Ai Ruo's life in the red mansion

"That's because you haven't made up your mind." Ai Ruo smiled, shook her head, suddenly thinking about it, she was in a daze.

What she just said is true. When she was 30 years old, it was the darkest period of her life. At that time, the child was still young, she graduated from graduate school, and went back to work in the hospital.At work, everyone is still doubting her. While she is striving for performance, her in-laws feel that she should spend more time taking care of the family, and she suddenly can't remember what her husband will be doing.Her 30 years old seemed to be shrouded in gloom.

In severe cases, they may be new parents. The husband originally hoped to hand over the child to his parents, at least until he was three years old and went to kindergarten. Ai Ruo did not want to agree, but the lesson of countless seniors and sisters is that children are brought up by grandparents , Many habits grow up and cannot be changed at all.Besides, my parents are also watching. If I really hand it over to my parents-in-law, it's not easy for my parents to explain.

Then they kept arguing, and even in the end, they talked about divorce, and were eventually suppressed by their parents and in-laws.It was also after that time that the in-laws did not dare to intervene in their lives anymore.She worked hard with her husband, and slowly, she took over a dystocia operation, and then wrote a paper for publication, and her profession was finally no longer questioned.The child was finally a little older, and her life seemed to be getting smoother and smoother.

In fact, thinking about it now, in fact, nothing has changed since then, it just went smoothly.In fact, there are many messy things every day, but she is not 30 years old.Later, something happened to her husband and daughter, and her outlook on life changed drastically. So the reason she is now optimistic is that she has really experienced too much and nothing can affect her.After so many years, when she thinks back to the past, all she can think of is the best side of her husband and children's life, and the happiest time in their life.Now, for the first time.She faced the bad side of the past, and she felt instantly knocked down.

It’s not like going on a trip and suffering and coming back full of bitter joy, because that’s what happened to them.Instead, Ai Ruo suddenly doubted his memory for the first time.

"What do you think of?" The princess noticed her momentary loss of focus.

"It turns out that I was also entangled before." Ai Ruo smiled, she didn't want to talk anymore, and just turned her head to see Zhou Rui's family standing in the same place not far away.He obviously knew they were talking, so he didn't dare to come over.wave to her.

"Greetings to the princess." Zhou Rui's family hurriedly bowed over, "Ma'am, the banquet is ready, and the stage is also ready. The master asked the younger one to come over and ask the wife to show me."

"Princess, please move." Ai Ruo hurriedly extended his hand to Princess Rui with a smile.

Princess Rui has actually got what she wants, although she is not in a relaxed state of mind at this time, but.Absolutely no longer resentful, at this time her smile is definitely very warm.

Zhou Rui's family is busy taking a seat for the princess, and Ai Ruo is looking for all the ladies.But Ai Ruo's mood turned sour, yes, the princess may be looking for her own answer, but the problem is.You found the answer, why did you drag me into the abyss?

For the rest of the time, Ai Ruo is really playing the role of a perfect housewife.And she knew that after talking with the princess, her mood fell to the bottom.

After they were sent away, Jia Zheng took a shower and returned to the room, only to find that Ai Ruo was in a daze.Come and sit down.

"Tired?" He knew that Ai Ruo was impatient to socialize, so he got up and adjusted his sitting posture.He lifted Ai Ruo, gently rubbed her neck, and rubbed her shoulders by the way, "It seems to be thinner."

"No, at my age, I'm afraid of being fat. If I'm really fat, I won't be able to lose weight." Ai Ruo sighed softly.

"Minus what?"

"Does fat look good?"

"Of course!" Jia Zheng said seriously, as if he was telling the truth.

"I'm so fat, what if you take a concubine back?" She glared at Jia Zheng.

Jia Zheng laughed, and the two were talking, but Jia Zheng's hands didn't stop. He didn't pinch, but kneaded, gently rubbing her sore muscles with his thick palms.Ai Ruo once asked him to pinch, but Ai Ruo was afraid of pain for a while, and felt very itchy for a while, which made Jia Zheng helpless. This is a method he found out slowly, whether it is useful or not, but In this way, the couple can talk quietly.

At this time, Ai Ruo was always very talkative, and at this time, Jia Zheng also felt very comfortable, why, he didn't know, he just felt comfortable, obviously he was working, but he just felt very comfortable in his heart.

"Aren't you tired?" Ai Ruo knew that the men outside were actually more tired, so he raised his face.

"Fortunately, Mr. Tang and Hu'er had a good chat today. It seems that the marriage is almost over. Another day, you can go to the Tang's house to find out, so you can find a matchmaker." Jia Zheng is very happy, and naturally he won't feel tired .

