Ai Ruo's life in the red mansion

"Actually, it's only because they are girls..." Jia Yuan pursed her lips.

Ai Ruo looked back at her daughter, usually she would not speak when there were outsiders, but today was actually an exception.She thought about it, and suddenly realized that, too, she was challenging the system and made the girls do things that were not in line with their identities, which would cause unnecessary disputes.At that time, people will not blame the girl, but will think that Ai Ruo's ideas are too unconstrained, so she will implicate the whole family. Therefore, as Jia Yuan just said, she has challenged the system.

"There were many talented women in ancient times. Cai Wenji, Xie Daoyun, Li Qingzhao, who would dare to say that Lay Yi An is not as good as a man?" After all, Jia Yuan was still young, thinking that her mother didn't understand her when she looked at her, so she immediately emphasized it.

"Yuan'er is right, but if people know that a slave has this talent and is a woman, I'm afraid it will make some people feel ashamed." Seeing Jia Yuan like this, Jia Min was filled with joy, deeply feeling that he was able to teach well. , smiled and added a sentence.

Ai Ruo understands that this is a society that emphasizes rules, and you can't say or do whatever you want.What the whole family is saying and doing now is just to make her happy, so because the family loves her very much, they all tolerate her and coax her to play. Look at these people, in fact, there is no one who is confused. I was dazzled by Xia Hua's achievements, and the corrupt life really made people degenerate.

"Okay, I'm also confused. I'm a lot older, but I also developed a childish temper. So it's better for the master to change their names early in the morning. Everyone knows Liu Xi and Song Hua, but they don't know Jia's family. Girl, it’s fortunate that this is the case.”

Ai Ruo is actually a mature person, when Chunxi and Xia Hua were sent out, she was just looking for a good job for them.Expressed her love for the two girls.Asking them to write travel notes is just to let them become her own eyes and see the world for her; but when she really saw that they had done more than she expected, she couldn't bear to bury them.In fact, this has nothing to do with maturity and immaturity, but just, when things happen and advance a little bit, then.Everything is different.

Even mature people can actually do stupid things.Fortunately, although Jia Zheng pampered her, he still grasped what should be grasped.Liu Xi.Song Hua, in this day and age, I really can't tell that this is a woman's name.As long as they don't say it.No one would know that Liu Xi and Song Hua are girls of the Jia family.Now Zhou Rui's house is being disinfected in time.Liu Xi and Song Hua became their male names.

The library opened, but Ai Ruo was not really happy. In fact, Chunxi and Xia Hua were the ones who were hit the hardest.She had just identified with this era, and it made her recognize this era clearly.

Yes, the fake stone in the Red Mansion cares for the sisters, and all the women in the book are better than the men.So she began to forget that this itself was a feudal era.In fact, it is the 21st century, how many people will have different expressions when they see her chasing her career, and will ask her anytime, anywhere, where is her husband?Sometimes if you don’t understand, just ask her how many years she has been divorced.It seems to everyone that it is almost impossible for a successful woman to have a happy marriage.Then she will proudly say that she is the exception.

She really doesn't know how her husband's career is. They all came from doctors step by step. When she gave birth, her husband went to graduate school. Because he was studying at that time, he had time to take care of their mother and daughter.And she, too, got pregnant only after taking the postgraduate entrance examination, and gave birth to a child, taking advantage of her leisure.When the child is one year old, she graduates and goes to work, and her husband is still one year away, so they have this time difference.

Thinking about it now, my husband's career seems to have stagnated since then.Because of the daughter!Because one of them had to make a sacrifice, her husband didn't ask her to make a sacrifice, and she didn't realize that her husband was making a sacrifice, so it slowly resulted in a strong woman and a weak man.But because of her lack of roots, and because of her husband's forbearance, they can always be happy.

After all these years, she still didn't realize it.It's like the husband should take care of the children, and everything should be done.And believe that the people around you should not agree with it?In fact, she is spoiled by her husband. Apart from her own career, she really seems to be unable to do anything well.

In this life, although Jia Zheng was a scumbag before, now he leans more and more towards her husband. He knows when to protect her and when to tolerate her, but is she really like this, allowing herself to be protected all the time? , containing?

"Go out and play." Jia Chen pulled Ai Ruo who was still in a daze and said.Jia Chen had grown up to one and a half years old inadvertently, and his first year was not older than that, but Lin, Lu, Jia, and Wang's family had a meal together.And Mu Ge'er sent someone to deliver a gift, it was the time when the library was very busy.No one has the time to celebrate a birthday with a child.The surrounding companies sent people to give gifts, but this is a common thing, as long as they don't send posts, everyone knows how to do it.

Jia Chen didn't choose any more, mainly because he didn't know that when he was catching up with Zhou, he actually didn't like anything, so he just picked up his latest book, everyone was happy, and then went to eat together.He can also play with Jia Ying.Ai Ruo knew that he didn't like reading, unlike Jia Zheng, but he didn't bother to expose him and let him go.After half a year now, he can walk and speak quite fluently. When he said going out to play at this time, he meant that he was going to Lin's house, and he was going to play with Jia Ying.

