Ai Ruo's life in the red mansion

A few days later, Jia She finally came back. Before entering the house, he went to the ancestral grave first, and cried loudly in front of Daishan's grave. He was really crying, and he had true feelings for Daishan. He felt guilty for everything his father had done for him, but he couldn't even deliver the last journey. He was dressed in armor, kneeling in front of Daishan's grave, and said thousands of times that his son was unfilial, which made everyone around him feel guilty. Jia Jing, Jia Zheng and Jia Hu couldn't help but burst into tears.

Jia Hu might not feel it, but for Jia Jing and Jia Zheng, at this moment they really felt the sadness of wanting to raise a child but not waiting for a kiss.I shed tears for a while, helped him up, and made people turn into ingots, which can be regarded as full of Jia Amnesty's filial piety.

When they were all here, Jia Amnesty went to see Daihua no matter what, kowtowed, and reported on his work, which was fine.

In the end Jia Amnesty took Jia Hu to Zhang's tomb, Jia Zheng and Jia Jing bowed, and went down to wait, knowing that their family would not be around if they had something to say.

Jia She stood in front of his daughter-in-law, which was different from his father just now. With his father, he could howl and cry, but standing in front of his daughter-in-law, he remained silent for a long time, even after almost a year, He still couldn't face it, and silently picked up the weeds on the side, but there were not many. This is the ancestral tomb of the Jia family, and there are grave guards. If we dare to let weeds grow on it, they just don't want to work.It was just that Jia She wanted to do something for his wife.

In the end, he wiped the tombstone and sat on the edge, as if he had a lot to say, but at this moment, he couldn't say anything.Just a long silence.

Jia Hu didn't understand his father, so he followed behind obediently, waiting for his father to sit down.He was dumbfounded again, he couldn't sit down too, he could only stand not far from his father, obediently.As for you asking him what he thinks about going to the grave.that.Even if he still remembers his mother, even if he really has feelings for his mother, but for a seven-year-old child.How can you make him feel?

Jia Amnesty looked at his son, smiled, motioned for him to pour wine for Mrs. Zhang, melted ingots, kowtowed, and took his hand slowly down.

After returning home, Jia Jing also knew that today was not the time to get together.They didn't force it, and besides, they all kept their filial piety and couldn't eat alcohol. They just said that they would meet again some other day, and they would go home separately.

back home.Kowtowed at the gate of Jiamu Xiyuan, but did not speak.He just retreated, he didn't intend to go in at all.Jia Zheng didn't say a word, and he hasn't been here these days, so he knows that his daughter-in-law treats her well.And Jia Amnesty knew the ins and outs, how did the father die, who wouldn't tell, could the eldest son not tell?Jia Amnesty hated it too.But he is a wanderer away from home. When he comes home, he doesn’t come to pay his respects. If he spreads the word, can you listen?Kowtow is a must, but meet.That's really useless.

Jia Zheng accompanied him to the main hall and asked the child to come out to meet the ceremony.Of course, the main thing is that Jia Amnesty looked at the little dazed Jia Lian.Going to the grave, Xiaodai was too young, and Ai Ruo was worried, so he didn't let Xiaodai go.But Jia Hu is older after all, the change in a year is not very big, Jia She can still recognize it at a glance.But facing the youngest son who could only spit bubbles at the beginning, Jia She really couldn't justify not being excited.Touching the happy Jia Lian, he was so choked up that he couldn't speak.

"Lian'er, call me Daddy!" Ai Ruo asked Jia Lian to call someone.One and a half years old, very good at talking.

Jia Lian immediately called out "Daddy" sweetly, and Jia She finally burst into tears. When he left, Jia Lian hadn't opened his mouth yet. He wanted to hug his younger son, but Jia Lian also let him hug him, and wiped him kindly. tears.

"Don't cry, don't cry, why don't you let my second aunt give you some snacks?" Jia Lian is very good at comforting people, he is now Ai Ruo's Ning Xin'er, Ai Ruo got angry with Jia Yuan, and when he looks back at Jia Lian, he will be cured immediately , or Xiaodai is cuter!Sometimes it’s really mutual. Ai Ruo sometimes acts like a baby with Xiao Dai when he gets angry, and Xiao Dai immediately comforts him cheerfully, so a mutual pattern is formed. You can say that Ai Ruo is a good teacher, or that Xiao Da is smart. , In fact, they are all inaccurate, just because they get used to each other in getting along with each other.It's just that both of them don't know that the other's habits are actually used by the other.So when Xiao Dai saw Jia She was crying, he immediately comforted him.

"Father doesn't want to eat, does Lian'er want to eat?" Jia Shezhen had never communicated with the child, he really didn't know what to do, other than being moved, he hurriedly wanted to connect with his son.

"Lian'er doesn't eat it either, Lian'er is not a snack." Jia Lian smiled at Jia Yuan, expressing that his three views are very upright, Jia Yuan was speechless, and turned his head to ignore him, this girl, the thing she likes to do the most is to step on her Climb up and ignore him.

"What does Lian'er like? Daddy bought it for you." Jia She said hurriedly when his father's love had no place to vent.

"Second aunt said, good boy, you can't ask for gifts from guests. Lian'er thanked Daddy, but Lian'er can't take it." Jia Lian immediately became unhappy, and immediately refused in a serious manner.After rejecting it, he turned around and smirked at Ai Ruo, showing that he was so obedient and obedient.