"What about you?" Ai Ruo patted his hand away, turned around, and rubbed for him herself. She rubbed Jia Zheng's shoulders. Mrs. Wang is Miss Jiao, a noble lady, but Ai Ruo is not.In fact, besides studying Chinese medicine, she also practiced hand strength when she was free, because delivering a baby is a laborious job, even if she has no chance now, she can't really let it go.So she rubbed Jia Zheng's shoulders as part of her exercise. Besides, she knew acupoints. Gently pressing and kneading was better than Jia Zheng's pure kneading.

"Very good. Hu'er and Mr. Tang got along very well. At first, they were a little nervous, but then when it came to learning, they had some disputes. However, they appreciated each other. Hu'er is really big in learning. It's beneficial, it seems like it was a bit of a waste to let him take the exam in a hurry." Jia Zheng became more excited, obviously he was really happy today, Jia Hu is also his student, and now seeing his own nephew , and the students really benefited, how could he be unhappy.

"I'm asking you, have you been happy all these years? With me!" Ai Ruo stopped, sat in front of Jia Zheng, and stared into her eyes.

"Ah?" Jia Zheng was taken aback. What do you mean?Didn't you offend her today?

Ai Ruo laughed. It was really interesting to see Jia Zheng's cute and silly appearance. At first, they were almost enemies. Later, they gradually got together because of raising children together and for the sake of children. , Between them, apart from chatting about knowledge, the most talked about is the child, so think about it, she really never asked him, are you happy after being with me for so many years?After all, she and Jia Zheng have been married much longer than she and her husband, but she never asked Jia Zheng, are you happy with me?

"Madam, did those ladies say something about you? It's okay, it's okay, we don't care about them. Our Zhu'er will not look for children from these families in the future." Seeing that Ai Ruo's mood is not right, Jia Zheng quickly said.A firm decision, no one will show good face to those who dare to look down on their wives.

"Master, have you ever thought about divorcing me? I have such a bad temper, my children are sent far away, and I don't have much patience with my mother-in-law..." Ai Ruo thought about it, she really treated Jia Zheng very badly, Especially at the beginning, she really didn't have a good face; especially for Jia Mu, she didn't think of her as a mother-in-law; as for the children, although she really tried her best to take care of them when she was young, she was really the longest one by her side It's just that I was dumb, and I really didn't take care of the other children seriously.That's why Princess Rui said that the only ones she really loves are Jia Yuan and Xiao Dai.

"What's the matter with you?" Jia Zheng was in a cold sweat. Did he talk to the girl today?It seems not?

"I wanted to divorce you. Really, after Yuan'er was born, I really wanted to go back to my mother's house with Zhu'er and Yuan'er in my arms, and never see you again. I also learned later that you will not let me take the children away." , and then, you are actually quite good-natured, but your ears are too soft, you were taught by your mother, and you are really good if you really leave her grasp." Ai Ruo smiled wryly, and leaned lightly on Jia Zheng's shoulder "It's been more than ten years, now it seems that you take care of me more, thank you."

Thinking about how she was when she first came here, now, after more than ten years, she can recall that her past was all beautiful. If she hadn't talked about the topic of twenty and thirty with Princess Rui today, she would have thought about it. I'm sorry, the entanglement and sadness I once had.The previous scenes were really like a movie. It turned out that there were times when the husband was hateful, and it turned out that the mother-in-law would never be a mother.

She had to think about Jia Zheng, without Jia Zheng, without these ten years of life, maybe she would live in her own imagination forever, wholeheartedly going to heaven to find them, it turns out that there are some things that cannot be changed, it turns out that she Still looking for what I lost, but I didn't really learn to cherish the present.

So think about it, and Jia Zheng's bit by bit, Jia Zheng may not be as capable as her husband, and he attracted his attention at the beginning, and then?In marriage, the marriage of modern people may face more.Because there are careers of both parties, parents of both parties, and a huge family gap between the two parties.

In comparison, in the past ten years with Jia Zheng, she lived a peaceful and happy life.Jia Zheng's personality is very gentle. He may be spoiled, but his nature is really not bad, he's just stupid.

But she turned around well, so now she enjoys the results, a 24-hour husband and father.He listened carefully to what he said, read books for himself, and translated for himself.When he has a problem, he will always stand by his side, even if he doesn't really agree in his heart, but he still really believes in himself.

Of course, this cannot say that Jia Zheng is better than her husband. If he could give up everything and return to his family...

But it's impossible, they still have to pay the mortgage, the elderly on both sides, and the education of the children. It is impossible for her to return to the family and really be a housewife, and let her play both a good doctor and a good doctor. Being a good mother and wife is not to say that it is impossible, but it is really difficult.

Didn't your husband give up at the beginning?The main reason is that her husband is a surgeon, and he wanted to get ahead. It was more difficult and he had to pay more, so he gave up in the end.Became an ordinary doctor, waiting for qualifications.

Jia Zheng twitched, recalling the beginning, he really couldn't bear to think about it, but after hearing what she said, he felt an indescribable emotion, and just wanted to hug her tightly.