"No." Ai Ruo shook her head, she was really not in the mood.

"I'm going to find Bai Zhi." Jia Chen stretched out his small face, leaned in front of her, weighed it carefully, and immediately retracted his head, deciding to find Bai Zhi to go to the garden, expressing that he would not be entangled with her anymore.

Ai Ruo took his son back, this kid is really not cute, how fun is the little idiot who can only climb and face the wall before.It's not fun anymore and doesn't feel like their son anymore.

Jia Zhu and Jia Yuan are both very white and tender, even after taking a bath, Jia Zhu did not turn black, this seems to be a genetic mutation, it is actually a bit honey-colored, this is a healthy beauty in modern times, but in this meeting, they are not the children of nobles Should have?Thinking about how a group of frail scholars in the Jia family suddenly ran out of such a small black charcoal, I felt very surprised.She didn't count as Xiaodai, because Xiaodai was very fair since he was a child, and now he turned black because of sun exposure, but Jia Chen didn't know what happened, so he turned from white to black, which made the doctor Ai Ruo extremely depressed.

But Jia Chen is really funny, Ai Ruo doesn't know what will happen to Jia Zhu, but when Jia Yuan comes here, she basically can't laugh, it doesn't mean anything at all.Jia Chen loves to laugh and is very lively.Otherwise, if he and Jia Ying are together, Jia Ying will be made to cry in a short while.It's just that he is too lively, and he knows that his sister is weak and can't pull, but after a while, he can't control himself when he is happy.

What's more, this guy loves to talk. When he was just babbling, he could speak words that no one could understand. It was like a foreign language. Even Ai Ruo's real mother was really defeated by him.I leaned closer to guess what he was talking about, and then, the kid happily rolled on the kang with his stomach in his arms, so happy that he didn't know why he was happy.Ai Ruo is really tired of raising a child for the first time.

I can't help but compare Jia Yuan with him again. I feel that when Jia Yuan was his age, his words were very clear and not uttered. The same, too exasperating.

However, she gave birth at home, unlike a modern hospital, where n many children are born in a day, and they may be picked up wrongly. The most likely thing in their family is to replace the prince with a civet cat.But this is also unlikely, the longer Jia Chen's eyebrows and eyes grow, the more he looks like himself, so it's really hard to say that this is not his own, and he can only feel depressed secretly.

Sometimes he complained to Jia Zheng, but Jia Zheng was very calm and said with certainty that Jia Chen must be his son, he was very sure.Ai Ruo asked why, but Jia Zheng didn't dare to roll his eyes at him anymore, but he went out for a walk with his son in his arms, so he didn't bother to say such nonsensical words to her.

In fact, Ai Ruo said this because she was bored. There are very few things to talk about between husband and wife. Whoever is not so idle is looking for something to talk about. I am afraid that after a few years, these words will be gone, and the rest is eating. Reading various books, the children will only look up when they cry.

Now she is in a bad mood. She just thought of her husband, but now she misses her child.In fact, when she took Jia Yuan with her, she often thought that she was not a good mother, and she really couldn't remember many things about her child when she was a child.

He wanted to make compensation to Jia Yuan, but Jia Yuan really didn't need her to take him with him.She took Xiaodai with her, but Xiaodai was really obedient, he didn't seem to bring anything, and stayed by her side obediently all the time.In other words, Xiaodai may be a bit clingy because of Zhang's death, so he doesn't like no one around him.But now Jia Chen doesn't have such a psychological shadow, he is a healthy child, okay?So basically, since he was able to walk, he didn't like being around Ai Ruo very much.Jia Chen scratched his head, looked outside again, his expression was very troubled, he wanted to go out to play.

"Can't mother play with you?" Ai Ruo really wanted to hit his son when he saw his frustration.However, the repeated blows made Ai Ruo feel that she was really sorry for her former husband and daughter. Now maybe God gave her a chance to be a serious mother again?

Jia Chen stared at Ai Ruo's small mouth slightly opened, and was stunned for a while, expressing that he was very tangled, mainly because the happiness came a bit suddenly, the old lady really didn't know how to play with him except to hug him for nothing, every day she let him Someone took him out to play, but he didn't say that he wanted to play with her.He was afraid that when the old lady said to play with him, she meant sitting on the kang and playing with toys, while she looked at the account books.

"What do you want to play?" Ai Ruo decided to take the initiative. In fact, Ai Ruo really wanted to put out all Jia Chen's toys, and she would play with him.

"Looking for my sister." Jia Chen hesitated for a moment, then said cautiously.

"No, your sister has to learn the rules, you are not allowed to play with her." Ai Ruo vetoed it without thinking.Jia Ying hasn't really learned the rules yet, but if she takes Jia Chen to find Jia Ying, how can she be a good mother.

"Oh, playing ball." Jia Chen thought about it and decided to settle for the next best thing, turning his eyes left and right, basically, he hadn't woken up from his sedation yet.He doubted very much that his wife would play ball with him.