Ruo to the study to see what happened to Jia Ying, and insisted that his nephew come out early in the morning to admit his mistake.

Jia Hu was ashamed, and knelt on the ground to apologize to Ai Ruo, who heard Xiao Tang's complaint as soon as he got home yesterday.After she finished speaking, he didn't understand why the second aunt would blame them for Jia Ying.

But considering that Jia Ying was his own sister no matter what, even if she was a concubine, she couldn't really ignore it, so she rushed to apologize early in the morning.But Xiao Tang didn't figure out what they were doing wrong.Jia Hu didn't know any more, saying that it was an apology, but at this time, it looked a little different.

Jia Zheng was at a loss, Ai Ruo didn't want this kind of thing to upset Jia Zheng, so Jia Ying didn't come out for dinner at night, only saying that she was not feeling well, and Jia Zheng didn't take it seriously.In a noble family, if you are not feeling well, just go hungry for a meal or two, and it will be fine if you go to eat.He was starved when he was a child, so it's not that he doesn't care about Jia Ying.

Today, he said that he was going to choose someone for Jia Ying, but he didn't think there was any problem, so he went back to his study to do things without paying much attention.Now being confused by what Jia Hu said, he could only look at Ai Ruo and ask for an answer.

Ai Ruo explained the cause and effect, and looked at Jia Hu. She also asked Xiao Tang just now, and knew where she was wrong. It is estimated that the couple didn't even think about what was wrong with them.This makes Ai Ruo unacceptable, you must have an attitude of admitting your mistakes, right?Someone went to call Xiao Tang in, but they didn't target Xiao Tang, she only stared at Jia Hu.

In Ai Ruo's view, in a family, the attitude of the male host is very important. Your attitude determines the direction of the family and the wife's attitude towards the family.Xiao Tang didn't care about Xiao Dai and Jia Ying. The root cause was that Jia Hu didn't care about his younger siblings.So Xiao Tang naturally didn't care.Why didn't I see Xiao Tang perfunctory himself.There is something going on in my own house, Xiao Tang doesn't need to be called, and someone will come to help early.So in Ai Ruo's view, the fault is naturally Jia Hu's fault.

"Brother Hu, what do you think is your mistake?"

Jia Hu was stunned by the question, and for a while, she didn't know where to start.Yesterday, my wife only said that Ying'er was sad because she was not born on the same day, which made the second aunt very angry, but what does this have to do with their husband and wife?But the second aunt said they were wrong, so they must be wrong.I can only stay with the smiling face, not daring to strike up a conversation.

Little Tang wanted to say something, but Ai Ruo stared back.She could only stand behind her husband honestly, "Did you write to Ying'er all these years?" Ai Ruo looked at him, "Did you send a gift to her on her birthday? Also. She was sent this time. Back in Beijing, have you ever thought about taking her home for two days, and arranging a room for her at home, saying that it is also her home? I don’t even remember that you went to meet Yinger alone. Help her introduce Miss sister." Ai Ruo couldn't help becoming strict, thinking about it, even Xiaodai knew that Yinger was his own sister.When I have free time, I will also go to have a look. No matter whether Yinger is old or not, she will definitely buy toys, he said.In his heart, Yinger is also a younger sister.But this point Jia Hu really did not do enough.

Jia Hu blushed with embarrassment.I couldn't speak for a while.For these years, Yinger's birthday, in the first two years, when Jia Ying was in Beijing, when the family wanted to eat together, he would call him, and he would also buy gifts, waiting for Jia Ying to follow the Lin family to Jiangnan, and he would also I really didn't remember it.This year, on Jia Ying's birthday, he was not at home. I really don't know if his wife gave it to him.Think about it, if the second uncle's house doesn't call, the wife must have forgotten it.All of a sudden, I didn't feel good.If I don't bark, is it possible that my wife didn't think about it?

"Yes, I raised Xiaodai, you got married, I let you separate, then what? Do you still think of Xiaodai as your younger brother? Does Mu Er know that Xiaodai is his uncle? This year Xiaodai's birthday is at the foot of the mountain Yes, the two of you didn't even think about asking him to go home for a meal. We didn't call you together, you can even forget Xiao Dai's birthday? Let alone Ying'er It's been a year since Yinger came back. Your daughter-in-law comes and goes frequently. I haven't seen her go to see Yinger alone, to ask what Yinger lacks, and why I'm embarrassed to tell my second aunt. Sister-in-law will handle it! Take ten thousand steps back, even if you send a woman to take a look, you have never done it, you are pleading guilty to me now, what crime are you pleading?"

Ai Ruozhen became more and more angry, stared at Jia Hu and scolded.She actually didn't think about it at all. She actually forgot to call Jia Hu and his wife for the children's birthday. Over the past year, their family has too many children, and someone celebrates their birthday every month. Zhou Rui's family asked once, and she was afraid Trouble, so I said, forget it, the child's birthday, there is no need to bother relatives, so Zhou Rui's family will make arrangements according to the rules and close the door on the children's birthday in the future. It is strange for Jia Hu and his wife to know.

Now she seems to be deliberately not barking, to see if they remember.Little Tang's face also turned pale, she really forgot, looking at her husband's back, she felt that she might be making a fuss at home.

Thinking about it carefully, she really never cared about Jia Ying.After all, Jia Ying has been in the south of the Yangtze River for many years, so far away that she almost forgot her face.Jia Hu didn't mention birthday or anything, so naturally she wouldn't remember it.Anyway, when she got married, she didn't prepare anything specially for Jia Ying.The second aunt didn't mention it, nor did Jia Hu, so she really didn't know.

How could I be so stupid, I knew there was such a person, why didn't I think about doing something, now I'm fine, I was scolded, I really can't fight back, because I didn't scold me wrong at all, even if my natal mother heard it , I'm afraid they will be scolded too.I can only hang my head honestly and listen.