Everyone thought it was pretty good at first, but when Jia Lian said this, everyone stopped laughing.The co-author doesn't even know what 'Daddy' means.In his opinion, it is the same as his aunt, just a title.So in essence, he is a good boy who is hospitable. He let Jia She hug him, and he affectionately called Jia She Daddy, but when it comes to gifts, he is not allowed. He is a good boy. impolite.So Jia Amnesty thought in Xiaodai's heart that he was a guest.

Jia Zheng was a little embarrassed, but the problem was that none of them thought about telling their children what their father was. The problem was, when they were young, who told them what their father was?It’s not always called that, you will know it gradually.

He looked at Ai Ruo, the meaning was very clear, didn't you teach?It's not that the responsibility is offloaded, but he habitually feels that it is Ai Ruo's responsibility that Xiaodai is with Ai Ruo every day.

Ai Ruo was wronged, but she didn't blame Jia Zheng, she really never thought about teaching this.Mainly, this is a philosophical question.Who stipulates that fathers should be called Daddy?To put it bluntly, this is just a customary address, just like 'Pa' in the 21st century, 'Ama' by the Manchus, and 'Papa' by others, it's just a title, everyone knows it should be called that, but why is it so Call, who can tell?

So how do you let her talk to Xiaodai, a half-year-old child, what is father and what is mother?When Xiaodai learned to speak, the first person he called was Er Aunt, and then 'Uncle'.Probably in Xiaodai's mind, 'second aunt' means mother, and 'uncle' means father.But in the hearts of Jia Zheng and his wife, Xiao Dai did not make a mistake, so everyone agreed.So no one thought much about it, so no one would think of correcting it.

"Call me sister!" At this moment, Jia Yuan's qualities were revealed, and he immediately yelled at Xiao Dai.

Jia Lian immediately yelled obediently, and smiled very flatteringly, even though he was young, he knew that his sister was very powerful.

"What do you call him?" Jia Yuan pointed at Jia Zheng again.

"Second Uncle!" Jia Lian called affectionately.

"What does sister call him?" Jia Yuan asked again,

"..." Jia Lian was dumbfounded, she couldn't remember, this sister is cool, it's not surprising.

"Xiaodai, what about me? What should I call him?" Jia Zhu immediately called out after realizing what Jia Yuan meant.

"Father!" Jia Lian applauded again, and answered another question correctly.

Everyone was dumbfounded, while Jia Zheng stared at his daughter, didn't this co-author call him dad?Glaring at his son again, he has already started calling himself honorifics?I haven't found out yet?

"Listen well, I will call him Daddy, you will call him Second Uncle; if you call him Daddy, I will call you Uncle." Jia Yuan was discouraged, but she was an ordinary child, she said firmly.

"Why?" Jia Lian lost the opportunity, struggled out of Jia She's arms, and ran towards Ai Ruo. Usually, if he was not happy, he would stop having fun with others and go directly to Ai Ruo.Buried his head in Ai Ruo's arms for comfort, his brother and sister bullied him again.Ai Ruo can only look at Jia She in embarrassment, she really has nothing to say, this is really a bit tragic.

"Uncle, it's really..."

"It's okay, it's okay, who would have thought of it." Jia She waved his hand. He was not around all the time. It is common sense for the child not to know himself. Hearing him call someone, I also know that the second brother's family has never been taught to be bad. It's just, who Can you think of teaching children what a father is?Did anyone teach you when you were a kid?He really couldn't remember, so it didn't really bother him.After being made such a fuss by the child, the atmosphere is not so sad.It seems that the family is happy.As for the issue of calling people, he will always know when he grows up in the future, and he is not in a hurry.

"Then my sister-in-law will go down and make some arrangements. Although it doesn't taste like wine, there should still be a vegetarian feast. It just so happens that uncle can also wash up and change clothes." Ai Ruo couldn't find anything to say, so she hurriedly got up and said.

Jia Zheng hurriedly said that it should be like this. You must know that Jia Amnesty is really in military uniform at this time. It looks mighty, but it is absolutely uncomfortable.Besides, the wind and dust are simple and simple, so they should let people take a bath, right?

Zhou Rui's family didn't make arrangements for the servants, but asked Zhang's nanny to arrange, and you decide on your own affairs about the big house.The place has been vacated for you, and the staff of the rough envoys will be provided for you. Even if Zhou Rui's family arranges it, I'm afraid they will feel uncomfortable, so it's better to be more generous and let them take care of themselves.Anyway, everyone in Mrs. Zhang's room stayed behind, and Jia She also came back with his entourage, so he didn't feel any difference. After washing and changing clothes, Jia She felt that he was completely new when he came out again.

Jia Zheng was sitting outside, talking with Jia Hu. Jia Hu didn't go to school. Jia Zheng took advantage of his free time to talk to him. There was a vegetarian banquet, although there was no wine or meat, but if Ai Ruo was a meticulous person, she would not let the children and Jia Zheng suffer from malnutrition, so they also made vegetarian dishes and meat. , resolutely not to allow anyone to find fault with her.

There were only meals for three people in the main hall. Although there was no meal sharing system, there were not many dishes. It was enough for three people. This is what Jia Zheng and Ai Ruo let the children get used to, and it also showed that they did not treat Jia She as a guest mentality.Only Jia Hu was left behind because they were father and son brothers, and they meant a family.As for Jia Lian, even if Ai Ruo wanted to keep him, he would not.Naturally, Ai Ruo took her child back to Haitang Courtyard for dinner.Her reception work has been completed, and the rest has nothing to do with her.